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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm wondering if some of us are just meant to be on our own....
I've been away with 24 ladies all together and I was the only one who a single lady .... All were either in long term relationships and the other were just dating.
Coming back home I felt a low dip because there is no one telling me I was actually missed....
So the question is to keep the ratio right will some of us always be single. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm wondering if some of us are just meant to be on our own....
I've been away with 24 ladies all together and I was the only one who a single lady .... All were either in long term relationships and the other were just dating.
Coming back home I felt a low dip because there is no one telling me I was actually missed....
So the question is to keep the ratio right will some of us always be single. "
you are a lovely looking girl - sure the right one will come along when the time is right - just go with the flow and let fate play its hand  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been in a couple of relationships through here..and elsewhere ..
I'm just a bit too honest when the enjoyments over..i hate conflict, I hate thinking I'm deceiving someone..
most of my relationships have been with women who cant/dont want kids...as someone who has none..a full relationship, sorta means it has to be explored...
who wouldnt want a little me!? |
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I've only really had one proper relationship, that lasted a year.
I wouldn't rule out trying again if I met the right someone, but for now what I have with Mr is pretty much the best thing that's ever happened to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think at any one time, plenty of us are single. Life goes in cycles. At the moment, I have 3 other single female friends in early 40's - so am not alone in it.
There are benefits to singledom - no pants and socks left on the floor , no mother in laws to visit? No toilet seat left up! see it's not all bad !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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had one or two relationships in the past 3 year, non of which i would say were keepers, but not ruling anything out but happy with my fb, as we talk regularly and meet up once a month and she knows that I play with others.
we'll never be married, and are happy with our lives at this time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 25 now, one serious eighteen month relationship and I've been single three & a half years... But I love love love my independence and I've never actively looked for a relationship. Thank God for Lovehoney though |
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Being single has its benefits no doubt but im getting to the age now when id like to meet the one, but i believe if they exist fate will bring us together not some dating site. Be nice to cuddle up with someone everyday. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been in two long term relationships since I was 19. Split with my ex last year so I'm enjoying my singledom. I honestly don't know if I could go back to being monogamous now. I'm having far too much fun but none of us knows what's around the corner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd like to date. The thought that there is someone out there for everyone makes me feel better. until I meet him though I'm going to fuck all and sundry.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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another here probably destined to be single, started a relationship with a close friend, thought it would work given we had known each other years, but it quickly grew complicated so ended it, still friends which is nice but would make having a new relationship rather awkward. |
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Im a big believer in theres someone out there for all of us who want them xx At least this way if you find them you know your compatible on an intimate level straight away instead of waiting months to find out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a relationship when I was 17 that lasted 10 years, that's almost all my adult life, I've been single almost 6 years now and I miss being in a relationship. I miss it a lot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol. I'm ok until they move in with me that's when it usually goes tits up.
Been single 2 years and not looking. Not saying it couldn't happen but I'd really doubt I'd be up for it.
People in my real life know what my relationships are like.
It's fine until they move in and I don't know why. Lol. |
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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago
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I had 5 happy years... Then I met my ex! We split up after 12 years and I've been single again for the last 6 years. I prefer single, I don't go without and it's just easier... except for paying the bills, that's a bit crap! |
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As I told one of my friends that said 'they were sorry that I was still single'... Being single doesn't make me lonely, or desperate, or unhappy, or missing out, it just means I haven't found that one person who's gonna look at me as if I'm their everything yet!  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"The love of my life got stuck in a condom.. Either that or he was swallowed "
Mine are either single when I'm in a relationship, or in a relationship when I'm single, or just out of a relationship so 'doesn't want anything serious right now.' I gave up looking a while ago and it's suiting me fine. |
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"I'm wondering if some of us are just meant to be on our own....
I've been away with 24 ladies all together and I was the only one who a single lady .... All were either in long term relationships and the other were just dating.
Coming back home I felt a low dip because there is no one telling me I was actually missed....
So the question is to keep the ratio right will some of us always be single. "
Fuck it, marry me so I get access to your comics
I'll even let you pick what side of the bed you want and you get three drinks made for you tokens per day.  |
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"I am.... I am blissfully happy being single and will never change that.
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Yup, me too. Almost 30 years now and apart from a vague sadness when I see couples all loved up, I'm soon reminded of how love is fickle. |
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I've been single for just over 3 years, before that I was rarely ever single, since I was 16 I had a string of relationships ranging from 1 month to 18 months and played around in between, then was with my most recent ex for about 8 years. So it's not like being single was necessarily something I was used to when it started. I do like being single though. I really really like it. Wouldn't say no to more frequent fun but commitment and monogamy are not on the cards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm wondering if some of us are just meant to be on our own....
I've been away with 24 ladies all together and I was the only one who a single lady .... All were either in long term relationships and the other were just dating.
Coming back home I felt a low dip because there is no one telling me I was actually missed....
So the question is to keep the ratio right will some of us always be single. "
Youre 27...not 47
Also, maybe if youre looking for an actual relationship, perhaps you should come off fab? Its hardly condusive to finding a boyfriend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive been single for over 12 yrs but that's because I'm a single parent of a teenager now 17. I would love to be in a long term relationship but I don't see that happening anytime soon  |
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I have three kids, now teens, two about to fly the nest and was single and celibate, through choice, for seven years. Did not think I could ever cope with being with anyone full time, nor could anyone cope with my independence and need to be on his own, hence being on here. Absolutely was not looking, then bumped into someone I totally click with completely and the rest is history, so they say. It will come when you are not looking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think some people have a need to be with someone and others do not, I have many friend who just jump from relationship to relationship as soon as one fails they are looking for their next partner where ad other do not have that want to need to be in a relationship, I have only had one relationship in my life tried it, didn't like it, not doing it again people ask me all the time if I have found somebody yet when I say no I usually get the reply .....don't worry one day you'll find somebody  but I don't want anybody some just can't accept that, I've been single for 7 years now and they have been very happy, I have a good job, a home and three beautiful daughters I have everything I want and that included my freedom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive been single 2years and I really missing having a relationship but on the flip side I have done things and meet people I wouldn't have if I was with someone.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm wondering if some of us are just meant to be on our own....
I've been away with 24 ladies all together and I was the only one who a single lady .... All were either in long term relationships and the other were just dating.
Coming back home I felt a low dip because there is no one telling me I was actually missed....
So the question is to keep the ratio right will some of us always be single. "
Yup, single and happily so. Just talking to my attached friends about their husbands /boyfriends ...pants on the floor, temper tantrums .
No thankyou! I'll stay single pringle!
Besides... I like sprawling across the bed too much too ever share long term |
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I have the perfect balance, I've been with someone I love very much for nine years, we are just so compatable.
So compatable that both of us like our own space and will never live together.
We see each other every week, he comes and stays, we go on holiday and it suits us both perfectly.
So I guess I have the best of both worlds |
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I was on my own for 11 years: enjoyed every minute. Have a partner now but it's hard work. I've stopped hyperventilating when he sits on my cushions, no longer need Prozac when I spot boiler parts next to my Waterford crystal or burst into tears when he walks his muddy wellies across my recently mopped and buffed oak floors.
He's worth it...he's worth it...he's... |
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Ive been happy being single while my child was growing up... Now tho i would like to meet someone to enjoy doing things with. It gets quite boring sitting in on my own night after night and i think the fog is getting pissed off with me too haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think after ome long term relationship and two shorter ones, I'm destined to stay on the shelf. I have devoted my life now to caring for my mum and have no time for a relationship. Well not anytime soon. My friends keep saying that my time will come but I think I'm too set in my ways now after being single 5 years |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been single on and off for about ten years. I do get the 'oh, bless' from friends every now and then as if it's a bad thing! I'm not looking for a live in relationship as I don't think I could handle someone being around all the time. I like my own space. A good friend I can explore with, that's much more me.
You're still a young 'un OP. Just keep going out there and having fun. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm wondering if some of us are just meant to be on our own....
I've been away with 24 ladies all together and I was the only one who a single lady .... All were either in long term relationships and the other were just dating.
Coming back home I felt a low dip because there is no one telling me I was actually missed....
So the question is to keep the ratio right will some of us always be single.
Youre 27...not 47
Also, maybe if youre looking for an actual relationship, perhaps you should come off fab? Its hardly condusive to finding a boyfriend"
Pardon what does my age have to do with anything... I asked if there was a ratio to being single as I was the only one out of a fair few women.....
How dare you put a judgement I'm not looking for a relationship
Nor was anywhere in this forum post a cry to that.... And when you Try to make a sly comment on that note I wouldn't date men Fuck tard. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been single now for 2 years after an 11 year relationship. I miss the company sometimes but don't think i'll ever want to live with someone full time again. Like my independance too much. |
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Sometimes I think I would be happier in a relationship.. Then I see the people in them arguing all the time and it soon passes
I had to listen to a friend say of someone else.. "He's 29 now he needs to realise time is running out to settle down"  um cheers for that!
I figure I ain't willing to just settle for anyone just so I can say I'm in a relationship. If it happens it happens, and until then I'll keep having fun |
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"Sometimes I think I would be happier in a relationship.. Then I see the people in them arguing all the time and it soon passes
I had to listen to a friend say of someone else.. "He's 29 now he needs to realise time is running out to settle down" um cheers for that!
I figure I ain't willing to just settle for anyone just so I can say I'm in a relationship. If it happens it happens, and until then I'll keep having fun "
Exactly im gonna continue to have fun and if it happens it happens and if not well it wont x |
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After my last relationship whitch thankfully ended up being the shortest I've ever had. I've realised that no matter how nice sombody appears to be the the niceness they show is only there to hide how ugly that lives deep inside them. And from that I think I've finally learnt no matter how much I want to feel the love I find so easy to give there's very few capably of returning it. So in short yes I belive some ppl are not only better off on there own but they was always ment to be along. I now compleatly understand no matter how much I don't like it I really am 1 of them ment to be along. The only other posibilty is I'm the shityest person on earth at picking the really genuine ppl as I'm sure they do exist but god only know where to find them |
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It's an easy mistake to fall into comparing yourself to others. I'm 99% happily single but open minded. I don't need another to feel complete or happy. I've had a good life and relationships and whilst not getting some of the things that the partnered get, I get a lot of other things instead.
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By *amesGBMan
over a year ago
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Single and have been for the last three years. I was married young at 21 which lasted seven years....we grew apart and culture differences got in the way. It has left me quite skeptical in regards to being in a fully committed relationship/marriage but I have been lucky enough to have met some great people by being in a short relationship or living with them for a while. I like being single but as most people here I do miss the companionship. I haven't given up looking but just don't want to be involved with someone for the sake of being in a relationship and being the single guy at parties and social gatherings where people are trying to suggest likely candidates for producing babies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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very happily single...but i know, i have no doubt, that one day i'll meet someone i want to be with again...though, my fb of nearly 3 years stayed over for the first time a few weeks back and i'd forgotten about the elbows, the snoring, the farting...like sleeping with a semi-animated fucking bicycle! |
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Can't remember how long I've been single. My last relationship was such a long time ago.
I think I'm single because I meet women who want to be in a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship. I'm sure that's not the case all the time but sometimes it feels like it. Makes me run!
Plus, I like my space. Sometimes I want to be alone with my thoughts and sometimes I want to be with someone. Guess the woman for me will understand that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does anyone want to marry me. Although technically i already am so I just take all your money and you can sleep at the bottom on my bed. "
Lol
Love it |
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"Does anyone want to marry me. Although technically i already am so I just take all your money and you can sleep at the bottom on my bed.
Lol
Love it "
X1 I'd not only snatch your hand off I'd have half your arm to. That's a bargain compared to what I paid to get her out my life and even that was worth every last penny. 1 day I must remember to thank her. I'd honestly forgot just how lucky I really am. |
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