Perfectly alive and well in our opinion. Maybe the feelings of expectation and entitlement shown by some would lead them to think it has when they find the reality differs somewhat.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perfectly alive and well in our opinion. Maybe the feelings of expectation and entitlement shown by some would lead them to think it has when they find the reality differs somewhat."

did I ask about anal..I cant remember

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perfectly alive and well in our opinion. Maybe the feelings of expectation and entitlement shown by some would lead them to think it has when they find the reality differs somewhat.

did I ask about anal..I cant remember"

Only if you don't tell Mrs N I've let you do it

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By *rank EinsteinMan over a year ago

Burton upon stather

"To many singles expecting insults results."

Actually I've found the opposite to be true, the view that swinging is for couples only is outdated and no longer applies.

I've been told I'm on the wrong site for turning a couple down saying I don't think I'm ready for a threeway when in reality it was a polite way of turning them down without saying I wasn't attracted to the pushy female messaging me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Interesting

I also think that most "parties" are like a clique and mostly a business point.

And I think the whole scene isn't as taboo a hush hush private Like it use to be it's just out there and casual if that make sence unlike years back it was very underground not so main stream

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No not at all!you make it very clear on your profile what you are looking for!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perfectly alive and well in our opinion. Maybe the feelings of expectation and entitlement shown by some would lead them to think it has when they find the reality differs somewhat.

did I ask about anal..I cant remember

Only if you don't tell Mrs N I've let you do it

dlete comment please..I was only after her arse...though..yours is tasty and pert

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To many singles expecting insults results.

Actually I've found the opposite to be true, the view that swinging is for couples only is outdated and no longer applies.

Haha that's made my day. Good on you.

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By *ombshellWoman over a year ago

islington

"I've had three meets this weekend...

swinging is not dead..its about how people communicate ffs"

get you greedy! lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perfectly alive and well in our opinion. Maybe the feelings of expectation and entitlement shown by some would lead them to think it has when they find the reality differs somewhat.

did I ask about anal..I cant remember

Only if you don't tell Mrs N I've let you do it

dlete comment please..I was only after her arse...though..yours is tasty and pert

"
you big flirt you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think its down to demographics and its more popular in different areas.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've had three meets this weekend...

swinging is not dead..its about how people communicate ffs

get you greedy! lol

too right lo...as a single guy I have to get all i can get in one go hhehehee

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perfectly alive and well in our opinion. Maybe the feelings of expectation and entitlement shown by some would lead them to think it has when they find the reality differs somewhat.

did I ask about anal..I cant remember

Only if you don't tell Mrs N I've let you do it

dlete comment please..I was only after her arse...though..yours is tasty and pert

you big flirt you.

lets have a wank over ur wifes pics...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perfectly alive and well in our opinion. Maybe the feelings of expectation and entitlement shown by some would lead them to think it has when they find the reality differs somewhat.

did I ask about anal..I cant remember

Only if you don't tell Mrs N I've let you do it

dlete comment please..I was only after her arse...though..yours is tasty and pert

you big flirt you.

lets have a wank over ur wifes pics...

It'll have to be a

one my end

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well, I don't get any luck from the contact magazines....

I send my polaroid pictures in the post with a SAE inside... and rarely get anything back..

So now I use this site and clubs!!

Funny how technology has changed this scene for the better!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perfectly alive and well in our opinion. Maybe the feelings of expectation and entitlement shown by some would lead them to think it has when they find the reality differs somewhat.

did I ask about anal..I cant remember

Only if you don't tell Mrs N I've let you do it

dlete comment please..I was only after her arse...though..yours is tasty and pert

you big flirt you.

lets have a wank over ur wifes pics...

It'll have to be a

one my end

lol I'm not bi...but when she gets back..she'll love our cumloads on her tasty pics

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been speaking to alot of people on meets, and most say swinging isn't what it use to be or swinging is dead

And I totally agree

What's your thoughts and why do you think it's changed ???

agree - in fact see our post 'an honest question' - similar theme.

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By *adybee77Woman over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I don't think its dead - but then I don't look to meet often, and have chatted to people for a long time before actually getting to meeting.

And really as a single - its not swinging... its just adventurous sex! lol

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm not sure anything is what it was. When I first started dogging, years ago, the old hands told me it wasn't what it was. When I go these days, the people out tell me it isn't what it was.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"I'm not sure anything is what it was. When I first started dogging, years ago, the old hands told me it wasn't what it was. When I go these days, the people out tell me it isn't what it was.

I know something for a fact, bloomin' Wagon Wheels aren't what they were

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perfectly alive and well in our opinion. Maybe the feelings of expectation and entitlement shown by some would lead them to think it has when they find the reality differs somewhat.

did I ask about anal..I cant remember

Only if you don't tell Mrs N I've let you do it

dlete comment please..I was only after her arse...though..yours is tasty and pert

you big flirt you.

lets have a wank over ur wifes pics...

It'll have to be a

one my end

lol I'm not bi...but when she gets back..she'll love our cumloads on her tasty pics

I know, it was all in jest. Your tushy is still safe, not been turned down by enough women yet to want a bloke

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By *ynecplCouple over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Not been swinging long enough to remember the "good old days" but we are doing fine. As many have said before you get out what you put in.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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I think it's changed in the last 7 years but then we've changed too

I don't think it's dead or about to die

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its bloody good ??

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"I'm not sure anything is what it was. When I first started dogging, years ago, the old hands told me it wasn't what it was. When I go these days, the people out tell me it isn't what it was.

I know something for a fact, bloomin' Wagon Wheels aren't what they were

Forsooth! Half the size for a start

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been speaking to alot of people on meets, and most say swinging isn't what it use to be or swinging is dead

And I totally agree

What's your thoughts and why do you think it's changed ???

Perhaps you've just found out it's not for you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not dead, just confused.

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By *oo hotCouple over a year ago

North West

"I've been speaking to alot of people on meets, and most say swinging isn't what it use to be or swinging is dead

And I totally agree

What's your thoughts and why do you think it's changed ???

How can it be dead? It is probably more mainstream now than at any time before.

Just because some people don't get the instant gratification that they fantasise about, does not mean that the scene is not there. It might not be there for them, but our experience is that there are far more people in this lifestyle now than there were ten years ago.

The Internet itself has revolutionised swinging. If you think it hard now for a single guy to get a meet, imagine the days of a contact mag and all you had was a picture the size of a postage stamp lol

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By *obbytupperMan over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Negativity breeds negativity.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To answer the OP question first "swinging" should be defined?

The old version is one of wife swapping that is married or committed partners exchanging those partners in a sexual environment. This still happens and people use this and other sites to procure prospective play partners. I suppose you could call it the keys in the fruit bowl era!

If you examine the make up of FAB you will instantly see that the majority of users are single guys or those purporting to be single. So is this user group really classed as swingers or just those seeking recreational sex.

My experience would suggest that swinging or recreational sex is alive and kicking in all it forms.

Perhaps the OP is looking to hard?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

brb, just writing a TV show about zombies who swing.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"I've been speaking to alot of people on meets, and most say swinging isn't what it use to be or swinging is dead

And I totally agree

What's your thoughts and why do you think it's changed ???

i don't think it is dead at all... it has changed over time, i don't think some have adapted to change well at all... i do think you get a lot more people thinking that swingers are easy... which couldn't be further from the truth

i think for a lot more people is has became more "personality" driven... which is why you get a lot of the "am i ugly?" posts where they think it is all down to looks......

it is more open than it use to be, and i dont see how thats a bad thing... and the oppotunities are there if you want to take advantage of them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've noticed a big change just over the few years we've been swinging but it's just this site that has become more popular with the singles so the dynamics of it all have changed. Not a bad thing really.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The internet has changed it and the majority of the people who are in the scene.

Not for better, sadly. But we are where we are.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There could be thousands of couples having parties all over the world as we speak. All fucking each others partners and having a jolly good time. Just because they don't do it from here or in clubs doesn't mean it isn't happening.

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By *illymint45Man over a year ago

Cheshire

We are still fairly new to all of this so it is difficult to compare with anything! It's like anything, things change and evolve. The increased use of the Internet and other technology has HAD to have had an affect on the swinging community (and everyday life for that matter!).

We are enjoying ourselves anyhow!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not by my inbox.

Though I don't get it why they hit on me tbh.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not by my inbox.

Though I don't get it why they hit on me tbh.

Why not?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People always hark back to 'the good old days' about everything. It's probably changed in some ways for the better, and in other ways for the worse.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People always hark back to 'the good old days' about everything. It's probably changed in some ways for the better, and in other ways for the worse. "

It's far more ephemeral and based on instant gratification now, thanks to the internet - the irony is these things are the very same drivers / behaviours which so many denounce.

It's funny reading threads where people are lambasted for thinking it's instashag on here, then reading how folk want to be showered with attention just for a one night stand, or how they banged fifteen random people in a club and they didn't know their names.

It's a dichotomy, and it's funny watching it implode every now and again.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

"People always hark back to 'the good old days' about everything. It's probably changed in some ways for the better, and in other ways for the worse. "

Nah, even nostalgia's not what it used to be...