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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you ladies that aren't skinny feel like you have to make more effort? Make sure your hair/make up is perfect, clothes are really nice, more effort in the bedroom etc? I'm now a 16 and always make sure I'm perfect where as before I had my children and a size 10 I'm sure I never put this much effort in. Interested to see how you other ladies feel xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you ladies that aren't skinny feel like you have to make more effort? Make sure your hair/make up is perfect, clothes are really nice, more effort in the bedroom etc? I'm now a 16 and always make sure I'm perfect where as before I had my children and a size 10 I'm sure I never put this much effort in. Interested to see how you other ladies feel xx"
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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I know you are looking for answers from bigger ladies... but I am the other way round.
I was a size 26, and hated clothes, so lived in jeans and a shirt (looking quite butch) whereas now, I dress much better and pay more attention to my appearance - but I think that is also to do with improved self esteem too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you ladies that aren't skinny feel like you have to make more effort? Make sure your hair/make up is perfect, clothes are really nice, more effort in the bedroom etc? I'm now a 16 and always make sure I'm perfect where as before I had my children and a size 10 I'm sure I never put this much effort in. Interested to see how you other ladies feel xx "
I have noticed bigger Ladies are wearing more sexier clothes and more confident |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I know you are looking for answers from bigger ladies... but I am the other way round.
I was a size 26, and hated clothes, so lived in jeans and a shirt (looking quite butch) whereas now, I dress much better and pay more attention to my appearance - but I think that is also to do with improved self esteem too."
See when I was a size 10 I had lovely curves and legs to die for! But I think I thought I looked good whatever so never put much effort in. Well done on your weight loss!!! X |
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I can honestly say that I have never thought of it like that. I would love to be a skinny but that will never happen...I am naturally curvy so now am trying to embrace that and be as natural as possible. As long as I'm clean, shaven and have a smile on my face, I'm happy.....I do make the effort with my nails though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. I don't wear make-up, and get naked on meets.
I make sure the guy makes some effort in bed if i have to, but i don't just lie there and take everything he gives me if you know what i mean.
I was the other way round to you, wore make-up and got dressed up before i had kids. Had kids, too many tbh, and my clothes got wrecked with food and other kid crud, no time for make-up and that, always busy. Met a great guy who loved me unconditionally and that gave me confidence, had more kids, never got back into wearing make-up (feel i look stupid if i put any on). Even got pics of me on here without the make-up, it's clear i don't wear any.
Don't even bother shaving my armpits any more, feel so free!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you ladies that aren't skinny feel like you have to make more effort? Make sure your hair/make up is perfect, clothes are really nice, more effort in the bedroom etc? I'm now a 16 and always make sure I'm perfect where as before I had my children and a size 10 I'm sure I never put this much effort in. Interested to see how you other ladies feel xx"
Ive just looked at your profile pictures and I have to say your fucking gorgeous. You can put little or no effort in doing your self up and still look beautiful and sexy
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hardly ever wear make up same as when I was slimmer,clothes haven't really changed only thing different is I tend to wear more sexy undies than yes ago but that's more to do with the fact that I'm single now and late hubby never took.notice if I wore them or not so hardly bothered. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I won't go out of the house without my makeup or hair done. It makes me feel more confident. I won't go out with my children looking rough as I hate the thought of people thinking 'look at that skanky single mum'  I am married by the way .Maybe I care too much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. I do what I do for me,not to make myself look more attractive to snare a man. I have pics to show what my body looks like and a no makeup pic I send out. If I feel like dressing up and going to town for a man it's because he's already attracted to me and turns me on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I won't go out of the house without my makeup or hair done. It makes me feel more confident. I won't go out with my children looking rough as I hate the thought of people thinking 'look at that skanky single mum' I am married by the way .Maybe I care too much. "
Single mums are skanky? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I won't go out of the house without my makeup or hair done. It makes me feel more confident. I won't go out with my children looking rough as I hate the thought of people thinking 'look at that skanky single mum' I am married by the way .Maybe I care too much. "
I bet you look great without make up on |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I won't go out of the house without my makeup or hair done. It makes me feel more confident. I won't go out with my children looking rough as I hate the thought of people thinking 'look at that skanky single mum' I am married by the way .Maybe I care too much.
Single mums are skanky? "
No not at all! I meant if I go out with no makeup or my hair done I feel like a skank and feel others would think that of me too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I won't go out of the house without my makeup or hair done. It makes me feel more confident. I won't go out with my children looking rough as I hate the thought of people thinking 'look at that skanky single mum' I am married by the way .Maybe I care too much. "
although I don't wear make up or get dolled up . I'm clean tidy and don't look like a skanky single mum.....yes I'm a widow so single |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oops, yeah skanky single mum who doesn't wear make-up here....
Aw. I think i look ok and like a normal human being, with some alien features coz i am part martian after all. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
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No not at all! I meant if I go out with no makeup or my hair done I feel like a skank and feel others would think that of me too. "
I normally wear make up and heels for work, but there is something liberating on the days I'm not working to wear minimal or no make up, and simply tie my hair up in a pony tail. Doesn't make me a skank because I'm still clean, tidy and presentable... and yes, I am a single mum, and if people judge me as a skank for teaching my son that ladies aren't all powder and paint, then let them judge! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I do feel I have to put more effort in. But that's kind of because it's the 'look' I suit.
I'm better, with my figure, in structured clothes like dresses, heels, and that look goes better with makeup, with nice lingerie, with styled hair.
If I was all long toned tanned gazelle like limbs maybe I'd be more about cut off denim shorts and a slick of tinted moisturiser because that would suit me better then. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"I did not mean you cc123g I ment miss lovely from Essex  "
At the bottom of posts, there is a reply + quote option - use it to help people know who you are talking to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I didn't say all single mums are skanks! I said if I don't wear makeup etc I feel like a skank! & think others would think that of ME too!!!!!!! "
Too late, you have incurred the wrath of the forums.
Tbh the way you worded it was like single mums who don't wear make-up are skanky. I'm not gonna mention it again. Maybe start a new topic coz this one isn't gonna get back on track now? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Before I was 16, now 24(bloody boobs) bottoms 20
Doesn't matter for me..i Always look after myself. Matching clothes,bag-shoes, lingerie, nails-toes, hair.
Did I see a difference? .more attention I had from guys when I was slim.
Doesn't matter confidence or being bubbly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whether I was a size 6 or a size 26 I would still always make the effort. Whether it be for a social, meet, going to visit friends or going into town to do the shopping. I very rarely leave the house without my hair looking nice, dressed nice and aittle touch of makeup. Got this I have been ac used of being high maintenance. I think if I look good I feel good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some single mums like to be single so how can one call them shanky why you hide behind under profile then  "
I'm not calling them skanky. I'm hiding because I'm shy If you want to have a look I can unhide if you want me to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some have met me straight from work so uniform no makeup and hair back.then have met me when half decent . Still same person
. Do like nice undies though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I get where you were coming from with your OP. I do feel like when I'm bigger it takes more of an effort to look good...but I think that is more to do with the fact that I don't feel comfortable with myself when I am bigger so overcompensate by taking more care over my appearance. When I'm slimmer I feel more confident and just throwing on a pair of jeans and a vest top can make me feel sexy. The same outfit doesn't have the same effect when I'm bigger. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any skank single mums fancy a chat 
We're not skanky! I'm going for a shower.
Don't forget to put your make up on after "
Not wearing any, bwa ha ha. Didn't even shave anything while in there either. phfffft.  |
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Naughty Bitch72 men have to realise there not going to look dolled up when waking in the morning have to have that in mind and guys shouldn't be so superficial. Make up or no make all the same when the lights go down |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I found it difficult to look good when I was thin. I have wide hips so I looked bottom heavy. After my second child I lost my boobage too which made me look terrible in dresses that were clingy. I was a size 10 with no boobs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Naughty Bitch72 men have to realise there not going to look dolled up when waking in the morning have to have that in mind and guys shouldn't be so superficial. Make up or no make all the same when the lights go down "
Make up doesn't last 5 minutes on me when I have sex. It's sweated off and rubbed onto pillows and bum cheeks |
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I used to be a size 28-30.. Im now a comfy 18.
I always wear make up and keep my hair nice. I cant afford massively expensive clothing and do shop in the sales a lot. I always buy nice undies and make sure I look nice and respectable for meets.
BUT...although I know I look a lot better I dont feel it at the min. As for in the bedroom, Im not one for getting completely naked. I hate my body so everyone else will too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I didn't say all single mums are skanks! I said if I don't wear makeup etc I feel like a skank! & think others would think that of ME too!!!!!!! "
I understood whst you ment |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I didn't say all single mums are skanks! I said if I don't wear makeup etc I feel like a skank! & think others would think that of ME too!!!!!!!
I understood whst you ment"
If I saw a dishevelled woman walking along the street with her children I wouldn't assume she was a single mum. Is it an area thing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Depends how I feel lol. I always wear nice clothes but I do go out with no makeup and hardly any effort to my hair at times. I always make effort if I'm going somewhere nice/important though.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends how I feel lol. I always wear nice clothes but I do go out with no makeup and hardly any effort to my hair at times. I always make effort if I'm going somewhere nice/important though.
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Oh, and I'd do the same no matter what size I am |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No its just people dont want there bed sheets and pillows covered in make up and glitter lol"
Ohhh right lol If I'm going to their place I wear minimal makeup. In a hotel they don't care |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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"No its just people dont want there bed sheets and pillows covered in make up and glitter lol"
Out of all the ladies I have played with - I have to say, make up on the sheets has never even been a worry... thats what washing machines are for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No its just people dont want there bed sheets and pillows covered in make up and glitter lol
Out of all the ladies I have played with - I have to say, make up on the sheets has never even been a worry... thats what washing machines are for. "
I hate it when you get to a bedroom to see an immaculate bed and bed linen. Looks lovely but makes me worry we're going to ruin it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Don't get me wrong I'm stood here with my hair shoved up & makeup free but because I'm in the house. But when we need to pop to the shops or whatever makeup & hair will be done! I put the effort when out or on meets to make myself feel better & a little confident! I'm also very young with 2 babies, I don't like the thought of people thinking I'm skanky, on benefits & baby daddy hasn't stuck around. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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"No its just people dont want there bed sheets and pillows covered in make up and glitter lol
Out of all the ladies I have played with - I have to say, make up on the sheets has never even been a worry... thats what washing machines are for.
I hate it when you get to a bedroom to see an immaculate bed and bed linen. Looks lovely but makes me worry we're going to ruin it. "
Isn't it funny how different people are... I love crisp, fresh bed linen, knowing its going to get crumpled, rumpled, messed up and sweaty... well if its all done right. My current lover and I often go to nice hotels, and we both love the immaculate linen  - but the same when we meet at home, there is something about messing up a perfect bed with lust and desire. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No its just people dont want there bed sheets and pillows covered in make up and glitter lol
Out of all the ladies I have played with - I have to say, make up on the sheets has never even been a worry... thats what washing machines are for.
I hate it when you get to a bedroom to see an immaculate bed and bed linen. Looks lovely but makes me worry we're going to ruin it. "
Oops my bedroom is always like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No matter of size I like to look my best.
I'm with you on this one "
Yes I would agree...but when im slimmer I don't feel it takes quite so much effort to look good.....i think my face is physically more attractive when im slimmer and don't have double chins for example, so tend to wear more make up when I'm bigger in order to feel more attractive...just an example. |
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"No its just people dont want there bed sheets and pillows covered in make up and glitter lol
Out of all the ladies I have played with - I have to say, make up on the sheets has never even been a worry... thats what washing machines are for.
I hate it when you get to a bedroom to see an immaculate bed and bed linen. Looks lovely but makes me worry we're going to ruin it.
Isn't it funny how different people are... I love crisp, fresh bed linen, knowing its going to get crumpled, rumpled, messed up and sweaty... well if its all done right. My current lover and I often go to nice hotels, and we both love the immaculate linen - but the same when we meet at home, there is something about messing up a perfect bed with lust and desire."
I love it,I just hate the thought of ruining it. That doesn't last long once we get going though |
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I think I put in the same amount of effort now as I did when I was bigger. I'm still big but now I have more confidence and feel better about myself. That's the difference for me, really.
That and the sexy undies |
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"Don't get me wrong I'm stood here with my hair shoved up & makeup free but because I'm in the house. But when we need to pop to the shops or whatever makeup & hair will be done! I put the effort when out or on meets to make myself feel better & a little confident! I'm also very young with 2 babies, I don't like the thought of people thinking I'm skanky, on benefits & baby daddy hasn't stuck around. "
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Look just coz you aren't confident doesn't mean you have to slag other people off to make yourself feel better, ok?
Take a look at what you really are, change what you feel needs to be changed, and be happy with yourself.
You aren't here to please others or care about their opinion and neither is anyone else, you're here to live your life and enjoy that. So enjoy it. You don't have to try and make others feel like crap just because you feel like crap about yourself. Realise that you can be the best person you can be without treating others like they have something wrong with them.
And that is true confidence. |
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"Don't get me wrong I'm stood here with my hair shoved up & makeup free but because I'm in the house. But when we need to pop to the shops or whatever makeup & hair will be done! I put the effort when out or on meets to make myself feel better & a little confident! I'm also very young with 2 babies, I don't like the thought of people thinking I'm skanky, on benefits & baby daddy hasn't stuck around.
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Look just coz you aren't confident doesn't mean you have to slag other people off to make yourself feel better, ok?
Take a look at what you really are, change what you feel needs to be changed, and be happy with yourself.
You aren't here to please others or care about their opinion and neither is anyone else, you're here to live your life and enjoy that. So enjoy it. You don't have to try and make others feel like crap just because you feel like crap about yourself. Realise that you can be the best person you can be without treating others like they have something wrong with them.
And that is true confidence. "
Ok so I'm not slagging others off am I?! I'm just saying what I (Yes ME) think others may think of ME. Not you or anyone else!!!!!! |
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"Don't get me wrong I'm stood here with my hair shoved up & makeup free but because I'm in the house. But when we need to pop to the shops or whatever makeup & hair will be done! I put the effort when out or on meets to make myself feel better & a little confident! I'm also very young with 2 babies, I don't like the thought of people thinking I'm skanky, on benefits & baby daddy hasn't stuck around.
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Look just coz you aren't confident doesn't mean you have to slag other people off to make yourself feel better, ok?
Take a look at what you really are, change what you feel needs to be changed, and be happy with yourself.
You aren't here to please others or care about their opinion and neither is anyone else, you're here to live your life and enjoy that. So enjoy it. You don't have to try and make others feel like crap just because you feel like crap about yourself. Realise that you can be the best person you can be without treating others like they have something wrong with them.
And that is true confidence.
Ok so I'm not slagging others off am I?! I'm just saying what I (Yes ME) think others may think of ME. Not you or anyone else!!!!!! "
I don't argue, i rationalise and debate.
If you can make "skanky, on benefits & baby daddy hasn't stuck around." look like something not offensive then feel free to do so. |
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"Don't get me wrong I'm stood here with my hair shoved up & makeup free but because I'm in the house. But when we need to pop to the shops or whatever makeup & hair will be done! I put the effort when out or on meets to make myself feel better & a little confident! I'm also very young with 2 babies, I don't like the thought of people thinking I'm skanky, on benefits & baby daddy hasn't stuck around.
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Look just coz you aren't confident doesn't mean you have to slag other people off to make yourself feel better, ok?
Take a look at what you really are, change what you feel needs to be changed, and be happy with yourself.
You aren't here to please others or care about their opinion and neither is anyone else, you're here to live your life and enjoy that. So enjoy it. You don't have to try and make others feel like crap just because you feel like crap about yourself. Realise that you can be the best person you can be without treating others like they have something wrong with them.
And that is true confidence. "
Wow hang on I don't think she is slagging anyone off
What she is saying is she don't want people thinking she is "a skanky mum"
Not once did she slag anyone one in my eyes
I see nothing wrong with this lady making an effort when she goes out. She does it like I do to make hersf feel and look nice. |
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"Don't get me wrong I'm stood here with my hair shoved up & makeup free but because I'm in the house. But when we need to pop to the shops or whatever makeup & hair will be done! I put the effort when out or on meets to make myself feel better & a little confident! I'm also very young with 2 babies, I don't like the thought of people thinking I'm skanky, on benefits & baby daddy hasn't stuck around.
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Look just coz you aren't confident doesn't mean you have to slag other people off to make yourself feel better, ok?
Take a look at what you really are, change what you feel needs to be changed, and be happy with yourself.
You aren't here to please others or care about their opinion and neither is anyone else, you're here to live your life and enjoy that. So enjoy it. You don't have to try and make others feel like crap just because you feel like crap about yourself. Realise that you can be the best person you can be without treating others like they have something wrong with them.
And that is true confidence.
Ok so I'm not slagging others off am I?! I'm just saying what I (Yes ME) think others may think of ME. Not you or anyone else!!!!!!
I don't argue, i rationalise and debate.
If you can make "skanky, on benefits & baby daddy hasn't stuck around." look like something not offensive then feel free to do so."
I said that's what I think others would think of me if I look rough. I'm not sure how else I can get it through to you  |
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"Don't get me wrong I'm stood here with my hair shoved up & makeup free but because I'm in the house. But when we need to pop to the shops or whatever makeup & hair will be done! I put the effort when out or on meets to make myself feel better & a little confident! I'm also very young with 2 babies, I don't like the thought of people thinking I'm skanky, on benefits & baby daddy hasn't stuck around.
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Look just coz you aren't confident doesn't mean you have to slag other people off to make yourself feel better, ok?
Take a look at what you really are, change what you feel needs to be changed, and be happy with yourself.
You aren't here to please others or care about their opinion and neither is anyone else, you're here to live your life and enjoy that. So enjoy it. You don't have to try and make others feel like crap just because you feel like crap about yourself. Realise that you can be the best person you can be without treating others like they have something wrong with them.
And that is true confidence. "
I think you have a valid point there its pretty tragic when someone has to try and pull others down to feel better about themselves. |
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"If you can make "skanky, on benefits & baby daddy hasn't stuck around." look like something not offensive then feel free to do so.
I said that's what I think others would think of me if I look rough. I'm not sure how else I can get it through to you "
Why bring it up? Why say that other people think skanky mums are those on benefits and single and the dad has fucked off? Isn't even relevant to the topic, not relevant to you being obese, and not relevant to others not wearing make-up or anything.
Some people are just snidey in how they slag other people off.
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"Don't get me wrong I'm stood here with my hair shoved up & makeup free but because I'm in the house. But when we need to pop to the shops or whatever makeup & hair will be done! I put the effort when out or on meets to make myself feel better & a little confident! I'm also very young with 2 babies, I don't like the thought of people thinking I'm skanky, on benefits & baby daddy hasn't stuck around.
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Look just coz you aren't confident doesn't mean you have to slag other people off to make yourself feel better, ok?
Take a look at what you really are, change what you feel needs to be changed, and be happy with yourself.
You aren't here to please others or care about their opinion and neither is anyone else, you're here to live your life and enjoy that. So enjoy it. You don't have to try and make others feel like crap just because you feel like crap about yourself. Realise that you can be the best person you can be without treating others like they have something wrong with them.
And that is true confidence.
Wow hang on I don't think she is slagging anyone off
What she is saying is she don't want people thinking she is "a skanky mum"
Not once did she slag anyone one in my eyes
I see nothing wrong with this lady making an effort when she goes out. She does it like I do to make hersf feel and look nice. "
I agree, where's all this coming from?! |
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"If you can make "skanky, on benefits & baby daddy hasn't stuck around." look like something not offensive then feel free to do so.
I said that's what I think others would think of me if I look rough. I'm not sure how else I can get it through to you
Why bring it up? Why say that other people think skanky mums are those on benefits and single and the dad has fucked off? Isn't even relevant to the topic, not relevant to you being obese, and not relevant to others not wearing make-up or anything.
Some people are just snidey in how they slag other people off.
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Isn't that what other people think? That's what a lot of people think. I can see what she was getting at. |
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"If you can make "skanky, on benefits & baby daddy hasn't stuck around." look like something not offensive then feel free to do so.
I said that's what I think others would think of me if I look rough. I'm not sure how else I can get it through to you
Why bring it up? Why say that other people think skanky mums are those on benefits and single and the dad has fucked off? Isn't even relevant to the topic, not relevant to you being obese, and not relevant to others not wearing make-up or anything.
Some people are just snidey in how they slag other people off.
Isn't that what other people think? That's what a lot of people think. I can see what she was getting at. "
I don't think that, no, and i explained why.
So, again no, i don't get what she means at all. Don't even see why it was brought up in so much detail either except for to say what she said. |
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See when I think of a bigger lady I immediately think: curvaceous, sexy,lively, full-of-life, happy, humble, loyal, faithful
When I think of the common "barbie doll," I think of: beach bum, tan in a can, snobby, self-centred, breast implants, and best of all: FAKE! |
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Has it not occurred to you that she may live in an area where some people may think this of others. They do where I live. I took the comment with a pinch of salt and didn't take offence to it and neither did most people on this tread. It was probably a figure of speech. Things have been taken out of context I think. Now just let it be and carry on with what this thread was about which was do larger ladies make more effort than slimmer ladies in looking good. Thanku and play nicely |
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"See when I think of a bigger lady I immediately think: curvaceous, sexy,lively, full-of-life, happy, humble, loyal, faithful
When I think of the common "barbie doll," I think of: beach bum, tan in a can, snobby, self-centred, breast implants, and best of all: FAKE! "
I'm a larger lady and I have tan in a can
And yes I am snobby and ouike the finer things in life
But I am loyal, faithful and all of the above but so are slimmer ladies |
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"See when I think of a bigger lady I immediately think: curvaceous, sexy,lively, full-of-life, happy, humble, loyal, faithful
When I think of the common "barbie doll," I think of: beach bum, tan in a can, snobby, self-centred, breast implants, and best of all: FAKE! "
How come you're lumping peoples personalities into one category based on looks? |
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I was a size 26 and used to wear whatever er fitted. I'm now a size 16 (little way to go) but I'm just beginning to know what kind of things suit me. I don't wear make up or heels day to day just tinted moisturiser but that's more because of my age.
I wear some make up on a night out or a meet but not to much cause I feel like a clown.
90% of the time I wear dresses, there getting shorter the more weight I lose but I never have my boobs on show.
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"I was a size 26 and used to wear whatever er fitted. I'm now a size 16 (little way to go) but I'm just beginning to know what kind of things suit me. I don't wear make up or heels day to day just tinted moisturiser but that's more because of my age.
I wear some make up on a night out or a meet but not to much cause I feel like a clown.
90% of the time I wear dresses, there getting shorter the more weight I lose but I never have my boobs on show.
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"See when I think of a bigger lady I immediately think: curvaceous, sexy,lively, full-of-life, happy, humble, loyal, faithful
When I think of the common "barbie doll," I think of: beach bum, tan in a can, snobby, self-centred, breast implants, and best of all: FAKE! "
Oh dear oh dear oh dear.
Trying to win favour with one type of person by insulting others is sooooo last year. |
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I don't feel id treat myself any different if I was smaller than I do at the size I am!
I have days where I feel pretty, where I'll make an effort and take time over my hair and make up, pamper myself a little and wear something I think looks good on me
However in equal measure, I have the days with the hoody and trackies, my hair scraped up and not a stitch of make up and feel just as comfortable!
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"Naughty Bitch72 men have to realise there not going to look dolled up when waking in the morning have to have that in mind and guys shouldn't be so superficial. Make up or no make all the same when the lights go down "
I have insomnia so theybusually look shattered not me ha |
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"Naughty Bitch72 men have to realise there not going to look dolled up when waking in the morning have to have that in mind and guys shouldn't be so superficial. Make up or no make all the same when the lights go down
Make up doesn't last 5 minutes on me when I have sex. It's sweated off and rubbed onto pillows and bum cheeks "
Me to especially when i get heated up |
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"Do you ladies that aren't skinny feel like you have to make more effort? Make sure your hair/make up is perfect, clothes are really nice, more effort in the bedroom etc? I'm now a 16 and always make sure I'm perfect where as before I had my children and a size 10 I'm sure I never put this much effort in. Interested to see how you other ladies feel xx"
Nope. I am who I am and if they don't like it that's fine. Of I feel like putting some slap on and shaving my legs o will but if not then tough. |
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Ive gain 2 stone since quitting smoking 5 months ago and ive finally had enough of feeling fat so for the past month I being working out.
Im still not back to what i was and ive actually put more weight on but im getting slimmer and fitter as well.
Im also not coughing up a lung like I was to start with so that pretty great. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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"See when I think of a bigger lady I immediately think: curvaceous, sexy,lively, full-of-life, happy, humble, loyal, faithful
When I think of the common "barbie doll," I think of: beach bum, tan in a can, snobby, self-centred, breast implants, and best of all: FAKE! "
wow, I must be a figment of my own imagination then, as I fit neither of these categories... guess I'd better leave fab then. |
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I've seen plenty of women who have "made an effort" look like mutton dressed as lamb,prostitutes,skanks,tramps,clowns...have I missed anyone out? I've also seen women of the larger variety out and about with no make up and they look fine. I rock the no make up,messy hair look. I feel sexy when I do make an effort. |
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In my normal life, I rarely wear make up and are happiest in casual clothes. If going to a club or a meet ill try to look presentable still fairly casual, with minimal make up. Its just me-I am not one to spend hours putting make up etc on. What i can guarantee is great conversation and hopefully some good fun |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I sometimes make an effort. I sometimes don't bother. Most people I've met have at some point seen me dolled up as well as with glasses on, no makeup and in leggings and Doc Martens. The only difference now I'm a bit smaller is that I have loads more choice what to wear. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I've always been slim (though I do watch what I eat) And I never go out without my face on, I don't think it matters what size you are, I know I am vain, but I like to make the effort every day, but that is just me and will always be |
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