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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I find astonishing that there are a lot of men who are afraid to admit that they are sexually attracted to a larger woman.
One of my theory's is that men are afraid of their peers taking the complete piss out of them.
What are your thoughts? |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
Having been a larger woman, and having had a few guys who said they would meet me in private but not public - yes its fear of being judged.
I think its also a few guys see bigger ladies as an easy option, but as I was told by one guy - I was his moped fuck - fun to ride til his friends found out - needless to say that was the last time we ever met.
Personally, if you are that shallow that your friends still define who you should and should not be seen with, then I actually feel sorry for them.
Oh and the moped guy has tried numerous times since I lost weight, saying he'd love to date me properly now... hahah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Over the years seen posts saying will meet BBw but never in public ........... Now in my eyes they are not worth meeting ...so don't your as good as the rest ... Never had that in my life even when I was a size 16/18 I would have said go to hell and piss off . Lol  I would.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find astonishing that there are a lot of men who are afraid to admit that they are sexually attracted to a larger woman.
One of my theory's is that men are afraid of their peers taking the complete piss out of them.
What are your thoughts? "
Yeah there is definitely a stigma around bigger women. There shouldn't be one around any type of woman but unfortunately that's society  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having been a larger woman, and having had a few guys who said they would meet me in private but not public - yes its fear of being judged.
I think its also a few guys see bigger ladies as an easy option, but as I was told by one guy - I was his moped fuck - fun to ride til his friends found out - needless to say that was the last time we ever met.
Personally, if you are that shallow that your friends still define who you should and should not be seen with, then I actually feel sorry for them.
Oh and the moped guy has tried numerous times since I lost weight, saying he'd love to date me properly now... hahah"
Glad you turned the tables on him I agree some men find big women an easy target especially because most usually feel so bad about themselves that they like the fact someone wants them (big women - don't take offence to this lol). I try to make sure to meet genuine people only and that's why I don't rush into meeting. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"Glad you turned the tables on him I agree some men find big women an easy target especially because most usually feel so bad about themselves that they like the fact someone wants them (big women - don't take offence to this lol). I try to make sure to meet genuine people only and that's why I don't rush into meeting."
I think some bigger women are grateful for the interest. I know when I was a size 26, I was - but that was more to do with my own issues and not feeling worthy after my ex-husband cheated on me. I've learned the hard way since then that self-worth and your value can only come from within. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I love the bigger woman and I'm not ashamed to say so my wife is a size 18 and the best fuck I've ever had
And yet...
You saw the irony in that too? "
It was hard to miss, and I didn't even look at the profile.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love the bigger woman and I'm not ashamed to say so my wife is a size 18 and the best fuck I've ever had
And yet...
You saw the irony in that too?
It was hard to miss, and I didn't even look at the profile.
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Me neither |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think some bigger women are grateful for the interest. I know when I was a size 26, I was - but that was more to do with my own issues and not feeling worthy after my ex-husband cheated on me. I've learned the hard way since then that self-worth and your value can only come from within."
I admit that due to being bullied at school I thought I was awful and I settled for less than I deserved in my first relationship because I didn't think I could have anything better. I now value myself and that will never happen again You're right that it comes from within and the way you value yourself changes everything. |
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