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Would all guys and girls have open relationships if the truth was known /
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
I'm confused. You're on here as a single so is this part of the open relationship or something you did before?
I think open relationships work where there is a honesty and clear boundaries - for some but not for all.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Easier for women to get guys, so yeah course i'd have an open relationship. Even told my ex i wanted one when i found out he was looking for someone else, he said no, i split with him and fucked loads of guys anyway. He's not met anyone yet. He wants to get back with me, i told him i'm not giving up anyone else for him but will be with him as well. I don't care any more, seems most people are selfish arseholes at the end of the day, i'm being one too.
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"Easier for women to get guys, so yeah course i'd have an open relationship. Even told my ex i wanted one when i found out he was looking for someone else, he said no, i split with him and fucked loads of guys anyway. He's not met anyone yet. He wants to get back with me, i told him i'm not giving up anyone else for him but will be with him as well. I don't care any more, seems most people are selfish arseholes at the end of the day, i'm being one too.
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if he's willing to accept those terms then why not  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Easier for women to get guys, so yeah course i'd have an open relationship. Even told my ex i wanted one when i found out he was looking for someone else, he said no, i split with him and fucked loads of guys anyway. He's not met anyone yet. He wants to get back with me, i told him i'm not giving up anyone else for him but will be with him as well. I don't care any more, seems most people are selfish arseholes at the end of the day, i'm being one too.
if he's willing to accept those terms then why not "
He doesn't want that though, he wants me all to himself and hasn't proved himself trustworthy so i'm not caving in because although i would like to be with him i'm not doing it at my expense. At least i told him how it is and not doing anything behind his back. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
OP as discussed on previous similar threads, do what makes you happy.
FBs is a bit different to an open relationship to me. It sounds like she wants you to be her "Mr wednesday" or whatever day to have a fall back if her weekend meets don't happen for whatever reason.
Also sounds like she may be manipulating you to keep you on her side, and get what she wants for you. Its entirely your call if this is what suits you. DO what makes you happy...
And as said before, Please find out about punctuation to make it easier for folks to read you posts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She sounds a lot like you affectionate bitch / she is selfish says she wants to feel free and have me as we'll / it's a lot to take in / she won't say what guys she meets / or even that she fucks them only want to play with other guys / and back to me sometimes / ye it's a lot easier for girls to fuck guys / am confused what to do / and mane is Mabel ok thanks for input guys and girls / don't think a dishonest open relationship is for me long term /
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I was willing to give up some of what i wanted to be in a relationship. I do think relationships can only be based on mutual wants and needs being fulfilled by your partner if it's worth your while to do that and pretty sure that's how relationships work, you give and take and sacrifice but not too much or else you end up feeling used (and a whole host of other negative feelings too).
It has to work both ways though for most relationships to be successful. He isn't willing to prove he is trustworthy so i'm not willing to give up my life.
Not sure why she's the way she is, but if you want her to compromise and she won't then walk away and be selfish yourself. I don't think we should allow to others to make us unhappy, we deserve better. |
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Different strokes.
We live 80 miles apart, and aside from the logistics of one of us uprooting, neither of us wants to move in together.
I only want one girlfriend, which I have, but I also like having sex with other women.
She is happy for me to do this, as I would be for her to do the same, though she only wants to swing if I'm present.
It works for us, we've been together 4 years and very happy together |
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