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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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then the lovely consultant confirmed our worst nightmare at the hospital, our new baby daughter has abnormalities in her protein, so, what we have to do is, put her on a special diet (for the rest of her life), there's also a risk that she will be a special needs child when learning, but the thing that hit us both was, one of us will have to give up working to look after her, no nursery (local to us anyway) will take a child if they are on special dietary requirement 
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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so sorry to read your update but I am confident that your wee bundle of joy..... will bring you many, many smiles, laughs and great times in the future.
good luck to all and hope all works out for the best. |
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As View said it might feel like nothing is going right at the moment mate but your lil girl is going to change your life for the better in so many ways.
I wish it had been the lesser of the three outcomes you told me about but I'm sure you and your wife can cope with it and there are still a lot of ifs and buts about your baby's future that you don't know now that could work out the right way.
Bestestestest wishes to you and your family |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would you move if you had too? I know most people would do what ever it take so there children so thay can have the best in life .... And i know people move houses for schools to be in the right place where thay can get help and surport i hope thay offer you all help you need and tell you about it. xx Big hugs to you xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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mally, my daughter was starved of oxygen at age 10 months. she is now 19 and although she is less her age she leads anormal lifestyle, can walk n talk , goes to discos, has a fantsatic look on life, lots of my friends on here will tell you . it will be hard going till u adjust but then it will become second nature, your daughter will bloom and love you both as much as you love her, stay strong and if u want to private mail me , feel free xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mate i feel for you
But as for the special needs bit at school cross that bridge IF you come to it
I have a friend who was told similar to that
And his daughter is a very clever little girl indeed xx  |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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it is very hard when your suddenly faced with a life changing situation. I guess firstly take a breath and slowly start talking about all your options. The future is way ahead i guess so look at the now and get that all running and then when you really need to make decisions about your future then do it. Accept all help and get some research done in the mean time. One day at a time but try remember the positives of your life and little one. Wishing you all the best x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Always look for the positives in any situation, there has to be at least one, there always is. Yes, your life is about to change beyond recognition, but whether it has a good impact or a bad one depends on how you as a family embrace these changes if only for the simple reason that you have no choice in the matter, so you may as well get really stuck into it.
A friend of mine had a son many years ago who reacted badly to the MMR and was left severely autistic and prone to severe and daily epileptic attacks. His life changed for sure, and it was so different from what it was before but the positive was that he got himself clued up sharpish on how to care for children with epilepsy and autism. His son thrived and due to the way his dad learned how to work with him, his autism is less progressive now - it's still there and always will be but the lad can communicate effectively.
He now works in the field of care for children with these kinds of problems, and he says he's never felt more complete.
That was his positive. You'll find yours.
Good luck,
Wishy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just want to say big thanks to you all for your kind messages as well as the helpful ones PMd.
bumpy times ahead indeed, we're keeping positive and facing this head on.
Love to you all.
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