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Open relationship is it good or bad

By *LLURS OP Man over a year ago

waterforx

Have a girlfriend a while she now wants an open relationship / she wil meet other guys then back to me sometimes /maybe good / mabe bad /. Let me know out there /. Mabe it wil be fun / any one in an open relaitship and happy / ur horny friend Paul

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you are meeting seperately then you must already have a level of trust and openness. As long as people are honest open relationships work fine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can I tell off your primary school teacher for not introducing the comma to your class?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Seems like your already in an open relationship,,,, single guys profile!

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By *opinovMan over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

There are good and bad in every arrangement, as far as I can tell - on the whole though playing separately works well enough, even though she seems often to get more than me.

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By *adybee77Woman over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

You've had a single male profile for over 6 months...

are you worried that she will get more action than you?

Open relationships can work very well, but they take time, patience and honesty from both sides, as well as ground rules and lots of discussion. My current lover and I are open, and I was in a different open relationship for 18 months before that as well.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seems like your already in an open relationship,,,, single guys profile! "

This was my initial reaction too

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By *LLURS OP Man over a year ago

waterforx

Ok thanks chrystal wheels / can she meet same guy regular or is she supposed to only have one night stands / it's a lot fun ok kinda like cuckolding / but she is not so honest telling me she's going to work parties / she said it's better I don't know what guys she meets / what you think chrstal wheels / think she is just keeping me hanging on for money per week / mail back he horny friend Paul

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By *LLURS OP Man over a year ago

waterforx

Have singles profile up ok / but haven't had a meet on this yet / but am now in an open relationship so wil now meet couples or singles / she is not very honest so it wil not work for me / have fun he sexy people out there it horny friend Paul /

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So you have a profile on here that she knows nothing about and she wants to meet without you knowing?

To me that doesn;t sound very open. If it works for you great but the lack of transparency would concern me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just sounds like a recipe for resentment and trust issues.

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By *adybee77Woman over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Just my tuppence worth - thats not an open relationship, that is 2 people cheating on one another - she doesn't know what you are doing, and you think she is lying about what she does.

Perhaps time to rethink if its the relationship you really want?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As long as ur both honest then it could work untill green eyed monster ?? comes out

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By *LLURS OP Man over a year ago

waterforx

Put profile up ok but haven't met / she is very dishonest / sort of cuckolding more I think / she said it's better I don't know who she meets / this open relationship is stupid - would be a lot more fun if she was honest / no trust / sort of cuckolding I think / she went away with a guy for weekend she just said its a guy from work / and not to ask any more questions / she loves the freedom of this she said - over to ye sexy people out there ur horny friend Paul / w

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you decribe your relationship as stupid and it clearly isn;t making you happy, then what exactly is the point?

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By *adybee77Woman over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Jees-oh man, learn where the full stop is!

I'm not an expert, but I thought cuckolding was about humiliation and joint pleasure... not that she goes off and does her own thing without you.

Sounds like she wants her cake and eat it. If you are not happy with the situation, end it. Ask yourself what are you really getting out of this? Is it making you happy?

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By *LLURS OP Man over a year ago

waterforx

Very good point lady bee / wil end it today / no trust at all or honesty on her behalf / making me very unhappy as she goes away for weekends - she says she's is going on an adventure and not to ask her any questions / have enough of this lady bee 77 / that relationship is a joke / she is tortureing me mentally / financely / and sexually / it's the end of this game for me today lady bee 77 thanks for ur input /

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think you need to make your minnd up as to whether you're attached or not

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By *LLURS OP Man over a year ago

waterforx

Am not attached any more / she just wants me for financial safety / and wants to play with different guys / so I'm looking couples single ladies now for some fun /

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By *opping_candyWoman over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I bet you write amazing shopping lists.

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