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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A lot of couples have bits on their profile saying that they do not want to meet bi guys at all.
We feel this comes from the male half insecurities and his opinion that the bi guy wouldn't be able to resist him.
Well speaking as a fully bi guy I'll say this to those type of guys, if I'm in a threesome with you and your missus trust me you'd be the last person On my mind and who I would want to do stuff with.
So in essence get over yourself guys,as long as you have a missus THATS who the bi guys are more interested in!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some bi guys prefer guys.
Some women don't like the thought of 2 guys together and they are the ones that don't want to meet bi guys.
Nothing is black and white. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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"Some bi guys prefer guys.
Some women don't like the thought of 2 guys together and they are the ones that don't want to meet bi guys.
Nothing is black and white."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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while thats semi true...I've met quite a few that almost crossed my set out boundaries..
and in most cases when its a couple messaging me(and the male half is bi),I occasionally feel I'm being led on by the male half..or conversations run to an end the minute its decided theres no bi play.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's more risk of STIs with meeting bi guys that's why we wouldnt meet a couple where the guy was bi. "
Sorry but that's a load of crap,it really is. |
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I LOVE the use of that word "insecurities" in your post because i think it's spot on in some cases.
Just because someone is bi or gay, doesn't mean he find every single man in this earth attractive...
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Thank you OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's more risk of STIs with meeting bi guys that's why we wouldnt meet a couple where the guy was bi. "
Bless you! That's wrong on so many levels. *snigger* |
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"A lot of couples have bits on their profile saying that they do not want to meet bi guys at all.
We feel this comes from the male half insecurities and his opinion that the bi guy wouldn't be able to resist him.
Well speaking as a fully bi guy I'll say this to those type of guys, if I'm in a threesome with you and your missus trust me you'd be the last person On my mind and who I would want to do stuff with.
So in essence get over yourself guys,as long as you have a missus THATS who the bi guys are more interested in!!"
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I have met couples who have said they don't wish to meet bi guys, as I have met couples who have other choices....age ranges, heights build, loom at how many women look for BBC only or must be 9'' plus etc.
its a site that allows people to meet who they feel comfortable meeting and have fun with who they wish to join them. I wouldn't send a message to a couple who have must be 9' plus or seeking BBC as I am clearly not what they want, neither would I presume that they are insecure in any way and would only ever meet someone with 7 '' cock as 'they know how to use it better...
As I said in my profile... am straight and not homophobic ...out of curiosity have a look at some of the TV's profiles and see how many 'straight' guys have met them and played....
The amount of people who have' simply stunning couple' or 'we are a genuinely attractive couple or simpy awesome female' get over yourselves and exchange messages... if there is an attractithem.... meet
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's more risk of STIs with meeting bi guys that's why we wouldnt meet a couple where the guy was bi.
Sorry but that's a load of crap,it really is."
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Some bi guys prefer guys.
Some women don't like the thought of 2 guys together and they are the ones that don't want to meet bi guys.
Nothing is black and white."
Michael Jackson was.
I saw the title of the thread and thought this was the BBC's new programme to replace Top Gear.
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We have no issue with meeting bi guys, however we would make sure before a meet that the guy knows that he would only be playing with the lady to avoid misunderstandings.
It's not assuming that the guy would be lusting after Mr, just to be sure that everyone knows what's expected.
In any fem/couple meet, I will also check if the lady is into bi play, so I know where I stand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some bi guys prefer guys.
Some women don't like the thought of 2 guys together and they are the ones that don't want to meet bi guys.
Nothing is black and white.
Michael Jackson was.
I saw the title of the thread and thought this was the BBC's new programme to replace Top Gear.
A"
And so is a penguin  |
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"Some bi guys prefer guys.
Some women don't like the thought of 2 guys together and they are the ones that don't want to meet bi guys.
Nothing is black and white.
Michael Jackson was.
I saw the title of the thread and thought this was the BBC's new programme to replace Top Gear.
A
And so is a penguin "
I elegantly fell of my chair laughing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a couple doesn't want to meet bi guys that's their choice, not yours.
It is not discrimination or one group singling out another, it is simply personal choice. Get past it.
I'm am openly bi but I don't spit my dummy out when others don't want to meet because of it or when my partner loses out on a meet as a result me being bi.....We respect their choice and move on.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a couple doesn't want to meet bi guys that's their choice, not yours.
It is not discrimination or one group singling out another, it is simply personal choice. Get past it.
I'm am openly bi but I don't spit my dummy out when others don't want to meet because of it or when my partner loses out on a meet as a result me being bi.....We respect their choice and move on.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If a couple doesn't want to meet bi guys that's their choice, not yours.
It is not discrimination or one group singling out another, it is simply personal choice. Get past it.
I'm am openly bi but I don't spit my dummy out when others don't want to meet because of it or when my partner loses out on a meet as a result me being bi.....We respect their choice and move on.
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I think you've missed the point of the post love,simply an observation nothing more, so not a bitter "they've turned us down" rant. |
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"There's more risk of STIs with meeting bi guys that's why we wouldnt meet a couple where the guy was bi. "
I'm gonna bookmark this page so that next time there's a debate on why bi guys feel stigmatised I can just do a quick quote. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a couple doesn't want to meet bi guys that's their choice, not yours.
It is not discrimination or one group singling out another, it is simply personal choice. Get past it.
I'm am openly bi but I don't spit my dummy out when others don't want to meet because of it or when my partner loses out on a meet as a result me being bi.....We respect their choice and move on.
I think you've missed the point of the post love,simply an observation nothing more, so not a bitter "they've turned us down" rant."
More like a childish raspberry blowing than an observation 'didn't want your cocktail anyway' kind of thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's more risk of STIs with meeting bi guys that's why we wouldnt meet a couple where the guy was bi.
I'm gonna bookmark this page so that next time there's a debate on why bi guys feel stigmatised I can just do a quick quote. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's more risk of STIs with meeting bi guys that's why we wouldnt meet a couple where the guy was bi.
I'm gonna bookmark this page so that next time there's a debate on why bi guys feel stigmatised I can just do a quick quote.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's more risk of STIs with meeting bi guys that's why we wouldnt meet a couple where the guy was bi.
I'm gonna bookmark this page so that next time there's a debate on why bi guys feel stigmatised I can just do a quick quote. "
With comments like that, I'm not surprised many bi guys state they're straight on here. |
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"There's more risk of STIs with meeting bi guys that's why we wouldnt meet a couple where the guy was bi.
I'm gonna bookmark this page so that next time there's a debate on why bi guys feel stigmatised I can just do a quick quote.
With comments like that, I'm not surprised many bi guys state they're straight on here. "
Too right! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot of couples have bits on their profile saying that they do not want to meet bi guys at all.
We feel this comes from the male half insecurities and his opinion that the bi guy wouldn't be able to resist him.
Well speaking as a fully bi guy I'll say this to those type of guys, if I'm in a threesome with you and your missus trust me you'd be the last person On my mind and who I would want to do stuff with.
So in essence get over yourself guys,as long as you have a missus THATS who the bi guys are more interested in!!"
What would you say to single women who have no bi guys on their profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's more risk of STIs with meeting bi guys that's why we wouldnt meet a couple where the guy was bi.
Sorry but that's a load of crap,it really is."
I can't comment on that so I won't but if bi guys are not of a higher risk why can you not give blood if you have had sex with a bi guy in the past 6 month? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe the female in the couple is turned off by a guy that has sexual contact with other men?
So it's not always the insecurities of the male half.
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We won't meet bi guys and that's my (her) decision. So your thoughts on it being the mans insecurities are wrong. People can choose who they do or don't want to meet. It's called freedom of choice. |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"There's more risk of STIs with meeting bi guys that's why we wouldnt meet a couple where the guy was bi. "
It would be more correct to say there is more risk of STIs with anal sex rather than where the guy was bi.
However many heterosexuals and lesbians engage in anal sex and not all bi or gay males engage in anal sex.
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My bf and myself are both bi and we do get some couples where one is straight thinking one of us will pounce on the straight one. I agree that just because you are bi does not mean you will be after everyone who is the same sex as you are. My bf has particular tastes in me, as do I, and likewise for women. Also on the more risk debate, I think it is more related to the lifestyle, but have seen other debates on here about this. There are assumptions, including those out-dated ones from the medical profession, which are wrong. Sexual practises, including an individual's choices about practising safe sex determine the risk of contracting an std, surely? I think with everyone we meet, there is no guarantee both of us will click with a bi guy or woman, or even a TV, although there is more chance of that one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a couple doesn't want to meet bi guys that's their choice, not yours.
It is not discrimination or one group singling out another, it is simply personal choice. Get past it.
I'm am openly bi but I don't spit my dummy out when others don't want to meet because of it or when my partner loses out on a meet as a result me being bi.....We respect their choice and move on.
I think you've missed the point of the post love,simply an observation nothing more, so not a bitter "they've turned us down" rant."
Huh? I was merely agreeing with this post. Didn't say you were bitter.  Love. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some bi guys prefer guys.
Some women don't like the thought of 2 guys together and they are the ones that don't want to meet bi guys.
Nothing is black and white.
Michael Jackson was.
I saw the title of the thread and thought this was the BBC's new programme to replace Top Gear.
A"
Beat me to the gag lol, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some bi guys prefer guys.
Some women don't like the thought of 2 guys together and they are the ones that don't want to meet bi guys.
Nothing is black and white.
Michael Jackson was.
I saw the title of the thread and thought this was the BBC's new programme to replace Top Gear.
A
And so is a penguin "
So is a Panda |
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By *irangelCouple
over a year ago
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"I have met couples who have said they don't wish to meet bi guys, as I have met couples who have other choices....age ranges, heights build, loom at how many women look for BBC only or must be 9'' plus etc.
its a site that allows people to meet who they feel comfortable meeting and have fun with who they wish to join them. I wouldn't send a message to a couple who have must be 9' plus or seeking BBC as I am clearly not what they want, neither would I presume that they are insecure in any way and would only ever meet someone with 7 '' cock as 'they know how to use it better...
As I said in my profile... am straight and not homophobic ...out of curiosity have a look at some of the TV's profiles and see how many 'straight' guys have met them and played....
The amount of people who have' simply stunning couple' or 'we are a genuinely attractive couple or simpy awesome female' get over yourselves and exchange messages... if there is an attractithem.... meet
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's more risk of STIs with meeting bi guys that's why we wouldnt meet a couple where the guy was bi.
Sorry but that's a load of crap,it really is.
I can't comment on that so I won't but if bi guys are not of a higher risk why can you not give blood if you have had sex with a bi guy in the past 6 month?"
this is why i had no bi guys on my profile when i started, as i was a blood donor.
soon realised that even meeting guys on here who claim to be straight, I could well still be sleeping with a bi guy.
and same in real life, I dont know that guys I have been with are straight.
I think they are in need of an update to the rules, im regularly tested for everything, so dont see why it should mean and end to being a donor when they are crying out for donors, and im a rare blood group!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a couple doesn't want to meet bi guys that's their choice, not yours.
It is not discrimination or one group singling out another, it is simply personal choice. Get past it.
I'm am openly bi but I don't spit my dummy out when others don't want to meet because of it or when my partner loses out on a meet as a result me being bi.....We respect their choice and move on.
I think you've missed the point of the post love,simply an observation nothing more, so not a bitter "they've turned us down" rant.
Huh? I was merely agreeing with this post. Didn't say you were bitter. Love. "
I think that was directed at moi  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lot of couples have bits on their profile saying that they do not want to meet bi guys at all.
We feel this comes from the male half insecurities and his opinion that the bi guy wouldn't be able to resist him.
Well speaking as a fully bi guy I'll say this to those type of guys, if I'm in a threesome with you and your missus trust me you'd be the last person On my mind and who I would want to do stuff with.
So in essence get over yourself guys,as long as you have a missus THATS who the bi guys are more interested in!!"
You cannot be a 'fully bi guy' if you're in a MF situation surely you' d have equal attraction to both the female and the male!?
If, as you say, you'd be totally interested in the female, then you're like me, someone who prefers females over males and can occasionally play Bi when the female opportunity is not there. (Sorry ladies for calling you an opportunity, but you know what I mean)
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"The insistence that some guys on here have that all guys are "really bi" doesn't really enstil us with confidence that a bi guy wouldn't chance their arm at some point..
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"The insistence that some guys on here have that all guys are "really bi" doesn't really enstil us with confidence that a bi guy wouldn't chance their arm at some point..
You'd do well to hope it's not their arm they're wanting to chance.... "
I did think that when I typed it ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i prefer my men to be 100% straight so only meet straight men because that's my choice "
Yet there is a guy who has verified you who has been verified by a man???
The more manly a man acts, the more chance he want a big knob in his arse |
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