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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I often find that after I've talked to a guy for a bit and we have arranged a social the content of messages gets way more sexual.
Do most people like that?
Sometimes I do and sometimes, for some reason, it really put me off. Maybe I feel its too much at that moment. Also for me attractions doesn't start till I meet someone face to face.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they start getting mucky, there won't be a meet. Its like they assume I am a 'done deal' once I've agreed to the meet, but they couldn't be further from the truth. "
This. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I've learned to not get too smutty with someone before I've met them,incase the attraction isn't there between us when we do actually meet."
Yeah, that's always a bit embarrassing  |
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"I've learned to not get too smutty with someone before I've met them,incase the attraction isn't there between us when we do actually meet.
Yeah, that's always a bit embarrassing "
Oh yes!  We live and learn |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Major major turn off for me. Just because I've had a social doesn't mean I will necessary play. Also just because I've played in the past doesn't mean I will automatically play the next time I see you. To be honest the ' I want to do x, y and z to you' is just talk in my eyes. Total Bullshit and is treated as such. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont really chat smut.
It's all pretty normal convo with me.
I normally don't even chat it until right before we meet where I'll ask whats their turn ons and turns offs are. ..etc. .etc. ..
Sex talk doesn't really do it for me.
I can do it if they want me to. But i cringe as I'm typing it because I know I'm totally making up a whole heap of bullshit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've learned to not get too smutty with someone before I've met them,incase the attraction isn't there between us when we do actually meet."
I don't chat for too long, I prefer a social pretty quick. Flirty stuff is good. Anything too filthy is a turn off and it's likely I would cancel the social. |
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I rarely arrange a social
I prefer spontaneous meets
But
I absolutely detest loath and hate full on smutty sexual messages at any time
So I usually delete them
Unless they're off friends when it's acceptable
Why do I hate them?
Because I save it for the bedroom or meet wherever it is
I'm almost 51 not 15
I don't need them telling me in graphic sexual detail what's occurring
I bloody well know already lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've learned to not get too smutty with someone before I've met them,incase the attraction isn't there between us when we do actually meet.
I don't chat for too long, I prefer a social pretty quick. Flirty stuff is good. Anything too filthy is a turn off and it's likely I would cancel the social. "
This is good advice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I try and stick with the same tone that the Woman I'm chatting goes with, If she brings up sexual content I go with it"
Exactly this.
Same goes with couples.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Actually I don't even want to chat at all between arranging a meet and the meet. Unless it has to be cancelled, I prefer no contact at all."
Ok so by that logic, how do you establish you are actually going to get on?... |
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"Major major turn off for me. Just because I've had a social doesn't mean I will necessary play. Also just because I've played in the past doesn't mean I will automatically play the next time I see you. To be honest the ' I want to do x, y and z to you' is just talk in my eyes. Total Bullshit and is treated as such."
Totally agree with this.
I always feel like I've kicked a puppy when I have to "easy tiger" a guy when he starts this after arranging a meet. But it has to be done.
If he carries on I end up just backing off. |
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"Actually I don't even want to chat at all between arranging a meet and the meet. Unless it has to be cancelled, I prefer no contact at all."
I couldn't do that, firstly because I'm a chatty person but because I want to know I'll get on with them and not be wasting my time going to a social |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I chat utter crap most of the time, sexy, dirty talk... I've not got a clue, anyone starts with it... And you wouldn't see me for dust, but then it doesn't really do it for me..  |
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