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should i tell?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Theres a guy on here ive met a few times when i first joined fab. In fact he introduced me to the site. He has been on here as a single guy for over three years. Hes also had a couples profile. A couple of months ago i spotted him in a new couples profile..it starts..we are both totatally new to all this..and its obvious hes not mentioned his very...erm busy history on here. I tried msging him in this new profile and got blocked..so clearly something to hide. Should i leave it or try to let her know?

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By *hortieWoman over a year ago

Northampton

Leave 'em to it.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Leave well alone.

She won't thank you and may well know everything. What people write and what is true are not always the same things.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Be discreet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Leave it be.

His/their business.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Leave it alone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Seems everyone thinks it best to leave it. Thanks its been bugging me x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

To what end? Why are you bothered about it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely leave alone.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Seems everyone thinks it best to leave it. Thanks its been bugging me x"

You can sleep the sleep of the innocent now

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By *gNeMan over a year ago

Harrogate

Even if he has actually lied to her about being new to swinging, can't see any potentially sinister motive, so I'd leave it personally.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah. Don't cause yourself grief that you don't need.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Its been bothering me because if i was her id not like it if i was being lied to. Making out ur new to this when ur definitely not

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Ignore and put the kettle on

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Its been bothering me because if i was her id not like it if i was being lied to. Making out ur new to this when ur definitely not"

But you don't KNOW she has been lied too. Just because a profile says they are both new to this doesn't mean that either are. Just as profiles that say non smoker, aged 47 can be people who smoke 20 a day and are closer to 57 than 47.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yea maybe my nose is just out of joint for being blocked by him.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not worth getting involved in drama, since there are a lot of profiles exactly like that on fabs she may already be aware. It's just words on a profile.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Theres a guy on here ive met a few times when i first joined fab. In fact he introduced me to the site. He has been on here as a single guy for over three years. Hes also had a couples profile. A couple of months ago i spotted him in a new couples profile..it starts..we are both totatally new to all this..and its obvious hes not mentioned his very...erm busy history on here. I tried msging him in this new profile and got blocked..so clearly something to hide. Should i leave it or try to let her know?"

Why would you even consider busy bodying in other peoples lives.

Just because it's against your moral code to pretend to be new to a swingers site doesn't mean it bothers everybody.

Has it never dawned on you that as long as no body is dying then what they do shouldn't haunt your thoughts.

Do something interesting with your time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yea maybe my nose is just out of joint for being blocked by him. "

I can completely understand that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Oh pass the saucer of milk to this nasty kitty

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By *onConformistLikeUMan over a year ago

Chorley

Rule no.1: Don't be a mug.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we met someone that turned out to have similar but even more profiles - wasnt our best meet anyway and never saw them again but didnt do anything about it -

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Oh pass the saucer of milk to this nasty kitty"

I don't think you were catty. Just concerned. That's a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This happens a lot chick. Leave them to it, she'll find out at some point. Karma will fuck him over with a cactus at some point