Well just a general feeling about the wink system. Do any of you use them, like them, loath them, want them removed.
My feelings are from a single man it's a way for a heads up who might fancy you plus very harmless.
What your thoughts x x
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Winks are OK for us couple-to-couple, if we both decide to wink then one (or both) of us will go to a message too.
Nice and simple system. We like winks, it means somebody in the other couple *probably* read our profile.
When we had the profile open to single men though, the winks basically just got ignored, they were too many and mostly from people who hadn't read the profile so it was worthless even looking back at them. (Sorry single guys!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind them.
But people who wink have probably winked a 100 others too so I don't pay that much attention.
Unless it's someone I know. Or familiar with.  |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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I like them, if we get a wink from another couple, 9 times out of 10 we will have a look at their profile and pictures. If we like them we'll either message them or wink them back  |
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I for one don't send them, but then again I don't send preemptive messages. I don't mind receiving them but have only responded to a few, nothing more than a few messages exchanged afterwards due to distance.
Sure it gives me a confidence boost to receive them, but would much sooner have a message, even if it's "Fancy a fuck" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We like them and we send them to show interest and to give the third party the option to look at us and ignore if theyre not interested or they can wink back and we will send a way.. Its a great way of showing mutual interest I believe x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Winks are OK.
I find that they can be a useful tool for expressing an interest in someone, especially if you might be a little nervous about sending a message straight off.
I sometimes use them and I always look at the profile of anyone who might send me one. If they interest me, I might either wink or message back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think they work better for single men receiving than giving, i take them as a hello and an invitation to start a conversation, however i think women and couples must get so many they are just annoying and soo prefer a well written message to stand out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I bloody love them! I send them as I don't normally get a reply if I message ha! So if I wink and they wink back! Which does not happen much! I'll message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never look at them, or friend requests 
that was a waste of two thumb clicks then
A message is better... And then telling me that you have sent one  "
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"Well just a general feeling about the wink system. Do any of you use them, like them, loath them, want them removed.
My feelings are from a single man it's a way for a heads up who might fancy you plus very harmless.
What your thoughts x x
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It's easy to send a wink; sh*t, I could do 40 in a minute.
It takes much more to grab my attention; a carefully constructed message is always going to get a reply.
A wink is unlikely to achieve anything, other than deletion.
Dr Nasty
Post Script: Apologies to anyone that has received a wink from me when I have been typing on my iPad.
But you already know that. |
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