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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im not every girls cup of tea.
My tattoos and facial hair is not what the majority of women are looking for in a guy, especially on a swingers site that has now become littered with 40+'s. These small factors makes it very hard to get female attention.
So a call out to those that dont mind a guy looking different.
Here i am, come get me.
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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago
Clacton-On-Sea, Essex |
Look at me look at me!
If you're gonna post a pointless thread claiming to be so alternative to what girls like despite the fact that beards and tattoos are very trendy right now, at least upload some pictures for us to look at haha
No-one wants to see the beard on your cock lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Look at me look at me!
If you're gonna post a pointless thread claiming to be so alternative to what girls like despite the fact that beards and tattoos are very trendy right now, at least upload some pictures for us to look at haha
No-one wants to see the beard on your cock lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Constructive critisism. Manners somewhat lacking though.
No ....beards and tats lacking and a social awareness of their popularity
Damn you beat me to that one "
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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago
Clacton-On-Sea, Essex |
"What's an alternative girl? Does she have the beard and tattoos?
Look at the Beard exhibition that was at Somerset House last month.
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Oooh do you think a beard would go well with my blue hair?! How could I grow one? That would be awesome haha |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"What's an alternative girl? Does she have the beard and tattoos?
Look at the Beard exhibition that was at Somerset House last month.
Oooh do you think a beard would go well with my blue hair?! How could I grow one? That would be awesome haha"
There was a programme on tv recently about a freak show at Venice Beach in America and they had a bearded lady on it.....she was very cool but I preferred the sword swallower - he was called Morgue  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's an alternative girl? Does she have the beard and tattoos?
Look at the Beard exhibition that was at Somerset House last month.
Oooh do you think a beard would go well with my blue hair?! How could I grow one? That would be awesome haha"
You could win the Eurovision song contest for britain |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"What's an alternative girl? Does she have the beard and tattoos?
Look at the Beard exhibition that was at Somerset House last month.
Oooh do you think a beard would go well with my blue hair?! How could I grow one? That would be awesome haha"
I wore a stick-on beard on a night out once to make a point. It really didn't go with my boobs but may have enhanced my tattoos.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not every girls cup of tea.
My tattoos and facial hair is not what the majority of women are looking for in a guy, especially on a swingers site that has now become littered with 40+'s. These small factors makes it very hard to get female attention.
So a call out to those that dont mind a guy looking different.
Here i am, come get me.
X"
It is hard to offer criticism, positive or negative, since your profile does not reveal anything alternative about you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im not every girls cup of tea.
My tattoos and facial hair is not what the majority of women are looking for in a guy, especially on a swingers site that has now become littered with 40+'s. These small factors makes it very hard to get female attention.
So a call out to those that dont mind a guy looking different.
Here i am, come get me.
X
It is hard to offer criticism, positive or negative, since your profile does not reveal anything alternative about you."
Im looking for the alternative girls that are not of the same mind set to those that find my look a turn off.
Thought my point was clear. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"Im not every girls cup of tea.
My tattoos and facial hair is not what the majority of women are looking for in a guy, especially on a swingers site that has now become littered with 40+'s. These small factors makes it very hard to get female attention.
So a call out to those that dont mind a guy looking different.
Here i am, come get me.
X
It is hard to offer criticism, positive or negative, since your profile does not reveal anything alternative about you.
Im looking for the alternative girls that are not of the same mind set to those that find my look a turn off.
Thought my point was clear. "
I think a awful lot of girls on here like beards so having one shouldn't be holding you back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not every girls cup of tea.
My tattoos and facial hair is not what the majority of women are looking for in a guy, especially on a swingers site that has now become littered with 40+'s. These small factors makes it very hard to get female attention.
So a call out to those that dont mind a guy looking different.
Here i am, come get me.
That's what I and others said but somehow we must have alternative bad manners
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It is hard to offer criticism, positive or negative, since your profile does not reveal anything alternative about you."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not every girls cup of tea.
My tattoos and facial hair is not what the majority of women are looking for in a guy, especially on a swingers site that has now become littered with 40+'s. These small factors makes it very hard to get female attention.
So a call out to those that dont mind a guy looking different.
Here i am, come get me.
That's what I and others said but somehow we must have alternative bad manners
X
It is hard to offer criticism, positive or negative, since your profile does not reveal anything alternative about you."
That's what I and others said but somehow we must have alternative bad manners |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im not every girls cup of tea.
My tattoos and facial hair is not what the majority of women are looking for in a guy, especially on a swingers site that has now become littered with 40+'s. These small factors makes it very hard to get female attention.
So a call out to those that dont mind a guy looking different.
Here i am, come get me.
X
It is hard to offer criticism, positive or negative, since your profile does not reveal anything alternative about you.
Im looking for the alternative girls that are not of the same mind set to those that find my look a turn off.
Thought my point was clear.
I think a awful lot of girls on here like beards so having one shouldn't be holding you back "
They aint as popular as id hope unfortunately.
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"Im not every girls cup of tea.
My tattoos and facial hair is not what the majority of women are looking for in a guy, especially on a swingers site that has now become littered with 40+'s. These small factors makes it very hard to get female attention.
So a call out to those that dont mind a guy looking different.
Here i am, come get me.
X
It is hard to offer criticism, positive or negative, since your profile does not reveal anything alternative about you.
Im looking for the alternative girls that are not of the same mind set to those that find my look a turn off.
Thought my point was clear.
I think a awful lot of girls on here like beards so having one shouldn't be holding you back
They aint as popular as id hope unfortunately.
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Yet nearly everyone on this thread has said they are.....including me |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Im not every girls cup of tea.
My tattoos and facial hair is not what the majority of women are looking for in a guy, especially on a swingers site that has now become littered with 40+'s. These small factors makes it very hard to get female attention.
So a call out to those that dont mind a guy looking different.
Here i am, come get me.
X
It is hard to offer criticism, positive or negative, since your profile does not reveal anything alternative about you.
Im looking for the alternative girls that are not of the same mind set to those that find my look a turn off.
Thought my point was clear.
I think a awful lot of girls on here like beards so having one shouldn't be holding you back
They aint as popular as id hope unfortunately.
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It may not be the beard and tattoos. Look at the whole package and not individual elements.
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
I'm often attracted to those that aren't generally considered to be conventionally good looking.
If I were browsing and found your profile, I wouldn't know from your pics or text that you had an 'alternative' look.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im not every girls cup of tea.
My tattoos and facial hair is not what the majority of women are looking for in a guy, especially on a swingers site that has now become littered with 40+'s. These small factors makes it very hard to get female attention.
So a call out to those that dont mind a guy looking different.
Here i am, come get me.
X
It is hard to offer criticism, positive or negative, since your profile does not reveal anything alternative about you.
Im looking for the alternative girls that are not of the same mind set to those that find my look a turn off.
Thought my point was clear.
I think a awful lot of girls on here like beards so having one shouldn't be holding you back
They aint as popular as id hope unfortunately.
It may not be the beard and tattoos. Look at the whole package and not individual elements.
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Im told im funny and i look good but its the beard.. i get that a lot.. a lot!!
Maybe a new site is required. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But you can't see the beard or tattoos on your pics so maybe people don't realise how alternative you are, some people look at pics before reading profiles. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"Im not every girls cup of tea.
My tattoos and facial hair is not what the majority of women are looking for in a guy, especially on a swingers site that has now become littered with 40+'s. These small factors makes it very hard to get female attention.
So a call out to those that dont mind a guy looking different.
Here i am, come get me.
X
It is hard to offer criticism, positive or negative, since your profile does not reveal anything alternative about you.
Im looking for the alternative girls that are not of the same mind set to those that find my look a turn off.
Thought my point was clear.
I think a awful lot of girls on here like beards so having one shouldn't be holding you back
They aint as popular as id hope unfortunately.
It may not be the beard and tattoos. Look at the whole package and not individual elements.
Im told im funny and i look good but its the beard.. i get that a lot.. a lot!!
Maybe a new site is required."
I think they are using your beard as an excuse. We have been on 18 months and only had one woman say she didn't like beards.....it might be something else they don't like but say your beard because it's easier than telling you no straight out? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm often attracted to those that aren't generally considered to be conventionally good looking.
If I were browsing and found your profile, I wouldn't know from your pics or text that you had an 'alternative' look.
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The only reference is my name as for me i just never saw it as a point to prove so to speak. But recently im thinking i may have to change site.
All i was trying to do is get.the awareness of females that like what i have and show a genuine interest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not every girls cup of tea.
My tattoos and facial hair is not what the majority of women are looking for in a guy, especially on a swingers site that has now become littered with 40+'s. These small factors makes it very hard to get female attention.
So a call out to those that dont mind a guy looking different.
Here i am, come get me.
X
It is hard to offer criticism, positive or negative, since your profile does not reveal anything alternative about you.
Im looking for the alternative girls that are not of the same mind set to those that find my look a turn off.
Thought my point was clear.
I think a awful lot of girls on here like beards so having one shouldn't be holding you back
They aint as popular as id hope unfortunately.
It may not be the beard and tattoos. Look at the whole package and not individual elements.
Im told im funny and i look good but its the beard.. i get that a lot.. a lot!!
Maybe a new site is required."
Or a Shave |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But you can't see the beard or tattoos on your pics so maybe people don't realise how alternative you are, some people look at pics before reading profiles."
True. |
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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago
Clacton-On-Sea, Essex |
Oh woe is me
Cry me a river sweetie pie, I like alternative things to some degree and you certainly ain't it - infact neediness and unimaginative moaning is exactly inline with 95% of the site lol |
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Ok, my tuppence worth. Your first line asks people to look beyond the facial hair, but they can't see it so how can they know if they like it or not?
I'd have a few more pics (varied shots) and I'd lose the P.S. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"I'm often attracted to those that aren't generally considered to be conventionally good looking.
If I were browsing and found your profile, I wouldn't know from your pics or text that you had an 'alternative' look.
The only reference is my name as for me i just never saw it as a point to prove so to speak. But recently im thinking i may have to change site.
All i was trying to do is get.the awareness of females that like what i have and show a genuine interest."
OK maybe what I wrote came across wrong. I didn't mean you have to prove it, just that those that like men like you, wouldn't know it from your profile. Therefore that might be why your not attracting them
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh woe is me
Cry me a river sweetie pie, I like alternative things to some degree and you certainly ain't it - infact neediness and unimaginative moaning is exactly inline with 95% of the site lol "
When some has the choice.. keep views to yourself or air them regardless. You clearly miss the mark when you know full well your just being very rude.
But im sure you get far in life with that.. u can see it at least gets you to the fridge and back on a very regular basis.
Hey look at that.. my bitching is inline with this site.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok, my tuppence worth. Your first line asks people to look beyond the facial hair, but they can't see it so how can they know if they like it or not?
I'd have a few more pics (varied shots) and I'd lose the P.S. "
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm often attracted to those that aren't generally considered to be conventionally good looking.
If I were browsing and found your profile, I wouldn't know from your pics or text that you had an 'alternative' look.
The only reference is my name as for me i just never saw it as a point to prove so to speak. But recently im thinking i may have to change site.
All i was trying to do is get.the awareness of females that like what i have and show a genuine interest."
Well, OP, you seem to have a point to prove but nothing at all to back it up. |
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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago
Clacton-On-Sea, Essex |
"Oh woe is me
Cry me a river sweetie pie, I like alternative things to some degree and you certainly ain't it - infact neediness and unimaginative moaning is exactly inline with 95% of the site lol
When some has the choice.. keep views to yourself or air them regardless. You clearly miss the mark when you know full well your just being very rude.
But im sure you get far in life with that.. u can see it at least gets you to the fridge and back on a very regular basis.
Hey look at that.. my bitching is inline with this site.
Good day"
Actually, It doesn't, hubby goes to the fridge for me |
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By *gNeMan
over a year ago
Harrogate |
"Constructive critisism. Lacking manners though."
Don't worry about the haters pal, nothing wrong with putting an advert on the forums for alternative girls into an alternative look. (Not convinced it'll actually get any results though lol)
People putting you down for attention seeking are being a bit hypocritical. As a single bloke this whole website is about shameless self promotion, you'll get nowhere otherwise.
I'd say there is a bit of a subculture for beards n tats, and it's growing in popularity. Agree with you though most young lasses in the mainstream are going for the pretty boy/metrosexual look. |
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By *gNeMan
over a year ago
Harrogate |
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Yet nearly everyone on this thread has said they are.....including me "
Maybe it's only the alternative types into beards who are attracted to the thread bearing in mind the title..? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Looks/beard/tattoos aside OP, reading this thread it's clear your attitude fucking stinks. Good luck, you will definitely need it! "
Seriously gun a man down.. what attitude? |
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By *gNeMan
over a year ago
Harrogate |
"Pah ! Beard and tats alternative ? Very very mainstream
Want to feel rare and only appeal to a handfull of very special passionate ladies then try long blond hair and genital piercings he he xx"
Are you Swedish by any chance..? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP - you have one cock pic, and one back+arse pic.. nothing in the slightest that screams 'alternative' to me.  "
You aint seen the hidden pics for friends only |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Constructive critisism. Lacking manners though.
Don't worry about the haters pal, nothing wrong with putting an advert on the forums for alternative girls into an alternative look. (Not convinced it'll actually get any results though lol)
People putting you down for attention seeking are being a bit hypocritical. As a single bloke this whole website is about shameless self promotion, you'll get nowhere otherwise.
I'd say there is a bit of a subculture for beards n tats, and it's growing in popularity. Agree with you though most young lasses in the mainstream are going for the pretty boy/metrosexual look. "
Finally common sense. Im being lynched here for nothing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP - you have one cock pic, and one back+arse pic.. nothing in the slightest that screams 'alternative' to me.
You aint seen the hidden pics for friends only"
That's cos no one has seen them |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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Yet nearly everyone on this thread has said they are.....including me
Maybe it's only the alternative types into beards who are attracted to the thread bearing in mind the title..?"
Do a thread search for beards and you will find hundreds if not thousands and very often veer towards beards.....yes people might be attracted to the thread title but the sheer volume of beard threads will show that a lot of people on here have them and discuss them positively. You could also look at some of the regular forumites who have beards and get meets with not much diffuculty |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yet nearly everyone on this thread has said they are.....including me
Maybe it's only the alternative types into beards who are attracted to the thread bearing in mind the title..?
Do a thread search for beards and you will find hundreds if not thousands and very often veer towards beards.....yes people might be attracted to the thread title but the sheer volume of beard threads will show that a lot of people on here have them and discuss them positively. You could also look at some of the regular forumites who have beards and get meets with not much diffuculty "
Thank you again. This is helpful. People seem to have a different approach and just use abuse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think anyone is everyone's cup of tea are they?
Hush my 40+ mouth and pay no attention to my tattoos.
V x"
Littered with 40+ this site is! *tut*  |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
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Yet nearly everyone on this thread has said they are.....including me
Maybe it's only the alternative types into beards who are attracted to the thread bearing in mind the title..?
Do a thread search for beards and you will find hundreds if not thousands and very often veer towards beards.....yes people might be attracted to the thread title but the sheer volume of beard threads will show that a lot of people on here have them and discuss them positively. You could also look at some of the regular forumites who have beards and get meets with not much diffuculty
Thank you again. This is helpful. People seem to have a different approach and just use abuse."
I am not abusive and won't ever be - it's not in me .....more pussycat than tiger |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not every girls cup of tea.
My tattoos and facial hair is not what the majority of women are looking for in a guy, especially on a swingers site that has now become littered with 40+'s. These small factors makes it very hard to get female attention.
So a call out to those that dont mind a guy looking different.
Here i am, come get me.
X"
If all other tick boxes are ticked, beard and tattoos are not the deal breaker. So do look beyond that.
If we did happen to be compatible, this thread would change my mind. You wrote well on your profile but here you have appeared to throw your toys out of the pram. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not every girls cup of tea.
My tattoos and facial hair is not what the majority of women are looking for in a guy, especially on a swingers site that has now become littered with 40+'s. These small factors makes it very hard to get female attention.
So a call out to those that dont mind a guy looking different.
Here i am, come get me.
X
If all other tick boxes are ticked, beard and tattoos are not the deal breaker. So do look beyond that.
If we did happen to be compatible, this thread would change my mind. You wrote well on your profile but here you have appeared to throw your toys out of the pram."
But he's being lynched here for nothing apparently?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think anyone is everyone's cup of tea are they?
Hush my 40+ mouth and pay no attention to my tattoos.
V x
Littered with 40+ this site is! *tut* "
yeah ...totally littered with old people tut tut tut |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im not every girls cup of tea.
My tattoos and facial hair is not what the majority of women are looking for in a guy, especially on a swingers site that has now become littered with 40+'s. These small factors makes it very hard to get female attention.
So a call out to those that dont mind a guy looking different.
Here i am, come get me.
X
If all other tick boxes are ticked, beard and tattoos are not the deal breaker. So do look beyond that.
If we did happen to be compatible, this thread would change my mind. You wrote well on your profile but here you have appeared to throw your toys out of the pram."
All i asked was for females who like my look to come get me thats all. Next im just abused and told things totally off the mark to what was essentially an ad for the right girl. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think anyone is everyone's cup of tea are they?
Hush my 40+ mouth and pay no attention to my tattoos.
V x
Littered with 40+ this site is! *tut*
yeah ...totally littered with old people tut tut tut "
I saw someone over 50 too. What's the world coming to?! |
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By *gNeMan
over a year ago
Harrogate |
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Yet nearly everyone on this thread has said they are.....including me
Maybe it's only the alternative types into beards who are attracted to the thread bearing in mind the title..?
Do a thread search for beards and you will find hundreds if not thousands and very often veer towards beards.....yes people might be attracted to the thread title but the sheer volume of beard threads will show that a lot of people on here have them and discuss them positively. You could also look at some of the regular forumites who have beards and get meets with not much diffuculty "
The demographic of forum users is very distinctive however. Beards are definitely not everyone's cup of tea.
All OP has done is put an advert out for those that do like it, which is partly what the forums are for. May come across a little whiny, but who cares. Some people love to hate though hey ho. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not every girls cup of tea.
My tattoos and facial hair is not what the majority of women are looking for in a guy, especially on a swingers site that has now become littered with 40+'s. These small factors makes it very hard to get female attention.
So a call out to those that dont mind a guy looking different.
Here i am, come get me.
X
If all other tick boxes are ticked, beard and tattoos are not the deal breaker. So do look beyond that.
If we did happen to be compatible, this thread would change my mind. You wrote well on your profile but here you have appeared to throw your toys out of the pram.
But he's being lynched here for nothing apparently?? "
His perception and his choice to rise above that very perception, if he understands it can be wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP - you have one cock pic, and one back+arse pic.. nothing in the slightest that screams 'alternative' to me.
You aint seen the hidden pics for friends only"
That might well be your issue. You are being crucified because your profile indicates nothing alternative about you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP - you have one cock pic, and one back+arse pic.. nothing in the slightest that screams 'alternative' to me.
You aint seen the hidden pics for friends only
That might well be your issue. You are being crucified because your profile indicates nothing alternative about you."
How has this come round to me being alternative? |
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over a year ago
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"Im not every girls cup of tea.
My tattoos and facial hair is not what the majority of women are looking for in a guy, especially on a swingers site that has now become littered with 40+'s. These small factors makes it very hard to get female attention.
So a call out to those that dont mind a guy looking different.
Here i am, come get me.
X
If all other tick boxes are ticked, beard and tattoos are not the deal breaker. So do look beyond that.
If we did happen to be compatible, this thread would change my mind. You wrote well on your profile but here you have appeared to throw your toys out of the pram.
But he's being lynched here for nothing apparently?? "
OP is being lynched for ....
1. Saying he is alternative when no one can see this and indeed I myself have said its never been so popular to have tats and a beard.
2. The site is Littered with 40 plus people....who is going to get rid of the litter around here? |
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By *gNeMan
over a year ago
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"Constructive critisism. Lacking manners though.
Don't worry about the haters pal, nothing wrong with putting an advert on the forums for alternative girls into an alternative look. (Not convinced it'll actually get any results though lol)
People putting you down for attention seeking are being a bit hypocritical. As a single bloke this whole website is about shameless self promotion, you'll get nowhere otherwise.
I'd say there is a bit of a subculture for beards n tats, and it's growing in popularity. Agree with you though most young lasses in the mainstream are going for the pretty boy/metrosexual look.
Finally common sense. Im being lynched here for nothing.
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Basically most seem disgruntled at the 40+ comment.
Instead of clicking off the thread, they feel affronted and need to reply for their own ego's sake. They get encouraged when more join in. It's like playground bullying really. Ignore it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im not every girls cup of tea.
My tattoos and facial hair is not what the majority of women are looking for in a guy, especially on a swingers site that has now become littered with 40+'s. These small factors makes it very hard to get female attention.
So a call out to those that dont mind a guy looking different.
Here i am, come get me.
X
If all other tick boxes are ticked, beard and tattoos are not the deal breaker. So do look beyond that.
If we did happen to be compatible, this thread would change my mind. You wrote well on your profile but here you have appeared to throw your toys out of the pram.
But he's being lynched here for nothing apparently??
OP is being lynched for ....
1. Saying he is alternative when no one can see this and indeed I myself have said its never been so popular to have tats and a beard.
2. The site is Littered with 40 plus people....who is going to get rid of the litter around here?"
Never said i was alternative |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not every girls cup of tea.
My tattoos and facial hair is not what the majority of women are looking for in a guy, especially on a swingers site that has now become littered with 40+'s. These small factors makes it very hard to get female attention.
So a call out to those that dont mind a guy looking different.
Here i am, come get me.
X
If all other tick boxes are ticked, beard and tattoos are not the deal breaker. So do look beyond that.
If we did happen to be compatible, this thread would change my mind. You wrote well on your profile but here you have appeared to throw your toys out of the pram.
All i asked was for females who like my look to come get me thats all. Next im just abused and told things totally off the mark to what was essentially an ad for the right girl."
Nothing wrong with an ad, however, many have pointed out that your look is becoming pretty much mainstream. Therefore it's probably not (just) the look which is problematic.
If you feel insulted, ignore your immediate reaction and rise above it. A great deal of posts which may be seen negatively, is sarcasm/banter. |
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By *gNeMan
over a year ago
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"Im not every girls cup of tea.
My tattoos and facial hair is not what the majority of women are looking for in a guy, especially on a swingers site that has now become littered with 40+'s. These small factors makes it very hard to get female attention.
So a call out to those that dont mind a guy looking different.
Here i am, come get me.
X
If all other tick boxes are ticked, beard and tattoos are not the deal breaker. So do look beyond that.
If we did happen to be compatible, this thread would change my mind. You wrote well on your profile but here you have appeared to throw your toys out of the pram.
But he's being lynched here for nothing apparently??
OP is being lynched for ....
1. Saying he is alternative when no one can see this and indeed I myself have said its never been so popular to have tats and a beard.
2. The site is Littered with 40 plus people....who is going to get rid of the litter around here?"
Read number one back to yourself. Valid reason for lynching..?
Number 2 (unless my eyes deceive me) wasn't written anywhere. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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Yet nearly everyone on this thread has said they are.....including me
Maybe it's only the alternative types into beards who are attracted to the thread bearing in mind the title..?
Do a thread search for beards and you will find hundreds if not thousands and very often veer towards beards.....yes people might be attracted to the thread title but the sheer volume of beard threads will show that a lot of people on here have them and discuss them positively. You could also look at some of the regular forumites who have beards and get meets with not much diffuculty
The demographic of forum users is very distinctive however. Beards are definitely not everyone's cup of tea.
All OP has done is put an advert out for those that do like it, which is partly what the forums are for. May come across a little whiny, but who cares. Some people love to hate though hey ho. "
No beards are not everyone's cup of tea but plenty on here with them are successful. So if the OP is struggling then maybe, as others have suggested, it might be his general demeanor or some other aspect of his profile rather than that particular physical attribute that is hurting his chances.
I find it very odd that he has not found fault with my suggestions, advice and attempts to help yet you have..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP - you have one cock pic, and one back+arse pic.. nothing in the slightest that screams 'alternative' to me.
You aint seen the hidden pics for friends only
That might well be your issue. You are being crucified because your profile indicates nothing alternative about you.
How has this come round to me being alternative?"
I took your forum post asking for a alternative girl, to mean that you were a alternative guy, ie different to the rest. IMHO |
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over a year ago
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"Im not every girls cup of tea.
My tattoos and facial hair is not what the majority of women are looking for in a guy, especially on a swingers site that has now become littered with 40+'s. These small factors makes it very hard to get female attention.
So a call out to those that dont mind a guy looking different.
Here i am, come get me.
X
If all other tick boxes are ticked, beard and tattoos are not the deal breaker. So do look beyond that.
If we did happen to be compatible, this thread would change my mind. You wrote well on your profile but here you have appeared to throw your toys out of the pram.
But he's being lynched here for nothing apparently??
OP is being lynched for ....
1. Saying he is alternative when no one can see this and indeed I myself have said its never been so popular to have tats and a beard.
2. The site is Littered with 40 plus people....who is going to get rid of the litter around here?
Never said i was alternative"
You did say "different." Retract it if you like. |
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By *gNeMan
over a year ago
Harrogate |
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Yet nearly everyone on this thread has said they are.....including me
Maybe it's only the alternative types into beards who are attracted to the thread bearing in mind the title..?
Do a thread search for beards and you will find hundreds if not thousands and very often veer towards beards.....yes people might be attracted to the thread title but the sheer volume of beard threads will show that a lot of people on here have them and discuss them positively. You could also look at some of the regular forumites who have beards and get meets with not much diffuculty
The demographic of forum users is very distinctive however. Beards are definitely not everyone's cup of tea.
All OP has done is put an advert out for those that do like it, which is partly what the forums are for. May come across a little whiny, but who cares. Some people love to hate though hey ho.
No beards are not everyone's cup of tea but plenty on here with them are successful. So if the OP is struggling then maybe, as others have suggested, it might be his general demeanor or some other aspect of his profile rather than that particular physical attribute that is hurting his chances.
I find it very odd that he has not found fault with my suggestions, advice and attempts to help yet you have....."
Odd indeed. Who says I have found fault?
I can find a very obvious fault.. the OP didn't ask for suggestions as to what his potential flaws were, little presumptuous to just go ahead anyway. |
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over a year ago
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Yet nearly everyone on this thread has said they are.....including me
Maybe it's only the alternative types into beards who are attracted to the thread bearing in mind the title..?
Do a thread search for beards and you will find hundreds if not thousands and very often veer towards beards.....yes people might be attracted to the thread title but the sheer volume of beard threads will show that a lot of people on here have them and discuss them positively. You could also look at some of the regular forumites who have beards and get meets with not much diffuculty
The demographic of forum users is very distinctive however. Beards are definitely not everyone's cup of tea.
All OP has done is put an advert out for those that do like it, which is partly what the forums are for. May come across a little whiny, but who cares. Some people love to hate though hey ho.
No beards are not everyone's cup of tea but plenty on here with them are successful. So if the OP is struggling then maybe, as others have suggested, it might be his general demeanor or some other aspect of his profile rather than that particular physical attribute that is hurting his chances.
I find it very odd that he has not found fault with my suggestions, advice and attempts to help yet you have.....
Odd indeed. Who says I have found fault?
I can find a very obvious fault.. the OP didn't ask for suggestions as to what his potential flaws were, little presumptuous to just go ahead anyway. "
Presumptuous or helpful? Why go with the negative labelling? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lets put this to bed now folks. I set out to find females that would go for my look, that is all. In the end it turned into a complete balls up.
Thanks to those that supported and were actually helpful
Happy swinging x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The OP is looking for alternative women.
NOT that he is alt himself.
THANK YOU
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Point taken but His last sentence says he is different and it has been construed as alternative
although we cant see a beard or tats.
But what about the littering ...does littering mean rubbish?
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By *gNeMan
over a year ago
Harrogate |
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Yet nearly everyone on this thread has said they are.....including me
Maybe it's only the alternative types into beards who are attracted to the thread bearing in mind the title..?
Do a thread search for beards and you will find hundreds if not thousands and very often veer towards beards.....yes people might be attracted to the thread title but the sheer volume of beard threads will show that a lot of people on here have them and discuss them positively. You could also look at some of the regular forumites who have beards and get meets with not much diffuculty
The demographic of forum users is very distinctive however. Beards are definitely not everyone's cup of tea.
All OP has done is put an advert out for those that do like it, which is partly what the forums are for. May come across a little whiny, but who cares. Some people love to hate though hey ho.
No beards are not everyone's cup of tea but plenty on here with them are successful. So if the OP is struggling then maybe, as others have suggested, it might be his general demeanor or some other aspect of his profile rather than that particular physical attribute that is hurting his chances.
I find it very odd that he has not found fault with my suggestions, advice and attempts to help yet you have.....
Odd indeed. Who says I have found fault?
I can find a very obvious fault.. the OP didn't ask for suggestions as to what his potential flaws were, little presumptuous to just go ahead anyway.
Presumptuous or helpful? Why go with the negative labelling?"
Read what the two words mean, then apply them to the situation. I can't be arsed with this bickering anyway, have fun.
Good luck OP. |
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over a year ago
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"The OP is looking for alternative women.
NOT that he is alt himself.
THANK YOU
Point taken but His last sentence says he is different and it has been construed as alternative
although we cant see a beard or tats.
But what about the littering ...does littering mean rubbish?
"
Take it as scattered. I'm 40+ and I'm fabtastic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yet nearly everyone on this thread has said they are.....including me
Maybe it's only the alternative types into beards who are attracted to the thread bearing in mind the title..?
Do a thread search for beards and you will find hundreds if not thousands and very often veer towards beards.....yes people might be attracted to the thread title but the sheer volume of beard threads will show that a lot of people on here have them and discuss them positively. You could also look at some of the regular forumites who have beards and get meets with not much diffuculty
The demographic of forum users is very distinctive however. Beards are definitely not everyone's cup of tea.
All OP has done is put an advert out for those that do like it, which is partly what the forums are for. May come across a little whiny, but who cares. Some people love to hate though hey ho.
No beards are not everyone's cup of tea but plenty on here with them are successful. So if the OP is struggling then maybe, as others have suggested, it might be his general demeanor or some other aspect of his profile rather than that particular physical attribute that is hurting his chances.
I find it very odd that he has not found fault with my suggestions, advice and attempts to help yet you have.....
Odd indeed. Who says I have found fault?
I can find a very obvious fault.. the OP didn't ask for suggestions as to what his potential flaws were, little presumptuous to just go ahead anyway.
Presumptuous or helpful? Why go with the negative labelling?
Read what the two words mean, then apply them to the situation. I can't be arsed with this bickering anyway, have fun.
Good luck OP. "
Apologies but the context was negative. Poor choice of words on my behalf.
As for bickering, are we, or is it just perception?  |
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over a year ago
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"Im not every girls cup of tea.
My tattoos and facial hair is not what the majority of women are looking for in a guy, especially on a swingers site that has now become littered with 40+'s. These small factors makes it very hard to get female attention.
So a call out to those that dont mind a guy looking different.
Here i am, come get me.
X
If all other tick boxes are ticked, beard and tattoos are not the deal breaker. So do look beyond that.
If we did happen to be compatible, this thread would change my mind. You wrote well on your profile but here you have appeared to throw your toys out of the pram.
But he's being lynched here for nothing apparently??
OP is being lynched for ....
1. Saying he is alternative when no one can see this and indeed I myself have said its never been so popular to have tats and a beard.
2. The site is Littered with 40 plus people....who is going to get rid of the litter around here?"
I was being sarcastic |
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"Im not every girls cup of tea.
My tattoos and facial hair is not what the majority of women are looking for in a guy, especially on a swingers site that has now become littered with 40+'s. These small factors makes it very hard to get female attention.
So a call out to those that dont mind a guy looking different.
Here i am, come get me.
X"
Littered ? Littered with 40+'s ...... What is that supposed to mean.
Did you mean Blessed? |
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"Im not every girls cup of tea.
My tattoos and facial hair is not what the majority of women are looking for in a guy, especially on a swingers site that has now become littered with 40+'s. These small factors makes it very hard to get female attention.
So a call out to those that dont mind a guy looking different.
Here i am, come get me.
X"
Personally speaking I love alternative looking guys, love long haired, pierced, heavily tattooed guys, facial hair can look hot on the right look, Zakk Wylde for instance, but as I'm approaching the 40+ brigade I don't suppose my opinion matter
But any guys who do fit this image who don't mind a woman with a few miles on the clock my inbox is open |
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"Im not every girls cup of tea.
My tattoos and facial hair is not what the majority of women are looking for in a guy, especially on a swingers site that has now become littered with 40+'s. These small factors makes it very hard to get female attention.
So a call out to those that dont mind a guy looking different.
Here i am, come get me.
X"
if only u lived in ireland
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Look at me look at me!
If you're gonna post a pointless thread claiming to be so alternative to what girls like despite the fact that beards and tattoos are very trendy right now, at least upload some pictures for us to look at haha
No-one wants to see the beard on your cock lol"
And this is why I don't post on the forum much now 
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"Im not every girls cup of tea.
My tattoos and facial hair is not what the majority of women are looking for in a guy, especially on a swingers site that has now become littered with 40+'s. These small factors makes it very hard to get female attention.
So a call out to those that dont mind a guy looking different.
Here i am, come get me.
X"
Can't even see any tattoos in any of your pics so you can't have that many |
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