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All i want to do is Pleasure
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely not! I'm with you 100%, my pleasure comes from unselfishly focussing on and indulging a lady and ensuring the pleasure is all hers!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am the same my pleasure comes from giving pleasure otherwise what's the point.
I dont understand men that use prostitutes thats something I could never do its just for your own sexual gratification and money a real turn off for me |
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"I am the same my pleasure comes from giving pleasure otherwise what's the point.
I dont understand men that use prostitutes thats something I could never do its just for your own sexual gratification and money a real turn off for me "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"is it wrong that i enjoy giving pleasure alot more then receiving it?"
I often wonder what the thinking is behind posts like this. If you're trying to tell people that you're a considerate and generous sex partner then why not just SAY it instead of pretending you think it's 'wrong' somehow and expecting people to fawn over you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"is it wrong that i enjoy giving pleasure alot more then receiving it?
I often wonder what the thinking is behind posts like this. If you're trying to tell people that you're a considerate and generous sex partner then why not just SAY it instead of pretending you think it's 'wrong' somehow and expecting people to fawn over you?"
Hear hear |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"is it wrong that i enjoy giving pleasure alot more then receiving it?
I often wonder what the thinking is behind posts like this. If you're trying to tell people that you're a considerate and generous sex partner then why not just SAY it instead of pretending you think it's 'wrong' somehow and expecting people to fawn over you?"
Plenty of people on here guilty of that on a daily basis.
How about, for example, he sees hundreds of comments a day reinforcing the stereotypes that "men fuck women" "men love blowjobs". And he has found that he prefers giving oral than receiving and finds it strange that he doesn't fit into that stereotype? |
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"is it wrong that i enjoy giving pleasure alot more then receiving it?"
No it isn't wrong. You receive pleasure from giving its no worse or better than receiving pleasure from getting a blow job.....it's your thing.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"is it wrong that i enjoy giving pleasure alot more then receiving it?
I often wonder what the thinking is behind posts like this. If you're trying to tell people that you're a considerate and generous sex partner then why not just SAY it instead of pretending you think it's 'wrong' somehow and expecting people to fawn over you?"
The transparency is strong in this thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"is it wrong that i enjoy giving pleasure alot more then receiving it?
I often wonder what the thinking is behind posts like this. If you're trying to tell people that you're a considerate and generous sex partner then why not just SAY it instead of pretending you think it's 'wrong' somehow and expecting people to fawn over you?
The transparency is strong in this thread. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The transparency is strong in this thread. "
Hehe..yeah, it was a bit naff "oh agony agony..if only I didn't like giving pleasure so much, then maybe all the girls would just leave me alone!"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I often thought of meeting someone who said that and saw if it was true if they really didnt want their cock sucked or sex "
oh..um..yeah, ask I want to do is give pleasure.. yep. . 100% !
..how's that jaqs? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I often thought of meeting someone who said that and saw if it was true if they really didnt want their cock sucked or sex
oh..um..yeah, ask I want to do is give pleasure.. yep. . 100% !
..how's that jaqs? "
Ok so u would kiss me pleasure me and then after i have cum a few times u would get up get dressed and go? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I often thought of meeting someone who said that and saw if it was true if they really didnt want their cock sucked or sex
oh..um..yeah, ask I want to do is give pleasure.. yep. . 100% !
..how's that jaqs?
Ok so u would kiss me pleasure me and then after i have cum a few times u would get up get dressed and go?"
I've done that. Seriously. Pre agreed and it worked for us both! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok so u would kiss me pleasure me and then after i have cum a few times u would get up get dressed and go?"
I can't lie!! nope.. I'd be kinda hoping you'd climb on top too.. lol  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok so u would kiss me pleasure me and then after i have cum a few times u would get up get dressed and go?
I can't lie!! nope.. I'd be kinda hoping you'd climb on top too.. lol x"
so no then you cant do it
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's amazing how many men love giving pleasure until you meet them then it's all blow jobs and shags 
my kinda thought
Sometimes my thought too!!!! "
well seems us ladies have it sussed @_  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's amazing how many men love giving pleasure until you meet them then it's all blow jobs and shags
my kinda thought
Sometimes my thought too!!!!
well seems us ladies have it sussed @_ "
Some woman are just as bad  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's amazing how many men love giving pleasure until you meet them then it's all blow jobs and shags
my kinda thought
Sometimes my thought too!!!!
well seems us ladies have it sussed @_
Some woman are just as bad "
Don't meet women so can't comment on that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's amazing how many men love giving pleasure until you meet them then it's all blow jobs and shags
my kinda thought
Sometimes my thought too!!!!
well seems us ladies have it sussed @_
Some woman are just as bad "
ifi meet someone social its a good start that means i like them and if its mutual i will follow it through |
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Lets face it, an enthusiastic and happy partner you have totally pleasured is a fantastic feeling, even if you've done very little. There surely can't be a bigger turn off that being with someone who isn't getting pleasure. I mean--what's the point? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lets face it, an enthusiastic and happy partner you have totally pleasured is a fantastic feeling, even if you've done very little. There surely can't be a bigger turn off that being with someone who isn't getting pleasure. I mean--what's the point?"
no i agree i prefer meets without that as i love sex and penetration more than oral at times
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wish that I could find somebody who liked to give me pleasure...
The pleasure that I want is to have my bathroom scrubbed, and then the oven cleaned - and then my car washed - and the roof fixing - oh, and the garden wall at the back rebuilt...
Why does nobody ever offer to do it? All I get on are people wanting to give me sex...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wish that I could find somebody who liked to give me pleasure...
The pleasure that I want is to have my bathroom scrubbed, and then the oven cleaned - and then my car washed - and the roof fixing - oh, and the garden wall at the back rebuilt...
Why does nobody ever offer to do it? All I get on are people wanting to give me sex...
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I think you're looking for Fabhandyman.com? |
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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago
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"I wish that I could find somebody who liked to give me pleasure...
The pleasure that I want is to have my bathroom scrubbed, and then the oven cleaned - and then my car washed - and the roof fixing - oh, and the garden wall at the back rebuilt...
Why does nobody ever offer to do it? All I get on are people wanting to give me sex...
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You're from Caernarfon - If people think you live in the castle then that garden wall repair sounds a bit daunting |
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By *hooWoman
over a year ago
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"I wish that I could find somebody who liked to give me pleasure...
The pleasure that I want is to have my bathroom scrubbed, and then the oven cleaned - and then my car washed - and the roof fixing - oh, and the garden wall at the back rebuilt...
Why does nobody ever offer to do it? All I get on are people wanting to give me sex...
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And then get down on his knees once he has done all of the above and show his gratitude for being allowed to to do all of the above |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually find that a guy who says it's all about the woman's pleasure a turn off if I'm honest, for me it's mutual
It puts far too much pressure on me to 'perform' and 'orgasm spectacularly' when they are fumbling about down there and lets face it lots of guys think they are amazing and they are not
It's also a turn off if I've got to give them instructions tbh
For me I like a man who is confident and is happy to take from me and push me, make me beg and dish out a little correction
Saying that there has to be a connection and some decent conversation to get to that point |
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"It puts far too much pressure on me to 'perform' and 'orgasm spectacularly' when they are fumbling about down there and lets face it lots of guys think they are amazing and they are not
It's also a turn off if I've got to give them instructions tbh
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Are you assuming that giving pleasure is a submissive activity that requires direction? That would never work for me - not a sub bone in my body. Pleasuring is all about putting experience into practice, spotting what works and taking full advantage of it. |
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