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over a year ago
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Here is a question I've pondered for awhile i like to read peoplepeople's vveris mainly cos I'm a nosy twat lol but why do people hide there veris n just show the summery
Its not like I've ever read a bad one x |
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"Here is a question I've pondered for awhile i like to read peoplepeople's vveris mainly cos I'm a nosy twat lol but why do people hide there veris n just show the summery
Its not like I've ever read a bad one x "
I dont kiss n tell... Who i meet is private. |
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If it's someone you genuinely want to meet you can ask to see it.
I keep many of mine private, some are more than three years old, many social ones from people I wouldn't meet for play, some say things I prefer to keep private (like my name) others I'm not keen on, some I like so much I want to keep just for myself. There are lots of reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If it's someone you genuinely want to meet you can ask to see it.
I keep many of mine private, some are more than three years old, many social ones from people I wouldn't meet for play, some say things I prefer to keep private (like my name) others I'm not keen on, some I like so much I want to keep just for myself. There are lots of reasons."
Mmm ok cool x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Here is a question I've pondered for awhile i like to read peoplepeople's vveris mainly cos I'm a nosy twat lol but why do people hide there veris n just show the summery
Its not like I've ever read a bad one x "
It feels a bit invasive to me. I don't need other people writing on my profile about how awesome my oral technique is, or how I have lots of orgasms. That's a little too personal. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
They might have veris from people they don't want others to know they meet (men meeting men, TVs etc, maybe they've met a women with loads of veris and don't want to be judged by others).
Or, if they only have a few, the verifiers may have left the site. It leaves the tick and entry on the summary, but the veri disappears. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"They might have veris from people they don't want others to know they meet (men meeting men, TVs etc, maybe they've met a women with loads of veris and don't want to be judged by others).
Or, if they only have a few, the verifiers may have left the site. It leaves the tick and entry on the summary, but the veri disappears."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't see the point in displaying any but recent ones. Plus I once went on cam (which is out of character) and woke up to a load of cam veris, which doesn't reflect my general Fab usage."
Same. Messing about on cam instantly gives you a load of veris.
Which is fine, but I don't need to publish a load of veris that say 'great tits'. |
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"Here is a question I've pondered for awhile i like to read peoplepeople's vveris mainly cos I'm a nosy twat lol but why do people hide there veris n just show the summery
Its not like I've ever read a bad one x "
I've got bad veris. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Here is a question I've pondered for awhile i like to read peoplepeople's vveris mainly cos I'm a nosy twat lol but why do people hide there veris n just show the summery
Its not like I've ever read a bad one x
I've got bad veris. "
 miserable that is i think its politer not too leave one x |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
I used to show my latest 5 or 6 but a very odd man thought it would be a good idea to message the people I had met and pretending we were friends try to worm his way into them - they are now hidden  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't see the point in displaying any but recent ones. Plus I once went on cam (which is out of character) and woke up to a load of cam veris, which doesn't reflect my general Fab usage.
Same. Messing about on cam instantly gives you a load of veris.
Which is fine, but I don't need to publish a load of veris that say 'great tits'."
Yea didn't think about cams or clubs x's |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Here is a question I've pondered for awhile i like to read peoplepeople's vveris mainly cos I'm a nosy twat lol but why do people hide there veris n just show the summery
Its not like I've ever read a bad one x
I've got bad veris.
miserable that is i think its politer not too leave one x"
Just a heads up - don't believe everything Brightonsteve says  . He's a very bad man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to show my latest 5 or 6 but a very odd man thought it would be a good idea to message the people I had met and pretending we were friends try to worm his way into them - they are now hidden "
grr not good x |
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"Here is a question I've pondered for awhile i like to read peoplepeople's vveris mainly cos I'm a nosy twat lol but why do people hide there veris n just show the summery
Its not like I've ever read a bad one x
I've got bad veris.
miserable that is i think its politer not
too leave one x"
She said I was a shit shag!! Outrageous!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Here is a question I've pondered for awhile i like to read peoplepeople's vveris mainly cos I'm a nosy twat lol but why do people hide there veris n just show the summery
Its not like I've ever read a bad one x
I've got bad veris.
miserable that is i think its politer not too leave one x
Just a heads up - don't believe everything Brightonsteve says . He's a very bad man."
Is he? Oh dear best avoiding him then  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Here is a question I've pondered for awhile i like to read peoplepeople's vveris mainly cos I'm a nosy twat lol but why do people hide there veris n just show the summery
Its not like I've ever read a bad one x
I've got bad veris.
miserable that is i think its politer not
too leave one x
She said I was a shit shag!! Outrageous! "
You'll be getting a couple more if you don't behave. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I used to show my latest 5 or 6 but a very odd man thought it would be a good idea to message the people I had met and pretending we were friends try to worm his way into them - they are now hidden grr not good x"
That's terrible! |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"I used to show my latest 5 or 6 but a very odd man thought it would be a good idea to message the people I had met and pretending we were friends try to worm his way into them - they are now hidden grr not good x
That's terrible! "
I know....I felt embarrassed even though I had never met him or even noticed him...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to show my latest 5 or 6 but a very odd man thought it would be a good idea to message the people I had met and pretending we were friends try to worm his way into them - they are now hidden grr not good x
That's terrible!
I know....I felt embarrassed even though I had never met him or even noticed him...... "
aww its not your fault....theres some very strange people around x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Here is a question I've pondered for awhile i like to read peoplepeople's vveris mainly cos I'm a nosy twat lol but why do people hide there veris n just show the summery
Its not like I've ever read a bad one x
I dont kiss n tell... Who i meet is private."
This. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Here is a question I've pondered for awhile i like to read peoplepeople's vveris mainly cos I'm a nosy twat lol but why do people hide there veris n just show the summery
Its not like I've ever read a bad one x
It feels a bit invasive to me. I don't need other people writing on my profile about how awesome my oral technique is, or how I have lots of orgasms. That's a little too personal."
And this.
Although a lot of guys seem to like my veri that says I can "suck a cock inside out" ffs.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ours are hidden due to a certain nutty serial profile creator who likes to contact people you've met and harrass them...its all very sad that she has nothing better to do all day than cause trouble, but its better to be cautious and avoid her causing others that hassle |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ours are hidden due to a certain nutty serial profile creator who likes to contact people you've met and harrass them...its all very sad that she has nothing better to do all day than cause trouble, but its better to be cautious and avoid her causing others that hassle"
excuse me
I am NOT a She.... Biaaaatch
Senorita Gimp |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ours are hidden due to a certain nutty serial profile creator who likes to contact people you've met and harrass them...its all very sad that she has nothing better to do all day than cause trouble, but its better to be cautious and avoid her causing others that hassle excuse me
I am NOT a She.... Biaaaatch
Senorita Gimp"
One day Gimpella im gonna make you MY bitch for a few hours |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got called a fake profile specifically set up to troll the forums yesterday  and part of their rationale was that I hide my veris
For me, it's no one else's business who I meet. And when I did display them when I first joined I got sick of the "oh I see you've met x, why won't you meet me" type messages, and people messaging those I'd met to ask about me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Here is a question I've pondered for awhile i like to read peoplepeople's vveris mainly cos I'm a nosy twat lol but why do people hide there veris n just show the summery
Its not like I've ever read a bad one x "
i hide mine as its my business who i meet and not anyone elses  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not saying i don't like the profiles I'm just simply asking the reasoning behind why people choose to show their veris or not "
We only show some of ours because we have way too many to display them all .
If we display our summary we get judged so keep that hidden .
Most of the time we don't really mind the snide comments but now and again it pisses us off so it's easier not to .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we always showed some of our veris - at least one from a fem , a couple, a club etc - but we had issues with someone so we have hidden them for now - kept the summary on show as no names showing there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not saying i don't like the profiles I'm just simply asking the reasoning behind why people choose to show their veris or not
We only show some of ours because we have way too many to display them all .
If we display our summary we get judged so keep that hidden .
Most of the time we don't really mind the snide comments but now and again it pisses us off so it's easier not to .
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I love that I get judged for my 'summary'. The reactions say it all about the person... and whether I want to meet them or not.  x |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"I also get ingruiged by all the men who look at my profile on a reg basis but don't message wots that all about please xxxxx "
Maybe they dont fit what you are looking for or like perving yr pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have mine hidden. I prefer not to advertise my "wares" so to speak. I've read some horrendous verifications on other profiles and that turned me off from contacting.
The way I see it is, if we were in a pup/restaurant would you appreciate me saying to you " I love your pum pum /pussy and I love how tite it was" or "she cud give heads like a pro."
You would be horrified and insulted yet a lot of persons use those to advertise themselves.
Not many would agree with me but privacy is a must. You don't need to advertise especially when the ads are less than flattering.
(My thoughts on why I have mine private) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I also get ingruiged by all the men who look at my profile on a reg basis but don't message wots that all about please xxxxx
Maybe they dont fit what you are looking for or like perving yr pics."
Dirty buggers |
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I think its also because in certain circles there are people who follow others around, ie met people they have met. I dint mind showing mine, but copy and paste the text into my main profile text in some cases. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I like what has been written about me, I have nothing to hide. I don't care what others think of them. I think if someone has gone to the trouble of writing one then why not display them? If anyone is offended then they need not bother themselves with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Here is a question I've pondered for awhile i like to read peoplepeople's vveris mainly cos I'm a nosy twat lol but why do people hide there veris n just show the summery
Its not like I've ever read a bad one x "
I feel that my verifications were written for me. People can see I'm verified. That's enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I dint mind showing mine, but copy and paste the text into my main profile text in some cases. "
You could just make up a load of bogus veri's and people would think they were real..... |
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Of course, but I don't necessarily want everyone to know who wrote them and if an individual wanted proof they could ask me and I could cut and paste them into a message and they could then check my verification on that persons profile to check we had met. I mean if they had that amount of time on their hands. Some veris are clearly ridiculous and made up though, so I think they all need to be taken with a pinch of salt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Of course, but I don't necessarily want everyone to know who wrote them and if an individual wanted proof they could ask me and I could cut and paste them into a message and they could then check my verification on that persons profile to check we had met. I mean if they had that amount of time on their hands. Some veris are clearly ridiculous and made up though, so I think they all need to be taken with a pinch of salt. "
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