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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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this is not a rant its just a genuine question i think i need to put out there to try and get some answers can anyone help
why is it that single males can send out 100s of messages to couples and single women and not even get any replys or the message dont even get read what are us guys doing rong would be greatfull for some feedback
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Perhaps because you have been on this site for over a year, but cannot be bothered to expand on your profile
How many 100 messages have you sent out
How does it relate to the effort put into your profile |
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By *ig badMan
over a year ago
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"this is not a rant its just a genuine question i think i need to put out there to try and get some answers can anyone help
why is it that single males can send out 100s of messages to couples and single women and not even get any replys or the message dont even get read what are us guys doing rong would be greatfull for some feedback
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1/Primarily your message isn't attracting people by the looks of it. You will always get deleters but i suspect is your sending out 100's they are all the same or similar.
2/your profile is near non existent dude. One line, 3 similar pictures. You need to sell your self better.
The is a saying goes.."to catch fish you need the right tackle and fresh bait"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is purely about statistics, so many single blokes and not enough single females or couples to match the demand. Suggest bring out your USP (unique selling point) , stand out from the crowd and be different in a nice, non pushy and confident sexy way - and you will succeed
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
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why is it that single males can send out 100s of messages to couples and single women and not even get any replys or the message dont even get read what are us guys doing rong would be greatfull for some feedback x"
This guy is doing nothing wrong and is quite happy with what I get out of being here!
But as for what you are doing wrong - I have no idea as I am not you!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"By 'single males' you mean YOU.....or are you speaking for all single males on here?"
Not me
Only thing missing off this thread is the ......
'this is not a rant' ....BUT....
I'm still relativly new on here compared to the OP & other 'single males with problembs' writers & I just don't get it. Never had any issues with any of the usual 'I'm a single male' moans (except having a meet not turn up & we can all remember that moan I had lol) no Adonis or or stud muffin just me! To the OP tell people who YOU are - be honest with what you say, be polite, do your reading & treat the people you message with respect & adoration.
Bloody hell man is harder trying to meet someone in a bar where you've got body language & non verbal communication to get right - all you have to do here is write & introduce yourself - If you can't get that right then maybe that's why people don't want to know you.
Remember you NEVER get a second chance to make a first impression!
Good luck with your quest for fun & hope you find something?? To go with your not fussy anything!
BTW people aren't things. hint in there somewhere I think DOH!
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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so when is a rant not a rant....hmmmmmm
as others have said you get out what you put in ... if one line is the amount of effort you put in... well what did you expect.....
ok... simple question for you.... knowing what you know, and knowing the amount of people out there... would you answer back to your own profile?????
there is ya answer! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whether its a rant on not you will find that the fairer sex on here does not have to chance or for that matter reply. Unless you can provide more than the competition you will be invariable piped to the post and miss out on the chance to unload your loins. |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"this is not a rant its just a genuine question i think i need to put out there to try and get some answers can anyone help
why is it that single males can send out 100s of messages to couples and single women and not even get any replys or the message dont even get read what are us guys doing rong would be greatfull for some feedback
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If sending hundreds of messages got no response, try sending no messages. You'll be inundated...
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Nothing in your profile that would make me want to reply to a message.
First thing I do when I get a message is look at the profile, if no information message deleted.
And I don't think I am the only woman to do this.
Your not selling yourself at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Here is a rant:
Why oh why do i get messages from single guys with nothing on their profile and then they wonder why messages get deleted without reading!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here is a rant:
Why oh why do i get messages from single guys with nothing on their profile and then they wonder why messages get deleted without reading!!! "
I am in total agreement with you on that. If a man can't make an effort with his profile it there is no draw to make you contact them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing in your profile that would make me want to reply to a message.
First thing I do when I get a message is look at the profile, if no information message deleted.
And I don't think I am the only woman to do this."
No, you're not: I do that too! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"I love it when good advice is given and then simply ignored! Why bother asking in the first place! Z"
maybe we weren't sympathetic enough for him...... but I think if the grand some of effort on a profile is 6 poultry words... if deserves what it gets.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing in your profile that would make me want to reply to a message.
First thing I do when I get a message is look at the profile, if no information message deleted.
And I don't think I am the only woman to do this.
No, you're not: I do that too!"
Me too. When I get a message I read the profile, if the profile doesn't grab my interest then I dont bother replying. If the person doesn't fit my requirements then i delete and if its a one line message I am unlikely to reply either unless the profile is good.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when i see a thread that starts 'this is not a rant' ,my first thought is, "here's a rant"..though, even though you and i know it's a rant, i can't write on your status it is so as you've already pre-empted that and inserted that caveat
other than that, ditto what they said
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