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over a year ago
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"All children are beautiful 
Tell that to Jamie bulgers mother. x
If that's the case the maybe you are looking at ugliness that cannot be seen."
Or maybe the 10 year olds that stand on the corner of any town's street swearing and causing upset and nuisance to the residents.
I'm really done with your PC claptrap every child is beautiful BS. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All children are beautiful
Tell that to Jamie bulgers mother. x
not sure that is appropriate here -
Why not?
Do the forums prefer to airbrush history? "
not at all - but the question was about adopting children |
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"All children are beautiful
Tell that to Jamie bulgers mother. x
not sure that is appropriate here -
Why not?
Do the forums prefer to airbrush history?
not at all - but the question was about adopting children "
And the point was not inappropriate
Some people don't find any children beautiful
I've had 3
Beauty isn't of any consequence to me
But I don't see that it wasn't appropriate
Moira Hindley and Fred West found lots of other people's children beautiful
That's a fact
However much people dislike it it's a fact
And yes it's a forum on adoption but also esthetics
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My parents adopted me. Im neither beautiful and not always a nice person either. They loved me for me, with my stroppy teenage years and the usual stuff that goes with growing up. I had a good childhood and everything I asked for. If it wasnt for them, Id have been in a childrens home in Jersey, until 16, then out to fend for myself.
I always said if I could never have children myself, like my mum, then id adopt and accept any child I was lucky enough to be considered fit to adopt. I will apologise for my comments but its one of the things I will always feel strongly about. |
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I'd adopt the one that you seem to naturally bond with.
With having a natural kid you have to put up with what you get.
When adopted at least the kid knows they were picked. |
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"My parents adopted me. Im neither beautiful and not always a nice person either. They loved me for me, with my stroppy teenage years and the usual stuff that goes with growing up. I had a good childhood and everything I asked for. If it wasnt for them, Id have been in a childrens home in Jersey, until 16, then out to fend for myself.
I always said if I could never have children myself, like my mum, then id adopt and accept any child I was lucky enough to be considered fit to adopt. I will apologise for my comments but its one of the things I will always feel strongly about. "
I can't see anything here to apologise for  |
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"My parents adopted me. Im neither beautiful and not always a nice person either. They loved me for me, with my stroppy teenage years and the usual stuff that goes with growing up. I had a good childhood and everything I asked for. If it wasnt for them, Id have been in a childrens home in Jersey, until 16, then out to fend for myself.
I always said if I could never have children myself, like my mum, then id adopt and accept any child I was lucky enough to be considered fit to adopt. I will apologise for my comments but its one of the things I will always feel strongly about. "
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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago
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All children are beautiful.
Was Hitler a beautiful baby?
Stalin?
Pol Pot?
Imagine being able to travel back in time to April 21st, 1889, Braunau am Inn, Austria and you know what the little mite is going to become and all those who will die at his hands. What would you do? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All children are beautiful.
Was Hitler a beautiful baby?
Stalin?
Pol Pot?
Imagine being able to travel back in time to April 21st, 1889, Braunau am Inn, Austria and you know what the little mite is going to become and all those who will die at his hands. What would you do?"
I'm sure that was a plot in a film or series. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd adopt the one that you seem to naturally bond with.
With having a natural kid you have to put up with what you get.
When adopted at least the kid knows they were picked."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd adopt the one that you seem to naturally bond with.
With having a natural kid you have to put up with what you get.
When adopted at least the kid knows they were picked."
Put up with?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My parents adopted me. Im neither beautiful and not always a nice person either. They loved me for me, with my stroppy teenage years and the usual stuff that goes with growing up. I had a good childhood and everything I asked for. If it wasnt for them, Id have been in a childrens home in Jersey, until 16, then out to fend for myself.
I always said if I could never have children myself, like my mum, then id adopt and accept any child I was lucky enough to be considered fit to adopt. I will apologise for my comments but its one of the things I will always feel strongly about.
I can't see anything here to apologise for "
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"All children are beautiful
Tell that to Jamie bulgers mother. x
If that's the case the maybe you are looking at ugliness that cannot be seen.
Or maybe the 10 year olds that stand on the corner of any town's street swearing and causing upset and nuisance to the residents.
I'm really done with your PC claptrap every child is beautiful BS. xx"
Was merely my opinion.. I thought that's what you were asking. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd adopt the one that you seem to naturally bond with.
With having a natural kid you have to put up with what you get.
When adopted at least the kid knows they were picked.
Put up with? "
Lol I'm not the only person that noticed that then.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All children are beautiful
Tell that to Jamie bulgers mother. x
If that's the case the maybe you are looking at ugliness that cannot be seen.
Or maybe the 10 year olds that stand on the corner of any town's street swearing and causing upset and nuisance to the residents.
I'm really done with your PC claptrap every child is beautiful BS. xx
Was merely my opinion.. I thought that's what you were asking."
And that's fine I don't have any beef with you personally I was just pointing out that this is not Disneyland we live in. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All children are beautiful
Tell that to Jamie bulgers mother. x
If that's the case the maybe you are looking at ugliness that cannot be seen.
Or maybe the 10 year olds that stand on the corner of any town's street swearing and causing upset and nuisance to the residents.
I'm really done with your PC claptrap every child is beautiful BS. xx"
That's incredibly rude. She didn't say anything to deserve that response. |
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"My parents adopted me. Im neither beautiful and not always a nice person either. They loved me for me, with my stroppy teenage years and the usual stuff that goes with growing up. I had a good childhood and everything I asked for. If it wasnt for them, Id have been in a childrens home in Jersey, until 16, then out to fend for myself.
I always said if I could never have children myself, like my mum, then id adopt and accept any child I was lucky enough to be considered fit to adopt. I will apologise for my comments but its one of the things I will always feel strongly about. "
I think that's brilliantly put.. I can't see your face but you sure seem beautiful on the inside. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd adopt the one that you seem to naturally bond with.
With having a natural kid you have to put up with what you get.
When adopted at least the kid knows they were picked.
Put up with?
Lol I'm not the only person that noticed that then. "
Plus you don't pick the child you adopt, its not like getting a house off the council, you don't get three refusals |
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"All children are beautiful
Tell that to Jamie bulgers mother. x
If that's the case the maybe you are looking at ugliness that cannot be seen.
Or maybe the 10 year olds that stand on the corner of any town's street swearing and causing upset and nuisance to the residents.
I'm really done with your PC claptrap every child is beautiful BS. xx
Was merely my opinion.. I thought that's what you were asking.
And that's fine I don't have any beef with you personally I was just pointing out that this is not Disneyland we live in. x"
No of course not, but you are also talking about children.. The biggest miracles on our planet in my opinion. Children are children..
People that are referring to all those bad people.. Surely they aren't talking about their looks? They are talking about their personalities? But anyway everyone has an opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My parents adopted me. Im neither beautiful and not always a nice person either. They loved me for me, with my stroppy teenage years and the usual stuff that goes with growing up. I had a good childhood and everything I asked for. If it wasnt for them, Id have been in a childrens home in Jersey, until 16, then out to fend for myself.
I always said if I could never have children myself, like my mum, then id adopt and accept any child I was lucky enough to be considered fit to adopt. I will apologise for my comments but its one of the things I will always feel strongly about.
I think that's brilliantly put.. I can't see your face but you sure seem beautiful on the inside. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd adopt the one that you seem to naturally bond with.
With having a natural kid you have to put up with what you get.
When adopted at least the kid knows they were picked.
Put up with?
Lol I'm not the only person that noticed that then.
Plus you don't pick the child you adopt, its not like getting a house off the council, you don't get three refusals "
My mum said there was a lot of red tape, (back in the 60's) a shame there isnt a lot more now. Some adopted kids now, get treated very badly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ok going against the Grain here, I would go for the Child with Personality because at the end of the day when going for adoption you have to make a choice, Yes all Children are wonderful in their own way but you can only choose one.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd adopt the one that you seem to naturally bond with.
With having a natural kid you have to put up with what you get.
When adopted at least the kid knows they were picked.
Put up with? "
I dunno how my mum put up with me.
Thank god for hormones affecting parents brains lol |
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I don't believe in ugly people, just varying degrees of attractiveness.
But my view on the OPs question is that kids change so much as they grow that I don't think the beautiful/ugly binary makes sense. |
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"I don't believe in ugly people, just varying degrees of attractiveness.
But my view on the OPs question is that kids change so much as they grow that I don't think the beautiful/ugly binary makes sense. "
So how would you choose then
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"I don't believe in ugly people, just varying degrees of attractiveness.
But my view on the OPs question is that kids change so much as they grow that I don't think the beautiful/ugly binary makes sense.
So how would you choose then
Gimp"
I'd let Brad & Angelina choose for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All children are beautiful
Tell that to Jamie bulgers mother. x
If that's the case the maybe you are looking at ugliness that cannot be seen.
Or maybe the 10 year olds that stand on the corner of any town's street swearing and causing upset and nuisance to the residents.
I'm really done with your PC claptrap every child is beautiful BS. xx"
Maybe if those said kids were told they were beautiful instead of ugly from the start they might have had a chance
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All children are beautiful.
Was Hitler a beautiful baby?
Stalin?
Pol Pot?
Imagine being able to travel back in time to April 21st, 1889, Braunau am Inn, Austria and you know what the little mite is going to become and all those who will die at his hands. What would you do?"
Nothing because at that point he was innocent. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Adopt the beautiful child or the ugly one with the personality.?
Go Fabbers. x
I'd adopt the one that chose me."
Yes thats like my cat did when I went to the rescue center did with me.
I'm pleased she was pretty or ID have o say no thanks and leave. |
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