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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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what do you find people put as a preference on their profiles yet are obviously not really into it at all?
S&M has to be the most misunderstood and over-used term on here i think.
it makes it hard when trying to use that function for searching out like minded peeps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I removed all my interests and my profile says i only offer vanilla and 3sums.
Don't know why but if anyone was ever into my interests i didn't like their messages they sent me, they made me feel like they were using me. Weird how your brain can work sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I removed all my interests and my profile says i only offer vanilla and 3sums.
Don't know why but if anyone was ever into my interests i didn't like their messages they sent me, they made me feel like they were using me. Weird how your brain can work sometimes."
I think some people do see it as a 'menu of services offered' unfortunately. Usually the ones that think swingers = free prostitutes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I removed all my interests and my profile says i only offer vanilla and 3sums.
Don't know why but if anyone was ever into my interests i didn't like their messages they sent me, they made me feel like they were using me. Weird how your brain can work sometimes.
I think some people do see it as a 'menu of services offered' unfortunately. Usually the ones that think swingers = free prostitutes. "
Yeah that could have had something to do with it as well. Plenty of guys make me feel like a service tbh, even just for vanilla stuff. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Look for them on a S+m site then
 surely that makes it pointles having it as an option for preference on this site then "
True.
Add more info on your profile about what you like exactly. Before i removed my stuff i had i was Domme and mainly into humiliation, did have i was looking to cuckold someone but removed that yesterday. I don't think i want to look on this site for the kinkier stuff i like, i am on a more specialised site for this stuff now. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I removed all my interests and my profile says i only offer vanilla and 3sums.
Don't know why but if anyone was ever into my interests i didn't like their messages they sent me, they made me feel like they were using me. Weird how your brain can work sometimes.
I think some people do see it as a 'menu of services offered' unfortunately. Usually the ones that think swingers = free prostitutes. "
That perfectly sums up my thoughts  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I un-ticked all my interests because I was getting messages from men who assumed I do them every time I meet,and that because they were into the same thing we were perfect for each other. I prefer to chat and let things unfold naturally during conversation. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I un-ticked all my interests because I was getting messages from men who assumed I do them every time I meet,and that because they were into the same thing we were perfect for each other. I prefer to chat and let things unfold naturally during conversation. "
that's rather crappy, and ignorant of peole to just assume. i never get why people seem to forget we're all human beings with feelings , emotions and our own needs.
I'm also on a more specialized site for my kinkier interests, but tbh being submissive and a male when it comes to that kind of play, it's harder than being on this site  |
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