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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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to abandon your "usual" stance and wishlist to meet somebody who is not within your criteria?
Looks? A particulary witty profile text?
A friend's recommendation? An outstanding verification?
All of the above or none of said?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Doesn't bother me, looks are not important in casual sex, just have an accommodating pussey 
SO what would make you go the extra mile to meet somebody? "
Yes it would be, if she was a mature woman or granny type. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"to abandon your "usual" stance and wishlist to meet somebody who is not within your criteria?
Looks? A particulary witty profile text?
A friend's recommendation? An outstanding verification?
All of the above or none of said?
Taking to someone who
Doesn't go to clubs and
Meeting him fri.
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"If they don't meet my criteria their blocked from messaging me, so I don't get messages from those that don't meet my usual criteria
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Fair point. I only have a handful of people blocked so I guess it is different.
I am just curious about this because most of us have a rough idea as to what we are looking for, well, I have anyway.
I was wondering what would make people change their mind ... deviating from what they would normally do. |
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"If they don't meet my criteria their blocked from messaging me, so I don't get messages from those that don't meet my usual criteria
Fair point. I only have a handful of people blocked so I guess it is different.
I am just curious about this because most of us have a rough idea as to what we are looking for, well, I have anyway.
I was wondering what would make people change their mind ... deviating from what they would normally do."
when I say blocked I mean filtered out, so for example I wouldn't meet anyone over 50 as they can't message me in the first place
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"If they don't meet my criteria their blocked from messaging me, so I don't get messages from those that don't meet my usual criteria
Fair point. I only have a handful of people blocked so I guess it is different.
I am just curious about this because most of us have a rough idea as to what we are looking for, well, I have anyway.
I was wondering what would make people change their mind ... deviating from what they would normally do. when I say blocked I mean filtered out, so for example I wouldn't meet anyone over 50 as they can't message me in the first place
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to go purely on looks. It was a bad mistake. After a d*unken night out, I ended up in bed with a female friend. I'd always adored her but didn't really fancy her. But as the drink flowed our conversation got filthier. We had an amazing night as we were both absolute filth bags. After that it occurred to me that I'd been getting it wrong by going for looks above of personality and sexual compatability. Since that night, I never looked back and have never been happier. I still appreciate a beautiful looking woman but it's no longer enough to draw me in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have a type really, just have to find someone attractive looking and take it from there, but a high level of kinkiness can make someone more attractive to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If they don't meet my criteria their blocked from messaging me, so I don't get messages from those that don't meet my usual criteria
Fair point. I only have a handful of people blocked so I guess it is different.
I am just curious about this because most of us have a rough idea as to what we are looking for, well, I have anyway.
I was wondering what would make people change their mind ... deviating from what they would normally do."
availability? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Circumstances can change things - heat of the moment, being relaxed, having a good rapport etc.
It's why we don't bother looking too hard online, you can't get a feel for those things from a profile. Much easier at a club.
Besides that, red wine makes us a whole lot less fussy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Doesn't bother me, looks are not important in casual sex, just have an accommodating pussey "
Just out of interest would you be envious or would it turn you on if a woman had a 6 pack to rival yours |
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