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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is my 5th or 6th profile I think... Each time I just deleted without warning and vanished. No need to cry about it or beg for sympathy. If you decide to leave just bloody well leave.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is my 5th or 6th profile I think... Each time I just deleted without warning and vanished. No need to cry about it or beg for sympathy. If you decide to leave just bloody well leave. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say goodbye on my status and on the forums - because I have made a lot of really good friends on here - and I'd want to say goodbye to all and swap numbers with some of them before I left! Xx |
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"Do you...
A) Post a message in the forums
B) Post a status
C) Just stop coming on
D) Delete profile without warning
E) Something else, add in comments below. "
I'd send out messages saying "I know who you are and I'm telling everyone" and see how many people I can get with it before I get banned |
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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago
Near Bristol |
Well I haven't left yet and after 2 years I've no plans to.
I think the only thing to make me leave now would be if I met somebody, it became a serious relationship and she wasn't interested in swinging. Then I would just post a status message and maybe send a goodbye message to my closer friends on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I sometimes think if someone is moving on or just had enough a nice message saying goodbye in the forums is quite lovely.
However if it's just a blatant attempt to garner some please don't go sympathy then that is rather shit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like knowing when some other'shave left the site.
I do get tempted to leave personally so far I just hide everytime I've had enough.
When I go I think I'll just be gone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never understand why people don't just leave instead of........
"IM LEAVING THE SITE"
"HONESTLY, I MEANT IT. I'M GOING"
"I WILL BE LEAVING THE SITE NEXT WEEK AND WON'T BE COMING BACK. "
" I'M NOT JOKING. I WILL BE GONE"
Who's about for a meet?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I took about a 3 month break from the site over the Winter, just hid my profile so it was there again for when I was ready to come back. No dramas or owt like that!
But to be honest if and when I ever decide to permanently leave and even if I did start up a new thread about it, I have no doubt it'll leave hardly any ripples on here and soon it'll plunge into obscurity so there would be no point making a big fanfare about it!  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I took about a 3 month break from the site over the Winter, just hid my profile so it was there again for when I was ready to come back. No dramas or owt like that!
But to be honest if and when I ever decide to permanently leave and even if I did start up a new thread about it, I have no doubt it'll leave hardly any ripples on here and soon it'll plunge into obscurity so there would be no point making a big fanfare about it! "
Are you a hedgehog? 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not much really.....just a few things I'd like when I finally close the lid on fab.
Sketchy on where this will take place though....somewhere in Bristol I imagine.
Marquee
Barrels of Veuve clicquot
Barrels of beer
Barrels of vodka
A d.j.
Vol au vents
beef burgers
Fried chicken
Bukkake party
Bouncy castles
Dodgems
Football Pitch
Water sports
Michael Fassbender (all to myself)
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F) You post SEVERAL message in the forums.
Incidentally I am currently in the process of leaving, here are a few threads on the subject:
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/67929
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/69213 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I sometimes think if someone is moving on or just had enough a nice message saying goodbye in the forums is quite lovely.
However if it's just a blatant attempt to garner some please don't go sympathy then that is rather shit. "
I probably would post on the forum then delete as soon as I'd posted it. I talk enough crap on here as it is I feel like a little sayonara would be normal for me!
If I was leaving in a huff I'd just piss off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I took about a 3 month break from the site over the Winter, just hid my profile so it was there again for when I was ready to come back. No dramas or owt like that!
But to be honest if and when I ever decide to permanently leave and even if I did start up a new thread about it, I have no doubt it'll leave hardly any ripples on here and soon it'll plunge into obscurity so there would be no point making a big fanfare about it!
Are you a hedgehog?
A"
Slowly awakening from hibernation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As somebody said higher up. Hide your profile and take a break. If you then think nah feck it Ive had enough i would then message anybody that i was in regular contact with and then do one. Posting on the forum would just cause a shitstorm against you. I might consider doing it for giggles however lol. Seriously it serves not purpose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would be D.
Those that give a fuck would notice regardless.
Hiding my profile wouldn't work for me because I'd log back in at some point.
I've disappeared from the site (as in not logged in) many times on here in the past when I've needed time out. |
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"Dragged out in a strait jacket kicking and screaming"
To the sounds of women wailing and beating their breasts
I would say goodbye to friends via pm then go, I'm a small fish in the big forum pond so I wouldn't post about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I was in a happy place and didn't want to do this anymore than I might do an A.
If I left because I was pissed off then it would be a D.
And every so often I do a C! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I was in a happy place and didn't want to do this anymore than I might do an A.
If I left because I was pissed off then it would be a D.
And every so often I do a C!"
I did a 3 month C after contemplating a D. It was very cathartic! 
Came back refreshed and renewed and glad I didn't do a D and have to start again from scratch! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dragged out in a strait jacket kicking and screaming
To the sounds of women wailing and beating their breasts
I would say goodbye to friends via pm then go, I'm a small fish in the big forum pond so I wouldn't post about it "
Just picking up on that last paragraph. No one is a big fish in the forum pond. Just some people have bigger personalities. Read into that however you wish.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dragged out in a strait jacket kicking and screaming
To the sounds of women wailing and beating their breasts
I would say goodbye to friends via pm then go, I'm a small fish in the big forum pond so I wouldn't post about it
Just picking up on that last paragraph. No one is a big fish in the forum pond. Just some people have bigger personalities. Read into that however you wish.
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What, not even the Forum Clique?  |
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"Dragged out in a strait jacket kicking and screaming
To the sounds of women wailing and beating their breasts
I would say goodbye to friends via pm then go, I'm a small fish in the big forum pond so I wouldn't post about it
Just picking up on that last paragraph. No one is a big fish in the forum pond. Just some people have bigger personalities. Read into that however you wish.
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I simply meant I doubt I would be missed so why make a show of leaving, I have no idea what you mean  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a few profiles since 2011 and each time I've just deleted it but I never used the forums until this time round.
The only thing that would make me leave this place is if I got a boyfriend, but even then I don't think I would delete it cos I don't use this place for meeting I only use the forums. If and when I get dating someone again the combined knowledge on this forum is going to occupy me and hopefully stop me being crazy so a relationship can develop. |
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