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over a year ago
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We're not precious enough to expect people to accommodate us in a show home.
We've yet to meet anyone that has a home that would have us leaving quick smart. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No, it's the person I have gone to meet not their house "
But don't you feel that your home is a reflection of you? Don't mean "the cushions clash with the curtains, get me out of here" but if it was actually unclean then I'd wonder how clean they kept themselves  |
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"We're not precious enough to expect people to accommodate us in a show home.
We've yet to meet anyone that has a home that would have us leaving quick smart."
how about them chucking what looked like the washing on the floor to give me room to sit, floor covered in dog hairs and an overflowing ashtray in the center of the floor and offered a coffee in a mug with not just a crack but a chunk missing,
I know we guys are supposed to do anything for a shag but you have to draw the line some where  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, it's the person I have gone to meet not their house
But don't you feel that your home is a reflection of you? Don't mean "the cushions clash with the curtains, get me out of here" but if it was actually unclean then I'd wonder how clean they kept themselves "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We're not precious enough to expect people to accommodate us in a show home.
We've yet to meet anyone that has a home that would have us leaving quick smart.
how about them chucking what looked like the washing on the floor to give me room to sit, floor covered in dog hairs and an overflowing ashtray in the center of the floor and offered a coffee in a mug with not just a crack but a chunk missing,
I know we guys are supposed to do anything for a shag but you have to draw the line some where "
Yeah that type of thing would make be off putting |
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"No, it's the person I have gone to meet not their house
But don't you feel that your home is a reflection of you? Don't mean "the cushions clash with the curtains, get me out of here" but if it was actually unclean then I'd wonder how clean they kept themselves "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say my home was dirty however I have a 3 yr old and there's often toys 'on display' in the living room which can look untidy I guess
I don't have any pets n don't smoke tho
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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago
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"No, it's the person I have gone to meet not their house
But don't you feel that your home is a reflection of you? Don't mean "the cushions clash with the curtains, get me out of here" but if it was actually unclean then I'd wonder how clean they kept themselves "
true |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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why the fuck would i go through with a meet if I felt the surroundings were not to my liking, I was concerned over the cleanliness of the place and anything else...
I don't need to empty them that desperately.
I do wonder at times  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dirty is different from just a bit untidy. If it was actively dirty, like I wouldn't want to use the bathroom dirty, then I'd be out of there like a shot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Did have a meet once a long time ago. Walked in and the place stunk of cat pee, cat hairs everywhere, dirty clothes lying around and dirty crockery, and they themselves were unclean, greasy hair and dirty clothes 
We left pretty quickly making an excuse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our house is often untidy but never dirty. And if we're expecting a visitor I try to tidy up as best I can before they get here! I totally agree that your house is a reflection of you and says alot about you/your life (ours probably says chaotic but clean!) if someone doesn't worry about keeping their house clean & unashamedly invites people round then I don't trust them to care much about their personal hygiene either. Plus we wouldn't want to play in a dirty environment anyway, its hardly sexy to be rolling around in dog hair!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No, it's the person I have gone to meet not their house
But don't you feel that your home is a reflection of you? Don't mean "the cushions clash with the curtains, get me out of here" but if it was actually unclean then I'd wonder how clean they kept themselves "
I agree!! Sorry if it sounds snobby but I would not want sex with someone whose house was filthy! I'm not expecting a show home but a certain standard |
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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago
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This is why we don't like to accommodate
Not that our house is dirty but when you have 2 kids and live in a small flat that doesn't even have a separate kitchen let alone a wardrobe to store stuff in.... There are going to be toys and piles of clean washing with nowhere to put it - not a place I like to be, let alone someone else... When we have guests we have to put most of our stuff into the boys bedroom for the evening it's just too cramped  |
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"I wouldn't say my home was dirty however I have a 3 yr old and there's often toys 'on display' in the living room which can look untidy I guess
I don't have any pets n don't smoke tho
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I don't have a living room, more a toys r us with a sofa and a tv in one corner.. Lol. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think a lot of us realise there is a diference between untidy and dirty.I only mention it as its just another pitfall in the ever complex world of swinging as you could get as far as their home and still be knocked back.
For the record my place is immaculate and you can eat off the floors....my sister says its like a gay home pmsl
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I don't think my house is really unclean, but I am a massive hoarder so there's stuff everywhere! I always apologise to anyone visiting me so they know I'm not a total skank and that it is bad to live this way
As long as there's space to sit in the couch and a walkway round the bed and to the bathroom I think I'm doing well  |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I always give the excuse the place is a mess, just in case I have missed something when cleaning and tidying."
For some reason, and this is a scurrilous defamation, I have this vision of you trying to remember if you've tidied away all of the dead bodies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only once. I was prepared to look past the mucky house but when she pulled the duvet back and I saw the shit stain on the bed I said I wasn't happy and left. I got hells abuse! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"An unclean, dirty home/environment wouldn't put us in the mood to play, we'd leave as politely as possible.  "
ironic how you have pics of you naked on kitchen worktops and tables hehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes sink full of dirty pot,s empty take away carton,s every were We met them in a pub they looked clean and decent we left"
I prefer hotels personally although I can accommodate, I have to say pots and pans and dishes left around is my absolute number 1 pet peeve.
I NEVER have dishes lying around not even a mug, everything goes in the dishwasher.
Even when I'm not expecting anyone, regardless if it was a meet, family or friends.
One thing you'll never find in my house is dishes left out.
Can you tell I hate that?... 
The few times I've gone to a meets house, they've all been pretty normal to be fair.
Nothing sticks out in my head. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone turned up for a meet faced with a dirty home and then went home?"
Yes! A verified guy on another site,when we had just started out.Having travelled a fair way,we walked into what only can be described as a squat!
We laugh about it now and put it down to experience,lesson learnt as they say.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Only once. I was prepared to look past the mucky house but when she pulled the duvet back and I saw the shit stain on the bed I said I wasn't happy and left. I got hells abuse! "
classy!! you sure it wasn't a chocolate smudge!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A guy I met ages ago, had a immaculate, fabulous apartment, opened his door having just got out of bed, into scruffy track bottoms, and proceeded to try to have sex with me in a unmade, unfresh sheets. Needless to say I wasnt turned on, did stay to give him the benefit of the doubt, sex was incomplete to be polite . His manners to asking if I wanted anything to eat or drink when he made himself something, left a lot to be desired. |
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