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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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apparently?! Because I get off on hurting people. Well that's not exactly true.
Yes I punish people and I get off on it...
but the only reason I do is because my sub enjoys it to. Im not a sadist. I don't enjoy hurting people if they don't get pleasure out of it.
How do I know they are getting pleasure out of it? Because I was once a sub to.
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"apparently?! Because I get off on hurting people. Well that's not exactly true.
Yes I punish people and I get off on it...
but the only reason I do is because my sub enjoys it to. Im not a sadist. I don't enjoy hurting people if they don't get pleasure out of it.
How do I know they are getting pleasure out of it? Because I was once a sub to.
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There is nothing wrong with you.I am a sub and enjoy being hurt sometimes.  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"apparently?! Because I get off on hurting people. Well that's not exactly true.
Yes I punish people and I get off on it...
but the only reason I do is because my sub enjoys it to. Im not a sadist. I don't enjoy hurting people if they don't get pleasure out of it.
How do I know they are getting pleasure out of it? Because I was once a sub to.
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Some people get it, some people don't. You must realise that by now? Don't let it bother you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's nothing wrong with you ...
There is however something wrong with me but I love my kink. I like inflicting it. I like the control ... That's why I've started to study and incorporate Shibari in my lifestyle as well as Predicament Bondage.
BDSM - isnt like any other kink. It's who you are. You can be trained yes but you have to have a predisposition for it.
So OP don't let ignorant people dissuade you. Be 100% who you are and love your kink! |
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I'm just explaining for the ignorant. 