As this is a swingers site, for swingers to meet and enjoy others company, do you think its time to do away with webcam verifications?
So many profiles we come across with 10/12 veri's and they are ALL from the cam. Surely theres other sites if all they want to do is sit in front of the cam.
Personally its tells us absolutely nothing about them, and has no place in the swinging world.  .
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over a year ago
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So many profiles we come across with 10/12 veri's and they are ALL from the cam. Surely theres other sites if all they want to do is sit in front of the cam.
Personally its tells us absolutely nothing about them,"
Actually it tells me a LOT.
It tells me they never and will never meet so it's a waste of time mailing them. |
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So many profiles we come across with 10/12 veri's and they are ALL from the cam. Surely theres other sites if all they want to do is sit in front of the cam.
Personally its tells us absolutely nothing about them,
Actually it tells me a LOT.
It tells me they never and will never meet so it's a waste of time mailing them."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they have loads of web cam veris it tells us most likely they are into cyber fun and not meeting so wouldn't be for us, but people are free to use the site how ever they see fit. You have the option in advanced search the filter those who have only been verified by meet in person |
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So many profiles we come across with 10/12 veri's and they are ALL from the cam. Surely theres other sites if all they want to do is sit in front of the cam.
Personally its tells us absolutely nothing about them,
Actually it tells me a LOT.
It tells me they never and will never meet so it's a waste of time mailing them. "
i dont agree |
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"As this is a swingers site, for swingers to meet and enjoy others company, do you think its time to do away with webcam verifications?
So many profiles we come across with 10/12 veri's and they are ALL from the cam. Surely theres other sites if all they want to do is sit in front of the cam.
Personally its tells us absolutely nothing about them, and has no place in the swinging world. .
Or are we just out of touch with the 21st century?"
A couple could easily get that many veri's in one session if they put on a show. They could well be testing the waters to see how they feel about performing in front of others before they meet or attend a club.
Even if not I don't see the problem with people using the site for how they want, voyeurism, chatting on cam, the veri's are seperate from meet in person veri's so it's easy enough to pass them by. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just out of touch , people have busy lives with work and family and sometimes it's nice to sit down and have a chat on cam , just my opinion .."
totally agree on this point i work 6 til 6 monday to friday and nice to chill |
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So many profiles we come across with 10/12 veri's and they are ALL from the cam. Surely theres other sites if all they want to do is sit in front of the cam.
Personally its tells us absolutely nothing about them,
Actually it tells me a LOT.
It tells me they never and will never meet so it's a waste of time mailing them."
Absolutely right |
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Webcam can be very useful when checking they are a actual couple or lady ( as opposed to a guy pretending) but surely if that's how people get their kicks and its not harming you, what right does any of us have to say that's not how you should use this site , it's set up for many different people with many different kinks .
So yes in answer to your question , you are out of touch  |
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Thankyou everyone, and i value all your opinions, but i wish to point out this is a swinging site, and as such should be for swingers. There are webcam sites for people to use if that is what they like.
Webcam veri's will only tell you that the person is real, same as the phone veri that has now been made defunct.
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By (user no longer on site)
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We were new to this site in December and we used the webcam rooms to initially talk to other couples and gradually got naughtier on cam . This in turn gave us confidence to meet up. If we hadn't had that initial push I don't think we would have met anyone. We have about 40 webcam veris and 30 meet veris now.
The cams are great way to get to know someone with out the danger or risk. Personally i think they help the swinging community.
Jen x |
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So many profiles we come across with 10/12 veri's and they are ALL from the cam. Surely theres other sites if all they want to do is sit in front of the cam.
Personally its tells us absolutely nothing about them,
Actually it tells me a LOT.
It tells me they never and will never meet so it's a waste of time mailing them.
Absolutely right "
Our first 15 veris were webcam veris |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just out of touch , people have busy lives with work and family and sometimes it's nice to sit down and have a chat on cam , just my opinion .."
Exactly, I have been here 3 weeks or so and at the moment I am using cam to get verified as otherwise no one will take the first step to meet me, so I am between a rock and a hard place..xx |
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When i first joined i went into chat and found it a good way to get chatting and had a social night out with a group of people, which was my first step to going to a club. I found it useful as a newbie. As for the veris i got them never asked for them but i don't show them as i do think they don't matter as much. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Thankyou everyone, and i value all your opinions, but i wish to point out this is a swinging site, and as such should be for swingers. There are webcam sites for people to use if that is what they like.
Webcam veri's will only tell you that the person is real, same as the phone veri that has now been made defunct.
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A few questions!
How do you know they haven't met anyone? Maybe they just show the webcam veris?
What if someone gets webcam veris planning to eventually meet?
If people want to just cam - why not?
And the most important!!!!!
What's a swinger? 
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over a year ago
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"Thankyou everyone, and i value all your opinions, but i wish to point out this is a swinging site, and as such should be for swingers. There are webcam sites for people to use if that is what they like.
Webcam veri's will only tell you that the person is real, same as the phone veri that has now been made defunct.
A few questions!
How do you know they haven't met anyone? Maybe they just show the webcam veris?
What if someone gets webcam veris planning to eventually meet?
If people want to just cam - why not?
And the most important!!!!!
What's a swinger?
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A swinger is someone in there 40s that puts their car keys in a bowl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" but i wish to point out this is a swinging site, and as such should be for swingers.
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Oh yes that's right.
All us non-couples should fuck off shouldn't we?.... |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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" but i wish to point out this is a swinging site, and as such should be for swingers.
Oh yes that's right.
All us non-couples should fuck off shouldn't we?.... "
And us TG with them  |
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over a year ago
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"Thankyou everyone, and i value all your opinions, but i wish to point out this is a swinging site, and as such should be for swingers. There are webcam sites for people to use if that is what they like.
Webcam veri's will only tell you that the person is real, same as the phone veri that has now been made defunct.
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I'm real and don't have webcam veris. I thought if you had met different people for sex that was swinging or am I wrong? Not a couple btw |
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"Just out of touch , people have busy lives with work and family and sometimes it's nice to sit down and have a chat on cam , just my opinion .."
I'm not against anyone chatting on cam, absolutely not. I'm asking should verifications by cam be done away with.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not really any need to get rid of cam veris but each person differs on whether they are of any value - personally, we completely ignore anyone with only a cam verification. |
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" but i wish to point out this is a swinging site, and as such should be for swingers.
Oh yes that's right.
All us non-couples should fuck off shouldn't we?.... "
I didn't invent the word swingers, its the title of this site. No one said anything about it only being for couples, so how have you come to that conclusion? |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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I don't think that they need to be done away with. People are free to use the site how they wish.
We just tend not to take much notice of profiles that are full of cam only veris. Purely because cams don't interest us.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've noticed that this is becoming a regular occurrence, people telling others who can be apart of this or that site!  "
i agree i was chatting to a stunning lady last night but now shes hidden her profile and stopped meeting after some couple and some guy said she was fat and shouldn't be aloud to swing. It is disgusting how people assume that they know it all. missing out on a beautiful lady because of some keyboard warriors |
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"No one said anything about it only being for couples, so how have you come to that conclusion?"
You didn't explicitly say that no, but that was definitely how it came across to me.
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"I've noticed that this is becoming a regular occurrence, people telling others who can be apart of this or that site!
i agree i was chatting to a stunning lady last night but now shes hidden her profile and stopped meeting after some couple and some guy said she was fat and shouldn't be aloud to swing. It is disgusting how people assume that they know it all. missing out on a beautiful lady because of some keyboard warriors"
Sorry.
But if someone takes that much notice of the opinions of a total stranger then there's a need to learn to ignore rather than react.
And just because you were chatting you honestly think you've missed out on a meet? Really?
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"I've noticed that this is becoming a regular occurrence, people telling others who can be apart of this or that site!
i agree i was chatting to a stunning lady last night but now shes hidden her profile and stopped meeting after some couple and some guy said she was fat and shouldn't be aloud to swing. It is disgusting how people assume that they know it all. missing out on a beautiful lady because of some keyboard warriors
Sorry.
But if someone takes that much notice of the opinions of a total stranger then there's a need to learn to ignore rather than react.
And just because you were chatting you honestly think you've missed out on a meet? Really?
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she told me so yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's difficult here not to get hurt by nasty comments. I've had this before and hidden profile but have developed a slightly thicker skin thanks to asshole comments |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love camming! I love watching Mrs J on cam and reading the comments she gets from guys viewing. Does that put us lower in the swinging hierarchy? What about voyeurs and exhibitionists? What about soft swap couples? As someone pointed out earlier, define swinger? Surely the point of verification is to confirm the account, at least, as a genuine profile. As for shithouses with nasty comments for anyone appearing on webcams, go suck on a dogs dick. |
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