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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I just read on another post here about being stood up. One person said they insisted on meeting in person for a drink,ok you meet this person who just does nothing for you but they seem excited as ever to get their groove on , how do u get out of it? What was the best excuse u ever used  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did a Reggie Perrin  "
Is that a Cockney Rhyming Slang for something else? If so - please explain.. seriously I dont know that one and would like to know ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I did a Reggie Perrin
Is that a Cockney Rhyming Slang for something else? If so - please explain.. seriously I dont know that one and would like to know ? "
It was a tv comedy sitcom about a guy who faked his own death to escape a mundane life. Leonard Rossiter, who played rigsby in Rising Damp, played Reggie Perrin  |
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"I did a Reggie Perrin
Is that a Cockney Rhyming Slang for something else? If so - please explain.. seriously I dont know that one and would like to know ? "
TV series, guy decided he's had enough of life, work and marriage, folded his clothes up on the beach and did a 'Dissapering' trick |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I did a Reggie Perrin
Is that a Cockney Rhyming Slang for something else? If so - please explain.. seriously I dont know that one and would like to know ?
It was a tv comedy sitcom about a guy who faked his own death to escape a mundane life. Leonard Rossiter, who played rigsby in Rising Damp, played Reggie Perrin "
Ah ... thanks -  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did a Reggie Perrin
Is that a Cockney Rhyming Slang for something else? If so - please explain.. seriously I dont know that one and would like to know ?
TV series, guy decided he's had enough of life, work and marriage, folded his clothes up on the beach and did a 'Dissapering' trick"
Kind of a nice version of Lord Lucan without the murders then |
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"I did a Reggie Perrin
Is that a Cockney Rhyming Slang for something else? If so - please explain.. seriously I dont know that one and would like to know ?
TV series, guy decided he's had enough of life, work and marriage, folded his clothes up on the beach and did a 'Dissapering' trick
Kind of a nice version of Lord Lucan without the murders then "
Just don;t ask about the Hippo |
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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago
Notting |
Honestly WOUld be the best policy - but i find that people will shag em anyway - slag em off about how they were and then still pretend to be mates after.
Its hilarious really.
Dont fancy.
Dont shag.
Always room to change ya mind after if you dont wanna shag again.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always make the first meet a short social for ONE drink. Then when they meet and you think WOW you can fuck them. The most important bit is .......when you go .....oooops nooooooo there is no embarrasment cos you only arranged to meet for a drink anyhow.
In that situation I always say ' I have to go now - twas great to meet you - bye xx
No hurt no nothing cos it was only a drink.
Put yourself in their place. If they went to the toilet and never came back what are you going to feel like.
Don't set up a meeting that is doomed to fail xx Gran xx |
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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago
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"Always make the first meet a short social for ONE drink. Then when they meet and you think WOW you can fuck them. The most important bit is .......when you go .....oooops nooooooo there is no embarrasment cos you only arranged to meet for a drink anyhow.
In that situation I always say ' I have to go now - twas great to meet you - bye xx
No hurt no nothing cos it was only a drink.
Put yourself in their place. If they went to the toilet and never came back what are you going to feel like.
Don't set up a meeting that is doomed to fail xx Gran xx"
love you Granny!!!!
Once i met in a pub - and he was the most boring meet ever - really!!!
That i drank a half pint (usually have a LARGE)
came ot the pub and said - "i am going this way and i think you will find that the train station is THAT way!!!!"
Felt guilty for a whole 1 second!!!!
Felt better knowing i wouldnt have that morning after feeling, lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I did a Reggie Perrin
Is that a Cockney Rhyming Slang for something else? If so - please explain.. seriously I dont know that one and would like to know ?
It was a tv comedy sitcom about a guy who faked his own death to escape a mundane life. Leonard Rossiter, who played rigsby in Rising Damp, played Reggie Perrin "
loved that series - magic |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just read on another post here about being stood up. One person said they insisted on meeting in person for a drink,ok you meet this person who just does nothing for you but they seem excited as ever to get their groove on , how do u get out of it? What was the best excuse u ever used "
The best policy is to be as honest as possible without being insulting. To say you don't fuck uglies is probably true but can be taken as offensive. Far better to state your not attracted and things will not be going any further. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always make the first meet a short social for ONE drink. Then when they meet and you think WOW you can fuck them. The most important bit is .......when you go .....oooops nooooooo there is no embarrasment cos you only arranged to meet for a drink anyhow.
In that situation I always say ' I have to go now - twas great to meet you - bye xx
No hurt no nothing cos it was only a drink.
Put yourself in their place. If they went to the toilet and never came back what are you going to feel like.
Don't set up a meeting that is doomed to fail xx Gran xx"
That's the way I do it: I meet at lunch time near my office. If there's no attraction no harm done as there was no expectation to play. At the end say it was nice meeting them and will be in touch.
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"'Honesty huh'? I can't see myself telling a lady sorry my darling but I can't see me in you, goodnight. lol  "
The way I see it, every lady has a right to say no and expect an honourable man to accept it ... likewise should everyman and as long as done in a sensible manner so should every lady understand.
I tend to find "I think we're looking for different things" works |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Id be honest, though would feel absolutely dreadful about it, but theres no way I can be intimate or let someone insert their body part into my body, if I have absolutely no attraction for them. Its easier in a club setting I feel than face to face in a pub. It has happened to us in a swinging club. I liked the couple but not enough to play with and basically we just sat and chatted and then told them we were going to have a look around the club and that was that. In fact we saw them recently in the club again and went over and chatted etc, they are friends on here and so no offence was taken so all good |
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