so a new guy winks at me ..been on the site 3 hours and has on verification given in the first hour which he chooses to hide ..suspicious ..i wonder some guys set up a womans profile just so they can verify themselves |
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I'd been on a few hours and had my first verification as I am a repeat offender and been here before. Also don't make my verifications public and I'm "genuine "  |
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I frequently throw my toys out of the pram and stamp my feet and leave site in a hissy. I always come back and have previous meets verify me again. Mayhe he done this. Otherwise why waste so much energy on them? |
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"so a new guy winks at me ..been on the site 3 hours and has on verification given in the first hour which he chooses to hide ..suspicious ..i wonder some guys set up a womans profile just so they can verify themselves"
yes they do! a while ago i followed a womans veri trail which seemed to be 3 guys who all had veris off the same women the veris were written by the same person on ALL veris male and female and it opened my eyes to how easy it is to fake a veri or more! they must be getting wise now if hiding veris  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"so a new guy winks at me ..been on the site 3 hours and has on verification given in the first hour which he chooses to hide ..suspicious ..i wonder some guys set up a womans profile just so they can verify themselvesyes they do! a while ago i followed a womans veri trail which seemed to be 3 guys who all had veris off the same women the veris were written by the same person on ALL veris male and female and it opened my eyes to how easy it is to fake a veri or more! they must be getting wise now if hiding veris "
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"so a new guy winks at me ..been on the site 3 hours and has on verification given in the first hour which he chooses to hide ..suspicious ..i wonder some guys set up a womans profile just so they can verify themselvesyes they do! a while ago i followed a womans veri trail which seemed to be 3 guys who all had veris off the same women the veris were written by the same person on ALL veris male and female and it opened my eyes to how easy it is to fake a veri or more! they must be getting wise now if hiding veris
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no i didn't but if i see anything now i do  |
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"so a new guy winks at me ..been on the site 3 hours and has on verification given in the first hour which he chooses to hide ..suspicious ..i wonder some guys set up a womans profile just so they can verify themselvesyes they do! a while ago i followed a womans veri trail which seemed to be 3 guys who all had veris off the same women the veris were written by the same person on ALL veris male and female and it opened my eyes to how easy it is to fake a veri or more! they must be getting wise now if hiding veris "
It doesn't surprise me, I had someone the other day offering to verify me in person if I would do them in return. No need for a meet, just wanted a verification. |
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"I verified the same guy loads of times as he gets fed up then leaves then comes back a month later.
I don't know why he doesn't just hide his profile.  "
I've done this a couple of times for guys I know. One yo-yos on and off, I've met him numerous times, he seems to delete his profile after a night on the pop. The other 'lost' his profile, and as I had met him and knew he was genuine, I verified him again. I am wary when people hide their verifications, as I like to see who they have met before. Funny how many 'straight' men have veris off other guys and TVs. |
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I recently realised this as I had what appeared to be a "man" pretending to be a "couple" asking about bare back sex. I declined and blocked. The account had all verifications and seemed genuine but wasn't. You just have to be careful.
I hid my verifications (which are only 3) because I didn't want to come over as a "bragger" having lots of verifications. (That's just me) I did the same with my photos.
I figured if a female user is genuinely interested in me I will go through their "vetting" process. If part of it is seeing my verifications then I'll make them public.
Most of my work mates and those close to me know about what I engage in so I have nothing really to hide.
I guess we all have to be mindful on here as we would be in any other social interaction. Women more so due to statistic on violent /unsafe encounters and now sadly men. One of my workmates (who has since left site) met a verified "young lady" and upon arranging a meet he turned up and after being tied up by said lady (as part of kink) was then assaulted sexually by a couple men whom were hiding in wait. (True story)
He for whatever reason didn't report it (to the best of my knowledge to date) but it just goes to show - if alarm bells go off chances are there's a potential danger. Trust that inner alarm |
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