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over a year ago
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Is it just me that gets bothered by this?
This isn't something exclusive to fab, but it seems like whenever I bring up my sex life online most people are pretty respectful about it. They'll range from the, "do tell us more  " type comments to giving their opinion or sharing their own stories and that I like. It's respectful and kinda fun, you know? A good wee bit of fun really.
Then these other guys pop up, and it usually is just single guys. They don't really talk or anything they just pop up demanding details in one or two words or ask question after question relentlessly until they get answers.
"When?"
"age?"
"how many? Who were they? Hot?"
I wouldn't mind if they added a word or two or were a little less pushy about it or tried to be a bit more polite but it really irritates me when guys act like that.
I can't be the only one surely? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me that gets bothered by this?
This isn't something exclusive to fab, but it seems like whenever I bring up my sex life online most people are pretty respectful about it. They'll range from the, "do tell us more " type comments to giving their opinion or sharing their own stories and that I like. It's respectful and kinda fun, you know? A good wee bit of fun really.
Then these other guys pop up, and it usually is just single guys. They don't really talk or anything they just pop up demanding details in one or two words or ask question after question relentlessly until they get answers.
"When?"
"age?"
"how many? Who were they? Hot?"
I wouldn't mind if they added a word or two or were a little less pushy about it or tried to be a bit more polite but it really irritates me when guys act like that.
I can't be the only one surely?"
What?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because you are talking about your sex life they assume you enjoy talking about your sex life and encouraging you to enlarge on it. Can't see how its an issue really, its not as though they are forcing you to disclose as you did so voluntarily in the first place  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Men like details...Women have there own and can make up the details, to add to the wank bank...Men need THE vision, women HAVE the imagination.......I will leg it now, but its true...porn dictates it also ..........running! |
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"Men like details...Women have there own and can make up the details, to add to the wank bank...Men need THE vision, women HAVE the imagination.......I will leg it now, but its true...porn dictates it also ..........running!"
Don't run. You've got at least one person who agrees with you......That's me BTW |
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I think it's reflective of how many guys on here seem to either think it's the right way to communicate, or don't know any better.
It's in the same bag as a 'fancy a fuck?', 'you free to fuck now' etc messages that many of us get.
I think it's worth while being discriminating over the people that we interact with, on forums or in messages etc. It's ok to ignore, if someone isn't on your wavelength. |
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"Because you are talking about your sex life they assume you enjoy talking about your sex life and encouraging you to enlarge on it. Can't see how its an issue really, its not as though they are forcing you to disclose as you did so voluntarily in the first place "
I'm fine with disclosing, just not so fine with the way they talk. There are bad ways to ask things and good ways to ask things. Asking someone to go into a little more detail is fine, demanding... Not so much |
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"It is, just don't answer inane questions about your sex life."
I agree. Receiving boring messages is a filter for me. If they can't spark an interest in my head, they aren't gonna spark an interest in my cock. Weird for a guy I know, but average, I'm not. |
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"I have noticed that some people are happy to share details of their sex life on line, I don't have a problem with that but it isn't for me so I just don't do it.  "
This post wouldn't appear to be incongruous if you weren't happy to show yourself in all your (semi) naked glory. |
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