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Is bad sex better than no sex
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"Wondering if the guys will say yes and the ladies no ?
No. Try lying on your arm first Sam. "
Tried that and using my left hand so it feels like a stranger and I find talking to myself in a foreign accent so it gives the impression I am with a exotic bird is good
(not a parrot) !! |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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Bad sex is just bad!
If you're having sex then some bad sex is bound to come along at some point. Even with all the "right" things in place sometimes it isn't good sex.
Don't go seeking what you know you won't like - no sex is much better than ensuring every time is a bad time.
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Guess you would have to have the bad sex first as you wouldn't know if it was going to be bad or not without trying in the first place.
If you bad sex then went back for more another time then at least you wouldn't have the excuse of not knowing lol
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Wondering if the guys will say yes and the ladies no ?
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pmsl - this is a topic where notes will be added guys, so be cautious about what you say!!!!!!!!!
All my meets have been FAB - just to say  |
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"Wondering if the guys will say yes and the ladies no ?
pmsl - this is a topic where notes will be added guys, so be cautious about what you say!!!!!!!!!
All my meets have been FAB - just to say "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never found myself in the position to find out. Lucky or just good at filtering out who I presume would not click with me? Or do I just have a very low benchmark?  |
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"Bad sex is worse than no sex. Although no sex is also bad, but not as bad as bad sex."
lmao great answer, although I await someone now trying to tell you that you are wrong even though its your opinion |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Bad sex makes you feel pretty lousy about yourself so how is it better than none?"
It's not better than none but it rather assumes the sex will be bad.
If I KNOW the sex will be bad I will abstain. |
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Bad sex can be accidental but could turn into much better sex the next time?
I read that some guys get too excited and others fail to get it up because of nerves etc. Long time since I had those problems myself fortunately.
As others have said if you don't do it you won't know and you wouldn't do it if you didn't fancy the other person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wondering if the guys will say yes and the ladies no ?
pmsl - this is a topic where notes will be added guys, so be cautious about what you say!!!!!!!!!
All my meets have been FAB - just to say "
Fuck 'em if they don't like what you say.....or don't fuck 'em....as the case may be.
I'm not here to try and please everyone.
In answer to the o.p though, I've gotten to the point in life now I've had enough sex of all descriptions, so I'm much more choosy now and would rather have what I expect to be good sex rather than anything that happens along...
If you asked me the same question 15 years ago, I'd have said I'd have fucked a polo mint 'cos the thing has a hole. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wondering if the guys will say yes and the ladies no ?
pmsl - this is a topic where notes will be added guys, so be cautious about what you say!!!!!!!!!
All my meets have been FAB - just to say
Fuck 'em if they don't like what you say.....or don't fuck 'em....as the case may be.
I'm not here to try and please everyone.
In answer to the o.p though, I've gotten to the point in life now I've had enough sex of all descriptions, so I'm much more choosy now and would rather have what I expect to be good sex rather than anything that happens along...
If you asked me the same question 15 years ago, I'd have said I'd have fucked a polo mint 'cos the thing has a hole. "
Always remember, a rough rub is better than a good wank |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wondering if the guys will say yes and the ladies no ?
No. Try lying on your arm first Sam.
Tried that and using my left hand so it feels like a stranger and I find talking to myself in a foreign accent so it gives the impression I am with a exotic bird is good
(not a parrot) !!"
Love this x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I kinda guess when its just for random relief the risk of having a meet where the sex turns out crap outweighs the frustration of holding out for a option which might not materialise....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never. I've faked it when having bad sex to get away (yes men can fake it too). For me good sex starts in the head, and is both mental as well as physical, without both its normally bad. |
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How do you know it's going to be bad?
Some people make your toes curl and your head pops off, others just make your toes curl and little else, trouble is you don't know until you meet them 
Personally I wouldn't meet anyone if I thought it was going to be crap  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Made the mistake of breaking my own rule on Friday at a club! I was very horny - so instead of holding out for someone I'm really attracted to and chatting to them for a while to develop chemistry, I took an average (in my opinion- someone else might have found him gorgeous!) guy that I hadnt chatted to for long into a room. Never again! Realised half way through the act that it was a big mistake but carried on till he came. Not my finest hour and one I won't repeat!! Normally if I don't have a mutual attraction ith someone I just stick to socialising! Xx |
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By *icky999Man
over a year ago
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"Made the mistake of breaking my own rule on Friday at a club! I was very horny - so instead of holding out for someone I'm really attracted to and chatting to them for a while to develop chemistry, I took an average (in my opinion- someone else might have found him gorgeous!) guy that I hadnt chatted to for long into a room. Never again! Realised half way through the act that it was a big mistake but carried on till he came. Not my finest hour and one I won't repeat!! Normally if I don't have a mutual attraction ith someone I just stick to socialising! Xx"
well I tried my best  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive've seen a saying about sex being like pizza...bad pizza is better than no pizza!..dont agree at at all...very very fussy about my pizza...and the older i get, the better i am at choosing good pizza..and if its not available, ill cook myself something i really want to eat instead... |
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"Bad sex just ends up with me wanking so I may as well save my lippy stay at home and have a wank in the first place "
exactly. At least with a wank I won't get bored half way through as I can do it pretty quick then off to sleep.
Had a terrible meet once as I felt I needed to get it out of my system before a busy no-meet period. And all the way home I was muttering to myself pissed off at the petrol, time and effort wasted to feel even more frustrated! |
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