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When meets don't work out
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What s your _iews need a bit of advice"
Completely vague and useless request without any details.
Didn't work out because they didn't turn up?
Because they were not the person in the pictures or the pics were out of date?
Because they turned up d*unk or on drugs?
Because they turned up with thier kids?
Because they were pushy and offensive?
Because they thought you dint look like your pics, or you were d*unk, or they found you pushy and offensive?
You just didn't click with each other?
You got cold feet?
They got cold feet?
There's a million ways a meet might not work out and a million different bits of advice for each so you might need more detail.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not had a bad meet.
Had one or two where I wasn't attracted and didn't have sex.
Pics didn't quite match up shall we say.
Me too, I've been honest, and than I've left. "
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Tell me about it we have had 2 meets and neither lead to proper full on action first the one last night ended in woman getting cold feet during it and basically walking away due to trust issues with hubby. But left us feeling very dejected and wondering if it's for us. We are obviously picking the wrong people we really liked both couples we met the 2nd we invested many weeks and months of messages.and they are still messaging us saying they want to be friends was kinda looking for friends with benifits. Thinking of sticking to camming  |
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"Tell me about it we have had 2 meets and neither lead to proper full on action first the one last night ended in woman getting cold feet during it and basically walking away due to trust issues with hubby. But left us feeling very dejected and wondering if it's for us. We are obviously picking the wrong people we really liked both couples we met the 2nd we invested many weeks and months of messages.and they are still messaging us saying they want to be friends was kinda looking for friends with benifits. Thinking of sticking to camming "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have key words to let the other know something is up.. although if I was really uncomfy I'd just say something x
We once made the mistake of carrying on and it took us a while to sort out whether we would meet at houses again x |
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"Yes that's it pics didn't match up and I let that bit go "
That was perhaps the main mistake, you overlooked that dishonesty. If the could represent a false sense of self through pics what made you think they would be respectful during play?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Might be an idea to sort this out with the couple or admin if they're saying things about you. You are actually saying things about them too and we only have one side of the story. "
how can i report someone if they have blocked me?
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"Might be an idea to sort this out with the couple or admin if they're saying things about you. You are actually saying things about them too and we only have one side of the story. how can i report someone if they have blocked me?"
If youve still got a message from them you can report via the message |
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"Might be an idea to sort this out with the couple or admin if they're saying things about you. You are actually saying things about them too and we only have one side of the story. how can i report someone if they have blocked me?
If youve still got a message from them you can report via the message "
no messages deleted and tried fabd pics but they were gone  |
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"Might be an idea to sort this out with the couple or admin if they're saying things about you. You are actually saying things about them too and we only have one side of the story. how can i report someone if they have blocked me?
If youve still got a message from them you can report via the message no messages deleted and tried fabd pics but they were gone "
If you remember tge usernsme you could use tge contwct link.to discuss it privately with admin |
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