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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm lucky not to have had many on here (other sites were a different matter). I have Borderline Personality Disorder, I can't stand face pics of myself - which is my prerogative. I am constantly harassed for them, to me sex is sex; even if I am in the minority. For my post to be described as "vile", speaks volumes about some guy's proirity of looks over intelligence, humour, and of course, sexual ability.  |
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Abusive messages aren't nice.
I have to say though that on here I prioritise looks because you can't tell about the other things unless you meet the person. |
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Report them every time
It's the only way |
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To be honest most people won't meet without seeing a face picture |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks, I did. I understand many people go on looks, but great sex doesn't depend on appearance for me - even when I was a size 12! |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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If people ask for a face picture, even though you have said you won't provide them, then just move on. They aren't going to be the people you want to meet.
I ask to see a face picture so that I know who I am going to meet. If their profile states they will never provide one then I move on to someone else.
Report any abuse.
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You can't be harrassed by a lot of people only asking you once. That's by definition.
You cannot be contacted more than once if you send a message saying - no thank you - and then block. |
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"Thanks, I did. I understand many people go on looks, but great sex doesn't depend on appearance for me - even when I was a size 12!"
I agree
I meet people who treat me nicely
Not the "beautiful people" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a few abusive messages off guys, I just block them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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True. I have met some genuine people (past accounts) without face pics. |
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What photos you put up are your own affair, but a couple of very poor generic pics of a vagina isn't going to engender much of an interest.
I would never meet on the strength of your pics personally. |
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Appearance is everything in getting sex.
Ask a peacock.
No attraction no sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's right, casual sex means for me, looks are not important. Its just a fuck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Harassed by a variety - always block.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I couldn't have sex with someone i wasn't attracted too I have tried but I just couldn't I have to fancy em |
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"Thanks, I did. I understand many people go on looks, but great sex doesn't depend on appearance for me - even when I was a size 12!
I agree
I meet people who treat me nicely
Not the "beautiful people""
I think you misunderstand attraction then I don't necessarily go for "the beautiful people" whatever or whoever they are but I am not here to form a relationship I am here to have nsa sex with people I find physically (and for me facially in particular)attractive. I wont be having sex with an attractive horrible person or with an unattractive (to me) person that I do like. You may think me shallow but it works for me |
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"That's right, casual sex means for me, looks are not important. Its just a fuck "
Great. Well you two get together then. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Report if you think abusive and block is the best option.  |
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