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Special talents

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Do you have any and what are they?

I'm a pretty good cook and a good driver for a woman

I'm pretty good at diffusing a heated situation and I think I'm quite good at building confidence and progressing people.

Mr is good at pretty much everything he does - except ice skating!

I can also drink lots of beer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can play tunes on my teeth

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm an awesome cook. Mrs N isnt allowed in the kitchen. I bake ace cakes and cookies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I can play tunes on my teeth"

For real? I'd like to hear that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm an awesome cook. Mrs N isnt allowed in the kitchen. I bake ace cakes and cookies."

Haha! I can't bake for shit!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm an awesome cook. Mrs N isnt allowed in the kitchen. I bake ace cakes and cookies.

Haha! I can't bake for shit! "

My choc/fudge brownies.......heavenly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Making cupcakes

Buying presents.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm an awesome cook. Mrs N isnt allowed in the kitchen. I bake ace cakes and cookies.

Haha! I can't bake for shit!

My choc/fudge brownies.......heavenly

They sound heavenly. Please make me some

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By *icky999Man over a year ago

warrington

I have a vey particular set of skills, skills I have acquired over a very long career.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Making cupcakes

Buying presents.

Oooh duly noted - your services could come in handy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have a vey particular set of skills, skills I have acquired over a very long career.

Are you a secret agent?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i can knock up the best sunday roast youre ever likely to have after a long afternoon in the pub!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm awesome.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"i can knock up the best sunday roast youre ever likely to have after a long afternoon in the pub!"

Ooh me too - we could prepare a feast!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm awesome."

Obviously, so is your mum.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm Fab no I mean really fab just ask the local rugby team.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm Fab no I mean really fab just ask the local rugby team.

Haha lucky them!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a girly girl and am great at doing nails and makeup etc but I have also fitted several car engines with Jay and am pretty handy under the bonnet

Juicy xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can play guitar both left and right handed....good with my hands you see ;p haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm a girly girl and am great at doing nails and makeup etc but I have also fitted several car engines with Jay and am pretty handy under the bonnet

Juicy xx"

My kinda girl

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I can play guitar both left and right handed....good with my hands you see ;p haha"

Wow now that's talented!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am lee Evans double trust

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a girly girl and am great at doing nails and makeup etc but I have also fitted several car engines with Jay and am pretty handy under the bonnet

Juicy xx

My kinda girl

xx"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

None

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"None

I feel this is a bit of a fib.....

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS over a year ago

Epsom

Shiatsu... I'm good with my fingers x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Talking people through their problems, talking people down/round.

Driving.... Did a rally day and was told I was a naturally skilled driver.

Mentoring and managing. Organisation

Oh, and I give a damn good blowjob apparently

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"None

I feel this is a bit of a fib.....

Nope I don't have any special talents. I've developed a few skills through practice but no special talents

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Talking people through their problems, talking people down/round.

Driving.... Did a rally day and was told I was a naturally skilled driver.

Mentoring and managing. Organisation

Oh, and I give a damn good blowjob apparently

Talented girl!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"None

I feel this is a bit of a fib.....

Nope I don't have any special talents. I've developed a few skills through practice but no special talents

Ah Ok well maybe others will think they're special?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Talking people through their problems, talking people down/round.

Driving.... Did a rally day and was told I was a naturally skilled driver.

Mentoring and managing. Organisation

Oh, and I give a damn good blowjob apparently

Talented girl!!!"

I can also sing... Love it, find it very therapeutic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"None

I feel this is a bit of a fib.....

Nope I don't have any special talents. I've developed a few skills through practice but no special talents

Ah Ok well maybe others will think they're special?"

I don't think I've ever dedicated enough hours to developing a special talent. I'm more a jack of a few trades but not really mastered anything. I do alright though. I could probably have developed one or two of I had put in the really hard work but I preferred to cruise and got distracted too easily

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can breathe through my ears lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Talking people through their problems, talking people down/round.

Driving.... Did a rally day and was told I was a naturally skilled driver.

Mentoring and managing. Organisation

Oh, and I give a damn good blowjob apparently

Talented girl!!!

I can also sing... Love it, find it very therapeutic "

Completely agree, I love singing too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"None

I feel this is a bit of a fib.....

Nope I don't have any special talents. I've developed a few skills through practice but no special talents

Ah Ok well maybe others will think they're special?

Hmmm I feel like I over played my talents now!

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By *empting Devil.Woman over a year ago

Sheffield

I've just spent the last couple of days making jams and chutneys and pickles. Then for good measure I made some toffee.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Talking people through their problems, talking people down/round.

Driving.... Did a rally day and was told I was a naturally skilled driver.

Mentoring and managing. Organisation

Oh, and I give a damn good blowjob apparently

Talented girl!!!

I can also sing... Love it, find it very therapeutic

Completely agree, I love singing too. "

I love singing and playing the guitar but my son hates me doing it. It's just embarrassing to him, so I let the guitar gather dust and I clean it once a week

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Talking people through their problems, talking people down/round.

Driving.... Did a rally day and was told I was a naturally skilled driver.

Mentoring and managing. Organisation

Oh, and I give a damn good blowjob apparently

Talented girl!!!

I can also sing... Love it, find it very therapeutic

Completely agree, I love singing too.

I love singing and playing the guitar but my son hates me doing it. It's just embarrassing to him, so I let the guitar gather dust and I clean it once a week

I'm sure children are put on earth specifically to embarrass. You need to embrace this!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you have any and what are they?

I'm a pretty good cook and a good driver for a woman

I'm pretty good at diffusing a heated situation and I think I'm quite good at building confidence and progressing people.

Mr is good at pretty much everything he does - except ice skating!

I can also drink lots of beer

I'll take you ice skating. I'm very good at that haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"None

I feel this is a bit of a fib.....

Nope I don't have any special talents. I've developed a few skills through practice but no special talents

Ah Ok well maybe others will think they're special?

Hmmm I feel like I over played my talents now!"

There is a theory that suggests it takes 10,000 hours of well tutored practice to develop a 'special talent' - practising so you cannot get it wrong so to speak. Having the opportunity and focus to do that is why true talent seems like a gift you're born with. The reality is more extraordinary opportunities and dedication.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Talking people through their problems, talking people down/round.

Driving.... Did a rally day and was told I was a naturally skilled driver.

Mentoring and managing. Organisation

Oh, and I give a damn good blowjob apparently

Talented girl!!!

I can also sing... Love it, find it very therapeutic

Completely agree, I love singing too.

I love singing and playing the guitar but my son hates me doing it. It's just embarrassing to him, so I let the guitar gather dust and I clean it once a week

I'm sure children are put on earth specifically to embarrass. You need to embrace this!"

Aye it's what parents are for, even better when he sees me throwing some shapes on the dancefloor on holiday or at a family party

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Talking people through their problems, talking people down/round.

Driving.... Did a rally day and was told I was a naturally skilled driver.

Mentoring and managing. Organisation

Oh, and I give a damn good blowjob apparently

Talented girl!!!

I can also sing... Love it, find it very therapeutic

Completely agree, I love singing too.

I love singing and playing the guitar but my son hates me doing it. It's just embarrassing to him, so I let the guitar gather dust and I clean it once a week

I'm sure children are put on earth specifically to embarrass. You need to embrace this!

Aye it's what parents are for, even better when he sees me throwing some shapes on the dancefloor on holiday or at a family party

I tried it with my eldest. It backfired, he thinks I am the coolest Mum on the planet. Always getting invites out with him and his mates lol.

We have a no holds barred relationship, tells me everything lol.

As for my youngest, he thinks I should be euthanised.... Never allowed to meet his mates, certainly not allowed out with, him during daylight hours lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm good at sewing, I am currently making a suit, it's taking longer than I thought it would, but I have to get it perfect, or there is no point doing it, but it looks good so far

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Talking people through their problems, talking people down/round.

Driving.... Did a rally day and was told I was a naturally skilled driver.

Mentoring and managing. Organisation

Oh, and I give a damn good blowjob apparently

Talented girl!!!

I can also sing... Love it, find it very therapeutic

Completely agree, I love singing too.

I love singing and playing the guitar but my son hates me doing it. It's just embarrassing to him, so I let the guitar gather dust and I clean it once a week

I'm sure children are put on earth specifically to embarrass. You need to embrace this!

Aye it's what parents are for, even better when he sees me throwing some shapes on the dancefloor on holiday or at a family party

I tried it with my eldest. It backfired, he thinks I am the coolest Mum on the planet. Always getting invites out with him and his mates lol.

We have a no holds barred relationship, tells me everything lol.

As for my youngest, he thinks I should be euthanised.... Never allowed to meet his mates, certainly not allowed out with, him during daylight hours lol"

Maybe if I had two I'd get the balance

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

I can stick my tongue up my nose

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can stick my tongue up my nose

bogey-licking good talent

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By *icky999Man over a year ago

warrington

"I'm good at sewing, I am currently making a suit, it's taking longer than I thought it would, but I have to get it perfect, or there is no point doing it, but it looks good so far

"It puts the lotion in the basket"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm good at sewing, I am currently making a suit, it's taking longer than I thought it would, but I have to get it perfect, or there is no point doing it, but it looks good so far

"It puts the lotion in the basket"

And I think I just found the material for the trousers, what size are you?

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By *icky999Man over a year ago

warrington

"I'm good at sewing, I am currently making a suit, it's taking longer than I thought it would, but I have to get it perfect, or there is no point doing it, but it looks good so far

"It puts the lotion in the basket"

And I think I just found the material for the trousers, what size are you?

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By *ackandkateCouple over a year ago

Truro

I can fart in stereo

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can fart in stereo"

2 Arseholes? Someone rip you a new one?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My fastest Rubiks cube solve is 57 seconds (scrambled by someone else)

I can usually solve them in around 90 seconds.

Definitely under 2 minutes almost everytime (still scrambled by someone else)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Baking Christmas cake, no idea why but they turn out fabulously. Not so good at baking other things.

Love photography and have qualifications

being a mum - I love being a mum

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By *londeCazWoman over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I give an awesome under water BJ apparently (though I do have to keep coming up for air, I ain't got gills) and I'm pretty good at making folk laugh (sometimes even intentionally)

I would love to be able to sing or play a musical instrument, but unfortunately I'm tone deaf and can't carry a tune in a bucket, but c'est la vie - can't be all things to all folk

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a model maker and magician. Im good with my hands

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm a model maker and magician. Im good with my hands

Could you magic up a bacon sarnie please?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I give an awesome under water BJ apparently (though I do have to keep coming up for air, I ain't got gills) and I'm pretty good at making folk laugh (sometimes even intentionally)

I would love to be able to sing or play a musical instrument, but unfortunately I'm tone deaf and can't carry a tune in a bucket, but c'est la vie - can't be all things to all folk

Haha yep you made me laugh!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My fastest Rubiks cube solve is 57 seconds (scrambled by someone else)

I can usually solve them in around 90 seconds.

Definitely under 2 minutes almost everytime (still scrambled by someone else)

We require proof of this

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Talking people through their problems, talking people down/round.

Driving.... Did a rally day and was told I was a naturally skilled driver.

Mentoring and managing. Organisation

Oh, and I give a damn good blowjob apparently

Talented girl!!!

I can also sing... Love it, find it very therapeutic

Completely agree, I love singing too.

I love singing and playing the guitar but my son hates me doing it. It's just embarrassing to him, so I let the guitar gather dust and I clean it once a week

I'm sure children are put on earth specifically to embarrass. You need to embrace this!

Aye it's what parents are for, even better when he sees me throwing some shapes on the dancefloor on holiday or at a family party

I tried it with my eldest. It backfired, he thinks I am the coolest Mum on the planet. Always getting invites out with him and his mates lol.

We have a no holds barred relationship, tells me everything lol.

As for my youngest, he thinks I should be euthanised.... Never allowed to meet his mates, certainly not allowed out with, him during daylight hours lol

Maybe if I had two I'd get the balance

Snap, my oldest thinks I'm awesome - youngest, well, let's say she's confused lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can put false eyelashes on at the 1st attempt.

I can out pout anyone

I can pull straight guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I can put false eyelashes on at the 1st attempt.

I can out pout anyone

I can pull straight guys

I can't do lashes, it's so frustrating.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can turn a length of silk cord into handcuffs quicker than you can say "handcuffs".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can put false eyelashes on at the 1st attempt.

I can out pout anyone

I can pull straight guys

I can't do lashes, it's so frustrating."

its a special talent

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I can turn a length of silk cord into handcuffs quicker than you can say "handcuffs".

Very handy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can play the saw and flare my nostrils at will

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My fastest Rubiks cube solve is 57 seconds (scrambled by someone else)

I can usually solve them in around 90 seconds.

Definitely under 2 minutes almost everytime (still scrambled by someone else)

My daughter can do that as well, from the age of about 8.

I can't, cannot get my head round at all, same with knots, cannot do it. I wanted to get a boat but I'd lose it or get my daughter to moor it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I can play the saw and flare my nostrils at will

Like a dragon?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm fluent in 4 different languages, am a black belt in tae kwon doe and was in the final for x factor 3 years ago....

I'm also a talented fantasist

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can play the saw and flare my nostrils at will

Like a dragon?"

How do they hold the saw ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I train dragons to play the saw

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I train dragons to play the saw

Hungarian Horntail ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I train dragons to play the saw

Hungarian Horntail ?

indeedy

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I train dragons to play the saw

Hungarian Horntail ?

indeedy"

Night fury?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm fluent in 4 different languages, am a black belt in tae kwon doe and was in the final for x factor 3 years ago....

I'm also a talented fantasist

Definitely talented!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can fasten and tighten a cable tie around a loom in each hand at the same time without looking

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

Too many to mention

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can make the best of a bad job and create amazing things from rubbish.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I can fasten and tighten a cable tie around a loom in each hand at the same time without looking"

Legend

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Too many to mention"

Modest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can play "Mele Kalika Maka" on the ukulele and beat time on a snare drum at the same time, whilst doing the chorus on a kazoo

My O/H can speak 12 languages fluently

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can talk Bollox in three Languages

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can talk Bollox in three Languages

Gimp"

Lmfao!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I actually can't think of anything at all, how sad is that? Perhaps it's just because I'm just generally overall mint, rather than exceptional at one thing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a great chameleon. I can blend into any background

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just discovered I can multi task ,yep and can hear all the women saying bollox's but listen i'am drinking tea ,watching telly and working my phone all at the same time ,I thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I can play "Mele Kalika Maka" on the ukulele and beat time on a snare drum at the same time, whilst doing the chorus on a kazoo

My O/H can speak 12 languages fluently

12?! That's amazing! Some awesome multi task from you too

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just discovered I can multi task ,yep and can hear all the women saying bollox's but listen i'am drinking tea ,watching telly and working my phone all at the same time ,I thank you

Hmmmm not sure we can give you that mind

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops

I can change beer barrels and clean the lines so the beer is pumped through uber clean may not sound much but its quite manual esp if your cleaning lines for three bars (in the same pub)at the same time .....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can solve a rubiks cube.

3x3

4x4 and a

5x5

i can also move my ears without touching them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have been known to change an inner tube in under three minutes they timed me at work once

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By *ackandkateCouple over a year ago

Truro

"I have been known to change an inner tube in under three minutes they timed me at work once

I'd be impressed if you said you did it on a motorbike wheel

Took me all afternoon once on my old Bonne

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

I do calligraphy

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I do calligraphy "

Beautiful

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I write and record my own music. I play all the instruments (guitar, bass, drums, keyboards). I also build and repair guitars as a hobby.

I shoot competitively at ranges above 1000m up to a mile.

I speak 3 languages.

I've built 2 working jet engines in my garage out of bits of scrap.

I love learning new skills.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a poet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I write and record my own music. I play all the instruments (guitar, bass, drums, keyboards). I also build and repair guitars as a hobby.

I shoot competitively at ranges above 1000m up to a mile.

I speak 3 languages.

I've built 2 working jet engines in my garage out of bits of scrap.

I love learning new skills.

Wow, that's quite an impressive list. I would love to shoot, have done a little but I'm unsure where to go. I love archery too and I think if I kept it up I'd be pretty good

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