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The return of the gentleman
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's time the gentleman re-emerged, it's time us men started to treat women with respect,
In the bar - Gentleman
In the street calling a cab - Gentleman
Cab ride home - Gentleman
On her doorstep - Gentleman
In her bedroom - not so much lol
Let's get back to a time when a woman felt safe in a mans company, let use maners, and be civilised life will be better for it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You shouldn't pick up a brush like that.....
Not everyone thinks the same even in a place such as this.
The lowest common denominator is not necessarily the one to use.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's time the gentleman re-emerged, it's time us men started to treat women with respect,
In the bar - Gentleman
In the street calling a cab - Gentleman
Cab ride home - Gentleman
On her doorstep - Gentleman
In her bedroom - not so much lol
Let's get back to a time when a woman felt safe in a mans company, let use maners, and be civilised life will be better for it "
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
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"It's time the gentleman re-emerged, it's time us men started to treat women with respect,
In the bar - Gentleman
In the street calling a cab - Gentleman
Cab ride home - Gentleman
On her doorstep - Gentleman
In her bedroom - not so much lol
Let's get back to a time when a woman felt safe in a mans company, let use maners, and be civilised life will be better for it "
Love a gent x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do love a man to be a gentleman, not to the extreme, just the simple things, opening doors, offering to pay (even though I would go halfs), ladies first, listen as well as talk |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You've only got to read some threads on here and see what some of the women say about being treated like a "lady" its a wonder the guys arnt scared off.
I love being treated like a lady
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That's because you ARE a lady  |
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"It's time the gentleman re-emerged, it's time us men started to treat women with respect,
In the bar - Gentleman
In the street calling a cab - Gentleman
Cab ride home - Gentleman
On her doorstep - Gentleman
In her bedroom - not so much lol
Let's get back to a time when a woman felt safe in a mans company, let use maners, and be civilised life will be better for it "
Do women generally feel unsafe in men's company? I don't think things have changed in as far as there have always been some men in whose company a woman wont be safe but I don't personally feel unsafe in the company of a man or men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's time the gentleman re-emerged, it's time us men started to treat women with respect,
In the bar - Gentleman
In the street calling a cab - Gentleman
Cab ride home - Gentleman
On her doorstep - Gentleman
In her bedroom - not so much lol
Let's get back to a time when a woman felt safe in a mans company, let use maners, and be civilised life will be better for it
Love a gent x
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Me too...till the bedroom door closes  |
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"It's time the gentleman re-emerged, it's time us men started to treat women with respect,
In the bar - Gentleman
In the street calling a cab - Gentleman
Cab ride home - Gentleman
On her doorstep - Gentleman
In her bedroom - not so much lol
Let's get back to a time when a woman felt safe in a mans company, let use maners, and be civilised life will be better for it
Do women generally feel unsafe in men's company? I don't think things have changed in as far as there have always been some men in whose company a woman wont be safe but I don't personally feel unsafe in the company of a man or men."
I've felt unsafe a few times but that was with ex's who thought it was fun to use me as a punch bag however it has taught me now to fear no one |
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"It's time the gentleman re-emerged, it's time us men started to treat women with respect,
In the bar - Gentleman
In the street calling a cab - Gentleman
Cab ride home - Gentleman
On her doorstep - Gentleman
In her bedroom - not so much lol
Let's get back to a time when a woman felt safe in a mans company, let use maners, and be civilised life will be better for it
Do women generally feel unsafe in men's company? I don't think things have changed in as far as there have always been some men in whose company a woman wont be safe but I don't personally feel unsafe in the company of a man or men."
Some men are definitely cunts though. I've seen them, they exist! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's time the gentleman re-emerged, it's time us men started to treat women with respect,
In the bar - Gentleman
In the street calling a cab - Gentleman
Cab ride home - Gentleman
On her doorstep - Gentleman
In her bedroom - not so much lol"
No I'm gentle in the bedroom too - though if she wants wine, she'll have to drink it out of my mouth. |
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"I do love a man to be a gentleman, not to the extreme, just the simple things, opening doors, offering to pay (even though I would go halfs), ladies first, listen as well as talk "
I don't understand why a man should offer to pay ...I thought women wanted equality ...why don't you offer to pay ...he might like it ? |
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"It's time the gentleman re-emerged, it's time us men started to treat women with respect,
In the bar - Gentleman
In the street calling a cab - Gentleman
Cab ride home - Gentleman
On her doorstep - Gentleman
In her bedroom - not so much lol
Let's get back to a time when a woman felt safe in a mans company, let use maners, and be civilised life will be better for it
Do women generally feel unsafe in men's company? I don't think things have changed in as far as there have always been some men in whose company a woman wont be safe but I don't personally feel unsafe in the company of a man or men.
Some men are definitely cunts though. I've seen them, they exist! "
Yep, I think I said that only in a more ladylike fashion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would like to think i have always been a gentleman.
Perhaps we could get back to a time when more females behaved like a lady."
And why don't you tell us how women should behave? |
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"By being a gentleman, you gain respect for yourself, that is how you gain respect from others, and learn to respect others too  "
I think you achieve all that by showing respect and any gender can do that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"By being a gentleman, you gain respect for yourself, that is how you gain respect from others, and learn to respect others too
I think you achieve all that by showing respect and any gender can do that."
But showing respect for all people no mater the gender race religeon or sexual orientation and being a man makes you a gentleman |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you a gentleman if you let your fellow wankers cum first when spunking over a lady in a bukakee session?"
1, as long as you don't spunk on said fellow wankers, I'm sure everything will be fine.
2, you are a gent, for spun king over a LADY in said fashion |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But showing respect for all people no mater the gender race religeon or sexual orientation and being a man makes you a gentleman
Come again? "
Thank you sir, don't mind if I do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1, as long as you don't spunk on said fellow wankers, I'm sure everything will be fine.
2, you are a gent, for spun king over a LADY in said fashion "
Have you been drinking? |
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"By being a gentleman, you gain respect for yourself, that is how you gain respect from others, and learn to respect others too
I think you achieve all that by showing respect and any gender can do that.
But showing respect for all people no mater the gender race religeon or sexual orientation and being a man makes you a gentleman"
I can't disagree with that but I do disagree with your implication that men no longer treat women with respect, its not something I've noticed. |
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
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"I do love a man to be a gentleman, not to the extreme, just the simple things, opening doors, offering to pay (even though I would go halfs), ladies first, listen as well as talk
I don't understand why a man should offer to pay ...I thought women wanted equality ...why don't you offer to pay ...he might like it ?"
I did & it flabbergasted him after previous partners of his had never done so.
After almost 3 years we moved in together & housing costs are split equally. However he is the gent & carries bags, opens doors, all the things i fell in love with him for
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I've always been taught to pay my own way and that includes paying towards a meal on a date. When I've offered on occasions the men have looked offended some have said don't be silly. I tend to insist on paying half when I don't think there is a spark etc as I don't want the bloke to pay for the whole meal when I'm unlikely to ever set eyes on him again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would like to think i have always been a gentleman.
Perhaps we could get back to a time when more females behaved like a lady.
And why don't you tell us how women should behave?"
I did say "a time when MORE females behaved like a lady"
All too often I see females adopting this so called ladette culture.gathering in gangs,intimidating others,fighting,cursing,vulgar displays of misplaced impression.all very unlady like in my opinion.
It's not just some men who have become ungentlemanly,but some females are becoming more unlady like. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Almost every man I meet here and in my day to day life is a gentleman. There are the odd few who aren't but the truly are in the minority.
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Me too. It's always lovely to meet true gentlemen. They are strong enough in themselves to accept women as equal but different.
The accusations of not being ladylike because of being a feminist will no doubt emerge on this thread so I may not read beyond this post.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I much prefer people to be themselves. Just because a man opens a door or pays for a meal doesn't mean he doesn't have the capacity to be a cunt. The same goes for women.
I don't want to have to restrict my actions so they fit into some stereotypical what's right or wrong. I'd like to be able to decide that for myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Almost every man I meet here and in my day to day life is a gentleman. There are the odd few who aren't but the truly are in the minority.
Me too. It's always lovely to meet true gentlemen. They are strong enough in themselves to accept women as equal but different.
The accusations of not being ladylike because of being a feminist will no doubt emerge on this thread so I may not read beyond this post.
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Interesting point, however I think that the two aren't mutually exclusive. Being a gentleman is about manners and respect, the same as a lady. Neither have relevance to being a feminist |
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By *gNeMan
over a year ago
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Interesting point, however I think that the two aren't mutually exclusive. Being a gentleman is about manners and respect, the same as a lady. Neither have relevance to being a feminist"
I got told by my feminist pal that i was sexist because I held the door open for her.
My response was that I do it for everyone, i'm just polite. Chip on her shoulder.
Not all feminists are like that though, but among the younger generation, that superficial brand of feminism is the most prominent.
I don't agree with the ideology in general, although I often agree with the ultimate goals, I do not agree with the dogma. |
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Interesting point, however I think that the two aren't mutually exclusive. Being a gentleman is about manners and respect, the same as a lady. Neither have relevance to being a feminist
I got told by my feminist pal that i was sexist because I held the door open for her.
My response was that I do it for everyone, i'm just polite. Chip on her shoulder.
Not all feminists are like that though, but among the younger generation, that superficial brand of feminism is the most prominent.
I don't agree with the ideology in general, although I often agree with the ultimate goals, I do not agree with the dogma. "
its not just the young ones I can assure you.
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By *gNeMan
over a year ago
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Interesting point, however I think that the two aren't mutually exclusive. Being a gentleman is about manners and respect, the same as a lady. Neither have relevance to being a feminist
I got told by my feminist pal that i was sexist because I held the door open for her.
My response was that I do it for everyone, i'm just polite. Chip on her shoulder.
Not all feminists are like that though, but among the younger generation, that superficial brand of feminism is the most prominent.
I don't agree with the ideology in general, although I often agree with the ultimate goals, I do not agree with the dogma. its not just the young ones I can assure you.
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Oh I know, a lot more prominent though. The 'old breed' had more specific goals. |
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