FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > Tell them your not intrested
Tell them your not intrested
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Just delete your sent box dude, it will save you getting stressed, honestly, I was totally fine with somebody reading a message, not replying and deleting it, but the part that wound me up was people who read then don't reply or delete..
in the end its just not worth it, just delete sent box after you send a message, that way you wont be disappointed  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Considering the amount of messages that women get , they would be forever messaging that they're not interested and not replying to ones they like.
"
That goes to cpl's aswell |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Thanks for your message but I'm not interested in a meet thanks.
Oh well I didn't want to meet you anyway you f*c**ng f** s**g (please fill in the blanks)!
One of many reasons some don't reply. On the plus side, I was offered money today after a polite no thanks!
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"If someone messages you and your not intrested tell them your not intrested don't leave them hanging by not replying to their mail !!!!!!"
Yes Sir Certainly Sir right away Sir..
ATTENNNNSHUN 
Gimp |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"If someone messages you and your not intrested tell them your not intrested don't leave them hanging by not replying to their mail !!!!!!"
The FAQ does tell you no reply should be taken as not interested |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Think there are a few disgruntled guys here today....  "
I think I got trolled by this once. On her profile it said "if I'm not interested ill delete your message" or similar and I said at the end of my message "if your not interested just delete the message"
....message stayed as "read" but not deleted till after a week in deleted it from the sent box lol
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"If someone messages you and your not intrested tell them your not intrested don't leave them hanging by not replying to their mail !!!!!!"
I'll use the site the way that suits me, just as you do. You're no more entitled to make site rules than I am.
Do you send messages to people you're not interested in? I doubt it and I'm sure you feel that's entirely reasonable. So why should I not have the same right?
If you want to criticise something, take a look at your own profile and start there. That, you may be pleased to know, is something you are entitled to change and can do something about. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"No reply means not interested so your not exactly hanging are you? "
That explains the no response from my mail 8months ago , I've been eagerly waiting , you could of just said you were'nt interested  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Just delete your sent box dude, it will save you getting stressed, honestly, I was totally fine with somebody reading a message, not replying and deleting it, but the part that wound me up was people who read then don't reply or delete..
in the end its just not worth it, just delete sent box after you send a message, that way you wont be disappointed "
 I also recommend bulk sent box deletion, it's much more liberating! Delete them all and wait to see who does reply rather than stressing about who doesn't |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"If someone messages you and your not intrested tell them your not intrested don't leave them hanging by not replying to their mail !!!!!!"
How long you waiting? Sometimes he opens the messages,but leaves the replies to me . .
Her |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"If someone messages you and your not intrested tell them your not intrested don't leave them hanging by not replying to their mail !!!!!!"
If we are interested we will reply.. if we are unsure we may wait till both can look.. If we aren't.. We may reply... if it was just a crap message and a crap profile then we will just delete. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Guys get so worked up on here over no reply - it's just silly!!!!
Single women/ladies get 100's of messages daily.
Couples the same!
Guys want that polite and honest reply yet if you had a reply with such honesty and demanded politeness I'm sure you wouldn't appreciate it.
They may not reply because your profile makes you sound like a prick.
Have a face only a mother could love.
Your cock wouldn't satisfy them.
Your profile doesn't stand you close to other single guys.
Or many other annoyances.
Just move on, there are 1000's on the site after all... You may not be one persons cup of tea but you may be somebody else's champagne. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I wonder if these guys reply to every unsolicitated flyer that is posted through their door.....
What people chose to do with messages received is wholly up to them. I would say out of 80 messages today- and I haven't posted for a meet, only a handful have read my profile/been polite. I'll reply where warranted/wanted/possible. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
If I'm not interested and I reply, that then means they can reply again if I chose to block all single men.. So 6 months down the line I'm wondering what we have spoken about and why we stopped talking when they try their luck again.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Under many names this topic keeps coming up, why?
Its just the way it is, deal with it"
There should be forum "stickies" for common subjects like there is on every other internet forum in the world!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Thanks for your message but I'm not interested in a meet thanks.
Oh well I didn't want to meet you anyway you f*c**ng f** s**g (please fill in the blanks)!
One of many reasons some don't reply. On the plus side, I was offered money today after a polite no thanks!
Flame how much are you "worth"? lol!
"
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Considering the amount of messages that women get , they would be forever messaging that they're not interested and not replying to ones they like.
"
Only the ones that need the ego boost get tons of mail.... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *tloversCouple
over a year ago
Warrington |
I got 32 messages today. I am not interested or looking at the moment.
I have a full time job.
Do I need to reply to all 32?
When can I find time in the day to do this?
Have you ever replied to 32 messages a day?
I await your reply OP...I am sure you won't just ignore these questions because that would be rude and leave me hanging...
So over to you.... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"Considering the amount of messages that women get , they would be forever messaging that they're not interested and not replying to ones they like.
Only the ones that need the ego boost get tons of mail...."
While I know the above comment was said tongue in check, there is in my opinion some truth to it. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"If someone messages you and your not intrested tell them your not intrested don't leave them hanging by not replying to their mail !!!!!!"
9 times out of 10, we will...
Its far less stressful to take a no reply as a not interested. Would also recommend deleting your sent messages so it doesn't drive you bonkers by keep checking.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"If someone messages you and your not intrested tell them your not intrested don't leave them hanging by not replying to their mail !!!!!!"
We get this from every man that messages us and we delete the message,they then go on a rant calling us ignorant so we point out the fact that a "no reply"is a polite no.....to which there is yet another rant and a lot of insinuation that we can force our foreheads into our anal sphincters ...For this reason weve abandoned all hope of meeting men  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Considering the amount of messages that women get , they would be forever messaging that they're not interested and not replying to ones they like.
Only the ones that need the ego boost get tons of mail....
While I know the above comment was said tongue in check, there is in my opinion some truth to it."
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"
Have you ever replied to 32 messages a day?
I
Given a conversation can run into the dozens of messages very quickly I imagine most people have."
Big difference between one conversation with one person, and 32 with different ones tho.. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"If someone messages you and your not intrested tell them your not intrested don't leave them hanging by not replying to their mail !!!!!!"
No I don't want to! as I get the but why then they get abusive then I have to block them .As faqs say take no response as a no thankyou move on everyone's happy |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
What makes me laugh is that everyone assumes we have even seen your message. My inbox holds about 100 unread messages. If I get 101 messages then I am afraid you have fallen off the bottom. I'm not actively ignoring you. I'm just busy x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Thanks for your message but I'm not interested in a meet thanks.
Oh well I didn't want to meet you anyway you f*c**ng f** s**g (please fill in the blanks)!
One of many reasons some don't reply. On the plus side, I was offered money today after a polite no thanks!
"
Haha I got" you fucking slag I didn't want to meet you anyway you're riddled with aids like all swingers and your fanny looks like a box of smashed crabs"
My reply "hahaha your cock looks like ET'S finger son fuck off and be gone" so I just ignore people I am not interested in its easier that way |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"If someone messages you and your not intrested tell them your not intrested don't leave them hanging by not replying to their mail !!!!!!"
A bit extreme isn't it, to send a message and then go hanging. I hope it's more like a monkey in a tree than with rope near your neck .
Whatever way it is, I'm still not complying |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"If someone messages you and your not intrested tell them your not intrested don't leave them hanging by not replying to their mail !!!!!!"
Another consideration should be that if they clearly say in their profile you are not their type, don't bother them.
We get LOADS of that!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Thanks for your message but I'm not interested in a meet thanks.
Oh well I didn't want to meet you anyway you f*c**ng f** s**g (please fill in the blanks)!
One of many reasons some don't reply. On the plus side, I was offered money today after a polite no thanks!
Haha I got" you fucking slag I didn't want to meet you anyway you're riddled with aids like all swingers and your fanny looks like a box of smashed crabs"
My reply "hahaha your cock looks like ET'S finger son fuck off and be gone" so I just ignore people I am not interested in its easier that way "
how very rude! nice bum btw |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I tend to find being polite and saying no thanks is actually taken as a 'please mail me as much as possible because no thanks means I'm really interested ' |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Reminiscent of face pic friday, you lower your "shields" to play the game then after the swapping of faces, the guy who you don't want to meet because he's not what you're looking for continues to message you looking for a meet until you end up having to block them. Not his fault, probably because it's the longest conversation he's had on here! And of course once you've talked to someone after dropping your filters they can always message you even after you reinstate them. So the most usual recourse is unfortunately block. Ah pity the single guy. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"If someone messages you and your not intrested tell them your not intrested don't leave them hanging by not replying to their mail !!!!!!"
I cant believe I don't get laid more on here when this is how the competition behave
Women should be throwing themselves at a nice guy like me  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
Her
