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Your longest 'dry spell'
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Since you first lost your virginity, what's the longest amount of time you have gone between sex?
My longest is 6 months. I bet that can be beat quite easily! |
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"Since you first lost your virginity, what's the longest amount of time you have gone between sex?
My longest is 6 months. I bet that can be beat quite easily!"
Longest...years because was working too hard overseas and on call 24/7 for months at a time so had no inclination, this year, so far, over 3 months but prepared to wait for the right offer so it could be a long time!  |
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"18 months while away on active service."
With a name like that you're are/were in the Navy. Er, exactly how active is the service when you're sat on a ship miles from the nearest bullets? Don't you mean while you had an 18 month holiday. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"18 months while away on active service.
With a name like that you're are/were in the Navy. Er, exactly how active is the service when you're sat on a ship miles from the nearest bullets? Don't you mean while you had an 18 month holiday. "
Bit harsh is it not?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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6 years!
I was too traumatized by the relationship and when it ended I feared that he had put me off sex for life!
Really, really didn't want to go near another man for a very long time and it just snowballed! Before I knew it, 6 years had gone by.......at least I got lots of other thing sorted in my life, so it wasn't wasted time.........entirely!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A couple of years without having sex in between, but the last few have also been very patchy, if not quite matching that distance over ten years ago."
My BEST period was around late 2008-most of 2009, I'm not sure if I'd just found my 'groove' or the scene was simply doing a lot better at the time than it is now (interesting this period was just prior to the recession?), but through that time I was having at least one meet per month. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure really. But it would have been around the time when I was 18 - 20 as I wasn't at all that bothered about it. There were a couple of girls in the pub that would oblige if it got very desperate so probably about a month or so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After my ex and I split, I cared more for bringing my kids up than meeting someone and think it was about 10 yrs. As to here, November I think and got too busy working to have the time. Now I'm working less I've kind of lost the inclination to meet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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9 months while I was married. We'd get to about the 9 month mark before I kicked off and I'd get the 'pity fuck'. I was stuck in this never ending cycle for 12 years. I was monogamous to my asexual husband until we just grew apart. I've loved the single life since! |
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4 years after my marriage ended. I was too busy learning to be a single mum, keeping on top of uni studies and earning enough money to keep my house. Then things went a bit manic for a couple of years and currently it's 14 months since i last had fun due to a genetic disfiguring illness. In fact it's likely that'll be it for me now as I can't really see anyone finding me attractive again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I got shut of my last ex, I became celebate for 4 yrs and then for the last 3 yrs sex mad haha
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Same here...ex messed me up so decided to throw myself into work and shun all sexual thoughts...now back with a vengeance x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"6 years!
I was too traumatized by the relationship and when it ended I feared that he had put me off sex for life!
Really, really didn't want to go near another man for a very long time and it just snowballed! Before I knew it, 6 years had gone by.......at least I got lots of other thing sorted in my life, so it wasn't wasted time.........entirely!! "
I could have written this - same length of time as well. 6 years had suddenly whizzed by. |
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