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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down "Have you got an Uncle Colin who lives in the Lakes ? xx chin up xx | |||
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down
Have you got an Uncle Colin who lives in the Lakes ?
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down
Have you got an Uncle Colin who lives in the Lakes ?
xx chin up xx
*chokesnort* "Poor Old Uncle Colin. He must be having his Easter Eggs and trying to create more rules as the regulator for Fabswingers.com | |||
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down
Have you got an Uncle Colin who lives in the Lakes ?
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" Have you got an Uncle Colin who lives in the Lakes ? xx chin up xx"  | |||
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down "Your verification suggest you are getting a meet roughly every fortnight. So I'm not sure what your point is? Or is everyone supposed to want to meet you?  | |||
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down "Ignore the sarcastic comments. Seriously though if you are lacking for confidence boosts this ain't the place to do it. Us men will say/do anything for a shag and once the goal is achieved its zip up and move on | |||
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down
Ignore the sarcastic comments.
Seriously though if you are lacking for confidence boosts this ain't the place to do it. Us men will say/do anything for a shag and once the goal is achieved its zip up and move on"For the life of me, and I re read, I can't see any sarcasm. Your point is a valid one after that. | |||
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" Ignore the sarcastic comments. n" I wasn't sarcastic, she says it gets her down... then don't do it. She posted 3 days ago that it was getting to her and this is supposed to be fun. All the best to her and you are right, people will respond to flirty updates and they will swarm... you try and pick out the genuine from that, it won't be easy | |||
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down
Your verification suggest you are getting a meet roughly every fortnight. So I'm not sure what your point is? Or is everyone supposed to want to meet you? "They can't. They're too busy meeting me. I sue them for disability discrimination otherwise | |||
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"I had an Uncle Colin....its not funny its simply bigotted anti- Colinism
Grumpy Gimp"If i'd have known. I'd have never mentioned him. I will always be more Colon minded from here on in. | |||
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"I said chin up Painting yourself a victim constantly does not put others in the wrong. That's my last word on it. You come across as someone who just wants to rail against the world. I hope things get better for you. " Sorry my last message was not aimed at you, I meant to exclude you from it and thanks for being understanding xx Happy Easter | |||
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"I said chin up Painting yourself a victim constantly does not put others in the wrong. That's my last word on it. You come across as someone who just wants to rail against the world. I hope things get better for you. Sorry my last message was not aimed at you, I meant to exclude you from it and thanks for being understanding xx Happy Easter " All is okay x We all get cheesed off from time to time. Don't put your store in men , women or anyone else. When YOU like you all will go your way x Be Smiley for Easter. | |||
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"Wow thanks for the support that ppl on ere are suppose to give...who the feck is uncle Colin and tbh I was just looking for an answer to my question not have the piss taken out of me... It doesn't matter how many I'm meeting the question is it okay To be let down and get put down like a few of you have done to me already ! " For a change you've been subject to similar treatment that a single man might expect posting as you have done. No it isn't ok to be let down but it happens to us all. If its upsetting you the only person who cam remedy it is you by removing yourself from the situation. This is meant helpfully, good luck. | |||
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"Wow thanks for the support that ppl on ere are suppose to give...who the feck is uncle Colin and tbh I was just looking for an answer to my question not have the piss taken out of me... It doesn't matter how many I'm meeting the question is it okay To be let down and get put down like a few of you have done to me already ! " no its not okay at all. And some of us men don't lose intetest when we get thr "goal" but some of are idiots. It's good to rant too  hope you feel better soon if not ive got colins mobile  | |||
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"Wow thanks for the support that ppl on ere are suppose to give...who the feck is uncle Colin and tbh I was just looking for an answer to my question not have the piss taken out of me... It doesn't matter how many I'm meeting the question is it okay To be let down and get put down like a few of you have done to me already ! " I don't think anyone is taking the piss out of you....just when you see someone who's doing as well as anyone on.the site complain....it illicits a  reaction is all....
The filtering process and finding the odd plonker isn't exclusive to you...its universal for everyone on here is all....
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"Wow thanks for the support that ppl on ere are suppose to give...who the feck is uncle Colin and tbh I was just looking for an answer to my question not have the piss taken out of me... It doesn't matter how many I'm meeting the question is it okay To be let down and get put down like a few of you have done to me already ! For a change you've been subject to similar treatment that a single man might expect posting as you have done. No it isn't ok to be let down but it happens to us all. If its upsetting you the only person who cam remedy it is you by removing yourself from the situation. This is meant helpfully, good luck." I have blocked them since, it's ppl like that who give others a bad name xx | |||
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"Wow thanks for the support that ppl on ere are suppose to give...who the feck is uncle Colin and tbh I was just looking for an answer to my question not have the piss taken out of me... It doesn't matter how many I'm meeting the question is it okay To be let down and get put down like a few of you have done to me already ! no its not okay at all. And some of us men don't lose intetest when we get thr "goal" but some of are idiots. It's good to rant too hope you feel better soon if not ive got colins mobile "I haven't got a clue who colin is lool x | |||
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"Wow thanks for the support that ppl on ere are suppose to give...who the feck is uncle Colin and tbh I was just looking for an answer to my question not have the piss taken out of me... It doesn't matter how many I'm meeting the question is it okay To be let down and get put down like a few of you have done to me already ! I don't think anyone is taking the piss out of you....just when you see someone who's doing as well as anyone on.the site complain....it illicits a reaction is all....
The filtering process and finding the odd plonker isn't exclusive to you...its universal for everyone on here is all....
Best of luck o.p "So is it wrong to have had 8 meets in 5 months ? | |||
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"I've no sympathy for men moaning about this and, equally, no sympathy for women moaning about it, despite what is said about women getting different reactions to threads than men. The site is what you make it. If it's not working for you, change what you do." I take it you are not sympathetic to my question ? Thanks for your input but tbh I wanted to see if it had happened to others not sarcasm for it | |||
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"Because OP, this site had many people on it who objectify others and treat them as sex objects. They seek to make their fantasies a reality and use status and deception to do so. There are fewer and fewer on here who treat people for who they are, not what they are." Yeah very true, it is all about fulfilling your sexual desires but also about making friends and a lot that join are forgetting that concept. I have quite a few good friends off ere and enjoy chatting to ppl, it's not all about meeting. But when one is arranged and they don't turn up it infuriates me | |||
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"If I am attarcted to somebody it tends to be mutual in most cases and in my experience on here it has not that much to do with how I (or the other person) look but more with a "connection" established over a few messages. I would lie if I said looks do not come into at all, there has tobe an initial attraction but..BUT I really would not notice as negative any physical imperfections in the other person if I am attracted to them as a person. " Well unfortunately their is some that don't think as you do, shame they don't and there would be no let's down for ppl like myself Xx | |||
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"I've no sympathy for men moaning about this and, equally, no sympathy for women moaning about it, despite what is said about women getting different reactions to threads than men. The site is what you make it. If it's not working for you, change what you do. I take it you are not sympathetic to my question ? Thanks for your input but tbh I wanted to see if it had happened to others not sarcasm for it " There's no sarcasm. It might not be what you want to hear but it doesn't make it sarcasm. Many experience disappointments and let downs on here from time to time. If you're not happy with the results you are getting, change what you are doing. That's honest advice and is exactly the same as I say to men who complain about this. | |||
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"Because OP, this site had many people on it who objectify others and treat them as sex objects. They seek to make their fantasies a reality and use status and deception to do so. There are fewer and fewer on here who treat people for who they are, not what they are. Yeah very true, it is all about fulfilling your sexual desires but also about making friends and a lot that join are forgetting that concept. I have quite a few good friends off ere and enjoy chatting to ppl, it's not all about meeting. But when one is arranged and they don't turn up it infuriates me " Quite agree - once arranged it is really rude not to turn up. Things can get in the way but in today's world of communication technology there is no reason not to let the other person know. But then, that kind of behaviour of simply not turning up says tons about that person... and they probably would not be worth meeting in the first place? | |||
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"Never mind alice... who the fuck.is Colin! "Uncle Colin is the latest Hottest Hunk on Fabs. Everyone wants a piece of him | |||
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"Us men will say/do anything for a shag and once the goal is achieved its zip up and move on" Speak for yourself not all of man kind!  | |||
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"Us men will say/do anything for a shag and once the goal is achieved its zip up and move on Speak for yourself not all of man kind! " | |||
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"If I am attarcted to somebody it tends to be mutual in most cases and in my experience on here it has not that much to do with how I (or the other person) look but more with a "connection" established over a few messages. I would lie if I said looks do not come into at all, there has tobe an initial attraction but..BUT I really would not notice as negative any physical imperfections in the other person if I am attracted to them as a person. Well unfortunately their is some that don't think as you do, shame they don't and there would be no let's down for ppl like myself Xx" To be honest us men get a raw deal to its a 2 way thing but there are many girls and boys that are genuine it's just finding them and after a while of being on this site you get to find out who they are | |||
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"I think most if us will experience being let down at one time or another, it happens, it's part of the territory but some of us keep it to ourselves, chalk it up to experience and move on " best answer so far | |||
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"Wow thanks for the support that ppl on ere are suppose to give...who the feck is uncle Colin and tbh I was just looking for an answer to my question not have the piss taken out of me... It doesn't matter how many I'm meeting the question is it okay To be let down and get put down like a few of you have done to me already ! I don't think anyone is taking the piss out of you....just when you see someone who's doing as well as anyone on.the site complain....it illicits a reaction is all....
The filtering process and finding the odd plonker isn't exclusive to you...its universal for everyone on here is all....
Best of luck o.p
So is it wrong to have had 8 meets in 5 months ? "No of course it isn't. But it lacks self awareness to post woe is me threads about how you are struggling | |||
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"I think most if us will experience being let down at one time or another, it happens, it's part of the territory but some of us keep it to ourselves, chalk it up to experience and move on best answer so far "I have my moments | |||
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"I think most if us will experience being let down at one time or another, it happens, it's part of the territory but some of us keep it to ourselves, chalk it up to experience and move on best answer so far
I have my moments "Thank you so much for your reply and yeah it's another lesson learn on this site | |||
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"Wow thanks for the support that ppl on ere are suppose to give...who the feck is uncle Colin and tbh I was just looking for an answer to my question not have the piss taken out of me... It doesn't matter how many I'm meeting the question is it okay To be let down and get put down like a few of you have done to me already ! I don't think anyone is taking the piss out of you....just when you see someone who's doing as well as anyone on.the site complain....it illicits a reaction is all....
The filtering process and finding the odd plonker isn't exclusive to you...its universal for everyone on here is all....
Best of luck o.p
So is it wrong to have had 8 meets in 5 months ?
No of course it isn't. But it lacks self awareness to post woe is me threads about how you are struggling"I'm not saying woe is me, I was merely asking does it not infuriate others ? | |||
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"BTW, OP, you didn't ask a question." I thought all in the lounge are more or less questions ? | |||
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down "Understand how you feel but keep your chun up there are plenty of genuine men on here | |||
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"There loss wouldn't let it effect you "No it's not effected me tbh, I was just asking how others felt about it.. But some replies on ere are making me feel I can't come ere for advice without getting shot down.. Thanks for your replies xx | |||
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down "Report all abusive messages like I do Where you live, there are plenty of swingers clubs so why not started going either alone or with men, couples and ladies you know very well You'd do very well in the club scene where any rude behaviour to other members will result in exclusion So ignore the fools Play the game better than the rest like me | |||
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"BTW, OP, you didn't ask a question. I thought all in the lounge are more or less questions ?" No you made a statement which people commented on. If you wanted to ask something you need to put a question mark  on the end. | |||
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"There loss wouldn't let it effect you
No it's not effected me tbh, I was just asking how others felt about it.. But some replies on ere are making me feel I can't come ere for advice without getting shot down..
Thanks for your replies xx"But you said it winds you up and gets you down, you also headed this "small minded people". | |||
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down "We're all somebodys perfect, you just have to wade through the chaff to find what you're looking for so don't worry lovely lady, don't let it get you down because like I said, your somebody's perfect, never forget that x | |||
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"There loss wouldn't let it effect you
No it's not effected me tbh, I was just asking how others felt about it.. But some replies on ere are making me feel I can't come ere for advice without getting shot down..
Thanks for your replies xx
But you said it winds you up and gets you down, you also headed this "small minded people". "Exactly I came to find out off others how they felt, but instead I am being called an attention seeker. Really thought ppl that visit the lounge was not judgemental like the small minded men I have spoken to ? | |||
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"drama, drama, drama...... like attracts like. all the best" Haha such is life babe xx | |||
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"There loss wouldn't let it effect you
No it's not effected me tbh, I was just asking how others felt about it.. But some replies on ere are making me feel I can't come ere for advice without getting shot down..
Thanks for your replies xx
But you said it winds you up and gets you down, you also headed this "small minded people".
Exactly I came to find out off others how they felt, but instead I am being called an attention seeker. Really thought ppl that visit the lounge was not judgemental like the small minded men I have spoken to ? "Did you? I think calling people small minded is pretty judgemental myself but that's just me. | |||
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"Wow thanks for the support that ppl on ere are suppose to give...who the feck is uncle Colin and tbh I was just looking for an answer to my question not have the piss taken out of me... It doesn't matter how many I'm meeting the question is it okay To be let down and get put down like a few of you have done to me already ! I don't think anyone is taking the piss out of you....just when you see someone who's doing as well as anyone on.the site complain....it illicits a reaction is all....
The filtering process and finding the odd plonker isn't exclusive to you...its universal for everyone on here is all....
Best of luck o.p
So is it wrong to have had 8 meets in 5 months ? "No....when was that a question? Bottom line is....your doing fine on here....you'll find not many folk ate Hon.a break the violins out because you've had to filter through a few folk just like everyone else.... That's fab....like it or lump it Again.....best of luck... | |||
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down "Of course it matters what people look like, there has to be sexual attraction for most people. It's the internet, people don't owe you anything. You chat to them... they get bored and stop replying... or you meet them... Why the drama? | |||
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"I can't sympathise with this... Sure there are the 'let downs' on here but the fact you've had meets indicates its not been as bad as you suggest. Just because you got stood up that's no reflection on the site, i think it's more a reflection on you if anything, posting about it in a rant then pretending you was 'only asking' makes this open season for anyone using the forums. If it was a guy who posted this...oh my! "I'm fed up of single women whining... they ruin it for all the genuine single women. | |||
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"Haha try being a man on this site." It's great I reckon | |||
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"There loss wouldn't let it effect you
No it's not effected me tbh, I was just asking how others felt about it.. But some replies on ere are making me feel I can't come ere for advice without getting shot down..
Thanks for your replies xx
But you said it winds you up and gets you down, you also headed this "small minded people".
Exactly I came to find out off others how they felt, but instead I am being called an attention seeker. Really thought ppl that visit the lounge was not judgemental like the small minded men I have spoken to ? "Why are they small minded? | |||
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"I can't sympathise with this... Sure there are the 'let downs' on here but the fact you've had meets indicates its not been as bad as you suggest. Just because you got stood up that's no reflection on the site, i think it's more a reflection on you if anything, posting about it in a rant then pretending you was 'only asking' makes this open season for anyone using the forums. If it was a guy who posted this...oh my!
I'm fed up of single women whining... they ruin it for all the genuine single women."I see what you did there  | |||
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"Wow thanks for the support that ppl on ere are suppose to give...who the feck is uncle Colin and tbh I was just looking for an answer to my question not have the piss taken out of me... It doesn't matter how many I'm meeting the question is it okay To be let down and get put down like a few of you have done to me already ! I don't think anyone is taking the piss out of you....just when you see someone who's doing as well as anyone on.the site complain....it illicits a reaction is all....
The filtering process and finding the odd plonker isn't exclusive to you...its universal for everyone on here is all....
Best of luck o.p
So is it wrong to have had 8 meets in 5 months ?
No....when was that a question?
Bottom line is....your doing fine on here....you'll find not many folk ate Hon.a break the violins out because you've had to filter through a few folk just like everyone else....
That's fab....like it or lump it
Again.....best of luck..."*are gonna* Excuse my spelling. | |||
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"Wow thanks for the support that ppl on ere are suppose to give...who the feck is uncle Colin and tbh I was just looking for an answer to my question not have the piss taken out of me... It doesn't matter how many I'm meeting the question is it okay To be let down and get put down like a few of you have done to me already ! I don't think anyone is taking the piss out of you....just when you see someone who's doing as well as anyone on.the site complain....it illicits a reaction is all....
The filtering process and finding the odd plonker isn't exclusive to you...its universal for everyone on here is all....
Best of luck o.p
So is it wrong to have had 8 meets in 5 months ?
No of course it isn't. But it lacks self awareness to post woe is me threads about how you are struggling
I'm not saying woe is me, I was merely asking does it not infuriate others ?"You didn't ask anything. You accused people of being small minded for not meeting you | |||
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"There loss wouldn't let it effect you
No it's not effected me tbh, I was just asking how others felt about it.. But some replies on ere are making me feel I can't come ere for advice without getting shot down..
Thanks for your replies xx
But you said it winds you up and gets you down, you also headed this "small minded people".
Exactly I came to find out off others how they felt, but instead I am being called an attention seeker. Really thought ppl that visit the lounge was not judgemental like the small minded men I have spoken to ?
Why are they small minded?"Because they aren't flocking in droves to fuck her. | |||
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"I can't sympathise with this... Sure there are the 'let downs' on here but the fact you've had meets indicates its not been as bad as you suggest. Just because you got stood up that's no reflection on the site, i think it's more a reflection on you if anything, posting about it in a rant then pretending you was 'only asking' makes this open season for anyone using the forums. If it was a guy who posted this...oh my!
I'm fed up of single women whining... they ruin it for all the genuine single women."Stop whining. I'm trying to look good by reflecting in positive feminist role models | |||
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down "To some size will matter, to others other things will matter. For some only available holes matter. Don't take set backs personally as they're all part of the fab journey. | |||
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down
Ignore the sarcastic comments.
Seriously though if you are lacking for confidence boosts this ain't the place to do it. Us men will say/do anything for a shag and once the goal is achieved its zip up and move on"Speak for yourself fella - we're definitely not all the same! | |||
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"There loss wouldn't let it effect you
No it's not effected me tbh, I was just asking how others felt about it.. But some replies on ere are making me feel I can't come ere for advice without getting shot down..
Thanks for your replies xx
But you said it winds you up and gets you down, you also headed this "small minded people".
Exactly I came to find out off others how they felt, but instead I am being called an attention seeker. Really thought ppl that visit the lounge was not judgemental like the small minded men I have spoken to ?
Why are they small minded?
Because they aren't flocking in droves to fuck her. "Ah, i see...the poor girl. In that case let me offer all the 'hugs hun' and 'its their loss', oh and lets not forget the ubiquitos 'dont let it get you down' that i can muster! | |||
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down
Ignore the sarcastic comments.
Seriously though if you are lacking for confidence boosts this ain't the place to do it. Us men will say/do anything for a shag and once the goal is achieved its zip up and move on
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"Oh well everyone is entitled to their opinions and tbh I'm sorry I came in the lounge to air my _iews.... Happy Swinging " Like many....your only sorry because you didn't get the opinions you wanted to hear....people in here say what they think, not what you want to hear I'm afraid..... 
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"I don't think the issue for the op is that they don't flock to her in droves.... It's those who chat to her then become un uninterested...... O.p.....I still would say your crying over very little.....it takes getting to know someone sometimes to realise you don't want to meet....that's the whole point of chatting a while first... Because we chat, doesn't mean we'll meet. I myself have been chatting to a lovely lass off here....a detail came up today, and it means it's highly unlikely we'll meet now.... It's called a vetting process.....get used to it...men have them too. If you find its happening a lot, you might want to look at yourself, rather than blame men as a whole, as the only common factor is you. Shit wtf is this, like I said won't be coming back in the lounge and asking other ppl's _iews on anything cos this is the reaction I got !" lol what the reaction of everybody not agreeing with you it's a public forum and you opened the thread so deal with it | |||
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"Oh well everyone is entitled to their opinions and tbh I'm sorry I came in the lounge to air my _iews.... Happy Swinging Like many....your only sorry because you didn't get the opinions you wanted to hear....people in here say what they think, not what you want to hear I'm afraid.....
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"Oh well everyone is entitled to their opinions and tbh I'm sorry I came in the lounge to air my _iews.... Happy Swinging Like many....your only sorry because you didn't get the opinions you wanted to hear....people in here say what they think, not what you want to hear I'm afraid.....
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Hahahaha am I feck upset, but at least I know what to expect in here in future
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Hahahaha am I feck upset, but at least I know what to expect in here in future "Definitely... Expect hones replies a few months ago if you put this up all you would get is single guys sucking up to u telling you wat you want to hear... But thats ended now... | |||
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Hahahaha am I feck upset, but at least I know what to expect in here in future
Definitely... Expect hones replies a few months ago if you put this up all you would get is single guys sucking up to u telling you wat you want to hear... But thats ended now..."I think the white knights have got the day off. They'll be back though | |||
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Hahahaha am I feck upset, but at least I know what to expect in here in future
Definitely... Expect hones replies a few months ago if you put this up all you would get is single guys sucking up to u telling you wat you want to hear... But thats ended now...
I think the white knights have got the day off. They'll be back though
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"Try the club scene The men who pay to get in know how to behave properly Not always In the clubs I frequently use they do or they get thrown out! " We're still yet to find out what these horrible men are supposed to have done to the op, so for all you know they could be the same blokes as in the clubs | |||
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"Try the club scene The men who pay to get in know how to behave properly Not always In the clubs I frequently use they do or they get thrown out! We're still yet to find out what these horrible men are supposed to have done to the op, so for all you know they could be the same blokes as in the clubs" I've always found single guys very respectful at clubs | |||
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"Try the club scene The men who pay to get in know how to behave properly Not always In the clubs I frequently use they do or they get thrown out! We're still yet to find out what these horrible men are supposed to have done to the op, so for all you know they could be the same blokes as in the clubs I've always found single guys very respectful at clubs "Riiight, ok...but that doesnt address what i said though | |||
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Hahahaha am I feck upset, but at least I know what to expect in here in future
Definitely... Expect hones replies a few months ago if you put this up all you would get is single guys sucking up to u telling you wat you want to hear... But thats ended now...
I think the white knights have got the day off. They'll be back though
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"Try the club scene The men who pay to get in know how to behave properly Not always In the clubs I frequently use they do or they get thrown out! We're still yet to find out what these horrible men are supposed to have done to the op, so for all you know they could be the same blokes as in the clubs" Yes and as I've stated Twice now Where I go they'd get asked to leave Man woman or couple | |||
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"Try the club scene The men who pay to get in know how to behave properly Not always In the clubs I frequently use they do or they get thrown out! We're still yet to find out what these horrible men are supposed to have done to the op, so for all you know they could be the same blokes as in the clubs I've always found single guys very respectful at clubs "Likewise And all the people who weren't were told to leave | |||
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"Try the club scene The men who pay to get in know how to behave properly Not always In the clubs I frequently use they do or they get thrown out! We're still yet to find out what these horrible men are supposed to have done to the op, so for all you know they could be the same blokes as in the clubs Yes and as I've stated Twice now Where I go they'd get asked to leave Man woman or couple "Get asked to leave because of what?? We dont know what theyre supposed to have done!!!! Haha | |||
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"Try the club scene The men who pay to get in know how to behave properly Not always In the clubs I frequently use they do or they get thrown out! " So some clearly don't know how to behave then | |||
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"Oh well everyone is entitled to their opinions and tbh I'm sorry I came in the lounge to air my _iews.... Happy Swinging why are you sorry surely you didn't just expect everyone to agree with you're _iews you seem to be getting upset the more people that don't agred with you
Hahahaha am I feck upset, but at least I know what to expect in here in future
Oh believe me honey
This is tame compared to most days
Take no notice
Try the club scene
The men who pay to get in know how to behave properly " and in fact
Since when does putting your hand in your pocket make you better behaved?
At clubs there will be many polite, well behaved and respectful people (note - people, not guys!).
There will also be those who feel having paid to get in they are entitled to a return on their investment, and if this is not forthcoming their attitude can swiftly change.
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"Just wondering how you meet if you can't accomadate or travel ? Well I'll answer this one I'm the same And I do Ok So the OP clearly does the same as I do " Yes I do pretty well tbh, I can't accom has I have teenagers still at home and my private life should never effect their home life | |||
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"Op, you simply got chatting to folk and they decided they didn't like you after vetting you......I can't see what the issue is....every single person on the site undergoes the same thing.....your no more special than anyone else. I'd you cant see why nobody's agreeing with you...perhaps its not the place for you. I'm out....enjoy fab....or don't, the choice is entirely yours. " Not asked for ppl to agree, but jeez some are so cold ?! | |||
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"Sorry op that you feel you've been let down! I'm certainly not a "perfect" woman but I do ok, that's down to my own selection criteria and vetting processes, I choose to meet guys that wouldn't be embarrassed to be seen in public with me and that don't seem to be the any holes a goal type We can't all be everyone's cup of tea and yes there's guys out there who i wouldlove to meet but aren't interested in me! It's not just about fab it's how it is in real life too "I agree completely with you there and tbh it is a real shame how it is xx | |||
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"Sorry op that you feel you've been let down! I'm certainly not a "perfect" woman but I do ok, that's down to my own selection criteria and vetting processes, I choose to meet guys that wouldn't be embarrassed to be seen in public with me and that don't seem to be the any holes a goal type We can't all be everyone's cup of tea and yes there's guys out there who i wouldlove to meet but aren't interested in me! It's not just about fab it's how it is in real life too
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"Op, you simply got chatting to folk and they decided they didn't like you after vetting you......I can't see what the issue is....every single person on the site undergoes the same thing.....your no more special than anyone else. I'd you cant see why nobody's agreeing with you...perhaps its not the place for you. I'm out....enjoy fab....or don't, the choice is entirely yours. Not asked for ppl to agree, but jeez some are so cold ?!" I don't think people are being cold at all. Read the thread again. Yes it may be negative but all honest. No-one is slagging you off, just giving advice. | |||
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"Oh well everyone is entitled to their opinions and tbh I'm sorry I came in the lounge to air my _iews.... Happy Swinging why are you sorry surely you didn't just expect everyone to agree with you're _iews you seem to be getting upset the more people that don't agred with you
Hahahaha am I feck upset, but at least I know what to expect in here in future
Oh believe me honey
This is tame compared to most days
Take no notice
Try the club scene
The men who pay to get in know how to behave properly
and in fact
Since when does putting your hand in your pocket make you better behaved?
At clubs there will be many polite, well behaved and respectful people (note - people, not guys!).
There will also be those who feel having paid to get in they are entitled to a return on their investment, and if this is not forthcoming their attitude can swiftly change.
Believing anything else is naive.
A"12 years and membership of several clubs lends me to KNOW otherwise Those who behave badly are told to leave in my vast experience And tbhwy Those expecting action because they've paid to attend.... Both me, the OP and anyone else are perfectly capable of saying NO I usually say Thank you honey but I'm here for my pleasure NOT yours! | |||
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"Oh well everyone is entitled to their opinions and tbh I'm sorry I came in the lounge to air my _iews.... Happy Swinging why are you sorry surely you didn't just expect everyone to agree with you're _iews you seem to be getting upset the more people that don't agred with you
Hahahaha am I feck upset, but at least I know what to expect in here in future
Oh believe me honey
This is tame compared to most days
Take no notice
Try the club scene
The men who pay to get in know how to behave properly
and in fact
Since when does putting your hand in your pocket make you better behaved?
At clubs there will be many polite, well behaved and respectful people (note - people, not guys!).
There will also be those who feel having paid to get in they are entitled to a return on their investment, and if this is not forthcoming their attitude can swiftly change.
Believing anything else is naive.
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12 years and membership of several clubs lends me to KNOW otherwise
Those who behave badly are told to leave in my vast experience
And tbhwy
Those expecting action because they've paid to attend....
Both me, the OP and anyone else are perfectly capable of saying NO
I usually say
Thank you honey but I'm here for my pleasure NOT yours!
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"Op, you simply got chatting to folk and they decided they didn't like you after vetting you......I can't see what the issue is....every single person on the site undergoes the same thing.....your no more special than anyone else. I'd you cant see why nobody's agreeing with you...perhaps its not the place for you. I'm out....enjoy fab....or don't, the choice is entirely yours. Not asked for ppl to agree, but jeez some are so cold ?! I don't think people are being cold at all. Read the thread again. Yes it may be negative but all honest. No-one is slagging you off, just giving advice. " Okay and thanks | |||
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"Op, you simply got chatting to folk and they decided they didn't like you after vetting you......I can't see what the issue is....every single person on the site undergoes the same thing.....your no more special than anyone else. I'd you cant see why nobody's agreeing with you...perhaps its not the place for you. I'm out....enjoy fab....or don't, the choice is entirely yours. Not asked for ppl to agree, but jeez some are so cold ?!" Ok. I'm going to break down my response to your opening post. "I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat" The many, many site members who use it to chat, meet and have fun with other members. ", becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women" Nobody is perfect. However people are entitled to their preferences re what they consider 'perfect'. Having clear pics showing body size/shape will enable people to make an assessment if physical attributes are important. "...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, " To most? Yes. Attraction is important to most. "if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them " If you can't see someone then how do you know if you're physically attracted? If you don't chat how do you establish a mental connection? "and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down " Because in the world of the Internet hitting delete/block is easier than explaining a lack of interest/attraction. Not nice but the simple truth. But if the actions of total strangers are that upsetting then Internet contact may not be the best activity - they're just words on a screen. A | |||
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"Sorry op that you feel you've been let down! I'm certainly not a "perfect" woman but I do ok, that's down to my own selection criteria and vetting processes, I choose to meet guys that wouldn't be embarrassed to be seen in public with me and that don't seem to be the any holes a goal type We can't all be everyone's cup of tea and yes there's guys out there who i wouldlove to meet but aren't interested in me! It's not just about fab it's how it is in real life too
I agree completely with you there and tbh it is a real shame how it is xx
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"Oh well everyone is entitled to their opinions and tbh I'm sorry I came in the lounge to air my _iews.... Happy Swinging why are you sorry surely you didn't just expect everyone to agree with you're _iews you seem to be getting upset the more people that don't agred with you
Hahahaha am I feck upset, but at least I know what to expect in here in future
Oh believe me honey
This is tame compared to most days
Take no notice
Try the club scene
The men who pay to get in know how to behave properly
and in fact
Since when does putting your hand in your pocket make you better behaved?
At clubs there will be many polite, well behaved and respectful people (note - people, not guys!).
There will also be those who feel having paid to get in they are entitled to a return on their investment, and if this is not forthcoming their attitude can swiftly change.
Believing anything else is naive.
A
12 years and membership of several clubs lends me to KNOW otherwise
Those who behave badly are told to leave in my vast experience
And tbhwy
Those expecting action because they've paid to attend....
Both me, the OP and anyone else are perfectly capable of saying NO
I usually say
Thank you honey but I'm here for my pleasure NOT yours!
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I was saying that we all cone across idiots, wankers and occasional no shows on this site....
There are odd ones I have met in the past who I wish had been no shows, as no shag is better than a crap shag!
Have a peek at the 'when you last fuck' post on here. There is one poor guy who's not had it in FOUR YEARS!! think they are the ones who should be feeling sorry for themselves lol
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"Sorry op that you feel you've been let down! I'm certainly not a "perfect" woman but I do ok, that's down to my own selection criteria and vetting processes, I choose to meet guys that wouldn't be embarrassed to be seen in public with me and that don't seem to be the any holes a goal type We can't all be everyone's cup of tea and yes there's guys out there who i wouldlove to meet but aren't interested in me! It's not just about fab it's how it is in real life too
I agree completely with you there and tbh it is a real shame how it is xx
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"Sorry op that you feel you've been let down! I'm certainly not a "perfect" woman but I do ok, that's down to my own selection criteria and vetting processes, I choose to meet guys that wouldn't be embarrassed to be seen in public with me and that don't seem to be the any holes a goal type We can't all be everyone's cup of tea and yes there's guys out there who i wouldlove to meet but aren't interested in me! It's not just about fab it's how it is in real life too
I agree completely with you there and tbh it is a real shame how it is xx
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"Oh well everyone is entitled to their opinions and tbh I'm sorry I came in the lounge to air my _iews.... Happy Swinging why are you sorry surely you didn't just expect everyone to agree with you're _iews you seem to be getting upset the more people that don't agred with you
Hahahaha am I feck upset, but at least I know what to expect in here in future
Oh believe me honey
This is tame compared to most days
Take no notice
Try the club scene
The men who pay to get in know how to behave properly
and in fact
Since when does putting your hand in your pocket make you better behaved?
At clubs there will be many polite, well behaved and respectful people (note - people, not guys!).
There will also be those who feel having paid to get in they are entitled to a return on their investment, and if this is not forthcoming their attitude can swiftly change.
Believing anything else is naive.
A
12 years and membership of several clubs lends me to KNOW otherwise
Those who behave badly are told to leave in my vast experience
And tbhwy
Those expecting action because they've paid to attend....
Both me, the OP and anyone else are perfectly capable of saying NO
I usually say
Thank you honey but I'm here for my pleasure NOT yours!
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"Oh well everyone is entitled to their opinions and tbh I'm sorry I came in the lounge to air my _iews.... Happy Swinging why are you sorry surely you didn't just expect everyone to agree with you're _iews you seem to be getting upset the more people that don't agred with you
Hahahaha am I feck upset, but at least I know what to expect in here in future
Oh believe me honey
This is tame compared to most days
Take no notice
Try the club scene
The men who pay to get in know how to behave properly
and in fact
Since when does putting your hand in your pocket make you better behaved?
At clubs there will be many polite, well behaved and respectful people (note - people, not guys!).
There will also be those who feel having paid to get in they are entitled to a return on their investment, and if this is not forthcoming their attitude can swiftly change.
Believing anything else is naive.
A
12 years and membership of several clubs lends me to KNOW otherwise
Those who behave badly are told to leave in my vast experience
And tbhwy
Those expecting action because they've paid to attend....
Both me, the OP and anyone else are perfectly capable of saying NO
I usually say
Thank you honey but I'm here for my pleasure NOT yours!
Do you not see the contradiction in your posts?
On the one hand you state those who pay to visit clubs are better/well behaved.
On the other you point out that those that don't behave are asked to leave.
A"Oh blinkered rose tinted glasses one You get people who don't behave as they should everywhere in this world Sex clubs are no different Why should they be What I'm saying is They're TOLD not asked to leave and more often than not, refused entry next visit So trust me when I say this, where I frequent, people behave themselves | |||
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"Oh well everyone is entitled to their opinions and tbh I'm sorry I came in the lounge to air my _iews.... Happy Swinging why are you sorry surely you didn't just expect everyone to agree with you're _iews you seem to be getting upset the more people that don't agred with you
Hahahaha am I feck upset, but at least I know what to expect in here in future
Oh believe me honey
This is tame compared to most days
Take no notice
Try the club scene
The men who pay to get in know how to behave properly
and in fact
Since when does putting your hand in your pocket make you better behaved?
At clubs there will be many polite, well behaved and respectful people (note - people, not guys!).
There will also be those who feel having paid to get in they are entitled to a return on their investment, and if this is not forthcoming their attitude can swiftly change.
Believing anything else is naive.
A
12 years and membership of several clubs lends me to KNOW otherwise
Those who behave badly are told to leave in my vast experience
And tbhwy
Those expecting action because they've paid to attend....
Both me, the OP and anyone else are perfectly capable of saying NO
I usually say
Thank you honey but I'm here for my pleasure NOT yours!
Do you not see the contradiction in your posts?
On the one hand you state those who pay to visit clubs are better/well behaved.
On the other you point out that those that don't behave are asked to leave.
A
Oh blinkered rose tinted glasses one
You get people who don't behave as they should everywhere in this world
Sex clubs are no different
Why should they be
What I'm saying is
They're TOLD not asked to leave and more often than not, refused entry next visit
So trust me when I say this, where I frequent, people behave themselves
"Until they dont Then are chucked out But theyve already misbehaved themselves by then | |||
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"I have a knife called Colin Try taking break for a week or two n see if you feel better then xxx" is it me or does that sound like a threat | |||
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"Oh well everyone is entitled to their opinions and tbh I'm sorry I came in the lounge to air my _iews.... Happy Swinging why are you sorry surely you didn't just expect everyone to agree with you're _iews you seem to be getting upset the more people that don't agred with you
Hahahaha am I feck upset, but at least I know what to expect in here in future
Oh believe me honey
This is tame compared to most days
Take no notice
Try the club scene
The men who pay to get in know how to behave properly
and in fact
Since when does putting your hand in your pocket make you better behaved?
At clubs there will be many polite, well behaved and respectful people (note - people, not guys!).
There will also be those who feel having paid to get in they are entitled to a return on their investment, and if this is not forthcoming their attitude can swiftly change.
Believing anything else is naive.
A
12 years and membership of several clubs lends me to KNOW otherwise
Those who behave badly are told to leave in my vast experience
And tbhwy
Those expecting action because they've paid to attend....
Both me, the OP and anyone else are perfectly capable of saying NO
I usually say
Thank you honey but I'm here for my pleasure NOT yours!
Do you not see the contradiction in your posts?
On the one hand you state those who pay to visit clubs are better/well behaved.
On the other you point out that those that don't behave are asked to leave.
A
Oh blinkered rose tinted glasses one
You get people who don't behave as they should everywhere in this world
Sex clubs are no different
Why should they be
What I'm saying is
They're TOLD not asked to leave and more often than not, refused entry next visit
So trust me when I say this, where I frequent, people behave themselves
Until they dont
Then are chucked out
But theyve already misbehaved themselves by then"Which is a very very rare occurance where I go More people kick off in your average classroom than the clubs I visit Maybe you need to visit better clubs like me! | |||
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"Oh well everyone is entitled to their opinions and tbh I'm sorry I came in the lounge to air my _iews.... Happy Swinging why are you sorry surely you didn't just expect everyone to agree with you're _iews you seem to be getting upset the more people that don't agred with you
Hahahaha am I feck upset, but at least I know what to expect in here in future
Oh believe me honey
This is tame compared to most days
Take no notice
Try the club scene
The men who pay to get in know how to behave properly
and in fact
Since when does putting your hand in your pocket make you better behaved?
At clubs there will be many polite, well behaved and respectful people (note - people, not guys!).
There will also be those who feel having paid to get in they are entitled to a return on their investment, and if this is not forthcoming their attitude can swiftly change.
Believing anything else is naive.
A
12 years and membership of several clubs lends me to KNOW otherwise
Those who behave badly are told to leave in my vast experience
And tbhwy
Those expecting action because they've paid to attend....
Both me, the OP and anyone else are perfectly capable of saying NO
I usually say
Thank you honey but I'm here for my pleasure NOT yours!
Do you not see the contradiction in your posts?
On the one hand you state those who pay to visit clubs are better/well behaved.
On the other you point out that those that don't behave are asked to leave.
A
Oh blinkered rose tinted glasses one
You get people who don't behave as they should everywhere in this world
Sex clubs are no different
Why should they be
What I'm saying is
They're TOLD not asked to leave and more often than not, refused entry next visit
So trust me when I say this, where I frequent, people behave themselves
Until they dont
Then are chucked out
But theyve already misbehaved themselves by then
Which is a very very rare occurance where I go
More people kick off in your average classroom than the clubs I visit
Maybe you need to visit better clubs like me! "I havent said anything about any club in particular...im just summing up what you said about the ones you go to | |||
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" It's not about fancying a person, it's about being able to connect " What a bizarre concept, I have to be attracted to and fancy my meets, I must be weird then | |||
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"Oh well everyone is entitled to their opinions and tbh I'm sorry I came in the lounge to air my _iews.... Happy Swinging why are you sorry surely you didn't just expect everyone to agree with you're _iews you seem to be getting upset the more people that don't agred with you
Hahahaha am I feck upset, but at least I know what to expect in here in future
Oh believe me honey
This is tame compared to most days
Take no notice
Try the club scene
The men who pay to get in know how to behave properly
and in fact
Since when does putting your hand in your pocket make you better behaved?
At clubs there will be many polite, well behaved and respectful people (note - people, not guys!).
There will also be those who feel having paid to get in they are entitled to a return on their investment, and if this is not forthcoming their attitude can swiftly change.
Believing anything else is naive.
A
12 years and membership of several clubs lends me to KNOW otherwise
Those who behave badly are told to leave in my vast experience
And tbhwy
Those expecting action because they've paid to attend....
Both me, the OP and anyone else are perfectly capable of saying NO
I usually say
Thank you honey but I'm here for my pleasure NOT yours!
Do you not see the contradiction in your posts?
On the one hand you state those who pay to visit clubs are better/well behaved.
On the other you point out that those that don't behave are asked to leave.
A
Oh blinkered rose tinted glasses one
You get people who don't behave as they should everywhere in this world
Sex clubs are no different
Why should they be
What I'm saying is
They're TOLD not asked to leave and more often than not, refused entry next visit
So trust me when I say this, where I frequent, people behave themselves
"You said go to clubs because people know how to behave? Can you not see the contradiction in discussing how many people are thrown out? | |||
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down "So a man with preferences is small minded but it's perfectly ok for you to say you only want "slender" men on your profile? | |||
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"Oh well everyone is entitled to their opinions and tbh I'm sorry I came in the lounge to air my _iews.... Happy Swinging why are you sorry surely you didn't just expect everyone to agree with you're _iews you seem to be getting upset the more people that don't agred with you
Hahahaha am I feck upset, but at least I know what to expect in here in future
Oh believe me honey
This is tame compared to most days
Take no notice
Try the club scene
The men who pay to get in know how to behave properly
and in fact
Since when does putting your hand in your pocket make you better behaved?
At clubs there will be many polite, well behaved and respectful people (note - people, not guys!).
There will also be those who feel having paid to get in they are entitled to a return on their investment, and if this is not forthcoming their attitude can swiftly change.
Believing anything else is naive.
A
12 years and membership of several clubs lends me to KNOW otherwise
Those who behave badly are told to leave in my vast experience
And tbhwy
Those expecting action because they've paid to attend....
Both me, the OP and anyone else are perfectly capable of saying NO
I usually say
Thank you honey but I'm here for my pleasure NOT yours!
Do you not see the contradiction in your posts?
On the one hand you state those who pay to visit clubs are better/well behaved.
On the other you point out that those that don't behave are asked to leave.
A
Oh blinkered rose tinted glasses one
You get people who don't behave as they should everywhere in this world
Sex clubs are no different
Why should they be
What I'm saying is
They're TOLD not asked to leave and more often than not, refused entry next visit
So trust me when I say this, where I frequent, people behave themselves
Until they dont
Then are chucked out
But theyve already misbehaved themselves by then
Which is a very very rare occurance where I go
More people kick off in your average classroom than the clubs I visit
Maybe you need to visit better clubs like me! "I'm taking a guess given your location as to which clubs you may have frequented. I've seen misbehaviour at many clubs. Chams, Xtasia, Cupids, The Attic. The Lodge, Exeter Swingers, The Office, Decadents and before it closed Bath Swingers. Most of which are great clubs. I'm not disputing that people are asked/told to leave. They are. But as was said - if someone has been told to leave they've done something to deserve it. Which blows your original claim that those paying to visit clubs are better behaved out of the water. It's simple logic. A | |||
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"Oh well everyone is entitled to their opinions and tbh I'm sorry I came in the lounge to air my _iews.... Happy Swinging why are you sorry surely you didn't just expect everyone to agree with you're _iews you seem to be getting upset the more people that don't agred with you
Hahahaha am I feck upset, but at least I know what to expect in here in future
Oh believe me honey
This is tame compared to most days
Take no notice
Try the club scene
The men who pay to get in know how to behave properly
and in fact
Since when does putting your hand in your pocket make you better behaved?
At clubs there will be many polite, well behaved and respectful people (note - people, not guys!).
There will also be those who feel having paid to get in they are entitled to a return on their investment, and if this is not forthcoming their attitude can swiftly change.
Believing anything else is naive.
A
12 years and membership of several clubs lends me to KNOW otherwise
Those who behave badly are told to leave in my vast experience
And tbhwy
Those expecting action because they've paid to attend....
Both me, the OP and anyone else are perfectly capable of saying NO
I usually say
Thank you honey but I'm here for my pleasure NOT yours!
Do you not see the contradiction in your posts?
On the one hand you state those who pay to visit clubs are better/well behaved.
On the other you point out that those that don't behave are asked to leave.
A
Oh blinkered rose tinted glasses one
You get people who don't behave as they should everywhere in this world
Sex clubs are no different
Why should they be
What I'm saying is
They're TOLD not asked to leave and more often than not, refused entry next visit
So trust me when I say this, where I frequent, people behave themselves
You said go to clubs because people know how to behave? Can you not see the contradiction in discussing how many people are thrown out?"Look Don't pick on me honey lol I've just explained You get more trouble in your average classroom and high street pub on a very quiet night As I've explained So I'll leave you all to your bickering and I'll go find some cock to fuck if that's OK with you! Lmfao Be good now | |||
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down
Ignore the sarcastic comments.
Seriously though if you are lacking for confidence boosts this ain't the place to do it. Us men will say/do anything for a shag and once the goal is achieved its zip up and move on"Speak for yourself | |||
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"Oh well everyone is entitled to their opinions and tbh I'm sorry I came in the lounge to air my _iews.... Happy Swinging why are you sorry surely you didn't just expect everyone to agree with you're _iews you seem to be getting upset the more people that don't agred with you
Hahahaha am I feck upset, but at least I know what to expect in here in future
Oh believe me honey
This is tame compared to most days
Take no notice
Try the club scene
The men who pay to get in know how to behave properly
and in fact
Since when does putting your hand in your pocket make you better behaved?
At clubs there will be many polite, well behaved and respectful people (note - people, not guys!).
There will also be those who feel having paid to get in they are entitled to a return on their investment, and if this is not forthcoming their attitude can swiftly change.
Believing anything else is naive.
A
12 years and membership of several clubs lends me to KNOW otherwise
Those who behave badly are told to leave in my vast experience
And tbhwy
Those expecting action because they've paid to attend....
Both me, the OP and anyone else are perfectly capable of saying NO
I usually say
Thank you honey but I'm here for my pleasure NOT yours!
Do you not see the contradiction in your posts?
On the one hand you state those who pay to visit clubs are better/well behaved.
On the other you point out that those that don't behave are asked to leave.
A
Oh blinkered rose tinted glasses one
You get people who don't behave as they should everywhere in this world
Sex clubs are no different
Why should they be
What I'm saying is
They're TOLD not asked to leave and more often than not, refused entry next visit
So trust me when I say this, where I frequent, people behave themselves
Until they dont
Then are chucked out
But theyve already misbehaved themselves by then
Which is a very very rare occurance where I go
More people kick off in your average classroom than the clubs I visit
Maybe you need to visit better clubs like me!
I'm taking a guess given your location as to which clubs you may have frequented.
I've seen misbehaviour at many clubs.
Chams, Xtasia, Cupids, The Attic. The Lodge, Exeter Swingers, The Office, Decadents and before it closed Bath Swingers.
Most of which are great clubs.
I'm not disputing that people are asked/told to leave. They are.
But as was said - if someone has been told to leave they've done something to deserve it.
Which blows your original claim that those paying to visit clubs are better behaved out of the water.
It's simple logic.
A"It's not allowed to escalate Trust me And funnily enough I had a good friend in Preston So visited loads of northern clubs If you want bad behaviour Visit La Chambre | |||
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"Oh well everyone is entitled to their opinions and tbh I'm sorry I came in the lounge to air my _iews.... Happy Swinging why are you sorry surely you didn't just expect everyone to agree with you're _iews you seem to be getting upset the more people that don't agred with you
Hahahaha am I feck upset, but at least I know what to expect in here in future
Oh believe me honey
This is tame compared to most days
Take no notice
Try the club scene
The men who pay to get in know how to behave properly
and in fact
Since when does putting your hand in your pocket make you better behaved?
At clubs there will be many polite, well behaved and respectful people (note - people, not guys!).
There will also be those who feel having paid to get in they are entitled to a return on their investment, and if this is not forthcoming their attitude can swiftly change.
Believing anything else is naive.
A
12 years and membership of several clubs lends me to KNOW otherwise
Those who behave badly are told to leave in my vast experience
And tbhwy
Those expecting action because they've paid to attend....
Both me, the OP and anyone else are perfectly capable of saying NO
I usually say
Thank you honey but I'm here for my pleasure NOT yours!
Do you not see the contradiction in your posts?
On the one hand you state those who pay to visit clubs are better/well behaved.
On the other you point out that those that don't behave are asked to leave.
A
Oh blinkered rose tinted glasses one
You get people who don't behave as they should everywhere in this world
Sex clubs are no different
Why should they be
What I'm saying is
They're TOLD not asked to leave and more often than not, refused entry next visit
So trust me when I say this, where I frequent, people behave themselves
"Yet we have a thread where a woman was raped in a club and all that happened was a word in the man's ear by management..... | |||
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" It's not about fancying a person, it's about being able to connect Out of curiosity OP, if you believe this to be true, why do you state a preference for being attracted to/wanting slender men between 19-40? Surely, theres no need to state physical preferences if a connection is the most important thing. IMHO from the more you post, youd be better suited to dating than swinging " | |||
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"Oh well everyone is entitled to their opinions and tbh I'm sorry I came in the lounge to air my _iews.... Happy Swinging why are you sorry surely you didn't just expect everyone to agree with you're _iews you seem to be getting upset the more people that don't agred with you
Hahahaha am I feck upset, but at least I know what to expect in here in future
Oh believe me honey
This is tame compared to most days
Take no notice
Try the club scene
The men who pay to get in know how to behave properly
and in fact
Since when does putting your hand in your pocket make you better behaved?
At clubs there will be many polite, well behaved and respectful people (note - people, not guys!).
There will also be those who feel having paid to get in they are entitled to a return on their investment, and if this is not forthcoming their attitude can swiftly change.
Believing anything else is naive.
A
12 years and membership of several clubs lends me to KNOW otherwise
Those who behave badly are told to leave in my vast experience
And tbhwy
Those expecting action because they've paid to attend....
Both me, the OP and anyone else are perfectly capable of saying NO
I usually say
Thank you honey but I'm here for my pleasure NOT yours!
Do you not see the contradiction in your posts?
On the one hand you state those who pay to visit clubs are better/well behaved.
On the other you point out that those that don't behave are asked to leave.
A
Oh blinkered rose tinted glasses one
You get people who don't behave as they should everywhere in this world
Sex clubs are no different
Why should they be
What I'm saying is
They're TOLD not asked to leave and more often than not, refused entry next visit
So trust me when I say this, where I frequent, people behave themselves
Yet we have a thread where a woman was raped in a club and all that happened was a word in the man's ear by management....."Choose a better club | |||
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"Oh well everyone is entitled to their opinions and tbh I'm sorry I came in the lounge to air my _iews.... Happy Swinging why are you sorry surely you didn't just expect everyone to agree with you're _iews you seem to be getting upset the more people that don't agred with you
Hahahaha am I feck upset, but at least I know what to expect in here in future
Oh believe me honey
This is tame compared to most days
Take no notice
Try the club scene
The men who pay to get in know how to behave properly
and in fact
Since when does putting your hand in your pocket make you better behaved?
At clubs there will be many polite, well behaved and respectful people (note - people, not guys!).
There will also be those who feel having paid to get in they are entitled to a return on their investment, and if this is not forthcoming their attitude can swiftly change.
Believing anything else is naive.
A
12 years and membership of several clubs lends me to KNOW otherwise
Those who behave badly are told to leave in my vast experience
And tbhwy
Those expecting action because they've paid to attend....
Both me, the OP and anyone else are perfectly capable of saying NO
I usually say
Thank you honey but I'm here for my pleasure NOT yours!
Do you not see the contradiction in your posts?
On the one hand you state those who pay to visit clubs are better/well behaved.
On the other you point out that those that don't behave are asked to leave.
A
Oh blinkered rose tinted glasses one
You get people who don't behave as they should everywhere in this world
Sex clubs are no different
Why should they be
What I'm saying is
They're TOLD not asked to leave and more often than not, refused entry next visit
So trust me when I say this, where I frequent, people behave themselves
Yet we have a thread where a woman was raped in a club and all that happened was a word in the man's ear by management....." | |||
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"Oh well everyone is entitled to their opinions and tbh I'm sorry I came in the lounge to air my _iews.... Happy Swinging why are you sorry surely you didn't just expect everyone to agree with you're _iews you seem to be getting upset the more people that don't agred with you
Hahahaha am I feck upset, but at least I know what to expect in here in future
Oh believe me honey
This is tame compared to most days
Take no notice
Try the club scene
The men who pay to get in know how to behave properly
and in fact
Since when does putting your hand in your pocket make you better behaved?
At clubs there will be many polite, well behaved and respectful people (note - people, not guys!).
There will also be those who feel having paid to get in they are entitled to a return on their investment, and if this is not forthcoming their attitude can swiftly change.
Believing anything else is naive.
A
12 years and membership of several clubs lends me to KNOW otherwise
Those who behave badly are told to leave in my vast experience
And tbhwy
Those expecting action because they've paid to attend....
Both me, the OP and anyone else are perfectly capable of saying NO
I usually say
Thank you honey but I'm here for my pleasure NOT yours!
Do you not see the contradiction in your posts?
On the one hand you state those who pay to visit clubs are better/well behaved.
On the other you point out that those that don't behave are asked to leave.
A
Oh blinkered rose tinted glasses one
You get people who don't behave as they should everywhere in this world
Sex clubs are no different
Why should they be
What I'm saying is
They're TOLD not asked to leave and more often than not, refused entry next visit
So trust me when I say this, where I frequent, people behave themselves
Yet we have a thread where a woman was raped in a club and all that happened was a word in the man's ear by management....."Dial 999 | |||
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"Oh well everyone is entitled to their opinions and tbh I'm sorry I came in the lounge to air my _iews.... Happy Swinging why are you sorry surely you didn't just expect everyone to agree with you're _iews you seem to be getting upset the more people that don't agred with you
Hahahaha am I feck upset, but at least I know what to expect in here in future
Oh believe me honey
This is tame compared to most days
Take no notice
Try the club scene
The men who pay to get in know how to behave properly
and in fact
Since when does putting your hand in your pocket make you better behaved?
At clubs there will be many polite, well behaved and respectful people (note - people, not guys!).
There will also be those who feel having paid to get in they are entitled to a return on their investment, and if this is not forthcoming their attitude can swiftly change.
Believing anything else is naive.
A
12 years and membership of several clubs lends me to KNOW otherwise
Those who behave badly are told to leave in my vast experience
And tbhwy
Those expecting action because they've paid to attend....
Both me, the OP and anyone else are perfectly capable of saying NO
I usually say
Thank you honey but I'm here for my pleasure NOT yours!
Do you not see the contradiction in your posts?
On the one hand you state those who pay to visit clubs are better/well behaved.
On the other you point out that those that don't behave are asked to leave.
A
Oh blinkered rose tinted glasses one
You get people who don't behave as they should everywhere in this world
Sex clubs are no different
Why should they be
What I'm saying is
They're TOLD not asked to leave and more often than not, refused entry next visit
So trust me when I say this, where I frequent, people behave themselves
Yet we have a thread where a woman was raped in a club and all that happened was a word in the man's ear by management.....
Choose a better club "Because a better club knows what someone is going to do before they do it? | |||
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" It's not about fancying a person, it's about being able to connect What a bizarre concept, I have to be attracted to and fancy my meets, I must be weird then "This | |||
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |||
"Oh well everyone is entitled to their opinions and tbh I'm sorry I came in the lounge to air my _iews.... Happy Swinging why are you sorry surely you didn't just expect everyone to agree with you're _iews you seem to be getting upset the more people that don't agred with you
Hahahaha am I feck upset, but at least I know what to expect in here in future
Oh believe me honey
This is tame compared to most days
Take no notice
Try the club scene
The men who pay to get in know how to behave properly
and in fact
Since when does putting your hand in your pocket make you better behaved?
At clubs there will be many polite, well behaved and respectful people (note - people, not guys!).
There will also be those who feel having paid to get in they are entitled to a return on their investment, and if this is not forthcoming their attitude can swiftly change.
Believing anything else is naive.
A
12 years and membership of several clubs lends me to KNOW otherwise
Those who behave badly are told to leave in my vast experience
And tbhwy
Those expecting action because they've paid to attend....
Both me, the OP and anyone else are perfectly capable of saying NO
I usually say
Thank you honey but I'm here for my pleasure NOT yours!
Do you not see the contradiction in your posts?
On the one hand you state those who pay to visit clubs are better/well behaved.
On the other you point out that those that don't behave are asked to leave.
A
Oh blinkered rose tinted glasses one
You get people who don't behave as they should everywhere in this world
Sex clubs are no different
Why should they be
What I'm saying is
They're TOLD not asked to leave and more often than not, refused entry next visit
So trust me when I say this, where I frequent, people behave themselves
Yet we have a thread where a woman was raped in a club and all that happened was a word in the man's ear by management.....
Choose a better club
Because a better club knows what someone is going to do before they do it?
"People get raped in town centres Do you avoid those also | |||
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" It's not about fancying a person, it's about being able to connect Out of curiosity OP, if you believe this to be true, why do you state a preference for being attracted to/wanting slender men between 19-40? Surely, theres no need to state physical preferences if a connection is the most important thing. IMHO from the more you post, youd be better suited to dating than swinging " | |||
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"It's not about fancying a person, it's about being able to connect " tend to disagree.. in this aspect attraction is important initially for many.. if your in a club or social environment and dont fancy a person its unlikely that most people will connect with a _iew to having sex.. same goes with peoples profiles, yes some will make a connection with someone who they dont fancy looks wise but most tend to go on physical attraction.. just the way it is.. | |||
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"I have a knife called Colin Try taking break for a week or two n see if you feel better then xxx is it me or does that sound like a threat "Lol no a friend of mine likes to make up silly songs n give abstract names to things I also have a potato peeler called Pete | |||
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down "There is nothing wrong with your size; there is something wrong with the size of their brain; xxx | |||
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down
There is nothing wrong with your size; there is something wrong with the size of their brain; xxx"So because they dont like her size, theres something wrong with them????? | |||
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"I had two guys piss me about saying they'd meet last night and they didn't turn up either, so i just carried on chatting to guys on here until i found two that did turn up. Got what i wanted, don't give a fuck about the other two guys or care why they pissed me about, just concentrate on what you want and go for that. In fact, because of time wasters, i don't remove statuses saying i want to meet and stay on here chatting until the guy either turns up or doesn't, and it works really well for me. Used to remove the status because i figured the guy was gonna turn up (and mostly they do) but otherwise i am not gonna let a single waster think i believe his shit until he proves to me he isn't a liar." | |||
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down
There is nothing wrong with your size; there is something wrong with the size of their brain; xxx
So because they dont like her size, theres something wrong with them????? "Not at all. They have a right not to contact her. But why would someone contact and then start bringing in body size It would be like me starting a conversation with you only to tell you later that you are too short | |||
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down
There is nothing wrong with your size; there is something wrong with the size of their brain; xxx
So because they dont like her size, theres something wrong with them?????
Not at all. They have a right not to contact her. But why would someone contact and then start bringing in body size
It would be like me starting a conversation with you only to tell you later that you are too short"Has somebody done this? I thought she was chatting and then they blanked her? I'm easily confused mind you | |||
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down
There is nothing wrong with your size; there is something wrong with the size of their brain; xxx
So because they dont like her size, theres something wrong with them?????
Not at all. They have a right not to contact her. But why would someone contact and then start bringing in body size
It would be like me starting a conversation with you only to tell you later that you are too short
Has somebody done this? I thought she was chatting and then they blanked her?
I'm easily confused mind you "She didn't say anything about size someone else just added that in. Its like sodding Chinese whisper. | |||
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down
There is nothing wrong with your size; there is something wrong with the size of their brain; xxx
So because they dont like her size, theres something wrong with them?????
Not at all. They have a right not to contact her. But why would someone contact and then start bringing in body size
It would be like me starting a conversation with you only to tell you later that you are too short
Has somebody done this? I thought she was chatting and then they blanked her?
I thought that was the case. If not, then not
I'm easily confused mind you " | |||
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down
There is nothing wrong with your size; there is something wrong with the size of their brain; xxx
So because they dont like her size, theres something wrong with them?????
Not at all. They have a right not to contact her. But why would someone contact and then start bringing in body size
It would be like me starting a conversation with you only to tell you later that you are too short
Has somebody done this? I thought she was chatting and then they blanked her?
I'm easily confused mind you "I was assuming (rightly or wrongly) that the issue was that conversation had been cut dead after initial messages. Combining that with the size comments may mean that they were interested up to the point that more detailed images had been exchanged. I could be wrong. But if so it highlights the benefit of both clear profile images and early exchange if none are public. Stops the 'why did they suddenly stop talking?' questions. A | |||
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down
There is nothing wrong with your size; there is something wrong with the size of their brain; xxx
So because they dont like her size, theres something wrong with them?????
Not at all. They have a right not to contact her. But why would someone contact and then start bringing in body size
It would be like me starting a conversation with you only to tell you later that you are too short
Has somebody done this? I thought she was chatting and then they blanked her?
I'm easily confused mind you
She didn't say anything about size someone else just added that in. Its like sodding Chinese whisper. "Except in her opening post!
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down
There is nothing wrong with your size; there is something wrong with the size of their brain; xxx
So because they dont like her size, theres something wrong with them?????
Not at all. They have a right not to contact her. But why would someone contact and then start bringing in body size
It would be like me starting a conversation with you only to tell you later that you are too short
Has somebody done this? I thought she was chatting and then they blanked her?
I'm easily confused mind you
I was assuming (rightly or wrongly) that the issue was that conversation had been cut dead after initial messages.
Combining that with the size comments may mean that they were interested up to the point that more detailed images had been exchanged.
I could be wrong.
But if so it highlights the benefit of both clear profile images and early exchange if none are public.
Stops the 'why did they suddenly stop talking?' questions.
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down
There is nothing wrong with your size; there is something wrong with the size of their brain; xxx
So because they dont like her size, theres something wrong with them?????
Not at all. They have a right not to contact her. But why would someone contact and then start bringing in body size
It would be like me starting a conversation with you only to tell you later that you are too short
Has somebody done this? I thought she was chatting and then they blanked her?
I'm easily confused mind you
I was assuming (rightly or wrongly) that the issue was that conversation had been cut dead after initial messages.
Combining that with the size comments may mean that they were interested up to the point that more detailed images had been exchanged.
I could be wrong.
But if so it highlights the benefit of both clear profile images and early exchange if none are public.
Stops the 'why did they suddenly stop talking?' questions.
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down
There is nothing wrong with your size; there is something wrong with the size of their brain; xxx
So because they dont like her size, theres something wrong with them?????
Not at all. They have a right not to contact her. But why would someone contact and then start bringing in body size
It would be like me starting a conversation with you only to tell you later that you are too short
Has somebody done this? I thought she was chatting and then they blanked her?
I'm easily confused mind you
She didn't say anything about size someone else just added that in. Its like sodding Chinese whisper. "Unless I am reading another thread, she mentions size in her first comment | |||
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down
There is nothing wrong with your size; there is something wrong with the size of their brain; xxx
So because they dont like her size, theres something wrong with them?????
Not at all. They have a right not to contact her. But why would someone contact and then start bringing in body size
It would be like me starting a conversation with you only to tell you later that you are too short
Has somebody done this? I thought she was chatting and then they blanked her?
I'm easily confused mind you
She didn't say anything about size someone else just added that in. Its like sodding Chinese whisper.
Unless I am reading another thread, she mentions size in her first comment"yes she does, then goes on to say they were nice but eventually blanked her. You can see why a poor old dear like me would get mixed up over it all | |||
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"I beginning to wonder what keeps this site afloat, becos I am tired of getting let down off small minded men who are looking for perfect women...does it really matter what size or how we look effect your sexual needs, if he/she isn't to your taste then don't chat to them and when they are open with you, why be nice then blank them.. It proper winds me up and gets me down
There is nothing wrong with your size; there is something wrong with the size of their brain; xxx
So because they dont like her size, theres something wrong with them?????
Not at all. They have a right not to contact her. But why would someone contact and then start bringing in body size
It would be like me starting a conversation with you only to tell you later that you are too short
Has somebody done this? I thought she was chatting and then they blanked her?
I'm easily confused mind you
She didn't say anything about size someone else just added that in. Its like sodding Chinese whisper. "We did look to find the origin of that size comment, you are right, somebody added it in and the requotes make it look like part of the original post. Now the conversation has gone off in a new direction. It does raise the point that a lot of people are sensitive to it. And that applies to the curves of a BBW as much as it does the cock of a BWC | |||
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