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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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OK. ...I've just taken the plunge and uploaded a picture of my legs. If I have a body part I really dislike it's my legs so I tend to put up clever pictures of them. ...I must say I feel really liberated and that I'm no longer living a lie!! Is there a part of your body that you would never display on here? What's stopping you showing all? Is it really that bad?? Anybody else feeling brave?...I guess I'm just seeing myself in a new light....and yes, a shameless look at me thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"my feet. I will never, ever show a photograph of my feet...EVER. "
Men seem to think you like your feet worshipped or like men into foot fetish when you have your feet on show. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OK. ...I've just taken the plunge and uploaded a picture of my legs. If I have a body part I really dislike it's my legs so I tend to put up clever pictures of them. ...I must say I feel really liberated and that I'm no longer living a lie!! Is there a part of your body that you would never display on here? What's stopping you showing all? Is it really that bad?? Anybody else feeling brave?...I guess I'm just seeing myself in a new light....and yes, a shameless look at me thread "
They re lovely why the angst ? |
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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago
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Personally I don't see anything wrong with your legs.
I do believe that we see ourselves differently to how others see us though and if we dislike a certain part of our body then it can literally take on a persona of its own and become the enemy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It takes me a while before I upload any photos including any parts of me. There are barely any photos that are taken of me that don't make me cringe.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OK. ...I've just taken the plunge and uploaded a picture of my legs. If I have a body part I really dislike it's my legs so I tend to put up clever pictures of them. ...I must say I feel really liberated and that I'm no longer living a lie!! Is there a part of your body that you would never display on here? What's stopping you showing all? Is it really that bad?? Anybody else feeling brave?...I guess I'm just seeing myself in a new light....and yes, a shameless look at me thread
They re lovely why the angst ?"
Thank you. ...i guess we all have bits we don't like. ...I'd kill for long slim shapely legs instead i got short stumpy sausage legs. ...can't have it all.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personally I don't see anything wrong with your legs.
I do believe that we see ourselves differently to how others see us though and if we dislike a certain part of our body then it can literally take on a persona of its own and become the enemy "
Yes. ..I think this exactly. ...until today when I just thought stuff it! |
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By *ridmusCouple
over a year ago
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"OK. ...I've just taken the plunge and uploaded a picture of my legs. If I have a body part I really dislike it's my legs so I tend to put up clever pictures of them. ...I must say I feel really liberated and that I'm no longer living a lie!! Is there a part of your body that you would never display on here? What's stopping you showing all? Is it really that bad?? Anybody else feeling brave?...I guess I'm just seeing myself in a new light....and yes, a shameless look at me thread "
well I wouldnt complain if there were wrapped around my neck very nice x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The part I hate about myself is my breasts, I never show them.
Looked at your pictures and I can't see anything wrong with your legs. Absolutely lovely xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you for your lovely comments. ...i think it proves that the bits we hate about ourselves others don't see in the same light. We are our own biggest critic and we shouldn't always be so hard on ourselves |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your legs look good.I really don't like my eyebrows.Weird or what?"
Thanks. ...eyebrows can be easily sorted. ....have you thought about an plucking?.....or if they are to thin,what about an eyebrow wig? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My feet ..other than that, I'm (quite) a few gym hours away from being happy with my body.
I'd like a bigger willy but the women in my life seem satisfied so that doesn't bother me much...plus it's nothing a cock sleeve can't sort out!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing wrong with your legs, those eyes on the shoes though...
I've got pics of everything on here, my saggy belly is my worst feature but it's still in my pics. Not got a proper good pic of my bum on here yet, but got half decent ones on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OK. ...I've just taken the plunge and uploaded a picture of my legs. If I have a body part I really dislike it's my legs so I tend to put up clever pictures of them. ...I must say I feel really liberated and that I'm no longer living a lie!! Is there a part of your body that you would never display on here? What's stopping you showing all? Is it really that bad?? Anybody else feeling brave?...I guess I'm just seeing myself in a new light....and yes, a shameless look at me thread "
As look at me threads go this is a good one........... but no, I'm not brave enough, sorry |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nothing wrong with your legs, those eyes on the shoes though...
I've got pics of everything on here, my saggy belly is my worst feature but it's still in my pics. Not got a proper good pic of my bum on here yet, but got half decent ones on."
Ha ha. ...you don't like my eyeball shoes?? |
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"Your legs look good.I really don't like my eyebrows.Weird or what?
Thanks. ...eyebrows can be easily sorted. ....have you thought about an plucking?.....or if they are to thin,what about an eyebrow wig? "
They're not too thin.If I didn't regularly hack away at them they would be quite bushy.Not a good look for me I think! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing wrong with your legs, those eyes on the shoes though...
I've got pics of everything on here, my saggy belly is my worst feature but it's still in my pics. Not got a proper good pic of my bum on here yet, but got half decent ones on.
Ha ha. ...you don't like my eyeball shoes?? "
I don't like eyes, they creep me out. The shoes are cool but weird me out a bit. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nothing wrong with your legs, those eyes on the shoes though...
I've got pics of everything on here, my saggy belly is my worst feature but it's still in my pics. Not got a proper good pic of my bum on here yet, but got half decent ones on.
Ha ha. ...you don't like my eyeball shoes??
I don't like eyes, they creep me out. The shoes are cool but weird me out a bit."
I know what you mean. ...close up photos with just one eye have the same effect on me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing wrong with your legs, those eyes on the shoes though...
I've got pics of everything on here, my saggy belly is my worst feature but it's still in my pics. Not got a proper good pic of my bum on here yet, but got half decent ones on.
Ha ha. ...you don't like my eyeball shoes??
I don't like eyes, they creep me out. The shoes are cool but weird me out a bit.
I know what you mean. ...close up photos with just one eye have the same effect on me! "
I've had one of those, i tend to concentrate on the iris colour so they don't bother me, but yeah they are creepy and i use it when i want less messages. |
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"my feet. I will never, ever show a photograph of my feet...EVER.
Men seem to think you like your feet worshipped or like men into foot fetish when you have your feet on show."
Nobody would want to worship mine |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
You have cracking legs Scarlet. Plus a fantastic bum at the top and kick arse heels at the bottom. Personally, I can't stand my thunder thighs, flabby tummy, dimply arse or saggy boobs but recently thought 'fuck it, if anyone's interested enough to want to see them in person they may as well see it in advance' and put some nude shots up where I'm not being covered by a strategically placed arm, hand or hair. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You have cracking legs Scarlet. Plus a fantastic bum at the top and kick arse heels at the bottom. Personally, I can't stand my thunder thighs, flabby tummy, dimply arse or saggy boobs but recently thought 'fuck it, if anyone's interested enough to want to see them in person they may as well see it in advance' and put some nude shots up where I'm not being covered by a strategically placed arm, hand or hair."
Thank you....i think that is my next step although baby belly is somewhat scary to look at....I'm not bothered by it i just don't think it makes an attractive photo which is why i don't have any. I like your naked pics, _igeia...i might have to copy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I could pick fault with every single part of my body from top to toe but instead I think fuck it,in 10 years time I'll look back and wonder why I was so critical of myself,I know I will do that because I look at pictures from 10 years ago and wonder what I worried about then |
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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago
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Your pictures are great Scarlet. As said before in some posts we are very critical of ourselves. The one in the dress shows your figure and legs to perfection. I have just got my tummy out again, for me it's what I don't like. 3 pregnancies but have to love my tiger stripes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I could pick fault with every single part of my body from top to toe but instead I think fuck it,in 10 years time I'll look back and wonder why I was so critical of myself,I know I will do that because I look at pictures from 10 years ago and wonder what I worried about then "
Oh don't get me started on the rest of it i can accept the way I am. ...It's just my legs i have particular issue over. ...i think it stems back to when i was about 11....i was a normal child. ..not overweight or anything but i can remember once a family member describing my legs as tree trunks. ....There was another occasion walking home from a nightclub at 18 and i can remember 2 guys walking behind me and my friend....and they were quite loudly discussing which one they fancied. ...they referred to me as the one with man calves. ...that sort of thing really dents your confidence when it happens fairly often. There have been other instances but those are the 2 that had the biggest impact. .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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cant some things be said when you are young that stick with you forever - even when they were probably said innocently - i wasnt a fat kid but i was tall and bonny - well built and never skinny - i was on tablets for an illness and also took iron pills - one of the mums said to me once you are bound to be on the heavy side because of all the iron you take - now i know thats silly but never forgot it and upset me a lot at the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I could pick fault with every single part of my body from top to toe but instead I think fuck it,in 10 years time I'll look back and wonder why I was so critical of myself,I know I will do that because I look at pictures from 10 years ago and wonder what I worried about then
Oh don't get me started on the rest of it i can accept the way I am. ...It's just my legs i have particular issue over. ...i think it stems back to when i was about 11....i was a normal child. ..not overweight or anything but i can remember once a family member describing my legs as tree trunks. ....There was another occasion walking home from a nightclub at 18 and i can remember 2 guys walking behind me and my friend....and they were quite loudly discussing which one they fancied. ...they referred to me as the one with man calves. ...that sort of thing really dents your confidence when it happens fairly often. There have been other instances but those are the 2 that had the biggest impact. .. "
Comments can certainly make an long lasting impact when you're at a vulnerable age thats for certain,I bet the people who made them wouldn't even remember they said it now,let alone have any clue about how long it would affect you for .....the fuckers! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Comments can certainly make an long lasting impact when you're at a vulnerable age thats for certain,I bet the people who made them wouldn't even remember they said it now,let alone have any clue about how long it would affect you for .....the fuckers! "
what annoys me most Is that I don't let anything bug me.....I have no idea why this has become such a sticking point!
ho hum.....fuckers indeed |
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My right breast since the Lumpectomy.. I hate it.. I have on occasion put up a semi covered picture but not full breast or leaning forward. It is incredibly ugly and makes me sad.
I try to think i'm lucky to still have a breast and to be well but it isnt easy and I do think it would affect a meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My right breast since the Lumpectomy.. I hate it.. I have on occasion put up a semi covered picture but not full breast or leaning forward. It is incredibly ugly and makes me sad.
I try to think i'm lucky to still have a breast and to be well but it isnt easy and I do think it would affect a meet.
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i have a scar from this - is it the scarring that bothers you i used rescue oil a few years after the op and it has made a huge difference xxxx huge hugs |
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"My right breast since the Lumpectomy.. I hate it.. I have on occasion put up a semi covered picture but not full breast or leaning forward. It is incredibly ugly and makes me sad.
I try to think i'm lucky to still have a breast and to be well but it isnt easy and I do think it would affect a meet.
i have a scar from this - is it the scarring that bothers you i used rescue oil a few years after the op and it has made a huge difference xxxx huge hugs "
it isnt the scar but the very ugly dent which leaves me quite misshapen. My breasts were the best bit of my body before that. The scar is barely noticeable. thank you tho |
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"You have cracking legs Scarlet. Plus a fantastic bum at the top and kick arse heels at the bottom. Personally, I can't stand my thunder thighs, flabby tummy, dimply arse or saggy boobs but recently thought 'fuck it, if anyone's interested enough to want to see them in person they may as well see it in advance' and put some nude shots up where I'm not being covered by a strategically placed arm, hand or hair."
Look how often your photos have been fabbed though.I just fabbed one myself!You must be doing something right. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"OK. ...I've just taken the plunge and uploaded a picture of my legs. If I have a body part I really dislike it's my legs so I tend to put up clever pictures of them. ...I must say I feel really liberated and that I'm no longer living a lie!! Is there a part of your body that you would never display on here? What's stopping you showing all? Is it really that bad?? Anybody else feeling brave?...I guess I'm just seeing myself in a new light....and yes, a shameless look at me thread "
Yes, it's that bad and no, I'm not showing my least favourite bit. |
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