My ex has a transfer set up from his account to my account (different banks) for his money for my lad every Friday.
It didn't go in yesterday which I was expecting with it being good Friday. I thought it would go in today. But it hasnt. Does that mean I'll have to wait till Tuesday now? |
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"If it was automatic it should have gone in. Probably Tuesday. 
Ah ok. I wonder if it will of left his account and be in limbo. ive text him to ask x"
Sounds like you're getting on better. That makes me happy.  x |
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"It should have gone in yesterday as good Friday is only a church holiday not a bank holiday. But it does look like you will be waiting for it.
I thought all the banks were closed good Friday?"
Should really have gone in Thursday with the banks being closed for Easter. Probably looking like Tuesday now though babe! Hope you are well..xx |
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"If it was automatic it should have gone in. Probably Tuesday.
Ah ok. I wonder if it will of left his account and be in limbo. ive text him to ask x
Sounds like you're getting on better. That makes me happy. x"
Not really. I just don't speak to him unless I have to! He's tajen exactly 2 hours out of his life to see his son in the past month. (Which means he's had 8 days off from work in that time) but he's the one missing out not me. He'll never change x |
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"It should have gone in yesterday as good Friday is only a church holiday not a bank holiday. But it does look like you will be waiting for it.
I thought all the banks were closed good Friday?
Should really have gone in Thursday with the banks being closed for Easter. Probably looking like Tuesday now though babe! Hope you are well..xx"
Yes I think with it being a private transfer they can't take it early so looks like tues. If he doesnt get back to me I'll ring the bank this morning and check x |
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"If it was automatic it should have gone in. Probably Tuesday.
Ah ok. I wonder if it will of left his account and be in limbo. ive text him to ask x
Sounds like you're getting on better. That makes me happy. x
Not really. I just don't speak to him unless I have to! He's tajen exactly 2 hours out of his life to see his son in the past month. (Which means he's had 8 days off from work in that time) but he's the one missing out not me. He'll never change x "
I believe that if you are not fit enough to be a father to your child, your balls should be chopped off x |
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"It should have gone in yesterday as good Friday is only a church holiday not a bank holiday. But it does look like you will be waiting for it.
I thought all the banks were closed good Friday?
Should really have gone in Thursday with the banks being closed for Easter. Probably looking like Tuesday now though babe! Hope you are well..xx
Yes I think with it being a private transfer they can't take it early so looks like tues. If he doesnt get back to me I'll ring the bank this morning and check x"
Yeah, you may have to for peace of mind! Hope you don't mind that I sent you a message to your inbox..x |
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It does vary by bank with Standing Orders (which I presume this is). Some will process the day before with the end of day run others will only process it on the next working day  |
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"If it was automatic it should have gone in. Probably Tuesday.
Ah ok. I wonder if it will of left his account and be in limbo. ive text him to ask x
Sounds like you're getting on better. That makes me happy. x
Not really. I just don't speak to him unless I have to! He's tajen exactly 2 hours out of his life to see his son in the past month. (Which means he's had 8 days off from work in that time) but he's the one missing out not me. He'll never change x
I believe that if you are not fit enough to be a father to your child, your balls should be chopped off x"
Ah there's lots gone on over the years but this thread isn't to do with that. I was just curious about the payment. |
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"It does vary by bank with Standing Orders (which I presume this is). Some will process the day before with the end of day run others will only process it on the next working day "
I'm assuming it is a standing order yeah. It goes from his natwest account to my nationwide every Friday automatically normally x |
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"If it was automatic it should have gone in. Probably Tuesday.
Ah ok. I wonder if it will of left his account and be in limbo. ive text him to ask x
Sounds like you're getting on better. That makes me happy. x
Not really. I just don't speak to him unless I have to! He's tajen exactly 2 hours out of his life to see his son in the past month. (Which means he's had 8 days off from work in that time) but he's the one missing out not me. He'll never change x
I believe that if you are not fit enough to be a father to your child, your balls should be chopped off x
Ah there's lots gone on over the years but this thread isn't to do with that. I was just curious about the payment. "
Gossip, how are you anyway?x |
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"If it was automatic it should have gone in. Probably Tuesday.
Ah ok. I wonder if it will of left his account and be in limbo. ive text him to ask x
Sounds like you're getting on better. That makes me happy. x
Not really. I just don't speak to him unless I have to! He's tajen exactly 2 hours out of his life to see his son in the past month. (Which means he's had 8 days off from work in that time) but he's the one missing out not me. He'll never change x "
I could never do that to my girls id want to have that bond and relationship with them, they mean world to me and more and fight hell n leather to see my girls. Think ur ex needs reality check!! |
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"It should have gone in yesterday as good Friday is only a church holiday not a bank holiday. But it does look like you will be waiting for it.
I thought all the banks were closed good Friday?"
They are cx |
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If it's a standing order/direct debit I would imagine it will arrive Tuesday...
Keep an eye on your account you might 've lucky...
I can never understand men who don't see their kids. I had a fight to see mine and refuse to move out of area so I can be near them  |
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"That's seems unfair to get it 4 days later instead of one day earlier due to bank holidays"
Yes a friend just told me they pay 2 standing orders on a Friday and the money has left their account but won't show in the other one till Tuesday! |
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"My ex has a transfer set up from his account to my account (different banks) for his money for my lad every Friday.
It didn't go in yesterday which I was expecting with it being good Friday. I thought it would go in today. But it hasnt. Does that mean I'll have to wait till Tuesday now? "
It shouldn't have made any difference. Transfers are electronic. We've done away with the little man running with money from one bank to the other. He was knackered.
If you don't get it till Tuesday I'd have a word with your bank. Or get your ex to change the transfer to a different day so this doesn't happen again. |
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"My ex has a transfer set up from his account to my account (different banks) for his money for my lad every Friday.
It didn't go in yesterday which I was expecting with it being good Friday. I thought it would go in today. But it hasnt. Does that mean I'll have to wait till Tuesday now?
It shouldn't have made any difference. Transfers are electronic. We've done away with the little man running with money from one bank to the other. He was knackered.
If you don't get it till Tuesday I'd have a word with your bank. Or get your ex to change the transfer to a different day so this doesn't happen again."
Rang bank. They said that even though it's electronic If the people aren't there at the main place to start the electronic process then it still won't go. So sometimes it does and sometimes it doesn't depending on who's working when! Ah well. Good job im not skint this week eh? |
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