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What compliments do you not like
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok what I mean is I tend to get called cute and sweet a lot by ladies they mean it as a compliment but I hate being described by those two words makes me feel like a teddy bear not a man lol
So anyone else have this issue or am I just weird ?? |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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Any compliment that has the BS scent attached to it - could be anything!
I have a very acute BS detector and if I feel somebody is trying to manipulate me into liking/ meeting etc them it has completely the opposite effect and is in fact a turn off. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"No i hate people wanting to meet me when they like older,i dont see it as flattering."
Yep, that is one of them. It means we are being "chosen" based on being older - what the hell is that about, especially when it comes from a guy a year or two younger than me.  |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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"No i hate people wanting to meet me when they like older,i dont see it as flattering.
Yep, that is one of them. It means we are being "chosen" based on being older - what the hell is that about, especially when it comes from a guy a year or two younger than me. "
As if thats all we have going for us . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been told my cock is pretty lots of times not sure I like pretty as a description "
I get cute cock. Ffs I want " it's a Fukin beast " not " aww it's cute "  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I've been told my cock is pretty lots of times not sure I like pretty as a description I get cute cock. Ffs I want " it's a Fukin beast " not " aww it's cute " "
I can understand that completely - tbh I think the term"willy" is offensive in a way as it belittles(pardon the pun) the male sex organ. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cute!! Babies, Toddlers and Puppies are cute. Im an adult sexually adventorous woman. lost my innocence and cuteness a long time ago "
Aww but you are rather cute |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been told my cock is pretty lots of times not sure I like pretty as a description I get cute cock. Ffs I want " it's a Fukin beast " not " aww it's cute " "
Cute butt tho . . |
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"Cute!! Babies, Toddlers and Puppies are cute. Im an adult sexually adventorous woman. lost my innocence and cuteness a long time ago Aww but you are rather cute "
You just couldnt resist could you? |
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I hate .. nice tits..
Just had one asking if my age was right. not strictly a compliment but I recon I get 4 or 5 a week questioning my age. Why on earth would I say I was 65 if I wasnt. silly people
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"You hate it when they say that's the best shag I've had.
Today"
Well no one has said i am a good shag or will ever say that about me.
Not the best nor any good at anything lol.
Dont recall the OH ever saying anything positive but I guess it was so long ago |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You hate it when they say that's the best shag I've had.
Today
Well no one has said i am a good shag or will ever say that about me.
Not the best nor any good at anything lol.
Dont recall the OH ever saying anything positive but I guess it was so long ago"
Cheer up breadbin |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no problem whatsoever with compliments. I don't like insults though.
Im grateful for complements xx  "
some of us have no option but to accept gratefully.....grab on to every last one with both hands  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no problem whatsoever with compliments. I don't like insults though.
Im grateful for complements xx
some of us have no option but to accept gratefully.....grab on to every last one with both hands "
Oh scarlet, half of your face is attractive!  |
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"You're the most beautiful BBW ive ever seen".. Fucking hate that. Like, why put me into a category? I'm a fat woman.. Not a BBW.. But I feel like I've been downgraded from person to category. It's like, you wouldn't say "you're the most beautiful black woman ive ever seen"...
No idea if any of that even made sense! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I changed back to male mode at a club once towards the end of the night to go in the jacuzzi.
A woman made a beeline for me to say I made a better man than woman.
After all the effort I put into my transformation, it's not what I wanted to hear. |
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The backhanded compliment I always get is 'you'd look so pretty without all that in your face' like it kills people that it's jewellery and no I wouldn't look any different, I'd just have less jewellery. Never heard anyone ever say 'you'd look so pretty without all those bracelets'. |
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"I changed back to male mode at a club once towards the end of the night to go in the jacuzzi.
A woman made a beeline for me to say I made a better man than woman.
After all the effort I put into my transformation, it's not what I wanted to hear. "
What a stupid woman. People can be absolutely ridiculously close-minded. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I remember years ago some guy saying I had lovely legs nice and chunky like a little rugby player! I was like nooo they're just muscly as hell! "
Shapely I'd say....you've got some very hot thigh gap going on in one of your pics I've had a good per......use over |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The backhanded compliment I always get is 'you'd look so pretty without all that in your face' like it kills people that it's jewellery and no I wouldn't look any different, I'd just have less jewellery. Never heard anyone ever say 'you'd look so pretty without all those bracelets'. "
Best back handed compliment I had was a woman in a club she said to me
You always look so nice you have some lovely underwear
Most fat women don't make an effort but you look really nice, well done
Then patted me on the head as she walked off |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I remember years ago some guy saying I had lovely legs nice and chunky like a little rugby player! I was like nooo they're just muscly as hell!
Shapely I'd say....you've got some very hot thigh gap going on in one of your pics I've had a good per......use over "
That picture you're talking about was last year, they're a but softer these days, this was said to me about 10 years ago when I was in my prime! |
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"The backhanded compliment I always get is 'you'd look so pretty without all that in your face' like it kills people that it's jewellery and no I wouldn't look any different, I'd just have less jewellery. Never heard anyone ever say 'you'd look so pretty without all those bracelets'.
Best back handed compliment I had was a woman in a club she said to me
You always look so nice you have some lovely underwear
Most fat women don't make an effort but you look really nice, well done
Then patted me on the head as she walked off "
Lovely 
I am wary of all compliments and always feel the need to explain why they are wrong afterwards  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"MILF
I suppose it is a complement when a young guys mails you calling you a sexy MILF but it makes me shudder
Hate it"
lol!!! I got that said to me tonight and it made me shudder too. Hate it as well. ...x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I changed back to male mode at a club once towards the end of the night to go in the jacuzzi.
A woman made a beeline for me to say I made a better man than woman.
After all the effort I put into my transformation, it's not what I wanted to hear.
What a stupid woman. People can be absolutely ridiculously close-minded. "
I think she was actually trying to be nice but when I dress up I want compliments for that not for the way I look if I don't try |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The backhanded compliment I always get is 'you'd look so pretty without all that in your face' like it kills people that it's jewellery and no I wouldn't look any different, I'd just have less jewellery. Never heard anyone ever say 'you'd look so pretty without all those bracelets'. "
I've had the 'why did you spoil your pretty face with those piercings' comment, wasn't sure how to even reply to that so i didn't.' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no problem whatsoever with compliments. I don't like insults though.
Im grateful for complements xx
some of us have no option but to accept gratefully.....grab on to every last one with both hands "
And repeat it ova n ova in our minds Hehehe xx |
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"I changed back to male mode at a club once towards the end of the night to go in the jacuzzi.
A woman made a beeline for me to say I made a better man than woman.
After all the effort I put into my transformation, it's not what I wanted to hear.
What a stupid woman. People can be absolutely ridiculously close-minded.
I think she was actually trying to be nice but when I dress up I want compliments for that not for the way I look if I don't try "
yeah, what people think is a compliment and how it is perceived can be massively different. In general I HATE compliments because they either happen at work where I just feel vulnerable, or I assume they're just being sarcastic tossers, as those are mmy primary forms of 'compliment'. And I don't give two shits what people think about me, I just wish they would disconnect their brains from their mouths. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cute!! Babies, Toddlers and Puppies are cute. Im an adult sexually adventorous woman. lost my innocence and cuteness a long time ago "
Here! Here! I couldn't agree more! |
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