I don't but I can understand why some do.
I've had mesaages before saying 'oh you've met that guy so why won't you meet me'
A lot of people on here don't like meeting others with lots of veri's. Or won't meet people if they've met with certain other people.
Some think that who they've fucked is their business and no one else's.
Loads of reasons x |
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"I don't but I can understand why some do.
I've had mesaages before saying 'oh you've met that guy so why won't you meet me'
A lot of people on here don't like meeting others with lots of veri's. Or won't meet people if they've met with certain other people.
Some think that who they've fucked is their business and no one else's.
Loads of reasons x"
i see that point but dont get why people wont meet some one if they have met someone certain |
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"I don't but I can understand why some do.
I've had mesaages before saying 'oh you've met that guy so why won't you meet me'
A lot of people on here don't like meeting others with lots of veri's. Or won't meet people if they've met with certain other people.
Some think that who they've fucked is their business and no one else's.
Loads of reasons x
i see that point but dont get why people wont meet some one if they have met someone certain"
Why not? It could be someone who they know regularly plays bareback for example so they are reducing risk. |
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"I don't but I can understand why some do.
I've had mesaages before saying 'oh you've met that guy so why won't you meet me'
A lot of people on here don't like meeting others with lots of veri's. Or won't meet people if they've met with certain other people.
Some think that who they've fucked is their business and no one else's.
Loads of reasons x"
All the reasons above sums it up nicely for me  |
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"I don't but I can understand why some do.
I've had mesaages before saying 'oh you've met that guy so why won't you meet me'
A lot of people on here don't like meeting others with lots of veri's. Or won't meet people if they've met with certain other people.
Some think that who they've fucked is their business and no one else's.
Loads of reasons x
i see that point but dont get why people wont meet some one if they have met someone certain"
Some people conduct certain unsafe practices openly so we would happily not meet someone who has met a certain person off here.
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Our profile is hidden at the min, but when it's not we only display our latest veri and hide our friends list. We've discovered a few odd cliques around here where we've had people stop talking to us and a social cancelled because we displayed a veri from someone or because of a friend we've added. Guess a guilty by association thing or concern that we'd talk about them or something...but far too much hassle for us so just easier to hide em! |
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"i agree you should be proud of meets , also people who hide profile but still meet do me in"
It's not about being proud or ashamed - I wouldn't meet anyone if I was ashamed of meeting them! It just comes down to be nobody else's business, simple as that. |
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I replace the older verification with a new one from that same person, any that don't show are from people that have left the site. Granted I don't have many compared to most blokes I guess, but I wouldn't hide any regardless. If a person has taken the time to write one then I post it.  |
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"Mine all say stuff about amazing blowjobs or something so I hide mine so I don't get a million messages saying "I want one of your famous blowjobs""
I'm up for that |
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I'm hiding mine atm as I have a female stalker who keeps hounding the men I have met as soon as I have a new veri. The last one is a good friend of mine and he met her and all she wanted to do was talk about me. We have never met. |
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I hide mine because i'm not meeting. Will probably only put the summary up when i am meeting anyway, don't see the point in having ratings of me on my profile and that's what veris tend to be. |
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"Mine all say stuff about amazing blowjobs or something so I hide mine so I don't get a million messages saying "I want one of your famous blowjobs"
I'm up for that
Fack aff   "
Not so fast, what do you take me for? |
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Way I see it is you wouldn't put a reference from an ex on a dating profile so why put one on here from somebody you've had sex with.
Nobody leaves bad verifications on here so most just assume you're good anyway.
That and pics, profile text and messages are surely the decider if you meet somebody, not verifications |
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We select the verifications to display which we think will help to attract the kind of people we've found we enjoy the company of most, if that makes sense. Also displaying more than a handful seems to be too much.
Like anyone else we choose to not display the ones that portray us in the worst light, like "Fell asleep snoring loudly in the comfy part of the club". Not that we'd ever get any like that |
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"Because some are too personal to show
.. and to protect the privacy of those who've met me.
Only display those who agreed to be displayed."
You'd think giving a veri is tantamount to permission to display it.....
I'd never give one if I wasn't happy for someone to display it  |
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It depends how I feel about displaying them.....far ages I had them all displayed, then for ages I only had my last one displayed, now I have a little handfull displayed.....why? Because they're mine to do with as I like. |
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"Because some are too personal to show
.. and to protect the privacy of those who've met me.
Only display those who agreed to be displayed.
You'd think giving a veri is tantamount to permission to display it.....
I'd never give one if I wasn't happy for someone to display it "
its on display... |
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"Because some are too personal to show
.. and to protect the privacy of those who've met me.
Only display those who agreed to be displayed.
You'd think giving a veri is tantamount to permission to display it.....
I'd never give one if I wasn't happy for someone to display it
its on display... "
As is yours again now....
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