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Are people on this site really after meaningless sex, or secretly deep down a partner
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Hey guys, it's come to my attention since being on this site for nearly 9 months now that the women I chat to/have met and search for (not sure it applies to the men, although I'm assuming it's the same) seem to mostly say they want no strings fun, yet appear to just want that fun with one person, maybe secretly trying to find a partner? Ideas? Suggestions? Just curious  Cheers fabbers |
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"Hey guys, it's come to my attention since being on this site for nearly 9 months now that the women I chat to/have met and search for (not sure it applies to the men, although I'm assuming it's the same) seem to mostly say they want no strings fun, yet appear to just want that fun with one person, maybe secretly trying to find a partner? Ideas? Suggestions? Just curious Cheers fabbers "
meaningless sex for me please - form an orderly queue ladies!  |
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"Hey guys, it's come to my attention since being on this site for nearly 9 months now that the women I chat to/have met and search for (not sure it applies to the men, although I'm assuming it's the same) seem to mostly say they want no strings fun, yet appear to just want that fun with one person, maybe secretly trying to find a partner? Ideas? Suggestions? Just curious Cheers fabbers
meaningless sex for me please - form an orderly queue ladies! "
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"Hey guys, it's come to my attention since being on this site for nearly 9 months now that the women I chat to/have met and search for (not sure it applies to the men, although I'm assuming it's the same) seem to mostly say they want no strings fun, yet appear to just want that fun with one person, maybe secretly trying to find a partner? Ideas? Suggestions? Just curious
Cheers fabbers "
I think some are, knowingly and subconsciously.
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"Hey guys, it's come to my attention since being on this site for nearly 9 months now that the women I chat to/have met and search for (not sure it applies to the men, although I'm assuming it's the same) seem to mostly say they want no strings fun, yet appear to just want that fun with one person, maybe secretly trying to find a partner? Ideas? Suggestions? Just curious Cheers fabbers "
What makes you laugh is when some very plain woman has pulled a half decent lad then they proclaim she only meets with him and they dont want to play with anyone else and direct everyone to the new couples profile.....Whereas the guy is pestering attractive couples for meets either alone or he can bring his latest conquest for the other poor guy lol |
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I make no secret of the fact I'm looking for people to see regularly.
I call that a partner. Some people might not. I'm very relaxed about my definitions of what a 'partner' is. I have partners I only see twice a year, and I have a partner who I live with and see almost every day. |
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"Hey guys, it's come to my attention since being on this site for nearly 9 months now that the women I chat to/have met and search for (not sure it applies to the men, although I'm assuming it's the same) seem to mostly say they want no strings fun, yet appear to just want that fun with one person, maybe secretly trying to find a partner? Ideas? Suggestions? Just curious Cheers fabbers What makes you laugh is when some very plain woman has pulled a half decent lad then they proclaim she only meets with him and they dont want to play with anyone else and direct everyone to the new couples profile.....Whereas the guy is pestering attractive couples for meets either alone or he can bring his latest conquest for the other poor guy lol "
Are you suggesting that only pretty girls can only pull half decent guys and plain janes must stick with the munters? |
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"Hey guys, it's come to my attention since being on this site for nearly 9 months now that the women I chat to/have met and search for (not sure it applies to the men, although I'm assuming it's the same) seem to mostly say they want no strings fun, yet appear to just want that fun with one person, maybe secretly trying to find a partner? Ideas? Suggestions? Just curious Cheers fabbers What makes you laugh is when some very plain woman has pulled a half decent lad then they proclaim she only meets with him and they dont want to play with anyone else and direct everyone to the new couples profile.....Whereas the guy is pestering attractive couples for meets either alone or he can bring his latest conquest for the other poor guy lol
Are you suggesting that only pretty girls can only pull half decent guys and plain janes must stick with the munters? "
if that's the case then.... plain janes, form an orderly queue! x |
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over a year ago
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I think there's a fair number of single women who would like more judging from what I've read on the forums and chatting to my male friends about their experiences
The same as there are men who become completely territorial over women they have fucked too |
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No strings doesn't mean meaningless, to me at least
Meaningless sex to me, would be anonymous sex
No strings means no commitment, so I look for people I like and that there is potential for regular meets with
But that's the point on here, everyone has different approaches |
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"Hey guys, it's come to my attention since being on this site for nearly 9 months now that the women I chat to/have met and search for (not sure it applies to the men, although I'm assuming it's the same) seem to mostly say they want no strings fun, yet appear to just want that fun with one person, maybe secretly trying to find a partner? Ideas? Suggestions? Just curious Cheers fabbers
meaningless sex for me please - form an orderly queue ladies! "
I'm forming a second que for women too  |
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"I'm not on this site for a relationship anything other than sex/friendship.
But lots are and you can tell from a mile away too.
Aww ben does that mean we won't be having babies together "
I have sperm available lol |
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I'll just have the sex please. I don't mind if it's on a regular basis with a bit of friendship chucked in but that's as far as it goes for me. I'm happy to spend time with a man,have a drink or even a bite to eat in bed,but ultimately it's the sex I want. |
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"I'm not on this site for a relationship anything other than sex/friendship.
But lots are and you can tell from a mile away too.
Aww ben does that mean we won't be having babies together
I have sperm available lol "
Oi breeders thread is that way |
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"I'm not on this site for a relationship anything other than sex/friendship.
But lots are and you can tell from a mile away too.
Aww ben does that mean we won't be having babies together "
Gah! 
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I guess you could say that I'm not actively looking for any commitment or ties. However, I'm also not closed to the idea. So if I met someone that I really clicked with both socially and sexually, and we were both single, why not?
But u don't meet single men, so doubt that would happen lol |
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"Hey guys, it's come to my attention since being on this site for nearly 9 months now that the women I chat to/have met and search for (not sure it applies to the men, although I'm assuming it's the same) seem to mostly say they want no strings fun, yet appear to just want that fun with one person, maybe secretly trying to find a partner? Ideas? Suggestions? Just curious Cheers fabbers "
No secret necessary, it's allowed you know!! I have always said I am open to relationships and much prefer more meets with fewer people. There's a few new people I'll be happy to meet when the timing is right, but I'm pretty selective, and I don't desire notches.
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"I'm not on this site for a relationship anything other than sex/friendship.
But lots are and you can tell from a mile away too.
Aww ben does that mean we won't be having babies together
Gah!
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Aww you are practising baby noises already gah gah |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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We are looking for something in the middle, friendship with sexy people. I don't want meaningless sexy, I want great sex with people that I enjoy spending time with in and out of the bedroom |
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"I'm not on this site for a relationship anything other than sex/friendship.
But lots are and you can tell from a mile away too.
Aww ben does that mean we won't be having babies together
I have sperm available lol
Oi breeders thread is that way "
Haha drop me a private message please |
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"I'm not on this site for a relationship anything other than sex/friendship.
But lots are and you can tell from a mile away too.
Aww ben does that mean we won't be having babies together
I have sperm available lol
Oi breeders thread is that way
Haha drop me a private message please"
Ermmmmm let me think about that....ermmm no |
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"I'm not on this site for a relationship anything other than sex/friendship.
But lots are and you can tell from a mile away too.
Aww ben does that mean we won't be having babies together "
Ohhh you would have beautiful babies |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"We are looking for something in the middle, friendship with sexy people. I don't want meaningless sexy, I want great sex with people that I enjoy spending time with in and out of the bedroom "
Actually I quite agree with this - we are/ I am looking for people with whom I enjoy BEING rather than just spending time for a quick sexual encounter. Not saying every encounter has to lead to life long friendship but it is nice when this happens occasionally.
In this respect it is no different from meeting people at another social activity and outside let's say the gym or the bowling or whatever club some personal friendships develop.
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"I'm not on this site for a relationship anything other than sex/friendship.
But lots are and you can tell from a mile away too.
Aww ben does that mean we won't be having babies together
I have sperm available lol
Oi breeders thread is that way
Haha drop me a private message please
Ermmmmm let me think about that....ermmm no "
Secretly wanting me I see haha  |
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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago
Just where I need to be. |
Not after anything more than having great sex and exploring my boundaries. I have a fwb outside of fab but want to try different things. I have to have a connection with someone for me to have sex. Seeing a man more than once does not equate to wanting a relationship. I'm like a quality street sweet made for sharing. |
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"Hey guys, it's come to my attention since being on this site for nearly 9 months now that the women I chat to/have met and search for (not sure it applies to the men, although I'm assuming it's the same) seem to mostly say they want no strings fun, yet appear to just want that fun with one person, maybe secretly trying to find a partner? Ideas? Suggestions? Just curious Cheers fabbers What makes you laugh is when some very plain woman has pulled a half decent lad then they proclaim she only meets with him and they dont want to play with anyone else and direct everyone to the new couples profile.....Whereas the guy is pestering attractive couples for meets either alone or he can bring his latest conquest for the other poor guy lol
Are you suggesting that only pretty girls can only pull half decent guys and plain janes must stick with the munters? Nah just saying the bloke uses the woman and she falls for it hook line and stinker x........hence deleted profiles men rejoining proclaiming they left the site as were being stalked by bunny boilers etc "
Oh I see x |
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"Hey guys, it's come to my attention since being on this site for nearly 9 months now that the women I chat to/have met and search for (not sure it applies to the men, although I'm assuming it's the same) seem to mostly say they want no strings fun, yet appear to just want that fun with one person, maybe secretly trying to find a partner? Ideas? Suggestions? Just curious Cheers fabbers What makes you laugh is when some very plain woman has pulled a half decent lad then they proclaim she only meets with him and they dont want to play with anyone else and direct everyone to the new couples profile.....Whereas the guy is pestering attractive couples for meets either alone or he can bring his latest conquest for the other poor guy lol "
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"I think a lot are looking for more then sex why loads on the dating sites as well as here."
there's plenty of meaningless sex over on the dating sites too! I had a profile on one for a while - remember getting a message from a woman whose profile talked about how she was looking for a long-term, no players, etc, but her message to me said she wanted hot dirty fucking and loved anal! |
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"I think a lot are looking for more then sex why loads on the dating sites as well as here.
there's plenty of meaningless sex over on the dating sites too! I had a profile on one for a while - remember getting a message from a woman whose profile talked about how she was looking for a long-term, no players, etc, but her message to me said she wanted hot dirty fucking and loved anal! "
Thanks for airing my message to you |
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"I think a lot are looking for more then sex why loads on the dating sites as well as here.
there's plenty of meaningless sex over on the dating sites too! I had a profile on one for a while - remember getting a message from a woman whose profile talked about how she was looking for a long-term, no players, etc, but her message to me said she wanted hot dirty fucking and loved anal!
Thanks for airing my message to you "
I wish x |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I think a lot are looking for more then sex why loads on the dating sites as well as here."
I agree - people confuse dating sites with swing sites or rather the boundaries are not clear at times. Countless people on dating sites are looking for no string sex and yes, some people on this site are looking for relationships.
I don't think there is a right or wrong really as long as people are clear about what they want, expect and hope for and are able to communicate this to the people they meet?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm here for sex. Would like something more. It's a fine line because some women you can say the deepest, hardest, dirtiest things to and they respond, and others don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think some of you lot are full of it.
If it was just meaningless sex . You could all stay at home and sort yourselves out.
If it's just a thick enough cock or tight enough "flower "
But I'd suggest. You fancy them because of the twinkle in their eye. Or the way they smile. Or some such.
Sorry I've lost the point.i was trying to make.
Something about fucking people you LIKE beyond the size of their genitals
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good filthy sex here. If that happens to be with a regular fuck buddy great
I'm here to make friends too
Accept my friend request then ha ha"
Not just after commenting on your thread!  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I think some of you lot are full of it.
If it was just meaningless sex . You could all stay at home and sort yourselves out.
If it's just a thick enough cock or tight enough "flower "
But I'd suggest. You fancy them because of the twinkle in their eye. Or the way they smile. Or some such.
Sorry I've lost the point.i was trying to make.
Something about fucking people you LIKE beyond the size of their genitals
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I can go along with your last statement |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Found my partner on here never been happier "
Not meaning to be disrespectful but finding a life partner on a site where the men trawl for sex for us would be a complete nono.
Really glad its worked out for you both though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was just here as Virginie I was explicit that I wasn't in the slightest bit interested in any form of relationship - I was here for fun sex with guys and women. I did make a couple of friends though. Then I met Adam and I got myself a proper boyfriend
Wasn't looking (even secretly) but it found us.
Tell you what though. Lots of guys are doing it too! Not just us women. Plenty want more then we give them.
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No strings doesn't necessarily mean meaningless, it can also be regular(ish). Just means that I wouldn't want to be monogamous, nor would I expect it. Infact thd more the merrier as far as I'm concerned! |
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"Found my partner on here never been happier Not meaning to be disrespectful but finding a life partner on a site where the men trawl for sex for us would be a complete nono.
Really glad its worked out for you both though "
Rubbish! I found mine here. Now we trawl for sex together
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"Found my partner on here never been happier Not meaning to be disrespectful but finding a life partner on a site where the men trawl for sex for us would be a complete nono.
Really glad its worked out for you both though "
You're a couple trawling for sex........ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In an ideal world I'd be on here having some sex with some fun women until I find a nice lady to be my Mrs lol! But unfortunately ha it's neither at minute  |
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By *eshzMan
over a year ago
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I guess, for me is that it would be cool to find a partner/relationship on here cause at least we both know the lifestyle and into it... of cause there must be chemistry in other areas of interest but yeah... for me I am very open to the idea of a relationship. |
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I would prefer to meet someone on here...only because I like different cock once in a while but would like to meet someone to share that but to be honest I'm in a can't be arsed mood at the moment |
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By *eshzMan
over a year ago
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"I would prefer to meet someone on here...only because I like different cock once in a while but would like to meet someone to share that but to be honest I'm in a can't be arsed mood at the moment "
I like the first part of this message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm pretty open to whatever happens....
I've dated one or two folk off here...I am right now in fact, the ever lovely mimieux.
I've had plenty plain normal meets but
I'm interested in and like people. I like spending time getting to know them, so a cold 'fuck 'n' go' does nothing for me, i'd rather jerk off, so I tend to make friends with the folk I meet off here and I think that's important to me...
I do like to meet folk I'd want to go and do other stuff with you know (not that i always do, but if I wouldn't be seen out and about as friends with them, I wouldn't want to sleep with them either) so yeah, In conclusion, I do look for connections on here, not romantic ones particularly, but if they happen, no worries.
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"Found my partner on here never been happier Not meaning to be disrespectful but finding a life partner on a site where the men trawl for sex for us would be a complete nono.
Really glad its worked out for you both though
You're a couple trawling for sex........ "
Yes sex nsa. Not life partners which I think the whole point of the thread was aimed at |
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over a year ago
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"It is NSA with me, the only difference is I like to be friends with my meets.
As someone else has said, just because it is NSA doesn't mean it is meaningless. "
This... Exactly...
I live with my soul mate, we have filthy sex, we also make love.
I love to laugh and giggle, with the people I have sex with from her, and build up a rapor.. Therefore to me it's NSA. But it's not meaningless.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think there is a difference between mechanical and meaningful sex. The former is purveyed on FAB for the most part and there is nothing wrong in seeking physical pleasure it can be great fun. In the end however it has no meaningful outcome as an expression of love and commitment. |
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over a year ago
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"Sex without love is as hollow and ridiculous as love without sex"
This exactly!
I've never for a long time slept with or wanted to sleep with someone I didn't care about on some level. |
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By *smCouple
over a year ago
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Yes I have regular meets . But that's different guys lol . Kind of like tonight I fancy a comfortable snugly evening so I'll see if x is free . Tomorrow I might want a I'm in charge get on your knees boy" kind of evening so ill call y . Lol
No I am not looking for love or an exclusive relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like a diverse sex life. Whatever it is it has some meaning,whether it's purely hedonistic satisfaction or erotic mutual sex on a deeper level. It never means I have feelings of love for anyone. |
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"Found my partner on here never been happier Not meaning to be disrespectful but finding a life partner on a site where the men trawl for sex for us would be a complete nono.
Really glad its worked out for you both though
You're a couple trawling for sex........ Yes sex nsa. Not life partners which I think the whole point of the thread was aimed at"
Apologies... I thought you were saying you wouldn't consider a man that had been on a site such as this, worthwhile for being a life partner.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a hopeless romantic. I make no secret to anyone who asks that I'd love to fall madly in love and for then to feel the same. However I live in the real world and I know that it's purely a nice fantasy for me at the moment. I have learnt the importance of keeping my heart out of sex.
I've no doubt that there are some people on here who may well be looking for relationships. And good luck to them. Having tried conventional dating sites I'd say people are far brighter and more interesting here. People can and should use this site for anything they wish. So long as they are honest with others bit also with themselves. |
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over a year ago
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I'm not after a relationship on or off here, I'm happy to meet one off or several times if we get on, however I would never want to meet anyone exclusively and I would never meet couples as a couple with guys I've met off here, even though I have met a few guys who have asked me to, I meet a bi guy every now and again who we meet other bi guys with for MMF but that's as far as I would go
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Neither....not into meaningless sex, and don't want a relationship. Meaningful NSA sex for me please "
I feel like that, i have done spontaneous sex with total strangers and I have done sex with men I have met and had a drink and chat with first and I just feel sex with someone I like and get on with is better than with someone I have never even spoken to
That does not meet I want to meet them regular or exclusive because I don't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I want 100% sex with no strings.
This is the last place I would look for a relationship - that said I have had a relationship with somebody ive met off here, just at the moment, na... Just sex for me ta! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what do we want? SEX
why are we here? SEX
When do we want it...NOW.
Hello.
I believe your mum does. "
She might feature on a future Channel 5 documentary. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I want 100% sex with no strings.
This is the last place I would look for a relationship - that said I have had a relationship with somebody ive met off here, just at the moment, na... Just sex for me ta!"
The doors open
Pop up, shag me and piss off when you've done |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are looking for something in the middle, friendship with sexy people. I don't want meaningless sexy, I want great sex with people that I enjoy spending time with in and out of the bedroom
Actually I quite agree with this - we are/ I am looking for people with whom I enjoy BEING rather than just spending time for a quick sexual encounter. Not saying every encounter has to lead to life long friendship but it is nice when this happens occasionally.
In this respect it is no different from meeting people at another social activity and outside let's say the gym or the bowling or whatever club some personal friendships develop.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Neither....not into meaningless sex, and don't want a relationship. Meaningful NSA sex for me please
I feel like that, i have done spontaneous sex with total strangers and I have done sex with men I have met and had a drink and chat with first and I just feel sex with someone I like and get on with is better than with someone I have never even spoken to
That does not meet I want to meet them regular or exclusive because I don't "
I have had wonderful one offs, but there was something there. Much prefer to get to know where their buttons are so I can use them to best effect, regular...yes, commitment....oh no, not beyond friendship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sex without love is as hollow and ridiculous as love without sex"
Not at all. I've experienced both, and both can be lovely in their own ways.
I currently have a romantic relationship with someone that I don't have sex with. I don't see a problem with that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd like a partner, but I wouldn't look here for one"
Agree the reason being this site is a fun sex site for couples who have stability in their relationship and are strong,these are the people we search for,most of the men on here are just looking for a chance to fuck over their partner/commit adultery so therefore would not make suitable long term partners for anyone....shall we carry our own crosses up the hill to be nailed up |
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over a year ago
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"I'd like a partner, but I wouldn't look here for one Agree the reason being this site is a fun sex site for couples who have stability in their relationship and are strong,these are the people we search for,most of the men on here are just looking for a chance to fuck over their partner/commit adultery so therefore would not make suitable long term partners for anyone....shall we carry our own crosses up the hill to be nailed up "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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....shall we carry our own crosses up the hill to be nailed up
Yes, but on Friday, please
[apologies to the practising Catholics]"
ok but save us an egg...we will be back by monday |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"I think a lot are looking for more then sex why loads on the dating sites as well as here.
I agree - people confuse dating sites with swing sites or rather the boundaries are not clear at times. Countless people on dating sites are looking for no string sex and yes, some people on this site are looking for relationships.
I don't think there is a right or wrong really as long as people are clear about what they want, expect and hope for and are able to communicate this to the people they meet? "
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over a year ago
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I'm looking for fun but wouldn't say no to a relationship although I wouldn't say I'm actively looking for one. Everyone is different and like someone else said, they may knowingly or subconsciously want a relationship |
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Im here genuinely here for fun. Id just rather have a couple of friends with benefits relationships, (good reliable shags, i have a good laugh with), than sleep with every guy on the site.
One guy ive met with on the understandind of a FWB relationship for over 3 years, I dont love him or want to settle down with him, but I do care and value that friendship/arrangement (because its bloody hard to find!) so would miss it. |
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over a year ago
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"Hey guys, it's come to my attention since being on this site for nearly 9 months now that the women I chat to/have met and search for (not sure it applies to the men, although I'm assuming it's the same) seem to mostly say they want no strings fun, yet appear to just want that fun with one person, maybe secretly trying to find a partner? Ideas? Suggestions? Just curious Cheers fabbers "
Can I have meaningless selfish sex please  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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....shall we carry our own crosses up the hill to be nailed up
Yes, but on Friday, please
[apologies to the practising Catholics]"
Noooooo my birthday is on Friday! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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completely meaningless sex here please. At the moment I can't even be bothered to make friends with the guys that I could be meeting as it just ends up complicated. I have no room for extra relationships in my life. I have my husband and that is enough for me. |
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I can't speak for most of the site but can for much of those I know and don't see most of us wanting to form relationships via fab. We're here for high quality sexual adventure with appropriate partners - we may meet some again, rather than take chances with new unknown people. |
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