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is it good to show all your veri's
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Then don't meet them....
It's their profile and their choice to show how, when and the type of meets they have.
As for your comment "hundreds of meets within days...." slightly exaggerated.
Ever thought that if they do show a number of meets in an evening that there happened to be a cracking Social going on somewhere?
Not everyone meets for sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think somebody is only as good as their last meet so I only show my last one and don't think anybody is put off by them, think we're all aware people meet for sex on here so don't see how it would put anybody off.
Some choose not to show them for whatever reason but that's their choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Then don't meet them....
It's their profile and their choice to show how, when and the type of meets they have.
As for your comment "hundreds of meets within days...." slightly exaggerated.
Ever thought that if they do show a number of meets in an evening that there happened to be a cracking Social going on somewhere?
Not everyone meets for sex."
 most of mine are socials |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But on the other hand loads of guys find it a huge turn on...
None of mine are socials. Also mine are hidden, also many of my meets are repeat meets, also many guys don't verify me every time we meet, also not all guys i've met have verified me, also i meet guys from other sites. Guess how many meets i've had in the past 6 months?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Then don't meet them....
It's their profile and their choice to show how, when and the type of meets they have.
As for your comment "hundreds of meets within days...." slightly exaggerated.
Ever thought that if they do show a number of meets in an evening that there happened to be a cracking Social going on somewhere?
Not everyone meets for sex."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't show any of mine, because it's nobody's business who I fuck and people can take it or leave it. If I had 300 and I wanted to show them all I would - same approach, people can take it or leave it. |
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ok maybe meant meets within days of eachother to be fair social meets thats cool and yeah each to their own etc but when you read the pure nasty ones and someones got it up for all to see i think i'd be worried about sti's... but thats just me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"when you read the pure nasty ones and someones got it up for all to see i think i'd be worried about sti's... but thats just me "
only takes one person to give an STI anyway  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"ok maybe meant meets within days of eachother to be fair social meets thats cool and yeah each to their own etc but when you read the pure nasty ones and someones got it up for all to see i think i'd be worried about sti's... but thats just me "
Is this womens or mens profiles you are reading?
You can catch an STD from one person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok maybe meant meets within days of each other"
What about people who are verified by more than one guy a day for sex? Despite actually fucking more guys than that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to.
I switched them off.
More hassle than its worth. . The pure bitchiness on here.
It's my fucking business who I meet. "
See. ..i don't care. If people want to be bitchy they can go fuck themselves. It won't bother me one bit. ...more amuse me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to.
I switched them off.
More hassle than its worth. . The pure bitchiness on here.
It's my fucking business who I meet.
See. ..i don't care. If people want to be bitchy they can go fuck themselves. It won't bother me one bit. ...more amuse me "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too be honest if u want to have sex with lots of people in a day its coool but i dont think u need to tell everyone is what im saying lols"
And maybe people don't want to hear your opinion on how they run their profile. ..is all I'm saying |
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Trashy?
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Trashy isn't something I think I would associate with anyone on or off Fab
And quite frankly it says more about you than it ever could about those who are clearly "Trashy" like me with 54 verifications in less than 10 weeks
Some of the meets were social
Some with friends of over a decade
Ner ner
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it off putting as well, so I tend to stay clear of them myself however for me its each to their own. It's no different to the lads in the changing room talking about 'how many chicks he smashed on Sat night' some women take pride in their conquests like a bloke would.
This is why I display mine constantly! Lol
You can't please all the people all the time...so why bother trying. |
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I have one veri, which isn't shown as they have left the site..
Cause of this(I think) I get no meets.
In the 2 yrs I've been on I've had one fs meet and 6 face to face( in pubs and clubs) successes.
It seems I don't come across well in cyber space.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't show l mine
I don't show multiple from same people and I don't show graphic ones
Or the ones that say I'm a crap shag. "
You have veri's that say you was a crap shag?! Thats fucked up! Are you still friends with them too? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trashy?
Better words are
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Trashy isn't something I think I would associate with anyone on or off Fab
And quite frankly it says more about you than it ever could about those who are clearly "Trashy" like me with 54 verifications in less than 10 weeks
Some of the meets were social
Some with friends of over a decade
Ner ner
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I prefer the word. Greedy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trashy?
Better words are
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Trashy isn't something I think I would associate with anyone on or off Fab
And quite frankly it says more about you than it ever could about those who are clearly "Trashy" like me with 54 verifications in less than 10 weeks
Some of the meets were social
Some with friends of over a decade
Ner ner
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Ha! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But on the other hand loads of guys find it a huge turn on...
None of mine are socials. Also mine are hidden, also many of my meets are repeat meets, also many guys don't verify me every time we meet, also not all guys i've met have verified me, also i meet guys from other sites. Guess how many meets i've had in the past 6 months? "
12 ? |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I used to.
I switched them off.
More hassle than its worth. . The pure bitchiness on here.
It's my fucking business who I meet.
See. ..i don't care. If people want to be bitchy they can go fuck themselves. It won't bother me one bit. ...more amuse me "
If they go fuck themselves though they can't leave themselves a veri! 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trashy?
Better words are
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Reliable
Trashy isn't something I think I would associate with anyone on or off Fab
And quite frankly it says more about you than it ever could about those who are clearly "Trashy" like me with 54 verifications in less than 10 weeks
Some of the meets were social
Some with friends of over a decade
Ner ner
"
Accessible...lol
I just hope you ladies are in line with recent disability regulations permitting wheelchair access! Although judging by your avatar I see you've already got that covered...Daaaayum!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've had quite a few couples get quite odd about our veri's...not meeting us because of people we've met, stopping conversations because of a new friend we've added, and have even had one couple cancel a social with us after we posted a veri from another couple.
We've discovered an odd few cliques around here...so decided to just hide our friends list and only display one veri...far too much hassle otherwise |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"We've had quite a few couples get quite odd about our veri's...not meeting us because of people we've met, stopping conversations because of a new friend we've added, and have even had one couple cancel a social with us after we posted a veri from another couple.
We've discovered an odd few cliques around here...so decided to just hide our friends list and only display one veri...far too much hassle otherwise "
A good plan!
Never understood why there's an option to show your friends list! 
How is who you decide to be 'friends' with at all relevant to anyone else?
There'll always be those that adopt a 'guilt by association' policy re friends lists and veris. Since people aren't necessarily looking to meet the meets that others have had - unless there's a reasonable explanation (open details of BB meets, drug references, extreme activities etc.) I don't see the need to make judgements. People can meet who they like. It's called freedom of choice!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't show all of mine I just pick a random few
I dont show the summary either as I have ovet 200 but a huge amount of those are people I have never played with but who I have met at socials or bumped into at a club but obviously not having them on show people can't read that and i dont want people judging me thinking I've shagged them all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i'm pretty openminded but i get put off reading about someone having hundreds of meets within days maybe im just jealous lols .but it can look a bit umm trashy .."
Weve had around 60 meets in 5 years....does that meet your requirements ? played with around a third of those as majority are social and see type meets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the only time it puts us off is when its one (or more) sometimes almost everyday - but thats because we want to meet people that do this for occasional fun not as part of the normal working day - each to their own and all that but that would be the only reason - lots of veris can be one a month over years of being on here and/or socials |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Showing my veri's has cost me two meets this week
Getting on well with one until she saw my veri's then she turned into the fucking SS with all her questions, needless to say have deleted her messages and have no intention of meeting her now which is a shame because we could have had fun ....... but not at the expense of me explaining myself to anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Showing my veri's has cost me two meets this week
Getting on well with one until she saw my veri's then she turned into the fucking SS with all her questions, needless to say have deleted her messages and have no intention of meeting her now which is a shame because we could have had fun ....... but not at the expense of me explaining myself to anyone "
Good for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i'm pretty openminded but i get put off reading about someone having hundreds of meets within days maybe im just jealous lols .but it can look a bit umm trashy .."
That's why we don't show all.ours , we are so classy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Veri's don't put me off.. If i did let it, I would have missed out on a amazing meet
Awwww shucks ....... thanks
We only had coffee..  "
That's how GOOD I am baby |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Showing my veri's has cost me two meets this week
Getting on well with one until she saw my veri's then she turned into the fucking SS with all her questions, needless to say have deleted her messages and have no intention of meeting her now which is a shame because we could have had fun ....... but not at the expense of me explaining myself to anyone "
So irksome when that happens.
Some proper obsessives on here - and more often than not, the ones you'd least expect to be |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I rarely read them and never ask for them. I tend to display a couple just to prove that I actually exist but I'm not really bothered by other people's. Unless they have repeat ones from the same person; that always seems a bit 'hands off, he or she is mine!' to me... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Showing my veri's has cost me two meets this week
Getting on well with one until she saw my veri's then she turned into the fucking SS with all her questions, needless to say have deleted her messages and have no intention of meeting her now which is a shame because we could have had fun ....... but not at the expense of me explaining myself to anyone
So irksome when that happens.
Some proper obsessives on here - and more often than not, the ones you'd least expect to be"
I wouldn't mind but she messaged ME first ...... Her loss and most definitely not mine |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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I have a lot of veris but only show a few and no repeats (which a lot of mine are) I am a couple of parties lined up over the next few weeks and I will be verified by four or five or even more people and couples at each party - it doesn't mean I have had sex with all of them......well I will have sex with some of them obviously - rude not to
My point is you can't tell how many people I have had sex with from my veris - only how many people I have met according to my summary |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Veri's don't put me off.. If i did let it, I would have missed out on a amazing meet
Awwww shucks ....... thanks
We only had coffee.. "
no dunking then ? |
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"Then don't meet them....
It's their profile and their choice to show how, when and the type of meets they have.
As for your comment "hundreds of meets within days...." slightly exaggerated.
Ever thought that if they do show a number of meets in an evening that there happened to be a cracking Social going on somewhere?
Not everyone meets for sex."
nice point, well made |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Veri's don't put me off.. If i did let it, I would have missed out on a amazing meet
Awwww shucks ....... thanks
We only had coffee..
no dunking then ? "
I did dunk my balls on her head in a hotel bar some months later .... is that what you meant?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But on the other hand loads of guys find it a huge turn on...
None of mine are socials. Also mine are hidden, also many of my meets are repeat meets, also many guys don't verify me every time we meet, also not all guys i've met have verified me, also i meet guys from other sites. Guess how many meets i've had in the past 6 months?
12 ? "
Eeh you don't know me very well. But thanks for playing.
I had 9 meets within the first 2 days of joining fab.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too be honest if u want to have sex with lots of people in a day its coool but i dont think u need to tell everyone is what im saying lols"
I'm not telling right now, but showing them attracts the guys who love that sort of stuff and i want to attract those guys. I have a very sexy inbox when i do show them.
You can not like other peoples lifestyles if you want. When you do this it helps enforce that the way you think and run your life is better or right, when really it's just different. It also helps you remain or become the type of person you want to be and this is ok. Think it was just the slagging off of people who made different, and just as justifable, choices as yours.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We quite like it if there are a few varies... As means that they are more likely to get on with us.
We at the moment look like angels... But if we tallied up all our old veries from other profiles both together and single we would definitely be on some peoples avoid list. We have also had Meets recently that haven't left us one or us them. |
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"I rarely read them and never ask for them. I tend to display a couple just to prove that I actually exist but I'm not really bothered by other people's. Unless they have repeat ones from the same person; that always seems a bit 'hands off, he or she is mine!' to me..."
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"Trashy?
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Trashy isn't something I think I would associate with anyone on or off Fab
And quite frankly it says more about you than it ever could about those who are clearly "Trashy" like me with 54 verifications in less than 10 weeks
Some of the meets were social
Some with friends of over a decade
Ner ner
Accessible...lol
I just hope you ladies are in line with recent disability regulations permitting wheelchair access! Although judging by your avatar I see you've already got that covered...Daaaayum!! "
Cheeky boy haha |
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"Trashy?
Better words are
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Trashy isn't something I think I would associate with anyone on or off Fab
And quite frankly it says more about you than it ever could about those who are clearly "Trashy" like me with 54 verifications in less than 10 weeks
Some of the meets were social
Some with friends of over a decade
Ner ner
Accessible...lol
I just hope you ladies are in line with recent disability regulations permitting wheelchair access! Although judging by your avatar I see you've already got that covered...Daaaayum!!
Cheeky boy haha "
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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For me, I prefer a few veris to ensure a bloke or couple is actually as they say, although i have met unverified people too on occasion...if someone thinks I have too many veris then fair dos, I'm not gonna have a clue if they've passed me by |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Veri's don't put me off.. If i did let it, I would have missed out on a amazing meet
Awwww shucks ....... thanks
We only had coffee..
no dunking then ? "
No but I did make him blush  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Veri's don't put me off.. If i did let it, I would have missed out on a amazing meet
Awwww shucks ....... thanks
We only had coffee..
no dunking then ?
I did dunk my balls on her head in a hotel bar some months later .... is that what you meant? "
Such a knob |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I happily show mine. But have had feedback from those I have verified saying men was contacting them asking how they managed a meet. Thought verification was to prove we are who we say we are and recommend if any good . |
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"U can be naughty and remain classy depends how u carry yourself i guess and i would still respect anyone who chooses to live their life how they want "
Read my verifications
I'm as classy as they come honey
Shagging many men doesn't make me less classy at all
or the other wonderful ladies here on fab actually |
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