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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age shouldn't matter to anyone. It's about how you get on with people and if you have enough common interests to enjoy. Age is just a number, that's one of the reasons I don't have an age range set on here because there are fab people of all ages and having a strict range might preclude you from meeting somebody brilliant. |
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over a year ago
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I'm 24 and my partner is 43 and we get on great in every way possible some people Dont agree with it but I get that in everyday life so do wat u think is best. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age is all in your head. I know some brill fun fifty plus people who are more alive than some twenty something's .
Its more about a connection and a lust for life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm over twenty years older than J. When we started talking it was her that wanted a relationship, but I was happy being her friend as I wasn't sure that it would work. After three months of her persistence and my friends/family having no objections I thought why the hell not, I've nothing to loose, we like each other and get on well... We've been together a year now. P. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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1. It is not about what other people think - if you and the other person are comfortable with the situation.
2. People mature at different rates and some 25 year olds are more worldy, mature and have common sense than others, twice their age.
3. Relationships in the true sense are about a holistic view of the other person not just one aspect ie their age (size, beliefs etc)
4. That said, for me personally I could not imagine being with somebody who was more than around 10 years older/ younger. The reason for this and as I said, it is only applicable to me... I find that many people much younger or older might be at a different stage in their lives and have different interests.
I am comfortable with other people having a greater age gap in their relationships...as long as they are comfortable I probably would not even notice.... |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Hi I am 48 and have been asked to meet and possibly start a relationship with a 26 year old ......... Would be interested to know thoughts on this."
Someone you've never met has asked about the possibility of starting a relationship?
Did the pics you sent her contain you walking from your mansion, past your Bentley, towards your waiting Lear Jet whilst carrying a sizeable see through plastic bag full of £50 notes?
That's some going - many guys struggle just to get someone to agree to a coffee!
Well done sir!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As long as they don't want to go night clubbing...i couldn't deal with that anymore "
Hey I'm nearly 44 and when I can still go out clubbing, especially with my 24 year old daughter when I visit her in London. And I out do her. She ready for home at 2am. I'm still clubbing at 4am |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd be interested to know if this young girl was first attracted to your profile, OP.
Because although they say imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, I worked pretty hard on a distinct profile that was unique to my personality, so if you'd be so kind to write your own profile text then that'd be great.
We wouldn't want to alert the mods now, would we? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd be interested to know if this young girl was first attracted to your profile, OP.
Because although they say imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, I worked pretty hard on a distinct profile that was unique to my personality, so if you'd be so kind to write your own profile text then that'd be great.
We wouldn't want to alert the mods now, would we?"
No way! We just looked at this guys profile (hannah and I) and said it sounded like yours....we even looked to see if you'd left the site!
Plagiarized dude! |
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"I'd be interested to know if this young girl was first attracted to your profile, OP.
Because although they say imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, I worked pretty hard on a distinct profile that was unique to my personality, so if you'd be so kind to write your own profile text then that'd be great.
We wouldn't want to alert the mods now, would we?"
PLOT TWIST: Maybe you copied him! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be interested to know if this young girl was first attracted to your profile, OP.
Because although they say imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, I worked pretty hard on a distinct profile that was unique to my personality, so if you'd be so kind to write your own profile text then that'd be great.
We wouldn't want to alert the mods now, would we?
PLOT TWIST: Maybe you copied him!"
Egomaniac copies no man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be interested to know if this young girl was first attracted to your profile, OP.
Because although they say imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, I worked pretty hard on a distinct profile that was unique to my personality, so if you'd be so kind to write your own profile text then that'd be great.
We wouldn't want to alert the mods now, would we?
PLOT TWIST: Maybe you copied him!"
Awww piss off love.....that ego couldn't stand to copy someone else! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be interested to know if this young girl was first attracted to your profile, OP.
Because although they say imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, I worked pretty hard on a distinct profile that was unique to my personality, so if you'd be so kind to write your own profile text then that'd be great.
We wouldn't want to alert the mods now, would we?
PLOT TWIST: Maybe you copied him!
Egomaniac copies no man."
You copy Pitbull with the hair style. He's a man, last time I checked... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be interested to know if this young girl was first attracted to your profile, OP.
Because although they say imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, I worked pretty hard on a distinct profile that was unique to my personality, so if you'd be so kind to write your own profile text then that'd be great.
We wouldn't want to alert the mods now, would we?
PLOT TWIST: Maybe you copied him!
Egomaniac copies no man."
That reminded me of the 'he ain't afraid of no man' line from predator.... |
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Tell me, what do you have in common with someone half your age?
I work with models, I'm 43. They are commonly late teens / early 20s.
I can have a right laugh with them. I can even have a good night out socially, get d*unk. Great fun.
But I have nothing in common. I couldn't spend a week with one. And vice versa, I suspect.
People with a huge age gap need to examine their reasons closely. |
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"Hi I am 48 and have been asked to meet and possibly start a relationship with a 26 year old ......... Would be interested to know thoughts on this."
Yes, age does matter. Everything matters when it comes down to it but communication and compromise will help.
Age isn't just a number it's experiences, reference points, language, culture etc. and I think you'd be wise to be aware of it but not to make it a deal breaker.
I wish you both well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, any ladies you may have subsequently met as a result of your profile are null and void and they must all be redirected to me immediately.
You're welcome.
My lawyer will be in touch. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP, any ladies you may have subsequently met as a result of your profile are null and void and they must all be redirected to me immediately.
You're welcome.
My lawyer will be in touch."
You're just jealous |
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"OP, any ladies you may have subsequently met as a result of your profile are null and void and they must all be redirected to me immediately.
You're welcome.
My lawyer will be in touch."
Blimey! I admire your restraint. |
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"OP, any ladies you may have subsequently met as a result of your profile are null and void and they must all be redirected to me immediately.
You're welcome.
My lawyer will be in touch.
You're just jealous "
Read both profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, any ladies you may have subsequently met as a result of your profile are null and void and they must all be redirected to me immediately.
You're welcome.
My lawyer will be in touch.
You're just jealous "
Jealous? Jealous of the man who's been screwing women with my cock? I think not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, any ladies you may have subsequently met as a result of your profile are null and void and they must all be redirected to me immediately.
You're welcome.
My lawyer will be in touch.
You're just jealous
Read both profiles."
No I know, I mentioned it to Christos about 20 minutes ago! |
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"OP, any ladies you may have subsequently met as a result of your profile are null and void and they must all be redirected to me immediately.
You're welcome.
My lawyer will be in touch.
You're just jealous
Read both profiles.
No I know, I mentioned it to Christos about 20 minutes ago! "
Oh ok, sorry |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, any ladies you may have subsequently met as a result of your profile are null and void and they must all be redirected to me immediately.
You're welcome.
My lawyer will be in touch.
You're just jealous
Read both profiles."
She has.....she's just baiting him |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, any ladies you may have subsequently met as a result of your profile are null and void and they must all be redirected to me immediately.
You're welcome.
My lawyer will be in touch.
You're just jealous
Jealous? Jealous of the man who's been screwing women with my cock? I think not."
I doubt the Necrophiliacs Anonymous line is likely to get anyone laid, darling! I suppose if you could isolate the reason each meet down to that singular line... but that's unlikely isn't it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, any ladies you may have subsequently met as a result of your profile are null and void and they must all be redirected to me immediately.
You're welcome.
My lawyer will be in touch.
You're just jealous
Read both profiles.
No I know, I mentioned it to Christos about 20 minutes ago!
Oh ok, sorry "
It's all groovy, no worries! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im older than you. Been with several 23 yr olds. One who was 19 and we and her mum were fine with it. It depends in the people and their attitudes and maturity. NOT on their age alone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP, any ladies you may have subsequently met as a result of your profile are null and void and they must all be redirected to me immediately.
You're welcome.
My lawyer will be in touch.
You're just jealous
Jealous? Jealous of the man who's been screwing women with my cock? I think not."
Quit yer bitching....you've enough cock to spare man |
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I had a brief romance with a 25yr old Lithuanian girl last year. Hot as hell, but so mature and worldly.
Loved every second of it. Distance stopped what was a surprisingly honest and supporting relationship. We still talk.
So there are no absolutes or facts. Just 2 people and their communication. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The hilarious irony is the privacy declaration at the bottom of the profile! The bloody cheek!
I think you're in breach of your own declaration there, pal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP, any ladies you may have subsequently met as a result of your profile are null and void and they must all be redirected to me immediately.
You're welcome.
My lawyer will be in touch.
You're just jealous
Jealous? Jealous of the man who's been screwing women with my cock? I think not.
I doubt the Necrophiliacs Anonymous line is likely to get anyone laid, darling! I suppose if you could isolate the reason each meet down to that singular line... but that's unlikely isn't it! "
I used to be into necrophilia, untill some rotten cunt split on me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, any ladies you may have subsequently met as a result of your profile are null and void and they must all be redirected to me immediately.
You're welcome.
My lawyer will be in touch.
You're just jealous
Jealous? Jealous of the man who's been screwing women with my cock? I think not.
Quit yer bitching....you've enough cock to spare man "
Yeah, no one likes a Moany Martin |
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"I'd be interested to know if this young girl was first attracted to your profile, OP.
Because although they say imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, I worked pretty hard on a distinct profile that was unique to my personality, so if you'd be so kind to write your own profile text then that'd be great.
We wouldn't want to alert the mods now, would we?"
Hahaha brilliant, I wonder if the op will return to the thread.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be interested to know if this young girl was first attracted to your profile, OP.
Because although they say imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, I worked pretty hard on a distinct profile that was unique to my personality, so if you'd be so kind to write your own profile text then that'd be great.
We wouldn't want to alert the mods now, would we?
Hahaha brilliant, I wonder if the op will return to the thread.... "
He's gone awfully quiet just lately... |
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"I'd be interested to know if this young girl was first attracted to your profile, OP.
Because although they say imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, I worked pretty hard on a distinct profile that was unique to my personality, so if you'd be so kind to write your own profile text then that'd be great.
We wouldn't want to alert the mods now, would we?
Hahaha brilliant, I wonder if the op will return to the thread....
He's gone awfully quiet just lately..."
Must be busy with his young friend.... Or he's fighting away all the women after him with his great profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see how anyone can prove who stole who's text.. Both posters have been online over a year. Unless admin have records of when they were written."
Good point really
It's not something that's easily sorted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmmm quiet for the last 7 minutes ... OMG I must have a life away from FAB lol, I have changed, altered and amended my profile several times. "
Oh, you steal other people's profiles too? How noble of you to admit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't see how anyone can prove who stole who's text.. Both posters have been online over a year. Unless admin have records of when they were written."
I wrote the bloody thing, out of my actual brain. This imposter copied and pasted half of my text. Note how he's not accusing me of copying anything, I think therein lies your answer. |
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"I don't see how anyone can prove who stole who's text.. Both posters have been online over a year. Unless admin have records of when they were written.
I wrote the bloody thing, out of my actual brain. This imposter copied and pasted half of my text. Note how he's not accusing me of copying anything, I think therein lies your answer. "
Maybe he's choosing not to argue about it on the forum and let admin deal with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't see how anyone can prove who stole who's text.. Both posters have been online over a year. Unless admin have records of when they were written.
I wrote the bloody thing, out of my actual brain. This imposter copied and pasted half of my text. Note how he's not accusing me of copying anything, I think therein lies your answer.
Maybe he's choosing not to argue about it on the forum and let admin deal with it. "
Or maybe Mr Guilty no longer has said text on his profile because I was right all along. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Something don't smell right hmmmmmmmmm.....
It wasn't me! "
Does the law of 'he/she who smelt it dealt it' apply here?
Well the profile's hidden now - so i'll never know if it was that pic of the mansion/Bentley/Lear Jet/cash or not!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't see how anyone can prove who stole who's text.. Both posters have been online over a year. Unless admin have records of when they were written.
I wrote the bloody thing, out of my actual brain. This imposter copied and pasted half of my text. Note how he's not accusing me of copying anything, I think therein lies your answer. "
The Op,s is better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, after perusing your profile, despite removing the blatant copied-and-pasted text from my profile, you still persist in a write-up bearing alarming similarities. Do you just want to be me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, after perusing your profile, despite removing the blatant copied-and-pasted text from my profile, you still persist in a write-up bearing alarming similarities. Do you just want to be me?"
Ive just peeked at your pics and profile. Could you blame him for wanting to be?
But, I don't agree with copying profile text just because you can't be so imaginative yourself.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, after perusing your profile, despite removing the blatant copied-and-pasted text from my profile, you still persist in a write-up bearing alarming similarities. Do you just want to be me?
Ive just peeked at your pics and profile. Could you blame him for wanting to be?
But, I don't agree with copying profile text just because you can't be so imaginative yourself.
Her"
Why do I have to be so desirable? *shakes fist*. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"OP, after perusing your profile, despite removing the blatant copied-and-pasted text from my profile, you still persist in a write-up bearing alarming similarities. Do you just want to be me?"
If you think the man has broken rules then please report rather than keep posting about in on the forum.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi I am 48 and have been asked to meet and possibly start a relationship with a 26 year old ......... Would be interested to know thoughts on this."
It's only your thoughts that matter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mr F is 16yrs my junior. When we first met, I felt perhaps a little uncomfortable. He was in his twenties.
He was persistent, it paid off! We are still together after 10yrs.
And to be perfectly honest, out of the pair of us...
He's the let's stay home, watch a film and wear our slippers one.
I'm the let's go out, and act daft one.
So yes I'm guessing age is perhaps just a number.. Well in our case anyway!
I taught him all he knows!! |
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"OP, after perusing your profile, despite removing the blatant copied-and-pasted text from my profile, you still persist in a write-up bearing alarming similarities. Do you just want to be me?"
I think he does?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, after perusing your profile, despite removing the blatant copied-and-pasted text from my profile, you still persist in a write-up bearing alarming similarities. Do you just want to be me?"
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No I'm Spartacus!! |
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Why do people trot out the nonsense "age is just a number?" If that were true any aged person can drive, vote, join this site, work etc...in the real world age matters!
For a relationship to work however, extreme age differences MAY be a problem. Would you fit in at a social gathering with her friends and vice versa? Could you cope with people thinking you're her dad? Do you have enough shared interest?
Personally I wouldn't be asking a group of strangers what route I should take in my life: I'd know what's right for me and could give a flying one what anyone thought.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi I am 48 and have been asked to meet and possibly start a relationship with a 26 year old ......... Would be interested to know thoughts on this."
It comes down to whatever you feel comfortable with. I wouldn't worry about what others think. I went shopping with my daughter with her two week old son. I got some very odd looks, but found it amusing. I am actually not quite 21 years older ! |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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Usually, it is the oldie goldies in their late 50's who start coming out with the "age is just a number" nonsense
I had to tell one who said that, "yes it is a number and your number is too high" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not something I would ever consider, for me age really isn't just a number, mutual attraction is far more important so long as my own age give or take maybe 10 years |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Its just a number, so long as its a legal number then you need sorting out however older the better for me, within reason, no zimmers but who knows haha |
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"Its just a number, so long as its a legal number then you need sorting out however older the better for me, within reason, no zimmers but who knows haha "
You're going to say that as the majority of women on here are old enough to be your mum.
Still, yes, if you're just after a fuck then age probably wouldn't be that much of a factor but would you have a 'proper' relationship with a woman around the same age as your mother? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its just a number, so long as its a legal number then you need sorting out however older the better for me, within reason, no zimmers but who knows haha
You're going to say that as the majority of women on here are old enough to be your mum.
Still, yes, if you're just after a fuck then age probably wouldn't be that much of a factor but would you have a 'proper' relationship with a woman around the same age as your mother?"
I was in a relationship with a women of 46 for a few months, didnt work out in the end but it was fun and she was older than my mum.... |
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"Its just a number, so long as its a legal number then you need sorting out however older the better for me, within reason, no zimmers but who knows haha
You're going to say that as the majority of women on here are old enough to be your mum.
Still, yes, if you're just after a fuck then age probably wouldn't be that much of a factor but would you have a 'proper' relationship with a woman around the same age as your mother?
I was in a relationship with a women of 46 for a few months, didnt work out in the end but it was fun and she was older than my mum...."
Fair enough. But you kinda prove my point about the rarity of the longevity of significant age gap relationships. And by significant I mean 20+ years.
Reality starts to kick in when the youngest hits their 40s. |
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