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Are we Honest people
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was just having a chat and a giggle with She who must be obeyed about some of the posts on here and it got us to wondering who is putting what they really think and who will admit to saying things they think others want to hear either because they dont want to come across as a knob or in an attempt to attract others.
Feel free to stand up in class and express your opinions or give examples
(as long as you agree with us of course) 
Gimp n Ms Muffin |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Say what you think and it don't matter what others think ( providing your not insulting people of cause)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I couldn't give a fuck about attracting others. I say what I think. Sometimes I say things in a certain way to get a reaction. It's more interesting that way. The sycophantic bullshit gets boring sometimes. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
I'm not on the forums to attract meets. So I say what I like when I like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't give a fuck about attracting others. I say what I think. Sometimes I say things in a certain way to get a reaction. It's more interesting that way. The sycophantic bullshit gets boring sometimes. "
This  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i speak my mind Sx |
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"I couldn't give a fuck about attracting others. I say what I think. Sometimes I say things in a certain way to get a reaction. It's more interesting that way. The sycophantic bullshit gets boring sometimes.
This "
This
Even the 24 hour forum ban is worth it sometimes just to know it hit the target |
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I believe 100% in authenticity and integrity, and I hate pretence with a venom.
So that'll be a no then!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I say it how it is.....the right people for me will be attracted anyway..
I got no time for bull shitters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't give a fuck about attracting others. I say what I think. Sometimes I say things in a certain way to get a reaction. It's more interesting that way. The sycophantic bullshit gets boring sometimes. "
I could never do such a thing and always say things that people want to see. |
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The sycophants are easy to spot. They're usually male, single, use phrases like "Personality is all that's important to me", "All women are beautiful" and you "You look gorgeous" when addressing a female forumite who only has a pic on display of her left toe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forever getting into hot water, for opening my gob... And letting it just fall out!
Both on here and in the real world. Just cannae help it!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I doubt very much if anyone would admit to posting stuff that agrees with the masses to appear nicer or more popular
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone on this thread is going to say exactly what they think people want to hear, which is that they always say what they think 
That said, I do say what I think. I don't believe in being rude or overly aggressive but I'm pretty consistent in my views. |
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"I couldn't give a fuck about attracting others. I say what I think. Sometimes I say things in a certain way to get a reaction. It's more interesting that way. The sycophantic bullshit gets boring sometimes. "
pretty much this..
cringe worthy at times to see how some will ditch their integrity at the sniff of something sexual..
hey ho.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I doubt very much if anyone would admit to posting stuff that agrees with the masses to appear nicer or more popular
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Damn! You spotted my cunning plan
Gimp |
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"I doubt very much if anyone would admit to posting stuff that agrees with the masses to appear nicer or more popular
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I agree
But I could list a long line of them right here right now
Imagined keepers of the forums
All wise and insightful types whose actual sex life is almost zero |
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"I say it how it is.....the right people for me will be attracted anyway..
I got no time for bull shitters"
To be more accurate, you say things how you see them.
The person you're having a disagreement with may also say they say things how they are but you both can't be right. Right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with you,I say it as it is im not saying that I haven't maybe said wot I think someone wonts to here,haven't done that for a long time though so I answer truthfully 99percent of the time not sure but that might be the reason iv only met one woman from here nothing happened but she was a wicked woman in a fantastic way to spend time with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll say what I think but may sometimes tone it down, more to avoid being nasty or getting a ban though rather than to attract anyone... I'm here looking for like minds to meet so lying to attract someone would be a bit pointless to me. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I do tend to be quite measured in my responses, especially in more reactionary threads but I am like that in real life as well. Most of my meets have bugger all to do with the forums anyway and even if I did meet via the forums or a thread I don't see the point portraying myself to be something I'm not in order to get a shag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I'm commenting I'll say what I think.
If I start a thread though I'll try and word it as unoffensive as possible...the habit of everyone jumping on the op for spelling/grammar/using caps/something not phrased right/if you're saying that then you must really mean this/not actually answering the question but going off on a tangent by inferring things that weren't mentioned or meant...probably comes across as wishy washy...my 'is it weird to bring kids to a social meet' thread is probably an example of me writing on eggshells instead of putting what I actually thought a bit stronger |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I couldn't give a fuck about attracting others. I say what I think. Sometimes I say things in a certain way to get a reaction. It's more interesting that way. The sycophantic bullshit gets boring sometimes.
This
This
Even the 24 hour forum ban is worth it sometimes just to know it hit the target "
This is for everyone who thinks this way, there is not just a 24 hour ban and if anyone tots up too many they are given a perm....so I would be wary of going down this route |
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"I couldn't give a fuck about attracting others. I say what I think. Sometimes I say things in a certain way to get a reaction. It's more interesting that way. The sycophantic bullshit gets boring sometimes.
This
This
Even the 24 hour forum ban is worth it sometimes just to know it hit the target
This is for everyone who thinks this way, there is not just a 24 hour ban and if anyone tots up too many they are given a perm....so I would be wary of going down this route "
Absolutely agreed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't give a fuck about attracting others. I say what I think. Sometimes I say things in a certain way to get a reaction. It's more interesting that way. The sycophantic bullshit gets boring sometimes.
This
This
Even the 24 hour forum ban is worth it sometimes just to know it hit the target
This is for everyone who thinks this way, there is not just a 24 hour ban and if anyone tots up too many they are given a perm....so I would be wary of going down this route "
Having seen the rudeness of some repeat posters I can't imagine how much of a dick you must have to be to get a permanent ban  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm consistent in my views & the way I deliver them.
I can't be arsed to be overly pushy to make my point, I'll leave that to others who seem to thrive on it. |
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I follow the herd and post what I think everyone wants to hear, especially the good looking, popular ones.
Well somebody had to say it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't give a fuck about attracting others. I say what I think. Sometimes I say things in a certain way to get a reaction. It's more interesting that way. The sycophantic bullshit gets boring sometimes.
This
This
Even the 24 hour forum ban is worth it sometimes just to know it hit the target
This is for everyone who thinks this way, there is not just a 24 hour ban and if anyone tots up too many they are given a perm....so I would be wary of going down this route "
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Can we just stick to the question of how YOU post rather than about what others post....Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I follow the herd and post what I think everyone wants to hear, especially the good looking, popular ones.
Well somebody had to say it "
Oi I said that up there ^^^^^^^^ |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I follow the herd and post what I think everyone wants to hear, especially the good looking, popular ones.
Well somebody had to say it "
Honesty at last
Ingrate Gimp |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's being honest and speaking your mind and then there is damn right rudeness and self righteousness which seem to invade a lot of threads. No matter how much you disagree with someone's choices ultimately it's theirs and no matter how high you throw down your scorn and wrath they'll probably not change so why waste all that effort? |
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"I follow the herd and post what I think everyone wants to hear, especially the good looking, popular ones.
Well somebody had to say it
Oi I said that up there ^^^^^^^^ "
Did you ....Sorry  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I post what i want....not what I think others want to hear.
Though I might just be saying that because I think it's what folk want to hear...you'll never know. |
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I will always speak my mind, i never try to be rude as i am a genuinely friendly laid back person and offending people for no reason dont makw sense anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I.am a true person all the way and easy to chat to .no bull shit with me. |
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"I follow the herd and post what I think everyone wants to hear, especially the good looking, popular ones.
Well somebody had to say it "
Well, with us having disagreed with each other on at least one other thread I can only presume in your eyes I'm neither good looking, nor popular.
The latter I can live with, the former I'll dispute. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I follow the herd and post what I think everyone wants to hear, especially the good looking, popular ones.
Well somebody had to say it "
Lol! There are some you can tell do that sometimes but guess it does no real harm as most are fairly obvious.
I have avoided posting in some threads though when I can see a theme running and I can't be arsed to upset the flow and have the hassle... Anything for an easy life I guess! |
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"I follow the herd and post what I think everyone wants to hear, especially the good looking, popular ones.
Well somebody had to say it
Well, with us having disagreed with each other on at least one other thread I can only presume in your eyes I'm neither good looking, nor popular.
The latter I can live with, the former I'll dispute."
I think you're forgetting the points on which we have agreed and very possibly being slightly disingenuous. |
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"I follow the herd and post what I think everyone wants to hear, especially the good looking, popular ones.
Well somebody had to say it
Well, with us having disagreed with each other on at least one other thread I can only presume in your eyes I'm neither good looking, nor popular.
The latter I can live with, the former I'll dispute.
I think you're forgetting the points on which we have agreed and very possibly being slightly disingenuous. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My opinion is my opinion, you are entitled to yours but neither of us have to agree. All opinions are as valid and worthless as the next. If you agree with me, fine. If you don't agree with me, that's fine too. If that a problem, it's your problem, join the back of the queue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone on this thread is going to say exactly what they think people want to hear, which is that they always say what they think
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This sums it up.
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"Everyone on this thread is going to say exactly what they think people want to hear, which is that they always say what they think
This sums it up.
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This is a no win thread |
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"My opinion is my opinion, you are entitled to yours but neither of us have to agree. All opinions are as valid and worthless as the next. If you agree with me, fine. If you don't agree with me, that's fine too. If that a problem, it's your problem, join the back of the queue "
Those |
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There is no need to be either callous or offensive to avoid being what I describe as a 'drooling sycophant' lol! I will hold my tongue sometimes, but if I do speak out I hope I can do so with tact and humanity, if not empathy and kindness. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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Most forumites know I'm a knob anyway so I can post my honest opinion in amongst the regular drivel I usually spout |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I say it how it is.....the right people for me will be attracted anyway..
I got no time for bull shitters"
this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can we just stick to the question of how YOU post rather than about what others post....Thanks "
No! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Most forumites know I'm a knob anyway so I can post my honest opinion in amongst the regular drivel I usually spout "
I think we may be Twins
Apart from different ages and Parents we could be identical
Gimp |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i know someone who used to post on here who thought the same way i do, when i mentioned it that he didnt say what he thought he said oh you musnt do that, i suppose he wanted people to like him and you cant blame him for that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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