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By *lassyandadventurous OP Man over a year ago

England and Wales

So who kisses and who does not kiss on a meet?

I love kissing but some just want to fuck...

I dont understand that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we do - we love kisses - cant help ouselves

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We love kissing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Got to kiss...x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No kissing is a deal breaker for me, it's one of my fave things

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No kissing, no sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

nothing against those that dont but we cant meet them - because we would kiss them

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman over a year ago

West Midlands

I prefer not to

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By *ikeC2012Man over a year ago

Peterborough

Kissing is a must

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kissing to me the ultimate foreplay, it creates an intimate bond which 9 times out 10 leads to great fucking.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kissing is a must !

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

I love kissing. It is my first and last sexual contact. I am quite good at it too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If there's no kissing there's no meet

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

We find passionate kissing is too intimate to do with anyone but each other. It's worked fine so far.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kissing is an integral part of sexual activities, its a must with me, wether they be male or female kissing has to be part and parcel of the fun session...

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

I love love love to kiss, slow deep passionate kisses, I could not have sex without kissing, it turns me on and makes me want the person I am with

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

I'd expect kissing and _iew someone as fairly cold and lacking intimacy without it.

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By *ibanditMan over a year ago

Liverpool

No tongue action, no further action.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"I'd expect kissing and _iew someone as fairly cold and lacking intimacy without it."

That's the problem it's precisely because I find it intimate that I prefer to reserve it for my partner.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As long as I get paid they can have the full bfe

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By *rs and Mr BondCouple over a year ago

Sussex

I think it varies. If someone would prefer not to then it's no big deal, if they enjoy it then that's just fine too. No biggy, I can take it or leave it. Miss x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always kiss

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By *o30Woman over a year ago

Lincoln

"I love love love to kiss, slow deep passionate kisses, I could not have sex without kissing, it turns me on and makes me want the person I am with "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love a passionate kiss... It gets me so hot for him. Wrapping my legs around him. Pulling him close.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kiss kiss kiss! Freaks me out no kissing!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love a passionate kiss... It gets me so hot for him. Wrapping my legs around him. Pulling him close.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If during a meet, people say no kissing. It's probably because they're a couple and have boundaries around the intimacy of that, which ought to be respected. I love a good kiss.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If during a meet, people say no kissing. It's probably because they're a couple and have boundaries around the intimacy of that, which ought to be respected. I love a good kiss. "

off topic - gary take your top off - when i glance at your profile pic without my specs on i see a slim figure with a bikini top on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like to kiss. Only had one meet where it wasn't reqested...it felt abit weird and clinical.

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By *oveheart666Woman over a year ago

limerick

Mmmmmmmmm good kissing makes things hotter and hotter....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im not a big fan of kissing unless i have a few meets with them. Then theres no stopping me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If during a meet, people say no kissing. It's probably because they're a couple and have boundaries around the intimacy of that, which ought to be respected. I love a good kiss.

off topic - gary take your top off - when i glance at your profile pic without my specs on i see a slim figure with a bikini top on

Yep. I can see that too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

God kissing is first point of foreplay. A good old snog gets all the juices flowing. I like it quite rough and passionate you can tell a lot by a snog.

Mrs P

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Pucker up

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By *ssexguy69Man over a year ago

thurrock Essex

its a must

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By *ornyharry39Man over a year ago

Sheffield

I like hot passionate steamy sex plenty of foreplay kissing an absolute must not sex without it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As some have already said . No kissing , no meet .

It's essential for us , cold and empty without it , so we would sooner not bother if that's the way people want to play .

There are a few that are happy not to , so everyone should be happy , and hopefully those who don't put it on their profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No kissing, no sex."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kissing is the key that turns the ignition

Without it you can't get the engine running

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I have mixed feelings about kissing. I enjoy it, although I don't think I'm particularly good at it. There are some people I've met that I've not felt comfortable kissing though, where it's been just about the sex for me.

I don't know how I'd feel about a meet where it was ruled out totally though. It's not happened yet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I adore kissing.

I met a guy once and when we met he announced he didn't kiss on meets. It had never been discussed as I never saw it as something that needed to be discussed.

Worst meet ever. Kissing holds the passion.

(I later re read his veris and majority of them said what a great kisser he is....go figure!?)

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By *ickawitchCouple over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Have not and would not meet with someone one who says they don't kiss.... We have had to put it on the profile because some people don't and it seemed fairer to give a heads up

Weirdly we have had people who don't kiss ask for meets and when we point out that we do they say they will make an exception just this once - we tell them they should stick to their rules and not compromise their beliefs for sex

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By *irceWoman over a year ago

Gloucester

"So who kisses and who does not kiss on a meet?

I love kissing but some just want to fuck...

I dont understand that!"

Started out with no kissing on meets, now i start it off lol.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I feel a bit self-conscious kissing someone I'm having casual sex with. A partner or fb, no problem, but it can be difficult on a meet.

I clearly need more practice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kissing is the best bit! Right up until it's not enough any more and you need to rip each other's clothes off.

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By *ilmiss75Woman over a year ago

Thornton

"If there's no kissing there's no meet"

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We're all here to engage in sexual activity with others. I think it would be crazy to let jenna give another man head but be weird about them kissing!

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Kissing is the best bit! Right up until it's not enough any more and you need to rip each other's clothes off.

Definitely this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would not meet anyone if there did not kiss. A kiss is the start of everything xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Kissing is the best bit! Right up until it's not enough any more and you need to rip each other's clothes off.

so wish you werent straight missy

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Sometimes I wonder if I'm cut out for this malarkey and if I shouldn't just join a convent. Do non-religious convents exist?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We're all here to engage in sexual activity with others. I think it would be crazy to let jenna give another man head but be weird about them kissing!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The two go hand in glove for me. Just wouldn't feel right without kissing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

love kissing such a turn on

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

"Sometimes I wonder if I'm cut out for this malarkey and if I shouldn't just join a convent. Do non-religious convents exist?"

Its called Loose Women.

Think it's more of a Coven though

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Sometimes I wonder if I'm cut out for this malarkey and if I shouldn't just join a convent. Do non-religious convents exist?

Its called Loose Women.

Think it's more of a Coven though

I'll fetch me broomstick.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If during a meet, people say no kissing. It's probably because they're a couple and have boundaries around the intimacy of that, which ought to be respected. I love a good kiss. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if the person I'm meeting wont or worse cant kiss thats the end of the meet,kissing is a big turn on for me and something I'm good at

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I luuurve a good old fashioned passionate snog, could kiss for hours if it's good.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kissing is one of the most important things for compatability, if you don't click with the kiss, the rest won't seem right. Best to have a social meet first, kiss at the end of the evening and then decide whether to take it further or not...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We don't kiss.....just too intimate for us..however Jean kisses the fem mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think we could physically have sex with anyone without kissing them first!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes i like being force feed a tongue

Her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

kissing is wonderful. i dont mean straight in with the tongue but a nice, lingering kiss. this is a sure way of knowing if theres "something"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love love love to kiss, slow deep passionate kisses, I could not have sex without kissing, it turns me on and makes me want the person I am with "

This ^, with bells on.

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman over a year ago

Hereabouts

If a guy won't kiss me, then he can't stick his cock in my mouth. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If a guy won't kiss me, then he can't stick his cock in my mouth. Simple. "

Simple but brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kissing is my fav, i could kiss for ages. Cant start a fire without a spark

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The most sensual part of any play. To kiss is the highest sexually charged act. It provokes and stirs an inner charge of heightened sexual pleasure and the pleasure to come.

Or if you want the scientific explanation. Testosterone levels go ballistic when taste saliva is swapped.

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By *ickawitchCouple over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"kissing is wonderful. i dont mean straight in with the tongue but a nice, lingering kiss. this is a sure way of knowing if theres "something" "

I go straight in with the tongue.....I love a lot of tongue in a kiss....I love someone wrapping their fingers in my hair and twisting while they kiss me too

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By *s louWoman over a year ago

Enniskillen

"Kissing to me the ultimate foreplay, it creates an intimate bond which 9 times out 10 leads to great fucking."

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By *renchbambi xWoman over a year ago

Need to know basis

I use it as a filter...the kiss has to make me melt

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its just come into my head that i really get off on watching Ms Muffin snogging another Bloke or Bird..Havnt really thought about it before, Hmmm i have a cunning plan

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If a guy won't kiss me, then he can't stick his cock in my mouth. Simple. "

reasonable deal!

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By *urreyfun2008Man over a year ago

East Grinstead

A good kissing starts the blood pumping to the right areas

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

good lord no....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolute must!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Kissing is one of the most important things for compatability, if you don't click with the kiss, the rest won't seem right. Best to have a social meet first, kiss at the end of the evening and then decide whether to take it further or not..."

I bet that men frequent prozzies don't have socials or kiss...I reckon some would say that sex with them has been pretty good - maybe their best ever even..

We all get our kicks in different ways re swinging.

The only romantic and emotional intimacy (which kissing is imo) I need is with my OH.

S x

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

I bet that men frequent prozzies don't have socials or kiss...I reckon some would say that sex with them has been pretty good - maybe their best ever even..

We all get our kicks in different ways re swinging.

The only romantic and emotional intimacy (which kissing is imo) I need is with my OH.

S x

So are you likening not kissing during sex, to being with a prostitute?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I bet that men frequent prozzies don't have socials or kiss...I reckon some would say that sex with them has been pretty good - maybe their best ever even..

We all get our kicks in different ways re swinging.

The only romantic and emotional intimacy (which kissing is imo) I need is with my OH.

S x

So are you likening not kissing during sex, to being with a prostitute?

No not at all...............

I'm saying it isn't conducive to GOOD sex for everyone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sometimes I wonder if I'm cut out for this malarkey and if I shouldn't just join a convent. Do non-religious convents exist?"

Everyone is different. Doesn't mean you shouldn't be here.

Just because a majority of people say one thing, doesn't mean it's right. Do what makes you happy and hold your head high.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don't kiss.....just too intimate for us..however Jean kisses the fem mmmmm"

see I can understand those that say they won't meet without kissing, and I can understand those that say it's too intimate and they won't kiss....but I don't understand how it can be too intimate....oh but it's ok if 2 women kiss? either it's too intimate or it isn't....

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By *overs14Couple over a year ago

norwich

We will kiss on meets and would rather meet other couples that will kiss.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan over a year ago

Luton

To each their own, and if kissing someone else feels too intimate then it's probably best not to do something that makes you feel uncomfortable.

However I have always kissed on meets, as does my wife. For me, I find a nice snog is the nearest thing that I have to a "start button". It really gets my juices flowing, and if the lady enjoys my kissing it usually gets hers going too.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Sometimes I wonder if I'm cut out for this malarkey and if I shouldn't just join a convent. Do non-religious convents exist?

Everyone is different. Doesn't mean you shouldn't be here.

Just because a majority of people say one thing, doesn't mean it's right. Do what makes you happy and hold your head high.

It's not that I don't want to, or even that I choose not to. It's more that I feel uncomfortable kissing with some people, (some, not all). If I'm not comfortable with sexual intimacy or confident about kissing, is this really the right place? It's a bit of a weird hang-up for someone who wants nsa sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love kissing, amazing turn on....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No kissing makes it feel less passionate.

It makes the sex more intense

It does make us wonder why people will lick pussy. Suck cock. Lick ass but won't kiss on the lips.

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

"No kissing makes it feel less passionate.

It makes the sex more intense

It does make us wonder why people will lick pussy. Suck cock. Lick ass but won't kiss on the lips.

Apparently your tongue plunging into my poopshoot is not as intimate as a kiss.

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By *eryBigGirlWoman over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Everyone has their preferences but it's a definite deal breaker for me. I've only met one guy who doesn't kiss and it just felt so wrong and unfulfilling which is a shame as besides that he was pure perfection

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By *bsinthe_boyMan over a year ago

Luton

"Everyone has their preferences but it's a definite deal breaker for me. I've only met one guy who doesn't kiss and it just felt so wrong and unfulfilling which is a shame as besides that he was pure perfection

I think it would be a deal breaker for me if it ever came up. I did play with one couple who don't kiss other people but they were existing friends so there was a little chemistry there.

And damn...why are all the best looking girls in the North?

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By *lirtyjjWoman over a year ago

Meath

"I love kissing. It is my first and last sexual contact. I am quite good at it too.

Yeah ur not too shabby at it

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By *lirtyjjWoman over a year ago

Meath

It a guy can't kiss i won't play. I have walked away from meets where the kissing was poor. For me its the most important part for foreplay

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love kissing. It's soo good xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It won't progress past a social with me if there is no kissing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It won't progress past a social with me if there is no kissing."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So who kisses and who does not kiss on a meet?

I love kissing but some just want to fuck...

I dont understand that!"

Kissing is one of my passions (only if they are a good kisser)

I'd need at least a few kisses on a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lol would,nt even consider having sex with some one I would,nt kiss.

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By *wiftieeMan over a year ago

near Glasgow

"No kissing, no sex."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everybody is saying the same thing pretty much..so I'm just gonna quote my favorite comment:

"Kissing to me the ultimate foreplay, it creates an intimate bond which 9 times out 10 leads to great fucking.

Abso-fucking-lutely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love kissing... The first long passionate breath taking kiss....yum

Hmmmm....It's been a while since I've had one of them!!

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple over a year ago

near cardiff

"So who kisses and who does not kiss on a meet?

I love kissing but some just want to fuck...

I dont understand that!"

I love kissing...I couldn't meet someone who doesn't kiss.Cath isn't that bothered by it,but for me its an essential requirement.i cant get intimate without kissing.i love it,and find it weird that people say its to personal or intimate..whereas sucking my dick,and fucking me isn't!

"love,you crossed the line!I don't mind him fisting you,and sticking two cocks in you at the same time but you bloody kissed!that's it!,its over!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don't kiss.....just too intimate for us..however Jean kisses the fem mmmmm"

That I never get

Why is it to intimate to kiss the opposit sex but not the same?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don't kiss.....just too intimate for us..however Jean kisses the fem mmmmm

That I never get

Why is it to intimate to kiss the opposit sex but not the same?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don't kiss.....just too intimate for us..however Jean kisses the fem mmmmm"
we can see who is making the rules there then

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By *ornyharry39Man over a year ago

Sheffield

Kiss the lady right and she will be weak at the knees

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By *lutmeup500Woman over a year ago

London

"If there's no kissing there's no meet"

This.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I couldn't meet without kissing. I just don't think I'd know what to do with myself in that situation if kissing wasn't an option.

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By *lutmeup500Woman over a year ago

London

"We don't kiss.....just too intimate for us..however Jean kisses the fem mmmmm

That I never get

Why is it to intimate to kiss the opposit sex but not the same?"

Exactly. Annoys me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No kissing, no sex."

Agreed! I need the intimacy - which is why my meets tend to be single males! X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a huge fan of kissing. A great starter/part of foreplay (especially when done really well

I just have to teach myself how not to kiss like I'm trying to devour whole. Haha

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"So who kisses and who does not kiss on a meet?

I love kissing but some just want to fuck...

I dont understand that!

"love,you crossed the line!I don't mind him fisting you,and sticking two cocks in you at the same time but you bloody kissed!that's it!,its over!"

finding kissing too intimate isn't weird just because you don't understand it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love kissing. A definite must for us

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd expect kissing and _iew someone as fairly cold and lacking intimacy without it.

That's the problem it's precisely because I find it intimate that I prefer to reserve it for my partner. "

Surely all sex is intimate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If the other person has stated that they will not kiss, then I know I'm in for raw, hard sex. Nothing other than sex.

If the other person has stated that they would like to kiss, then I know that there is a passionate, erotic, sensual time in front of us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kissing is where it all starts for me, lips brushing, tongues teasing, her neck, shoulders, all over her gorgeous body, how can you have fulfilling sex without kissing, even down to pulling her head back by her hair for a passionate snog as we fuck hard, or lifting her face as she's sucking me for a passionate kiss....I just don't get how it works without....think I'd rather wank

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can't have sex without kissing!

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By *udistnorthantsMan over a year ago

Desborough

I like a good snog to build up the excitement during a play meet

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By *dventuroususCouple over a year ago

sunderland

Kissing is the most intimate act, we arent here to find intimacy or passion or feeling, we are here for sex, fun, exploring, fantasies, and although we dont rule out kissing altogether we keep it fairly low, and can basically take it or leave it.

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By *wingersrus465Couple over a year ago

Cheshire

I would be disappointed to not kiss on a meet and wouldn't meet them for a second time if that were the case

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don't kiss.....just too intimate for us..however Jean kisses the fem mmmmm we can see who is making the rules there then

Both of them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Kissing is the most intimate act, we arent here to find intimacy or passion or feeling, we are here for sex, fun, exploring, fantasies, and although we dont rule out kissing altogether we keep it fairly low, and can basically take it or leave it."

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I couldn't have sex if kissing wasn't allowed, it would just seem far to mechanical for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We swing for additional intimacy, passion as it adds to the fun, no kissing is a deal breaker, so it's okay for me to suck your cock, but I can kiss you! Lol

x H

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kissing is fore play , with no foreplay what do you have ?

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By *radleyandRavenCouple over a year ago

Herts

I don't enjoy kissing others.

People who don't like it can pass us by just as we'll pass on those who insist I do something I don't enjoy.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No interested in kissing men... However kissing females is a must!

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By *dventuroususCouple over a year ago

sunderland

"We swing for additional intimacy, passion as it adds to the fun, no kissing is a deal breaker, so it's okay for me to suck your cock, but I can kiss you! Lol

x H"

sucking a cock is a sexual act it is not intimate, it is raw sex, to passionately kiss someone involves feeling and intimacy, maybe wise to learn the difference before laughing at other peoples choices.

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By *dventuroususCouple over a year ago

sunderland

"Kissing is fore play , with no foreplay what do you have ? "

there are many other means of foreplay, its peoples choice, there is no right and wrong, people who enjoy kissing will kiss, people who dont wont, people like us that take it or leave it will judge the situation and see what becomes, theres no need to try and belittle people that dont think the same as you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We swing for additional intimacy, passion as it adds to the fun, no kissing is a deal breaker, so it's okay for me to suck your cock, but I can kiss you! Lol

x H

It can be very intimate and passionate, it doesn't have to be purely raw sex. I wouldn't laugh at anyone who chose not to kiss on meets, but there is no difference to 'learn' because that's only applicable to your _iew of the act.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We swing for additional intimacy, passion as it adds to the fun, no kissing is a deal breaker, so it's okay for me to suck your cock, but I can kiss you! Lol

x H

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We swing for additional intimacy, passion as it adds to the fun, no kissing is a deal breaker, so it's okay for me to suck your cock, but I can kiss you! Lol

x H

Totaly disagree, sucking my cock is as intimate as it gets for me and kissing whether her lips or her pussy is as sexual as its intimate. Guess it comes down to our own perceptions af what's intimate or

sexual. And whether either is an issue for you. Each to their own, I will choose not to meet anyone that won't kiss

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By *MaleMan over a year ago

Love kissing. However boundaries are respected as kissing is a no no for some fems of couples.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We swing for additional intimacy, passion as it adds to the fun, no kissing is a deal breaker, so it's okay for me to suck your cock, but I can kiss you! Lol

x H

sexual. And whether either is an issue for you. Each to their own, I will choose not to meet anyone that won't kiss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We swing for additional intimacy, passion as it adds to the fun, no kissing is a deal breaker, so it's okay for me to suck your cock, but I can kiss you! Lol

x H

sexual. And whether either is an issue for you. Each to their own, I will choose not to meet anyone that won't kiss

When I suck my partners cock, I'm on my knees, eyes more often than level with his balls - especially if we're 69ing...I've never known anyone to connect romantically through having their face buried in a vagina or their eyes level with testes...

Kissing is a whole different level of intimacy...I could kiss my partner for hours without the need for anything sexual.

We have great meets through fab. But it's just sex.

We couldnt have threesome's/foursomes/dp/sex parties/certain roleplay scenarios- without them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love kissing. Especially ladies. Threeway kissing is lush too. However, I reserve a certain type of kissing for my husband if that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We swing for additional intimacy, passion as it adds to the fun, no kissing is a deal breaker, so it's okay for me to suck your cock, but I can kiss you! Lol

x H

sexual. And whether either is an issue for you. Each to their own, I will choose not to meet anyone that won't kiss

Kissing is a whole different level of intimacy...I could kiss my partner for hours without the need for anything sexual.

We have great meets through fab. But it's just sex.

We couldnt have threesome's/foursomes/dp/sex parties/certain roleplay scenarios- without them"

Romantic no, but then I don't find kissing someone I don't have romantic feelings for a romantic act either. Intimate - yes it can be. Maintaining eye contact while sucking someone's cock is something I actually find difficult because for me that does feel very intimate.

I can totally understand couples not wanting to kiss the others they meet. But I'd also expect couples to be able to understand that for non-couples other acts can be as intimate or as clinical as you choose to make them.

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By *dventuroususCouple over a year ago

sunderland

"We swing for additional intimacy, passion as it adds to the fun, no kissing is a deal breaker, so it's okay for me to suck your cock, but I can kiss you! Lol

x H

sexual. And whether either is an issue for you. Each to their own, I will choose not to meet anyone that won't kiss

I didnt say you had to meet anyone that chooses not to kiss, the point I was making was that people shouldnt try and belittle others simply because they have differing _iews to them, neither should they be laughed at, like the 2 posters I quoted above did.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As I say, each to their own, kissing for me can be as sexual as any other act, I have no greater fear of becoming emotionally attached to someone because I kiss them than I do of sucking her clit, or nipples. A kiss does not preclude emotional attachment for me I'm afraid, whereas, emotionless, clinical sex, doesn't float my boat in any way shape or form I'm afraid, I'd rather have a wank. I don't see the need for us all to justify our preference, which is what it comes down to, although I do think it's our responsibility not to mislead people and make sure they have the information they need to avoid misundertsandings. I tried my utmost to make my needs, wants, desires (including kissing) as well as dislikes abundantly clear on my profile. It's worked so far, I've met lovely women who share my desires

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not kissing isn't a deal breaker for us but we do prefer to kiss as it's just something we enjoy, sex can feel kind of mechanical without it. That said we completely respect other people's choices and boundaries so if it's not for them then we can live with it. We've played with people who were very specific about not wanting to kiss but in the heat of the moment it went straight out of the window

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By *eshzMan over a year ago

0151

I like kissing... I just can't connect unless there's some kissing... hope I don't sound weird lol... but I have also known couples who have said no kissing... and that has been less pleasurable... and felt there was something missing... but at the same time I could understand that the couple wanted to keep that part of the intimacy to themselves alone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As I say, each to their own, kissing for me can be as sexual as any other act, I have no greater fear of becoming emotionally attached to someone because I kiss them than I do of sucking her clit, or nipples. A kiss does not preclude emotional attachment for me I'm afraid, whereas, emotionless, clinical sex, doesn't float my boat in any way shape or form I'm afraid, I'd rather have a wank. I don't see the need for us all to justify our preference, which is what it comes down to, although I do think it's our responsibility not to mislead people and make sure they have the information they need to avoid misundertsandings. I tried my utmost to make my needs, wants, desires (including kissing) as well as dislikes abundantly clear on my profile. It's worked so far, I've met lovely women who share my desires

Yep all clear on our profile, always has been and never short of people to meet

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"I'd expect kissing and _iew someone as fairly cold and lacking intimacy without it.

That's the problem it's precisely because I find it intimate that I prefer to reserve it for my partner.

Surely all sex is intimate"

There are, in my opinion, degrees of intimacy. I'm happy for people to enjoy kissing their meets and have no problem with them not finding it too intimate, I hope they'll afford me the same respect.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We used to meet with couples that didn't kiss, however we won't anymore due to those meets lacking something, cold, clinical to us. Simple

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We swing for additional intimacy, passion as it adds to the fun, no kissing is a deal breaker, so it's okay for me to suck your cock, but I can kiss you! Lol

x H

sexual. And whether either is an issue for you. Each to their own, I will choose not to meet anyone that won't kiss

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By *lassyandadventurous OP Man over a year ago

England and Wales

I agree....without kissing it all seems cold.

I enjoy the intimacy and the hard fucking in equal measure

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By *ythenshawefredMan over a year ago

stockport

Much prefer kissing but then again acting out some role plays don't always lend to kissing

Will say I adore kissing after oral sex though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kisses while slowly teasing, kissing while you're stifling moans and she's biting your lip, kisses afterwards as her nails slowly trace the curve of your arse, and kisses getting more urgent as you start all over again.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I've had onions this morning. Anyone fancy a snog?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We swing for additional intimacy, passion as it adds to the fun, no kissing is a deal breaker, so it's okay for me to suck your cock, but I can kiss you! Lol

x H

A cock and pussy is _iewed by most as an intimate part of the body, so I agree with poster that says can suck cock but not kiss, all sex is intimate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
Forum Mod

I don't really like to have restrictions placed on what I just do naturally,I find it very difficult to stop myself and that means I'm on alert and can't enjoy the flow,so I wouldn't meet anyone that had a no kissing rule

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't really like to have restrictions placed on what I just do naturally,I find it very difficult to stop myself and that means I'm on alert and can't enjoy the flow,so I wouldn't meet anyone that had a no kissing rule"

I can associate with that I find people with to many rules a bit of a mind fuck

I'm always scared when I get really turned on and carried away my sencability will go out the window and I may try to do something they don't do

I prefer more relaxed people who just go with the flow, when I'm having sex I want to do things that feel good and if my sexual partner does not want the same as me I see no point meeting

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

"We swing for additional intimacy, passion as it adds to the fun, no kissing is a deal breaker, so it's okay for me to suck your cock, but I can kiss you! Lol

x H

sexual. And whether either is an issue for you. Each to their own, I will choose not to meet anyone that won't kiss

Kissing is a whole different level of intimacy...I could kiss my partner for hours without the need for anything sexual.

We have great meets through fab. But it's just sex.

We couldnt have threesome's/foursomes/dp/sex parties/certain roleplay scenarios- without them"

I agree with this, kissing for me is probably the most intimate act as you are face to face up close and very personal, breathing each other's breath, looking deeply into each other's eyes but you can have sex with out even looking at someone and for some people that closeness is a no no and for others it's a must

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By *lttattoocoupleCouple over a year ago

Worcester

We like kissing, gives a meet some passion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've had onions this morning. Anyone fancy a snog?

Yeah, I love onions

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By *dventuroususCouple over a year ago

sunderland

"We swing for additional intimacy, passion as it adds to the fun, no kissing is a deal breaker, so it's okay for me to suck your cock, but I can kiss you! Lol

x H

A cock and pussy is _iewed by most as an intimate part of the body, so I agree with poster that says can suck cock but not kiss, all sex is intimate"

but is a 3 some intimate, is a gangbang intimate, is extreme cuckolding intimate, it all comes down to peoples choice, there is no right and wrong, and people shouldnt be ridiculed for making different choices to others, thats the point im making.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"We swing for additional intimacy, passion as it adds to the fun, no kissing is a deal breaker, so it's okay for me to suck your cock, but I can kiss you! Lol

x H

A cock and pussy is _iewed by most as an intimate part of the body, so I agree with poster that says can suck cock but not kiss, all sex is intimate

I agree with you, no one should be laughed at, ridiculed or patronised because they find kissing too intimate to share with other people. Acceptance of other people's _iews and choices is a very mature and adult way to behave

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We swing for additional intimacy, passion as it adds to the fun, no kissing is a deal breaker, so it's okay for me to suck your cock, but I can kiss you! Lol

x H

A cock and pussy is _iewed by most as an intimate part of the body, so I agree with poster that says can suck cock but not kiss, all sex is intimate

Mature and adult.... keywords.....!!

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By *londeCazWoman over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Deal breaker for me, like others have said, would feel too clinical for me, so I would pass by any profiles stating no kissing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We swing for additional intimacy, passion as it adds to the fun, no kissing is a deal breaker, so it's okay for me to suck your cock, but I can kiss you! Lol

x H

sexual. And whether either is an issue for you. Each to their own, I will choose not to meet anyone that won't kiss

Kissing is a whole different level of intimacy...I could kiss my partner for hours without the need for anything sexual.

We have great meets through fab. But it's just sex.

We couldnt have threesome's/foursomes/dp/sex parties/certain roleplay scenarios- without them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We find passionate kissing is too intimate to do with anyone but each other. It's worked fine so far.

We agree with this.i think it's important for couples to keep something to themselves xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If the lady wants to snog then I'll happily oblige and if snogging is a no go, then I won't do it. I usually find out all this stuff before the meet if possible but I like nothing better than a snog if it's on offer

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By *arnaclebillMan over a year ago

Robin Hood County

"So who kisses and who does not kiss on a meet?

I love kissing but some just want to fuck...

I dont understand that!"

I just cannot understand why a woman would not kiss me but willing to give me a blow job

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So who kisses and who does not kiss on a meet?

I love kissing but some just want to fuck...

I dont understand that!"
Kissing gets us hard and wet in equal measures,those that save kissing for themselves best of luck but yer not for us...now come here and give me a snog

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Passionate kissing is all part of the build up for me.....got to have a good tongue wrestle!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So who kisses and who does not kiss on a meet?

I love kissing but some just want to fuck...

I dont understand that!Kissing gets us hard and wet in equal measures,those that save kissing for themselves best of luck but yer not for us...now come here and give me a snog

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As miss Piggy would say " kissy,kissy,kissy "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not a meet without snogging.

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By *phroditeWoman over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"We find passionate kissing is too intimate to do with anyone but each other. It's worked fine so far.

We agree with this.i think it's important for couples to keep something to themselves xx"

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a single male on here I had a meet with a couple who didn't kiss others, I thought it would be ok but I found very hard to be intimate with someone I wasn't allowed to kiss. It feel very robotic and cold not good at all, I completely respected their preferences but it's not something I would choose to do again. We as a couple love to kiss and won't meet others who don't kiss

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I love kissing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont really understand people who dont kiss on a meet, you willing to put the persons genitals in you mouth but not kiss them, surely thats much more intimate than kissing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love kissing

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

God I love a long passionate kiss. Anyone free Lol x

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Both of us are happy to kiss others on meets but its not a deal breaker for us if others don't.

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