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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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the "big" thread provoked me to start this.
Guys when you are large in size and heavy, please spare a thought for the lady underneath you and learn to take your own weight.
Also got a whinge, fed up with having to mount guys who are overweight. We don't like to judge people on size but it's spoiling my fun.
Do any others find this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i had been the same weight since i was about 20 but since i gave up smoking 4 months ago i have put on 23lbs. so if i squash anyone i apologise in advance as i haven't yet got my head round the concept of being that much heavier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You dont have to have them laying on top to have sex ... Do the doggie.. or you ride on top ...... Is this really people saying thay dont like fat men with beer tummys , lol jo xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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 im in shock
Its so easy,don't meet up with people if being unable to breath or being bored with having to mount larger guys is spoiling your fun 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe on your profile you should say no Big men ..... Then you would not have them mailing. If this was about big woman thay would be going Mad ,, lol thinking theres alot more to them then size. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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nowt against big men (except me breasts, bum etc) object of the post was to raise awareness amongst them of how they could put peeps off by either squashing you or always expecting you to climb on and make the going.
However, I often question my own mentality  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe on your profile you should say no Big men ..... Then you would not have them mailing. If this was about big woman thay would be going Mad ,, lol thinking theres alot more to them then size."
You would think that seeing pics before hand may help,or even saying no if they turn up and they're too big and may spoil her fun
I agree if the thread was aimed at women there would be outrage,I don't think its one of the best thought out threads on here
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"nowt against big men (except me breasts, bum etc) object of the post was to raise awareness amongst them of how they could put peeps off by either squashing you or always expecting you to climb on and make the going.
However, I often question my own mentality "
There is nothing wrong with having a preference or finding one body type of partner doesn't suit. Its only like someone saying they need big cocks or they don't like big cocks.  |
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"nowt against big men (except me breasts, bum etc) object of the post was to raise awareness amongst them of how they could put peeps off by either squashing you or always expecting you to climb on and make the going.
However, I often question my own mentality "
awareness lol, are we going to have an awareness about big women? Or an awareness about people that are thin and their bones stick in you. As ive said previously ive never had a guy put his full weight on me yet. Also WHY would you meet guys that obviously where not your type, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im actually offended by this
if i was a man who was big reading this i would be shocked, just like if it was about larger ladies
sorry but weight can be a sensitive issue for MEN as well as women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im actually offended by this
if i was a man who was big reading this i would be shocked, just like if it was about larger ladies
sorry but weight can be a sensitive issue for MEN as well as women "
very true. If it was the other way around lol.whew bigggggggg mushroom cloud and men would run and hide lol.  Be a bit more sensitive please. |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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"im actually offended by this
if i was a man who was big reading this i would be shocked, just like if it was about larger ladies
sorry but weight can be a sensitive issue for MEN as well as women "
Oh, get a life!
If talking about large men offends you, I think you should lighten up a bit! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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deja vu? yet again we are all crying foul and getting offended because someone else is offended.
If allowed, I will positively discriminate and say I don't mind a jot and the sex is no worse nor no better than with a buff guy...i'd go all out here and say that each guy is different.
...oh, and i'm still breathing, not been squashed and never met one who just demanded i got on top...had partenrs that prefer it, but it was not weight related |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im actually offended by this
if i was a man who was big reading this i would be shocked, just like if it was about larger ladies
sorry but weight can be a sensitive issue for MEN as well as women "
I'm not offended, just confused!!!
I don't understand why someone would meet and play with someone they don't find attractive, then post they should be aware of their size!!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well thank you for answering the question and I have been squashed and had to ask him to get off.
And are not people sensitive about other issues too, such as cock size? Doesn't stop it coming up regularly tho does it?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im actually offended by this
if i was a man who was big reading this i would be shocked, just like if it was about larger ladies
sorry but weight can be a sensitive issue for MEN as well as women
I'm not offended, just confused!!!
I don't understand why someone would meet and play with someone they don't find attractive, then post they should be aware of their size!!!
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the earlier responses I could easily agree with.
apparently single women have their pick, so there's amble excuse to down-select to your type..i guess?
however, some prefer the man behind the mask, like me, and i dont pick based on looks but attitude and confidence and by the way they treat me.
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"Well thank you for answering the question and I have been squashed and had to ask him to get off.
And are not people sensitive about other issues too, such as cock size? Doesn't stop it coming up regularly tho does it? "
You had to ask HIM to get off. So basically you have based the entire thread on one man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"....Also got a whinge, fed up with having to mount guys who are overweight. We don't like to judge people on size but it's spoiling my fun.
Do any others find this?
"having to" ...........  "
That's the bit that got me confused!!! |
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"Yeah, go on everyone, dissect every word I can take it."
Can yu not see why it is confusing , if not disturbing, to read that someone feels they 'have to' do anything with someone who they are not happy with? |
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"*knock knock*
"Oooowww I wonder who is at the door......... oh bollox it's another fat fuck wearing a 'you have to mount me' t-shirt. Just my feckin' luck!"  "
Dont think anyone has said you have to mount anyone, fat, thin or medium. I think people are confused by the fact that you are meeting guys (in this case overweight guys) that your not getting fun from. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the "big" thread provoked me to start this.
Guys when you are large in size and heavy, please spare a thought for the lady underneath you and learn to take your own weight.
Also got a whinge, fed up with having to mount guys who are overweight. We don't like to judge people on size but it's spoiling my fun.
Do any others find this?"
Sad to say this is some of the arrogance that does this site no favours at all.
Imagine if a thread was written about not liking fat women? It wouldnt go down well at all.
Why not meet people who you deem satisafctory to match up to your supermodel figures? Easy fix. |
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Having had a quick look at your profile, and seeing all the verifications are from couples, the wording of your post COULD be seen as IMPLYING your parnter gets to shag women he is happy with...... leaving you to keep the bloater of a hubby busy and you're not enjoying it. |
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"the "big" thread provoked me to start this.
Guys when you are large in size and heavy, please spare a thought for the lady underneath you and learn to take your own weight.
Also got a whinge, fed up with having to mount guys who are overweight. We don't like to judge people on size but it's spoiling my fun.
Do any others find this?
Sad to say this is some of the arrogance that does this site no favours at all.
Imagine if a thread was written about not liking fat women? It wouldnt go down well at all.
Why not meet people who you deem satisafctory to match up to your supermodel figures? Easy fix."
There's nothing wrong with saying you don't like fucking fat people... I don't like fucking fat men and because I don't like fucking fat men - I DON'T.
There is something more than wrong with saying you don't like the people you are 'having to' fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having had a quick look at your profile, and seeing all the verifications are from couples, the wording of your post COULD be seen as IMPLYING your parnter gets to shag women he is happy with...... leaving you to keep the bloater of a hubby busy and you're not enjoying it."
*Nods in agreement* that's the impression I got too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the "big" thread provoked me to start this.
Guys when you are large in size and heavy, please spare a thought for the lady underneath you and learn to take your own weight.
Also got a whinge, fed up with having to mount guys who are overweight. We don't like to judge people on size but it's spoiling my fun.
Do any others find this?"
When you posted here saying about overweight men ........... then saying you dont judge people on there size ..... but fat men was spoiling your fun. Now its not nice if a person you have meet of here reading this post it could be very hurtfull , |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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points all taken and perhaps I should be ruling out larger and heavier men for future meets. To avoid not being nice like.
and will be keep me mouth zipped better in futures. |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
Rushden |
"Sad to say this is some of the arrogance that does this site no favours at all.
Imagine if a thread was written about not liking fat women? It wouldnt go down well at all.
Why not meet people who you deem satisafctory to match up to your supermodel figures? Easy fix."
Perhaps you'd best go do a search on posts with "fat" or "big" or "large" or "obese" or any one of many worrds like that! There have been many threads with posts about fat women and fat men!
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/19787
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/4796
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/36649
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/1610
(four to start you off!)
Jeeezzz... Some people get so upset over nothing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the "big" thread provoked me to start this.
Guys when you are large in size and heavy, please spare a thought for the lady underneath you and learn to take your own weight.
Also got a whinge, fed up with having to mount guys who are overweight. We don't like to judge people on size but it's spoiling my fun.
Do any others find this?"
wow !! guys get mounted never happens to me, i always get to mount and do all the work ... not that i'm complaining at all. actually, last time i got mounted, was by a girl slimmer than me, and that was years ago. and it was fabulous. off to buy some weight gain rations |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And some people always say the opposite of whatever others say for the sake of it.
I am saying it's good to be kind. You don't like larger people? Don't meet em.
Simples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think the op meant 'having to' mount large men meant it was easier and more comfortable for her to do so, not that she was doing something to please her partner. a few in this thread have been pretty hard on her for what was just a bad choice of words. |
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"i think the op meant 'having to' mount large men meant it was easier and more comfortable for her to do so, not that she was doing something to please her partner. a few in this thread have been pretty hard on her for what was just a bad choice of words."
The OP (as with any OP) has the choice to accept the post appears to say something they had not intended, correct the choice of words and explain to help everyone understand and reflect on their own hastiness.... or the OP can sulk in a strop to leave them guilt free.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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over analysed much?!
wow....!
i think some of what folks have posted since are far more offensive and far more likely to cause a single guy to recoil into his corner
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it seems if a phrase or a post could be seen as having more than one meaning then a lot of people on this site seem to plump for the one with the most negative connotation and then commence to dismantle it |
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"it seems if a phrase or a post could be seen as having more than one meaning then a lot of people on this site seem to plump for the one with the most negative connotation and then commence to dismantle it"
Now that sounds like it is a deliberate choice to pick one meaning or the other.
Is it not possible that just as the OP would have only seen one meaning when typing their post, that others only read one meaning... just not the meaning intended by the OP.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"it seems if a phrase or a post could be seen as having more than one meaning then a lot of people on this site seem to plump for the one with the most negative connotation and then commence to dismantle it
Now that sounds like it is a deliberate choice to pick one meaning or the other.
Is it not possible that just as the OP would have only seen one meaning when typing their post, that others only read one meaning... just not the meaning intended by the OP.
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hmm. deliberate choice or negative mindset? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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at the end of the day the meaning intended by the op is the one that counts. they can't be responsible for the interpretation of others. otherwise we will have to make sure that no posts are in anyway ambiguous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the "big" thread provoked me to start this.
Guys when you are large in size and heavy, please spare a thought for the lady underneath you and learn to take your own weight.
Also got a whinge, fed up with having to mount guys who are overweight. We don't like to judge people on size but it's spoiling my fun.
Do any others find this? When you posted here saying about overweight men ........... then saying you dont judge people on there size ..... but fat men was spoiling your fun. Now its not nice if a person you have meet of here reading this post it could be very hurtfull ,"
thats what i meant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe i'm odd but I took the OP's post to mean that She doesn't find larger men unattractive but that she has had the bad luck to find some of them have been less than considerate.
Expecting her to put in all the work on top because they were unable or unwilling to because of their size or they just could not be bothered.
That it would be nice if the men concerned would think of other positions so they can both expend their energy.
I must admit I did read it a couple of times before I came to that conclusion though.
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"i wasn't the first to use the phrase 'deliberate choice'"
"i wasn't the first to use the phrase 'deliberate choice'"
No you were not. You suggested some people made a choice when posts could be read to have more than one meaning, which equates to a deliberate choice to ignore alternative meaning.
If people read the post in a negative way is that not more likely because of the negative wording/subject... wanting to "whinge" about being "fed up" from "having to" and it "spoiling my fun".
Instead of blaming others for reading the post the wrong way, may be something should be learnt from the fact so many did read it in a different way to how it was intended.
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"I have the opposite problem. My boney hips have bruised ladies inner thighs before  perhaps I need mothering and good living build me up lol  "
Nahhhh... you just need to shag birds with fatter thighs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have the opposite problem. My boney hips have bruised ladies inner thighs before perhaps I need mothering and good living build me up lol
Nahhhh... you just need to shag birds with fatter thighs."
Lol good alternative option |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have the opposite problem. My boney hips have bruised ladies inner thighs before perhaps I need mothering and good living build me up lol
Nahhhh... you just need to shag birds with fatter thighs."
What's the definition of noise?
Two skinny people shagging in a biscuit tin. |
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"at the end of the day the meaning intended by the op is the one that counts. they can't be responsible for the interpretation of others. otherwise we will have to make sure that no posts are in anyway ambiguous. "
You may not be suprised to read that I disagree.
If one or two people read an alternative meaning into something or twist the words and stretch the meanings to alter a message, then yes it is not the fault of the sender of the message.
But if the majority of readers see a different message to the one intended, then it is down to the message sender. |
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"the "big" thread provoked me to start this.
Guys when you are large in size and heavy, please spare a thought for the lady underneath you and learn to take your own weight.
Also got a whinge, fed up with having to mount guys who are overweight. We don't like to judge people on size but it's spoiling my fun.
Do any others find this?"
Typical woman, always thinking of their own enjoyment, |
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"I have the opposite problem. My boney hips have bruised ladies inner thighs before perhaps I need mothering and good living build me up lol
Nahhhh... you just need to shag birds with fatter thighs.
What's the definition of noise?
Two skinny people shagging in a biscuit tin."
What's the definition of anger?
A fat bird finding to skinnies shagging in her biscuit tin, turning her hob nobs into crumbs! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If people read the post in a negative way is that not more likely because of the negative wording/subject... wanting to "whinge" about being "fed up" from "having to" and it "spoiling my fun".
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fair point. and having re read the post i can see more of the negativity contained within it... it was still pounced on tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"you cannot tar everyone that is bigger with the same stick....."
you sure cant i know this man 6f 5 Size 11 feet big hands and over 19 stone and a big one.... so good looking all man. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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If people read the post in a negative way is that not more likely because of the negative wording/subject... wanting to "whinge" about being "fed up" from "having to" and it "spoiling my fun".
fair point. and having re read the post i can see more of the negativity contained within it... it was still pounced on tho "
Was it pounced on or just lots of people had the same view?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why? Did I read it wrong? or do you think because a lot of people had the same view it means they poounced on someone?"
we've already spoken about this privately and you know my views on it. its not always what's posted but sometimes who posts it that illicits a negative response |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldnt want to shag any man whatever their size if they where just going to lay on top of me and act like flipper"
Lol now that's funny. We haven't had a guy play who doesn't support his upper torso yet. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Why? Did I read it wrong? or do you think because a lot of people had the same view it means they poounced on someone?
we've already spoken about this privately and you know my views on it. its not always what's posted but sometimes who posts it that illicits a negative response"
So you think that this person has been treated badly because not many people agreed with her?
Do we need to have the same ratio of who can agree and who can't on each thread before so it is even?
Does anyone who wants to disagree with someone have to keep quiet if the even amount has been reached?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldnt want to shag any man whatever their size if they where just going to lay on top of me and act like flipper"
lol have a pic in my head you in your water wings.. flipper on top Its not the size its whos inside yes i know looks can play a big part but god i have meet some men could be super models and vain crap in bed and only thinking of there own needs and loved only themselfs.. so much more to this swinging fat thin .,...what ever if its a nice person and we click thats all i care about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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thats the point, they didn't disagree. most of them misconstrued what she meant.you're claiming everyone has the same view as you. but you're a mod so you can. thats bullshit of the highest order
signs out of the threas |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I might be fat but I cook a mean breakfast.
For all those fat haters out there, the only reason I'm fat is bacause every time I fuck your mum she gives me a biscuit!! |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"thats the point, they didn't disagree. most of them misconstrued what she meant.you're claiming everyone has the same view as you. but you're a mod so you can. thats bullshit of the highest order
signs out of the threas"
Why are you twisting what I have said? there really is no need for it.
I didn't claim ANYONE had the same view as me , I said a lot of people have the same view and not many people agreed with her.
There really is no need to get aggressive on the forums because you didn't want to answer a simple question, so maybe it is wise for you to stay off the thread. |
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SHOES!
The answer is shoes!
I was just thinking that I couldn't remember the last time a guy just lay on me to shag me.... then I realised it's probable because of the shoes. Guy's can't grab hold of the heels when they lay on top of you so the answer is.... wear proper fuck me shoes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I might be fat but I cook a mean breakfast.
For all those fat haters out there, the only reason I'm fat is bacause every time I fuck your mum she gives me a biscuit!!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I might be fat but I cook a mean breakfast.
For all those fat haters out there, the only reason I'm fat is bacause every time I fuck your mum she gives me a biscuit!!"
Can you tell me what in this mean breakfast ??? i love a man who can make me breakfast in bed .......... on my boat ,, lol after a night of passion ,,,, rocking me boat ,, xx jo |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I might be fat but I cook a mean breakfast.
For all those fat haters out there, the only reason I'm fat is bacause every time I fuck your mum she gives me a biscuit!! Can you tell me what in this mean breakfast ??? i love a man who can make me breakfast in bed .......... on my boat ,, lol after a night of passion ,,,, rocking me boat ,, xx jo"
don't fall for it, he's a wannabe....he's got athletic on his profile....meaning muesli |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I might be fat but I cook a mean breakfast.
For all those fat haters out there, the only reason I'm fat is bacause every time I fuck your mum she gives me a biscuit!! Can you tell me what in this mean breakfast ??? i love a man who can make me breakfast in bed .......... on my boat ,, lol after a night of passion ,,,, rocking me boat ,, xx jo
don't fall for it, he's a wannabe....he's got athletic on his profile....meaning muesli"
oooo no there i was thinking full english , lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, I'm a 16.1/2 stone bruiser, doorman build, but I've got a rythmn like a sewing machine, and I've perfected the art of weightlessness
So, does anybody want a shag |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well, I'm a 16.1/2 stone bruiser, doorman build, but I've got a rythmn like a sewing machine, and I've perfected the art of weightlessness
So, does anybody want a shag "
where's the back of the queue?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well, I'm a 16.1/2 stone bruiser, doorman build, but I've got a rythmn like a sewing machine, and I've perfected the art of weightlessness
So, does anybody want a shag "
as long as you don't bounce back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"BHMs don't do much for me, sorry! "
Or me! Went there once, the bits just don't reach no matter what position you try!
Lean and lithe fits into my nooks and crannies, also very pleasing to the eye, says she with wobbly, droopy bits!
Fabulous, we all have different tastes! |
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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago
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I, mr new, hated being big built, and i was over a stone heavier than dear old jack from Cornwall..
So i went on one of those diets, well it was my Own invented diet.. Basically involved walking past the chip and cake shops and not going in.
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just a comment to see if it helps matters..i am 28 stone with a gorgeous wife that is toned,tanned and dam gorgeous but who hates me as i am obese to be honest most couples want to meet us as the husband gets to play with one of the fittest girls on here, i am sorry if there wifes find it offensive to have to mount me but to be honest, being the size that i am i find that i am unable to do the mounting..looking on the positive side at least your husbands and boyfriends will have had a good evening |
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"just a comment to see if it helps matters..i am 28 stone with a gorgeous wife that is toned,tanned and dam gorgeous but who hates me as i am obese to be honest most couples want to meet us as the husband gets to play with one of the fittest girls on here, i am sorry if there wifes find it offensive to have to mount me but to be honest, being the size that i am i find that i am unable to do the mounting..looking on the positive side at least your husbands and boyfriends will have had a good evening "
just curious, tell me to mind my own business, but why are you listed as a single guy with no pics of your wife or listing as a couple? |
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"just a comment to see if it helps matters..i am 28 stone with a gorgeous wife that is toned,tanned and dam gorgeous but who hates me as i am obese to be honest most couples want to meet us as the husband gets to play with one of the fittest girls on here, i am sorry if there wifes find it offensive to have to mount me but to be honest, being the size that i am i find that i am unable to do the mounting..looking on the positive side at least your husbands and boyfriends will have had a good evening
just curious, tell me to mind my own business, but why are you listed as a single guy with no pics of your wife or listing as a couple? "
He's obviously on the wind up, or been drinking, because at 28 stone he'd hardly be average built either |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"just a comment to see if it helps matters..i am 28 stone with a gorgeous wife that is toned,tanned and dam gorgeous but who hates me as i am obese to be honest most couples want to meet us as the husband gets to play with one of the fittest girls on here, i am sorry if there wifes find it offensive to have to mount me but to be honest, being the size that i am i find that i am unable to do the mounting..looking on the positive side at least your husbands and boyfriends will have had a good evening
just curious, tell me to mind my own business, but why are you listed as a single guy with no pics of your wife or listing as a couple? "
it was done to add a bit of lightheartedness to the thread. |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"you cannot tar everyone that is bigger with the same stick....."
Nope you sure can't, you need at least double the tar sticks for one bigger person to a thinner person!
PS - For those that have lost their sense of humour the above post is totally tongue in cheek! |
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By *acreadCouple
over a year ago
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As you will no doubt have realised by now benice, ppl read the posts in here and then jump to their own conclusions as to what you were trying to say.
From what I can read into it is you are trying to say not that you wont meet fat guys but that they should consider laying the full weight on top of you and not making it an anti fat guy post as a great percentage above have concieved.
Most off the posts in here seem to turn against the comments made by the OPs for one reason or another. |
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"the "big" thread provoked me to start this.
Guys when you are large in size and heavy, please spare a thought for the lady underneath you and learn to take your own weight.
Also got a whinge, fed up with having to mount guys who are overweight. We don't like to judge people on size but it's spoiling my fun.
Do any others find this?"
I think you should make your choice and stick to stick thin blokes with no personality, talent for sex or thought for how to please a woman other than banging away endlessly on top of them boring missionary style. You obviously like it that way. Maybe you are a skinny person who has never liked mounting a bloke because it feels good and you are scared you might actually like it.
Usually a larger man is aware of his size and the limitations it can sometimes put on a couple which I have always found makes them more adventurous and eager to find more ways to pleasure a woman without lying on top of her. I have had sex with skinny's and have found SOME of them dull, repetitive and boring to say the least. I much prefer a man with some meat on his bones, with a personality, imagination and an eagerness to satisfy to match his size. But this is my preference.
We are all different so make your choice and let others make theirs, if you have a dislike for a certain type, steer clear but don't generalise and insult the type as a whole.
You will probably have felt angry and insulted at my first comments, you were meant to, now you know how the larger blokes you were commenting on may have felt. Hurts a little eh? Anyway enjoy your bone grinding and leave the bigger blokes for those of us who appreciate them, their talents and passions.
Anna |
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By (user no longer on site)
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marcred i did read the post and i did see it your way too ........ and i see it could be hurtfull to others if taken other way too maybe the wording was not to good ... We all see things diffrent at times here and thats what make a good forum. |
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"the "big" thread provoked me to start this.
Guys when you are large in size and heavy, please spare a thought for the lady underneath you and learn to take your own weight.
Also got a whinge, fed up with having to mount guys who are overweight. We don't like to judge people on size but it's spoiling my fun.
Do any others find this?"
A considerate lover is a considerate lover, irrespective of size.
Perhaps it has been my great good fortune to have met this quality in every thin, wiry, athletic, plump, rugby built man I have played with.
One of the best most considerate men was the husband of a friend who is 'a bit overweight' as he himself put it.
I make sure to connect mentally with any guy I'm going to have sex with and mutual respect and desire is fostered, which ensures we have some idea of how we are going to please each other in bed, lying still, flat on ones back is not an option. So in answer to your question......I have never found that to be the case.
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"the "big" thread provoked me to start this.
Guys when you are large in size and heavy, please spare a thought for the lady underneath you and learn to take your own weight.
Also got a whinge, fed up with having to mount guys who are overweight. We don't like to judge people on size but it's spoiling my fun.
Do any others find this?
I think you should make your choice and stick to stick thin blokes with no personality, talent for sex or thought for how to please a woman other than banging away endlessly on top of them boring missionary style. You obviously like it that way. Maybe you are a skinny person who has never liked mounting a bloke because it feels good and you are scared you might actually like it.
Usually a larger man is aware of his size and the limitations it can sometimes put on a couple which I have always found makes them more adventurous and eager to find more ways to pleasure a woman without lying on top of her. I have had sex with skinny's and have found SOME of them dull, repetitive and boring to say the least. I much prefer a man with some meat on his bones, with a personality, imagination and an eagerness to satisfy to match his size. But this is my preference.
We are all different so make your choice and let others make theirs, if you have a dislike for a certain type, steer clear but don't generalise and insult the type as a whole.
You will probably have felt angry and insulted at my first comments, you were meant to, now you know how the larger blokes you were commenting on may have felt. Hurts a little eh? Anyway enjoy your bone grinding and leave the bigger blokes for those of us who appreciate them, their talents and passions.
Anna"
We do indeed all read things differently and I for one didn't see the OP as an anti fat bloke thread per se.
What I couldn't understand was WHY the OP would play with men she obviously didn't feel comfortable with: read the OP read the negative phrases and her choice of words like "have to".
What conclusion could be made other than she was somewhat coerced to play with men she didn't fancy so her partner could bang the hot wife. That is what a lot of people picked up on.
I would have to disagree with your assumption that all big men have great personalities and thinner men are devoid of any. That's a stereotype right there: do you think all fat people are happy and jolly?!! Ironically you're doing what you're accusing the OP of: generalising!
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"SHOES!
The answer is shoes!
I was just thinking that I couldn't remember the last time a guy just lay on me to shag me.... then I realised it's probable because of the shoes. Guy's can't grab hold of the heels when they lay on top of you so the answer is.... wear proper fuck me shoes."
For some reason I can't work out what position these shoes are being grabbed in... I must need sleep or food or something. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As you will no doubt have realised by now benice, ppl read the posts in here and then jump to their own conclusions as to what you were trying to say.
From what I can read into it is you are trying to say not that you wont meet fat guys but that they should consider laying the full weight on top of you and not making it an anti fat guy post as a great percentage above have concieved.
Most off the posts in here seem to turn against the comments made by the OPs for one reason or another."
yes, thankyou for understanding and I do feel that the posters have put a lot of weight on me too. Never mind, you live and learn. Teaches me something about the people. |
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"As you will no doubt have realised by now benice, ppl read the posts in here and then jump to their own conclusions as to what you were trying to say.
From what I can read into it is you are trying to say not that you wont meet fat guys but that they should consider laying the full weight on top of you and not making it an anti fat guy post as a great percentage above have concieved.
Most off the posts in here seem to turn against the comments made by the OPs for one reason or another.
yes, thankyou for understanding and I do feel that the posters have put a lot of weight on me too. Never mind, you live and learn. Teaches me something about the people."
Btw I'm fat and I didn't take offence. I took the post to mean you'd like large guys to make sure they don't put their whole weight on whoever is underneath. That's not unreasonable and a point of etiquette that obviously some will/have overlooked.
I can't see how anyone could have thought you were having a go at all fat guys or saying you didn't want to go anywhere near them. Except of course for our terrible education system. |
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