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"What's the best way to make contact? I know a lot of women don't like hi, how are you, and want some effort and usually you can work with what they put in there profile, but what if the profile doesn't give much away, " Try and be funny with it, that gets me every time | |||
"I love messages (and I will always reply to those) which show that the other person has read my profile. Perhaps they pick up on something in my profile and say something funny.... I have stopped replying to messages which are clearly "cut and paste" or boring one liners - often the boring one liners come from profiles which also only state a boring one liner. To me this lacks imagination and therefore, chances are... we would not get on. " absolutely spot on  | |||
"Try to be original without tearing the arse out of it: Ie, I'd love to hammer your tunnel of love until you have my cum shooting out of your ears may be very original and anatomically impossible, but may not achieve your aim. "Yeah I tend not to be too crude in the first post, feels a bit degrading | |||
"What's the best way to make contact? I know a lot of women don't like hi, how are you, and want some effort and usually you can work with what they put in there profile, but what if the profile doesn't give much away, " If there is not much information or written text on the profile then it can be hard to come up with stuff that can make you stand out, so give us something to work with ladies.   | |||
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"Try to be original without tearing the arse out of it: Ie, I'd love to hammer your tunnel of love until you have my cum shooting out of your ears may be very original and anatomically impossible, but may not achieve your aim.
Yeah I tend not to be too crude in the first post, feels a bit degrading"In fairness, this is to some degree the difference between male and female thinking. Often (not always) men write what they think ... and it is more or less overtly sexual and because they(Men) get turned on by this they believe women do, too. Same with pictures : A picture which is sexy to a man is not necessarily appealing to a woman. I guess the more successful guys on here try to be a bit in tune with what women like before writing their message... (God help them with that...   ) | |||
"What's the best way to make contact? I know a lot of women don't like hi, how are you, and want some effort and usually you can work with what they put in there profile, but what if the profile doesn't give much away, Try and be funny with it, that gets me every time " Mmm, i'm off to consult my joke book. | |||
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"make it personal Sx" Definitely, if its obviously personslised it make me feel they wanna fuck me not just anyone who'll say yes lol (even if its not true) | |||
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"make it personal Sx" Can be difficult if its only a one line profile? | |||
"make it personal Sx Can be difficult if its only a one line profile? " well if the profile isnt grabbing you - why would you message - if they have a nice pic - compliment that - if the only reason you message is cos they a female within range well so help you | |||
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"In my experience it doesn't matter what you put very rarely if ever get a reply " I reply to most constructed messages that aren't one liners and clear they read my profile | |||
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"Fair play to you not many seem to lol " Most do if they aren't "Hi" "Wanna fuck" "X" | |||
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"No convinced I make an effort most of the time and never get replies not complaining or moaning people can do what they like but it I am just saying it how it seems to be " Dunno I dont know u personally | |||
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"I love messages (and I will always reply to those) which show that the other person has read my profile. Perhaps they pick up on something in my profile and say something funny.... I have stopped replying to messages which are clearly "cut and paste" or boring one liners - often the boring one liners come from profiles which also only state a boring one liner. To me this lacks imagination and therefore, chances are... we would not get on. " This | |||
"Maybe just too ugly lol don't start giving me grief people lol " U arent ugly | |||
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"Ha lol thanks. I never copy and paste " Good to read | |||
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"make it personal Sx Can be difficult if its only a one line profile? well if the profile isnt grabbing you - why would you message - if they have a nice pic - compliment that - if the only reason you message is cos they a female within range well so help you "You'd be suprised how many women think they don't need to make any effort on here, lots of one line profiles about. | |||
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"make it personal Sx Can be difficult if its only a one line profile? well if the profile isnt grabbing you - why would you message - if they have a nice pic - compliment that - if the only reason you message is cos they a female within range well so help you
You'd be suprised how many women think they don't need to make any effort on here, lots of one line profiles about. "Mines about 10 lol | |||
"What's the best way to make contact? I know a lot of women don't like hi, how are you, and want some effort and usually you can work with what they put in there profile, but what if the profile doesn't give much away, " Tell them why out of everyone else on here you have chosen them to be the focus of your desires and attention. | |||
"What's the best way to make contact? I know a lot of women don't like hi, how are you, and want some effort and usually you can work with what they put in there profile, but what if the profile doesn't give much away, Tell them why out of everyone else on here you have chosen them to be the focus of your desires and attention. " This. Mention why you're messaging. It could be something in their profile text, status update or a photo. It's normally obvious to me when guys are messaging purely due to my photos and haven't bothered reading my profile. I find it acts as a filter of sorts. If there is no info at all to go on then I don't get why you'd message them in the first place. | |||
"make it personal Sx Can be difficult if its only a one line profile? well if the profile isnt grabbing you - why would you message - if they have a nice pic - compliment that - if the only reason you message is cos they a female within range well so help you
You'd be suprised how many women think they don't need to make any effort on here, lots of one line profiles about. "sooooooooooooo - if these women that think there is no need to make effort - do you really want to meet a woman with that attitude ? | |||
"What's the best way to make contact? I know a lot of women don't like hi, how are you, and want some effort and usually you can work with what they put in there profile, but what if the profile doesn't give much away, Try and be funny with it, that gets me every time Mmm, i'm off to consult my joke book. "Your fine | |||
"make it personal Sx Can be difficult if its only a one line profile? well if the profile isnt grabbing you - why would you message - if they have a nice pic - compliment that - if the only reason you message is cos they a female within range well so help you
You'd be suprised how many women think they don't need to make any effort on here, lots of one line profiles about.
sooooooooooooo - if these women that think there is no need to make effort - do you really want to meet a woman with that attitude ?"Unfortunately, most options for single males are limited enough as it is! I don't mind sending a message but if I only get a one word answer back then shes clearly not worth the effort. | |||
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"make it personal Sx Can be difficult if its only a one line profile? well if the profile isnt grabbing you - why would you message - if they have a nice pic - compliment that - if the only reason you message is cos they a female within range well so help you
You'd be suprised how many women think they don't need to make any effort on here, lots of one line profiles about.
sooooooooooooo - if these women that think there is no need to make effort - do you really want to meet a woman with that attitude ?
Unfortunately, most options for single males are limited enough as it is! I don't mind sending a message but if I only get a one word answer back then shes clearly not worth the effort. "Yet life is a risk you take. Sometimes u win sometimes you lose | |||
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"Just say whatever comes naturally to mind in that moment. Some women don't even like a simple 'hello' 'hi' or 'how are you?' so you really never know what's going to work. So just click send and cross your fingers. Either that or become a mind reader "Yet if they have a good photos and profile I'll reply | |||
"Maybe just too ugly lol don't start giving me grief people lol " I'd say its your profile hun, its very generic and doesn't give anything away. Unless you blew me away with your opening message I'd not respond after reading you profile. Sorry if that's harsh xxx | |||
"What's the best way to make contact? I know a lot of women don't like hi, how are you, and want some effort and usually you can work with what they put in there profile, but what if the profile doesn't give much away, Tell them why out of everyone else on here you have chosen them to be the focus of your desires and attention.
This. Mention why you're messaging. It could be something in their profile text, status update or a photo. It's normally obvious to me when guys are messaging purely due to my photos and haven't bothered reading my profile. I find it acts as a filter of sorts. If there is no info at all to go on then I don't get why you'd message them in the first place."Nice pics by the way. Hi, how are you? | |||
"What's the best way to make contact? I know a lot of women don't like hi, how are you, and want some effort and usually you can work with what they put in there profile, but what if the profile doesn't give much away, Tell them why out of everyone else on here you have chosen them to be the focus of your desires and attention.
This. Mention why you're messaging. It could be something in their profile text, status update or a photo. It's normally obvious to me when guys are messaging purely due to my photos and haven't bothered reading my profile. I find it acts as a filter of sorts. If there is no info at all to go on then I don't get why you'd message them in the first place.
Nice pics by the way. Hi, how are you? "Fine thanks. Slightly cold and damp following an inclement walk home but I'll warm up after a hot shower. You? | |||
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"Any ladies on this thread fancy a fuck?" Lmfao x | |||
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""Hey you look fantastic" "Hey you look fantastic" "Hey you look fantastic" "Hey you look fantastic" "Hey you look fantastic" "Hey you look fantastic" "Hey you look fantastic" Yes my cut and paste skills still work "Ha ha that made me laugh!! | |||
However, be creative, show them that you have a brain and know how to use it. The last thing a girl wants is to waste her time on a boring guy! boring in the head = boring in bed!
I am in no way a stud muffing like most guys on the site , but I feel like I am doing ok.
hang in, be polite, creative, respectful and flirty. | |||
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