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By *edallion OP Man
over a year ago
manchester |
Hey guys, please how long would you wait before you decide your meet is a no show? I've been waiting for close to an hour after lodging into a motel in Stoke but the couple i arranged to meet haven't been online for three hours now and it seems like I've wasted my money on accomodation and drinks at the moment. I didn't bother to ask for phone no because I've been on a social with them last month but don't know how to reach them although I gave them my no. Should I just give up?  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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That's a shame OP, although you now know the importance of getting a phone number. Is there no way you could put up a meet request or do whos near on your phone? Shame to waste the room. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's a real shame, I hate to hear about people being let down. Hopefully it's because there is a genuine delay.
If they don't show: Just enjoy the room, have a wank and a wee drink instead  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You've paid for the room dude, hit a bar and grab yourself a girl the old fashioned way or at least have fun trying, all may not be lost. Some of the best nights are had when plans go to rat shit. Good luck and let us know how you get on  |
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By *edallion OP Man
over a year ago
manchester |
Thank you all for your contributions. I have spent over £50 on room, drinks and condom but I blame no one but myself for not getting their no. Yes they are verified and have even had a social meet with them last month and the wife wanted to meet me again. Never make my mistake guys! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you all for your contributions. I have spent over £50 on room, drinks and condom but I blame no one but myself for not getting their no. Yes they are verified and have even had a social meet with them last month and the wife wanted to meet me again. Never make my mistake guys! "
Seems a shame to waste the room, is there anyone on the who's near you thingy....?! |
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By *edallion OP Man
over a year ago
manchester |
Given up already. Last spoke to them by 4pm and they were last seen on fab some three hours ago. goingb to a club would probably cost me another 30-40 quid which I didn budget for but who knows. Thanks for your advise guys. I appreciate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Given up already. Last spoke to them by 4pm and they were last seen on fab some three hours ago. goingb to a club would probably cost me another 30-40 quid which I didn budget for but who knows. Thanks for your advise guys. I appreciate"
Hopefully it won't be a completely wasted them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Given up already. Last spoke to them by 4pm and they were last seen on fab some three hours ago. goingb to a club would probably cost me another 30-40 quid which I didn budget for but who knows. Thanks for your advise guys. I appreciate"
aahh good luck,hope you find someone xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You've paid for the room dude, hit a bar and grab yourself a girl the old fashioned way or at least have fun trying, all may not be lost. Some of the best nights are had when plans go to rat shit. Good luck and let us know how you get on "
My sentiments, bloody shame x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a chance that something might have happened. An accident or family emergency. Especially if they haven't been online. See if they mail later/ tomorrow, there may be an explanation. Especially as you met them in person. |
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By *edallion OP Man
over a year ago
manchester |
"Thank you all for your contributions. I have spent over £50 on room, drinks and condom but I blame no one but myself for not getting their no. Yes they are verified and have even had a social meet with them last month and the wife wanted to meet me again. Never make my mistake guys!
Seems a shame to waste the room, is there anyone on the who's near you thingy....?!"
I've checked it and it probably won't work out looking at the time. |
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I'd not give people an hour, if there's good mobile coverage, before reevaluating my expectations. It's different if people don't know the area or have been in touch within 3hours.
I have my own methodology and rules and don't meet if I'm pissed off. I also insist on prompt communication. Anything else opens the floodgates to potential messing around and uncertainty.
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Thank you all for your contributions. I have spent over £50 on room, drinks and condom but I blame no one but myself for not getting their no. Yes they are verified and have even had a social meet with them last month and the wife wanted to meet me again. Never make my mistake guys!
Seems a shame to waste the room, is there anyone on the who's near you thingy....?!
I've checked it and it probably won't work out looking at the time."
Worth a try though. |
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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I'd not give people an hour, if there's good mobile coverage, before reevaluating my expectations. It's different if people don't know the area or have been in touch within 3hours.
I have my own methodology and rules and don't meet if I'm pissed off. I also insist on prompt communication. Anything else opens the floodgates to potential messing around and uncertainty.
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By *edallion OP Man
over a year ago
manchester |
"There's a chance that something might have happened. An accident or family emergency. Especially if they haven't been online. See if they mail later/ tomorrow, there may be an explanation. Especially as you met them in person."
They texted me now saying their youngest isn't home yet and they've just involved the police. I don't know how true it is but it so then I sympathise with them and hope they find their kid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a chance that something might have happened. An accident or family emergency. Especially if they haven't been online. See if they mail later/ tomorrow, there may be an explanation. Especially as you met them in person.
They texted me now saying their youngest isn't home yet and they've just involved the police. I don't know how true it is but it so then I sympathise with them and hope they find their kid. "
Goat farmers eh?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh honey that's a shame, especially since you met for a social previously and gone to the trouble of booking the hotel etc...
As they have your number and haven't been in touch then chances are slim that they'll turn up. Chalk this one up to experience,learn from it and move on - you'll be fine x  |
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That really sucks, sorry dude.. I'd try salvage the night and try find another couple or lady to join you.
Other than that, you can actually report them as a no show. But i'd probably send them a message on here if it was me.
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By *edallion OP Man
over a year ago
manchester |
"Oh honey that's a shame, especially since you met for a social previously and gone to the trouble of booking the hotel etc...
As they have your number and haven't been in touch then chances are slim that they'll turn up. Chalk this one up to experience,learn from it and move on - you'll be fine x "
Thank you! |
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By *edallion OP Man
over a year ago
manchester |
"That really sucks, sorry dude.. I'd try salvage the night and try find another couple or lady to join you.
Other than that, you can actually report them as a no show. But i'd probably send them a message on here if it was me.
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I've been messaged saying their child is missing some minutes ago. I wouldn't like to report since they've gott in touch now. Only thing is if they still wanted to meet I wouldn't be the one to pay the bills. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That really sucks, sorry dude.. I'd try salvage the night and try find another couple or lady to join you.
Other than that, you can actually report them as a no show. But i'd probably send them a message on here if it was me.
I've been messaged saying their child is missing some minutes ago. I wouldn't like to report since they've gott in touch now. Only thing is if they still wanted to meet I wouldn't be the one to pay the bills."
that is a worry and understandable if true. hope it all works out for all concerned. x |
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By *edallion OP Man
over a year ago
manchester |
My morale was low before posting this thread but after seeing your responses, I dec to call Atlantis evolution nightclub around the area and was told am allowed to come party tonight. Am off guys! Once again thank you all |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"My morale was low before posting this thread but after seeing your responses, I dec to call Atlantis evolution nightclub around the area and was told am allowed to come party tonight. Am off guys! Once again thank you all "
Wooohoooooo have fun x |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"My morale was low before posting this thread but after seeing your responses, I dec to call Atlantis evolution nightclub around the area and was told am allowed to come party tonight. Am off guys! Once again thank you all "
Yayy! You'll have a ball, and you have a room to bring the lucky people back to |
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"That really sucks, sorry dude.. I'd try salvage the night and try find another couple or lady to join you.
Other than that, you can actually report them as a no show. But i'd probably send them a message on here if it was me.
I've been messaged saying their child is missing some minutes ago. I wouldn't like to report since they've gott in touch now. Only thing is if they still wanted to meet I wouldn't be the one to pay the bills."
Yeh I did see that after I posted as I delayed in replying but I think that's a cancel..
It's all up to you though of course x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My morale was low before posting this thread but after seeing your responses, I dec to call Atlantis evolution nightclub around the area and was told am allowed to come party tonight. Am off guys! Once again thank you all
Yayy! You'll have a ball, and you have a room to bring the lucky people back to "
Good luck OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We need an update . Yes we do ! 3 women wanting an.update! who said women are nosey?? "
Yup ! Loves a happy ending ...
The fact that the op last logged on at 3am one can assume he had a fun night |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That really sucks, sorry dude.. I'd try salvage the night and try find another couple or lady to join you.
Other than that, you can actually report them as a no show. But i'd probably send them a message on here if it was me.
I've been messaged saying their child is missing some minutes ago. I wouldn't like to report since they've gott in touch now. Only thing is if they still wanted to meet I wouldn't be the one to pay the bills."
In future fella, don't pay for the room in advance.
I've called on the day asking if they have rooms available tonight as I maybe staying in the area overnight. Hotels are rarely full, its never been a problem for me |
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By *edallion OP Man
over a year ago
manchester |
Sorry for keeping you guys waiting lol. I finally attended Atlantis Evolution in Stoke last night and although I didn't know anyone there, Cat and her friend showed me around and fortunately I was lucky to get on with a young good looking lady who came with her man and thanks to the club not being too busy (maybe because of mothers day coming up) and still gutted I didn't get to ask for their fab name probably because I was too busy having fun. After club, I decided I deserved more for the night and set off to go see what's going on in town and it surely did pay off as I once again ended up with a 25 year old lady who was more interested in how good looking my nails are (never gotten such compliment for my nails before) but insisted we go back to hers for security reasons meaning my motel bed wasn't soaking at the end. Fast forward to this morning when she realised she actually doesn't know my age (she never asked last night haha) and never believed me until I showed her an ID and she said she never had her mate in bed talk less a younger guy and now wants to come see me sometime. Too bad she's not on fab (well that's what am guessing and don't want to look awkward if I ask and its a what's fab reply). It turned out to be a very fruitful journey at the end but with some lessons to learn. Thanks to all you ladies who decided to check up and see how I fared last night... I appreciate |
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Send them the invoice and if no reply get your lawyer onto them... If them parents could sue because a kid didn't turn up a a kids party then am sue us sex slaves to unthoughtful and happy it not coming out their pockets Cheeky tramps Can take them to court tooo..;-) |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Send them the invoice and if no reply get your lawyer onto them... If them parents could sue because a kid didn't turn up a a kids party then am sue us sex slaves to unthoughtful and happy it not coming out their pockets Cheeky tramps Can take them to court tooo..;-) "
Is this VAT exempt? Don't want to get into trouble with the HMRC |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey guys, please how long would you wait before you decide your meet is a no show? I've been waiting for close to an hour after lodging into a motel in Stoke but the couple i arranged to meet haven't been online for three hours now and it seems like I've wasted my money on accomodation and drinks at the moment. I didn't bother to ask for phone no because I've been on a social with them last month but don't know how to reach them although I gave them my no. Should I just give up? "
Dude I feel for you !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's a shame OP, although you now know the importance of getting a phone number. Is there no way you could put up a meet request or do whos near on your phone? Shame to waste the room."
This - exploit the situation to your advantage. |
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By *edallion OP Man
over a year ago
manchester |
"Send them the invoice and if no reply get your lawyer onto them... If them parents could sue because a kid didn't turn up a a kids party then am sue us sex slaves to unthoughtful and happy it not coming out their pockets Cheeky tramps Can take them to court tooo..;-) "
Sounds like a good idea just that the process might cost me more |
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What a really nice bloke the OP is. You never disrespected the couple, never whinged at the fact you had been stood up. I'm so glad you had an awesome evening. Sometimes in life when we are let down sometimes that can be our biggest blessing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What a really nice bloke the OP is. You never disrespected the couple, never whinged at the fact you had been stood up. I'm so glad you had an awesome evening. Sometimes in life when we are let down sometimes that can be our biggest blessing "
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