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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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bit of an oxymoron this! in terms of numbers of encounters, one night stands and so called "kinky sex", im pretty inexperienced. however, I find myself fantasising about sex with multiple men more and more. However! fear sets in and I worry about everything from sti's to what to fucking wear!, will I feel shit after?, will I regret doing it? would I freak out? should I leave it in the box marked fantasy or should I explore it? if so what's the safest way in terms of mental, physical and psychological wellbeing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wait until you're absolutely sure. Don't pressure yourself, you can have one when you're ready.
There's loads of things i like the idea of, but i'm not desperate to do them and am waiting until the time feels absolutely right. And if i never do them then it won't matter.
You probably won't feel like shit after, probably be buzzing that you went through with it and feel a bit braver too.
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"Wait until you're absolutely sure. Don't pressure yourself, you can have one when you're ready.
There's loads of things i like the idea of, but i'm not desperate to do them and am waiting until the time feels absolutely right. And if i never do them then it won't matter.
You probably won't feel like shit after, probably be buzzing that you went through with it and feel a bit braver too.
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You are young, OP. You have many years to indulge fantasies. Take your time. As has been posted, build up to it: try two at first, see how you find it. If you meet someone on here with whom you click, they might be able to help you indulge the sort of fantasy you have described, as well as giving you the peace of mind that things won't get out of hand. We all have some wild fantasies. No point acting on them till you're sure though |
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