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over a year ago
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it does put me off, I know quite a few men and women on here who don't use condoms, I might meet them if they use them when they meet me but a lot of them just don't want to use them. |
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"If it's a single male profile then yes it does 
Ah but don't forget - it's usually a previous 'long term partner'!
All thirteen of them.
So that's ok.   
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Can I get away with 12? |
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"So what do people on here consider to be safe sex?
Condom for penetration, no condon for oral or condom for oral too, as there's still a risk?
Sorry should prob start opening another post "
Safe sex is in reality no sex as all sexual acts carry a certain risk like condom splitting, no condom, condom coming off. |
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Agree to recently posted stuff - solo sex is safe, the rest carries some risk. The majority of the population carries some infection though not everything will be helped by condoms. We each decide on our own perspective, risk attitudes and behaviours. Those cheating carry the biggest risk, as partners won't know of such behaviour. |
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"So what do people on here consider to be safe sex?
Condom for penetration, no condon for oral or condom for oral too, as there's still a risk?
Sorry should prob start opening another post
Safe sex is in reality no sex as all sexual acts carry a certain risk like condom splitting, no condom, condom coming off."
Granted solo sex is the safest form but protected sex is safer than unprotected no matter how you look at it.
I'd rather bag it up for my own piece of mind than risk an STD.
Fun fact I recently watched a programme where a young lad tested positive for an STD.
He was working in the porn industry and had around 75 partners in three months.
All unprotected so worst case scenario he passed it once to 75 people. If each of them had sex within two people and it got passed on that's 150 people.
So yeah, no thanks. |
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"Personally I hate condoms can't use them. Just saying "
Same here, they stink, all the faffing about with them takes the shine away from the sex, they dull the feeling of sexual pleasure....the whole point of it is sexual pleasure, so we don't see a point in meeting anyone for crap sex, we'd rather not bother. Yep, we get fewer meets but the meets we've had have been brilliant, wouldn't change it at all. We don't accept every offer, in fact we accept very very few, we don't take risks with risky people where the 'safe sex' types would happily bang anything that moves. Great for them, we play our way, they play theres plenty of room for us all. |
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"Personally I hate condoms can't use them. Just saying
Same here, they stink, all the faffing about with them takes the shine away from the sex, they dull the feeling of sexual pleasure....the whole point of it is sexual pleasure, so we don't see a point in meeting anyone for crap sex, we'd rather not bother. Yep, we get fewer meets but the meets we've had have been brilliant, wouldn't change it at all. We don't accept every offer, in fact we accept very very few, we don't take risks with risky people where the 'safe sex' types would happily bang anything that moves. Great for them, we play our way, they play theres plenty of room for us all."
I don't play with anyone it has to feel right and has to be a connection life is risk but I don't take chances. Rather not meet if there was anything that my instincts pick up on |
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Always a must wearing a condom...
I tend to go on how many varies they have also...
If the list is endless then im probably going to keep away from the person...
And I also check out pics and cant see a
It makes me wonder if thats the norm for that fella  |
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I tend to go on how many varies they have also...
If the list is endless then im probably going to keep away from the person"
We do that too, though most of our veris are from social meets that never got to the sex stage, and those that did also account for half of the veris as they had the social first too. |
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I don't want to shag my way round fab I would rather have friends that I meet for socials and if it went any further then so be it.
Would rather 1 on 1 with the same person rather than loads of different sexual partners |
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"If it's a single male profile then yes it does "
Safe only for me condom every time us gay guys get enough blame and stigma. Though I do see plenty of pictures on here with single woman getting fucked. Some of the single guys showing pictures of them fucking woman also no protection, |
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