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I wish they would just spit it out
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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when someone says
No offence but
or
its not a dig but
or
its not you its me
you get the jist.
why do people need to start off with this when really you would respect them more if they just came out and said it 
i dont beat round the bush and i like to be honest and open with people
the above drives me crackers,
what lines drive you crackers ?
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I've started to add "in my opinion" to most things I write on the forum if I remember, I hate doing it and I guess it probably annoys other people but I feel I have to point it out because so many people imagine that I think its fact.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"fuck sugar coating
but then again its no wonder i get in trouble at work for my bluntness "
Lol, sometimes you have to be blunt, sometimes you need to sugar coat, it's called tact lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"fuck sugar coating
but then again its no wonder i get in trouble at work for my bluntness
Lol, sometimes you have to be blunt, sometimes you need to sugar coat, it's called tact lol"
yeah i dont need it on here 
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"I've started to add "in my opinion" to most things I write on the forum if I remember, I hate doing it and I guess it probably annoys other people but I feel I have to point it out because so many people imagine that I think its fact.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"fuck sugar coating
but then again its no wonder i get in trouble at work for my bluntness
Lol, sometimes you have to be blunt, sometimes you need to sugar coat, it's called tact lol
yeah i dont need it on here
ha ha ha ha ha"
No one needs tact on here lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"fuck sugar coating
but then again its no wonder i get in trouble at work for my bluntness
Lol, sometimes you have to be blunt, sometimes you need to sugar coat, it's called tact lol
yeah i dont need it on here
ha ha ha ha ha
No one needs tact on here lol"
being honest
im looking for my fun and my enjoyment if they don't meet my criterias they wont and its not likely it will change!
some people think that you will give in and change your mind
i have tried to be tactful and got me more abuse and no im honest and pretty direct
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"fuck sugar coating
but then again its no wonder i get in trouble at work for my bluntness
Lol, sometimes you have to be blunt, sometimes you need to sugar coat, it's called tact lol
yeah i dont need it on here
ha ha ha ha ha"
Agree with you....I don't have tact in the "real world" either....if someone doesn't like it...fuck em....that's not very tactful is it...sorry....well actually I'm not  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People say that I'm to blunt, it's why I leave Hids to speak to people in messages in case I offend, I can even offend nice people because I say what I think  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With the greates respect i find your ideas rather childish, no offence intended but i think your talking out of your arse! Its not a dig id like to watch your arse talk as it happens, i dnt mean to upset you in anyway but i find you rather opinionated and i know its not you its me but i think you need a bloody good spanking as a prelude to being hung by your nipples on hooks! Fancy a fuck?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"fuck sugar coating
but then again its no wonder i get in trouble at work for my bluntness
Lol, sometimes you have to be blunt, sometimes you need to sugar coat, it's called tact lol
yeah i dont need it on here
ha ha ha ha ha
No one needs tact on here lol
being honest
im looking for my fun and my enjoyment if they don't meet my criterias they wont and its not likely it will change!
some people think that you will give in and change your mind
i have tried to be tactful and got me more abuse and no im honest and pretty direct
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Fair enough lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"fuck sugar coating
but then again its no wonder i get in trouble at work for my bluntness "
With all due respect, aren't you bidding against yourself there?   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"fuck sugar coating
but then again its no wonder i get in trouble at work for my bluntness
With all due respect, aren't you bidding against yourself there? "
No as most know at work if i have something to say i will say it. trust me when you say something and the new chairman of the company is behind you, i could cringe, creep or say "its how i feel"
why should we need to sugarcoat things
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By (user no longer on site)
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"fuck sugar coating
but then again its no wonder i get in trouble at work for my bluntness
With all due respect, aren't you bidding against yourself there?
No as most know at work if i have something to say i will say it. trust me when you say something and the new chairman of the company is behind you, i could cringe, creep or say "its how i feel"
why should we need to sugarcoat things
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Can be the difference between employment an unemployment lol |
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"I've started to add "in my opinion" to most things I write on the forum if I remember, I hate doing it and I guess it probably annoys other people but I feel I have to point it out because so many people imagine that I think its fact.
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It's fact that it is your opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"fuck sugar coating
but then again its no wonder i get in trouble at work for my bluntness
With all due respect, aren't you bidding against yourself there?
No as most know at work if i have something to say i will say it. trust me when you say something and the new chairman of the company is behind you, i could cringe, creep or say "its how i feel"
why should we need to sugarcoat things
Can be the difference between employment an unemployment lol"
i agree yet im safe and my job is secure the chairman saw my point.
My job i have to be blunt and bossy and confident or the people i manage would walk allover me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"fuck sugar coating
but then again its no wonder i get in trouble at work for my bluntness
With all due respect, aren't you bidding against yourself there?
No as most know at work if i have something to say i will say it. trust me when you say something and the new chairman of the company is behind you, i could cringe, creep or say "its how i feel"
why should we need to sugarcoat things
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but then you followed it up by saying "its no wonder I get in to trouble....."
It's okay, I was only arsing around |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"fuck sugar coating
but then again its no wonder i get in trouble at work for my bluntness
With all due respect, aren't you bidding against yourself there?
No as most know at work if i have something to say i will say it. trust me when you say something and the new chairman of the company is behind you, i could cringe, creep or say "its how i feel"
why should we need to sugarcoat things
but then you followed it up by saying "its no wonder I get in to trouble....."
It's okay, I was only arsing around "
known fact i am always in some sort of trouble |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"fuck sugar coating
but then again its no wonder i get in trouble at work for my bluntness
With all due respect, aren't you bidding against yourself there?
No as most know at work if i have something to say i will say it. trust me when you say something and the new chairman of the company is behind you, i could cringe, creep or say "its how i feel"
why should we need to sugarcoat things
Can be the difference between employment an unemployment lol
i agree yet im safe and my job is secure the chairman saw my point.
My job i have to be blunt and bossy and confident or the people i manage would walk allover me "
I'm a manager and need to be fair but firm, approachable, direct, I have to coach and support when all I really want to say is 'fuck off and stop being a cunt' but cannot lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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My job i have to be blunt and bossy and confident or the people i manage would walk allover me
I'm a manager and need to be fair but firm, approachable, direct, I have to coach and support when all I really want to say is 'fuck off and stop being a cunt' but cannot lol x"
i am all that you mentioned and i would never call someone a cunt at work even if i d*unk with them and i was friends as its not professional |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My job i have to be blunt and bossy and confident or the people i manage would walk allover me
I'm a manager and need to be fair but firm, approachable, direct, I have to coach and support when all I really want to say is 'fuck off and stop being a cunt' but cannot lol x
i am all that you mentioned and i would never call someone a cunt at work even if i d*unk with them and i was friends as its not professional "
You're right, it's not, as soon as you do it you lose the discussion and respect, don't stop you thinking it though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On here....the popcorn comment which reminds me of a load of laughing hags waiting for an execution
"Instashag" which is trotted out to anyone who is struggling to meet
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"On here....the popcorn comment which reminds me of a load of laughing hags waiting for an execution
"Instashag" which is trotted out to anyone who is struggling to meet
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Forgot that one too lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Iv tried the direct approach. In hotel meet now. Free tonight can i fuck you etc etc the usual messages us women get. When iv said no thank you. Iv recieved some awful abuse. So now I don't bother answering. Im just ignorant instead lol. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"fuck sugar coating
but then again its no wonder i get in trouble at work for my bluntness
With all due respect, aren't you bidding against yourself there?
No as most know at work if i have something to say i will say it. trust me when you say something and the new chairman of the company is behind you, i could cringe, creep or say "its how i feel"
why should we need to sugarcoat things
Can be the difference between employment an unemployment lol
i agree yet im safe and my job is secure the chairman saw my point.
My job i have to be blunt and bossy and confident or the people i manage would walk allover me
I'm a manager and need to be fair but firm, approachable, direct, I have to coach and support when all I really want to say is 'fuck off and stop being a cunt' but cannot lol x"
The concepts missing here are the two maligned words 'diplomacy' and 'courtesy'. Nothing is wrong with being blunt, but being blunt should not be confused with being rude. Blunt is passing information, rude is commenting upon a person adversely unnecessarily or in an unnecessary fashion. In the old days and even in certain cultures today if you were or are rude rightfully or wrongfully it meant or means a fight, a duel or social exclusion. There are generally two sides to a situation and the great thing about the English language you can be extremely rude by being extremely polite, and that avoids social conflict but both sides know that an insult has passed. It also needs to be remembered circumstances may be a matter of opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"fuck sugar coating
but then again its no wonder i get in trouble at work for my bluntness
With all due respect, aren't you bidding against yourself there?
No as most know at work if i have something to say i will say it. trust me when you say something and the new chairman of the company is behind you, i could cringe, creep or say "its how i feel"
why should we need to sugarcoat things
Can be the difference between employment an unemployment lol
i agree yet im safe and my job is secure the chairman saw my point.
My job i have to be blunt and bossy and confident or the people i manage would walk allover me
I'm a manager and need to be fair but firm, approachable, direct, I have to coach and support when all I really want to say is 'fuck off and stop being a cunt' but cannot lol x
The concepts missing here are the two maligned words 'diplomacy' and 'courtesy'. Nothing is wrong with being blunt, but being blunt should not be confused with being rude. Blunt is passing information, rude is commenting upon a person adversely unnecessarily or in an unnecessary fashion. In the old days and even in certain cultures today if you were or are rude rightfully or wrongfully it meant or means a fight, a duel or social exclusion. There are generally two sides to a situation and the great thing about the English language you can be extremely rude by being extremely polite, and that avoids social conflict but both sides know that an insult has passed. It also needs to be remembered circumstances may be a matter of opinion."
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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to me it's 3 or 4 words that make me sound less like a total knob
'sugar coating' or 'pussy footing' as you may call
i believe in being honest but id rather not be a total twat when addressing issues. id get my point across just less harsh |
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