why do the admins on here allow people who have no intensions of ever meeting to stay,, some have no veri,s after yrs of being on here, they are here to get there kicks from the messages they recieve nothing else, it spoils it for others writing endless messages that are read and deleted or just ignored,, and breathe...lol |
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How do you know they aren't meeting? They might meet loads in clubs off here but not bother to verify. I also don't know why the actions of people unconnected to you would have any impact on your ability to use and enjoy fab. |
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"why do the admins on here allow people who have no intensions of ever meeting to stay,, some have no veri,s after yrs of being on here, they are here to get there kicks from the messages they recieve nothing else, it spoils it for others writing endless messages that are read and deleted or just ignored,, and breathe...lol "
Why do the admins on here allow people who come on the forums to moan about other users to stay ? They are here to get their kicks from the messages they leave - nothing else, it spoils it for others who have to read these messages that are never deleted and sometimes ingnored, and .... smile..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have you not thought that one of the reasons you don't get any replies is because your profile doesn't say anything about you?
Just because they don't reply to you it doesn't mean they don't reply to others.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of our meets are not arranged through Fab. We can go at least 18 months without meeting anyone from here , sometimes longer. Should we be kicked off ? |
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"Why do you mail them? Just leave them be to enjoy the site the way they want to. "
Sounds like you need to read the profiles BEFORE you mail them OP, not just afterwards, when trying to justify why they didn't reply. Then you wouldn't feel you'd wasted your time.
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Most of our meets are not arranged through Fab. We can go at least 18 months without meeting anyone from here , sometimes longer. Should we be kicked off ? "
Bloody timewasters!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you know why they are on here
How are they spoiling it for others
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because he is another winning single guy who doesnt get enough attention! And ive met lots of meets off here and ive not got any veris am in your fuckin way too? moaning fuckers like you spoil it for single guys!!
oh you have now got attention! hey you a member of pof?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most of our meets are not arranged through Fab. We can go at least 18 months without meeting anyone from here , sometimes longer. Should we be kicked off ?
Uhhmmmmmmmmmm Im thinkin...... "
Well ? |
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"Why do you mail them? Just leave them be to enjoy the site the way they want to.
Sounds like you need to read the profiles BEFORE you mail them OP, not just afterwards, when trying to justify why they didn't reply. Then you wouldn't feel you'd wasted your time.
Mr ddc"
Yep...this |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"why do the admins on here allow people who have no intensions of ever meeting to stay,, some have no veri,s after yrs of being on here, they are here to get there kicks from the messages they recieve nothing else, it spoils it for others writing endless messages that are read and deleted or just ignored,, and breathe...lol "
What about the ones who do but still don't want to meet you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Endless messages only happen when you allow them. Someone with lots of recent verifications is just as capable of sending a message as someone who has none. I have had men message who are way out of my age range,when I didn't have them blocked. My fault,they were just chancing that I would make an exception. I didn't moan about it,it happens. They don't spoil it for other men who want to meet me. |
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"why do the admins on here allow people who have no intensions of ever meeting to stay,, some have no veri,s after yrs of being on here, they are here to get there kicks from the messages they recieve nothing else, it spoils it for others writing endless messages that are read and deleted or just ignored,, and breathe...lol "
No it doesn't! ! |
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. How does this spoil it for others ?There is no obligation to meet anyone and quite a few members just enjoy browsing the site or reading the forums . If you do meet people , again why would you require verifications which in many cases are meaningless . If you feel that members are not replying to your messages why not have a really detailed profile with lots of pictures which will give all members a better chance of assessing the type of person that you are . Would you like all profiles which are less than three lines to be deleted .   |
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"why do the admins on here allow people who have no intensions of ever meeting to stay,, some have no veri,s after yrs of being on here, they are here to get there kicks from the messages they recieve nothing else, it spoils it for others writing endless messages that are read and deleted or just ignored,, and breathe...lol . How does this spoil it for others ?There is no obligation to meet anyone and quite a few members just enjoy browsing the site or reading the forums . If you do meet people , again why would you require verifications which in many cases are meaningless . If you feel that members are not replying to your messages why not have a really detailed profile with lots of pictures which will give all members a better chance of assessing the type of person that you are . Would you like all profiles which are less than three lines to be deleted . "
Very good point well presented. Just checked the profile of the OP  |
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"why do the admins on here allow people who have no intensions of ever meeting to stay,, some have no veri,s after yrs of being on here, they are here to get there kicks from the messages they recieve nothing else, it spoils it for others writing endless messages that are read and deleted or just ignored,, and breathe...lol "
It is just a suggestion but perhaps all your deleted and ignored messages are due to you having a profile which is 4 sentences long, 3 sentences of which are a warning. |
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By *awkesWoman
over a year ago
Corwen |
Hang on...lol...so you think admin should intervene when members have no veris after ages of being here as they obviously don't wish to meet? Just want to get that clear in my head. Because you have been here over a year and have been verified by one person. ..so that's one person last veri was 9 months ago! Perhaps admin should intervene cos you obviously don't intend to meet any time soon.
Or..am I being presumptuous?
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Hang on...lol...so you think admin should intervene when members have no veris after ages of being here as they obviously don't wish to meet? Just want to get that clear in my head. Because you have been here over a year and have been verified by one person. ..so that's one person last veri was 9 months ago! Perhaps admin should intervene cos you obviously don't intend to meet any time soon.
Or..am I being presumptuous?
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I can't see the bit in the rules where it says members must meet and must leave verifications.
Why would Admin do anything about people who are doing nothing wrong?
One of the functions of this site is to facilitate the meeting of people but there's no rule saying you have to be here to meet, or actually meet. |
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By *awkesWoman
over a year ago
Corwen |
Well exactly..it's a very presumptuous statement..so OP only chooses to show 1 person's veris..whether he has more or not..so why is he concerned about how others display veris or indeed if they have any? Some folk don't meet on fab..so what..I don't.  |
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By *immy2xMan
over a year ago
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At the obvious probable barrage of gate that will now be directed towards me im going to say it anyhow.
When anyone skims across the obvious fact here that for single straight men this site has littlr to offer then all the usually gorum crowd badh them down in a torrent of abuse and insultd. When sll thstd happening is the poster is just coming to the conclusion that no-matter how good looking, how greatly worded his profile or his fantastically crafted msgs he will find after an initial burst of interest that stagnation will set in. He will find that once he has msged the maybe 50 rdgular online and active femsles in his area that are looking for single guys he id out in the cold. The 50 woman will cherry pick from the 1000 guys msging them so god damn you better have yer shit together.
The game is diffrent for most posting negatively towards the thread starter here so its completely unfair when they cadtigate him when he has a very onbioud and glaring poibt to make
The admins of the forum also shut down any suggestions of what the op should do to increase his chances of getting laid because it shows up the unequal game here for dingle men, no matter what all the smart alecs that talk about banging everything cause there " game" is right.
To sum up. Straight single men on here arr all fighting over at more than 100/1 the single woman that want them on here, we cant all be winners so the woman ate having a ball picking and choosing while most men aint got a hope.
Solution as some dating sites, nughtclubs, single meets do is restrict the amount of men allowed in ti balance the sexe's. But thry prrfer a forever churning door of men paying fees till they get bored.
Ps: in my 100 mile radius there are maybe only 30 active site females even romeo himself would soon run out of new meets.
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"Most of our meets are not arranged through Fab. We can go at least 18 months without meeting anyone from here , sometimes longer. Should we be kicked off ? "
Anyone not wanting to meet single guys should be kicked of.  |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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Anyone can use fab as they see fit. If you are bothered by people on over a year with no meets don't message them.
Plenty of people have either their summary (which shows how many meets including the lastest date) or a few veris (which can sometime show the last meet they had).
Avoid anyone who has neither and your problem is solved  |
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"why do the admins on here allow people who have no intensions of ever meeting to stay,, some have no veri,s after yrs of being on here, they are here to get there kicks from the messages they recieve nothing else, it spoils it for others writing endless messages that are read and deleted or just ignored,, and breathe...lol "
Hey thats me. Other than a few details.
I apologise to all of those who have written an unread deleted message, sorry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why do the admins on here allow people who have no intensions of ever meeting to stay,, some have no veri,s after yrs of being on here, they are here to get there kicks from the messages they recieve nothing else, it spoils it for others writing endless messages that are read and deleted or just ignored,, and breathe...lol "
Very small minded attitude there buddy, almost as if you're extremely bitter about something, dunno though. |
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"At the obvious probable barrage of gate that will now be directed towards me im going to say it anyhow.
When anyone skims across the obvious fact here that for single straight men this site has littlr to offer then all the usually gorum crowd badh them down in a torrent of abuse and insultd. When sll thstd happening is the poster is just coming to the conclusion that no-matter how good looking, how greatly worded his profile or his fantastically crafted msgs he will find after an initial burst of interest that stagnation will set in. He will find that once he has msged the maybe 50 rdgular online and active femsles in his area that are looking for single guys he id out in the cold. The 50 woman will cherry pick from the 1000 guys msging them so god damn you better have yer shit together.
The game is diffrent for most posting negatively towards the thread starter here so its completely unfair when they cadtigate him when he has a very onbioud and glaring poibt to make
The admins of the forum also shut down any suggestions of what the op should do to increase his chances of getting laid because it shows up the unequal game here for dingle men, no matter what all the smart alecs that talk about banging everything cause there " game" is right.
To sum up. Straight single men on here arr all fighting over at more than 100/1 the single woman that want them on here, we cant all be winners so the woman ate having a ball picking and choosing while most men aint got a hope.
Solution as some dating sites, nughtclubs, single meets do is restrict the amount of men allowed in ti balance the sexe's. But thry prrfer a forever churning door of men paying fees till they get bored.
Ps: in my 100 mile radius there are maybe only 30 active site females even romeo himself would soon run out of new meets.
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. Would you prefer if fab charged single men a fee of £150 to ensure less joined ? To obtain meets you must target the correct market , be polite and considerate , have an interesting profile , and a various unique selling features . Difficulty in obtaining meets can also work to your advantage . If you do meet and have the right attitude , you may become one of their regular. meets . |
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If you don't like them, if they have no veri's? Just don't message them....simple really is it? 
