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over a year ago
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Interesting to see the TUC successfully sued by a woman who claimed her job disappeared while on maternity leave.
Lots of comments on it and clearly two very distinct sides, one saying if you choose to have a baby then you can't expect the world to stand still and for everything to be the same as and when you decide to return, and the other side saying of course your job should be there for you when you come back.
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If a job is no longer avaliable which sometimes they are not due to funding then alternative job offers should be made. It is not right to judge on someone having a baby and the amount of time they have off. |
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Which is more important
The job
The child
I chose my children over a blossoming career
I've never regretted it because they all have great careers themselves now
And I'm free to pursue a career I'd never have chosen 20 years ago
I think career women can often be very selfish
That's just my opinion
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"Which is more important
The job
The child
I chose my children over a blossoming career
I've never regretted it because they all have great careers themselves now
And I'm free to pursue a career I'd never have chosen 20 years ago
I think career women can often be very selfish
That's just my opinion
Other opinions are freely available in other supermarkets "
There's lots of ways to look at this but some women definitely do want to have their cake and eat it too. |
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"If a job is no longer avaliable which sometimes they are not due to funding then alternative job offers should be made. It is not right to judge on someone having a baby and the amount of time they have off. "
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I chose a career and to have a child many years ago. At that time there was no maternity leave as it is now, I've never regretted it for one minute. My daughter has grown up and has a fantastic career of her own.  |
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"Why did her job disappear? Would if have disappeared anyway?
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Seems as though responsibilities were passed onto others in her absence and then there was a restructure ending in redundancy. I guess the issue for business is that a year is a very long time, lots can happen and it maybe impossible to guarantee someone the same job. But for a woman should she have to choose between a career and kids. I can see the argument from both sides. |
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Although i do see the point in passing on your genetic material (to a degree), i don't see the point in having kids and working full time for someone else.
I think both parents should get time out to have a family, with a lot less working hours but no financial stress as it is more stressful when you have dependents than when it's just yourself.
I live in fantasy land though where everyone is happy...
Discrimination does still happen to pregnant women and parents who are presumed to be the main carer (because they have rights to take time of work or ask for something other than what the employer wanted to offer). So yeah workers rights fucked that up, but not because employers can't be flexible, just it isn't in their own self interest to do that. |
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"Why did her job disappear? Would if have disappeared anyway?
Seems as though responsibilities were passed onto others in her absence and then there was a restructure ending in redundancy. I guess the issue for business is that a year is a very long time, lots can happen and it maybe impossible to guarantee someone the same job. But for a woman should she have to choose between a career and kids. I can see the argument from both sides."
I don't think anyone should have to chose, its perfectly acceptable and encouraged for a woman and man who chooses to take paternity leave to have a career and child, however, it should be fully discussed with the employer of reasonable expectations.
My friends daughter is 28 and getting married next year, she has been building her career with the same company since she was 17.
She's planning on starting a family in the next 3 to 4 years and the future has already been discussed with her employer.
It is a small company she works for and they have said they will work with her regarding maternity leave.
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"It should be a choice either career or child, couples who don't want children or single people don't have option"
I know quite a few childless and single people who have applied for a sabbatical and been granted it...my brother travelled for 8 months and his job was held open for him.
I think if it is a larger company there are less problems, but for smaller companies its more difficult to accommodate people having lengthy time off for any reason.
I think its very difficult to make a sweeping statement that every new mother should be entitled to their old job back....a lot could have changed within the business in that time! |
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"It should be a choice either career or child, couples who don't want children or single people don't have option
I know quite a few childless and single people who have applied for a sabbatical and been granted it...my brother travelled for 8 months and his job was held open for him.
I think if it is a larger company there are less problems, but for smaller companies its more difficult to accommodate people having lengthy time off for any reason.
I think its very difficult to make a sweeping statement that every new mother should be entitled to their old job back....a lot could have changed within the business in that time!"
My old firm offered sabbaticals, but it was made very clear that a lot can change while you are away and that should I choose to take it, I may have found I had less opportunities on my return. I chose not to go. Ultimately does it not come down to choice? |
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"Which is more important
The job
The child
I chose my children over a blossoming career
I've never regretted it because they all have great careers themselves now
And I'm free to pursue a career I'd never have chosen 20 years ago
I think career women can often be very selfish
That's just my opinion
Other opinions are freely available in other supermarkets
There's lots of ways to look at this but some women definitely do want to have their cake and eat it too."
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